Juan

I have completed the entire Natural Confidence program, and today when I went to my Toastmasters meeting I still felt fear while speaking in front of the group. I was hoping the fear would be gone after reading about the University of Arizona conducted research study, but alas it was not.

I’ve been interacting with the program heavily the entire way, and have been really taking the time necessary to make it clear in my mind that events that occur in reality are inherently meaningless. Prior to getting your program I was already familiar with this concept because I have studied a few other methods specializing in belief elimination.

I consider myself as someone who is in touch with his internal state, but I was having a problem “feeling” if a belief was true or not at the beginning of each module. Given this, I had no idea if it felt much different after the process was completed. Do you have any suggestions on what I can do to get a better understanding of if I have a belief or not? Should I just wait for some time and see if my behaviors change?

During the deconditionings “Fear associated with people putting their attention on me” and “Fear associated with rejection” I felt it was difficult to make the distinctions necessary, however your last step of the process “Visualize your parents reacting with love/never rejecting you” made perfect sense to me. When I saw future situations of rejection/people putting their attention on me, I felt no anxiety. However, today I think I felt anxiety associated with that at Toastmasters.

Your opinion would be greatly appreciated. Awesome program by the way. Thank you so much for creating it. You are a great man!

- Rahul

Positive comments like yours are what gets us going every day here at Lefkoe Institute. Results like yours are what we are committed to.

To find out about getting rid of more beliefs and specific problems in your life, go to: http://recreateyourlife.com/store.

Please stay in touch and let me know your experience after you eliminate more beliefs.

Regards, Morty

Thanks for taking the time to write. I’m thrilled you are finding such positive results from our program.

And if you think getting rid of one belief is exciting, wait until you eliminate a package of beliefs that cause a specific problem in your life.

To see what we have available, please go to: http://recreateyourlife.com/store.

Let me know your experience after getting rid of a bunch of beliefs.

Regards, Morty

WOW! It’s feels like a permanent tape erase. I feel at ease and a sense of calm about my self knowing my intentions and efforts will come from a source of fulfillment rather than a desperate sense of having to prove myself.

YES!! I AM GOOD ENOUGH!! SAY IT ONE MORE TIME! OUT LOUD!

I have so far removed a few believes and feel very positive that my life and feelings are on a different path; I am the creator!

What I need to do now is to reomove more of those believes and importantly, use the de-conditioning process for my my emotional reaction to other stimuli

For me, it felt like something shifted in as soon as I realised why I behaved the way I did.

Everything has a purpose; I have spent such a long time learning techniques help me cope when I could have created my life.

BRILLIANT!

Thanks for your interest in our work and for your question.

We have worked with and helped many clients who have been sexually abused. The most common beliefs in those cases are not in any of the on-line programs (go to http://recreateyourlife.com/store), but we certainly could help you in a private phone session.

For more information please call us at 415-456-7300.

Regards, Morty

Thanks for your interest in our work. I’m thrilled you are getting such positive results.

The WAIR? Process is not about what you should feel. You feel whatever you feel. Most people experience in that state that anything is possible and that they have no limitations. That’s not what I’m telling them or that they should believe. It is just what most people experience.

I’m not claiming that we create every single thing in the world. Only that we create the beliefs that pretty much determines what we do and feel. They don’t necessarily determine everything that shows up in our lives.

Does this explanation help?

Also, I’m not sure what you mean by imposter syndrome. If you mean feeling like a fake or a fraud, the Natural Confidence program will help a lot, but there still might be a few additional beliefs that your friend would have to get rid of in a private session.

If you have any additional questions, please let us know.

And certainly let us know your experience when you complete the program.

Regards, Morty

So far there is only one hitch: I am not getting any results from the “Who am I really” process. I find this odd, since your belief elimination system seems to be working so well for me. I’m not sure what’s going on, but I think it may have something to do with my philosophical struggles over the law of attraction. I can readily accept that we create our own experience in the limited sense that what we feel and do flows directly from our beliefs. I can even accept that what we feel and do, in turn, exerts a strong effect on what physically manifests in our reality. But I am struggling with the notion that I literally created everything in my reality down to the smallest detail (including war, poverty, my husband’s degenerative arthritis, my son’s behavioral problems, etc.). I think to myself, “If I am the creator, and anything is possible, then I should be able to create a world where my husband is healthy, my kids are always well behaved, I have no financial problems, and there is no war or poverty.” Well, so far I have not been able to do that. So maybe that is why the WAIR process doesn’t make me feel all-powerful. If you have any suggestions for how I could look at this differently, I would be thrilled to hear about them, for I would dearly love to experience the WAIR process the way you and most others do.

P.S. I have one more question. I have a friend who suffers from “impostor syndrome” and I wonder if the Natural Confidence program alone will deal with that, or if there are other beliefs that also need to be addressed.

Thanks so much!!!
Beth

I got back into the program last night and completed the work on “I am not good enough.” This morning I feel very peaceful and hopeful that “I am not good enough” may no longer be part of the way I view the world.

Is there a way to use that same process to work on events that happened with people other than parents? Last night, after working on the past with my parents, I began thinking about being raped when I was 14, by a boy who said he loved me. That boy would not speak to be after the rape. When he did finally speak to me again, ten years later, he told me he did not speak to me because it had been his first time and I cried, which ruined it for him. I not only cried, I begged him to stop. I fought him. I put my foot through the windshield of his car in the fight to keep my virinity that night. He never even appologized, even when we finally spoke about it 10 years later, when one would think he would have the good sense to realize what he had done.

This was a long time ago, when nice girls remained virgins until their wedding night, so I lost something very important that night. That event was a huge reinforcer for a belief that I was not good enough. I felt worthless for many years.

Is there a way to use your program to work with that memory and other memories that are not related to parents? I don’t see a way to sign up to use your system for other beliefs.

Barbara