What would you like to change about your life?

Since offering people the opportunity to choose exactly which problem they’d like to have solved on my website

http://www.recreateyourlife.com/store

I’ve been wondering if there was something else I could offer that would let you live the life you’ve always wanted.

To find out I thought I’d just ask you the question and have you leave your answer on my blog:

“What else would you like to change about your life?”

And you know what, it can be anything at all.  Just make sure it’s something you really want to change because I’m going to take your feedback and use it to create new programs in the future.

Examples could be fear of anger or confrontation, experiencing and expressing uncontrolled anger, and specific relationship issues.

You often do get what you wish for… so think BIG.

Just leave a comment below (to remain anonymous just give your name as “anonymous.”

623 thoughts on “What would you like to change about your life?

  1. I want to have more faith that my desires are on their way even if I don’t have them yet 🙂 so,,, I’d like to trust more I guess 🙂

  2. I’ve don a lot of work and made progress with limiting money beliefs and fears, but there is still more to do. Would love a course focused specifically on that.

  3. I would like to become more generous.

  4. Remember that movie in which Matt Damon said that it takes 20 seconds of insane courage to do something remarkable? That is a rough paraphrase – but it makes me think that that’s what it takes to move beyond our “comfort zone.” Morty, maybe you could gear a program around building hope and daring to rouse 20 seconds of radical courage to step beyond what is familiar to us – to move beyond beliefs that have mesmerized us until – NOW!!!

    Thank you for the great work that you do!

    Janine

  5. Morty, I am really enjoying your work. I am working on releasing a scarcity consciousness and also being responsible for myself and my actions. Particularly around anger issues and my children triggering a monster in me that I’d like to not have ( enjoying shelly’s work to help with this too! ) Thank you so much for the work you are doing. Xx

  6. I’m 42…female
    In relationship with my boyfriend for the last 16 years… I want to get married but he has his reasons that he says stops him from taking that step!
    I break up with him at least 4 times a year hoping he’ll change his mind.
    But he always comes back with nothing to offer and I immediately take him back!
    Please teach me to either accept him the way he is and enjoy the relationship or forget the 16 years and move on to find someone who wants the same end I want!!!
    Another issue that I’ suffer from is that I’m rarely acting free and ‘myself’ when I’m with people…. I rarely laugh real laughs I over think of things and over analyse and always choose the negative explanation for situations…. I want to stop caring about what people think and enjoy everything to the max.
    I’m an only child by the way

    1. Hi Gisele,

      It sounds like you are being run by several beliefs that can be easily eliminated.

      Please call us at 415-884-0552 for specific information on how we can help.

      Love, Morty

  7. Laurie Nedvin says:

    I would like to change the underlying feeling about myself that I’ve had all of my life that I am “worthless,” therefore, “undeserving” and “incapable.” of having healthy, loving relationships … and all the self-destructive behaviors and negative assumptions (to the point of paranoia) I make about what other people are thinking of me. “Stay away from Laurie Nedvin. She’s too negative, too needy, she brings me down. I don’t want anything to do with her.”

    1. Hi Laurie,

      You can eliminate a lot of your negativity with our Natural Confidence program that helps you eliminate 19 of the most common negative beliefs. You can check it out at http://naturalconfidenceprogram.com.

      To handle all your negativity you’d probably need some private phone or Skype sessions with a certified Lefkoe Method Facilitator. You can get more information about that at 415-884-0552.

      Love, Morty

  8. my fear is a fear of been rejected and a fear of not been needed anymore and of no importance

  9. I want to know how to go beyond deep abandonment anxiety in relationships and believe that I can have a lasting love relationship. Thank you, Morty!

  10. Hi,
    I’m Olga, 38. My question is – how to start acting? Not just reading or listening and…doing nothing in the end.
    Thank you

    1. Hi Olga,

      Most people are stopped from taking action by a fear of failure, which is caused by a few beliefs and conditioning. You can eliminate all of them on our digital program, which you can find out about at http://naturalconfidenceprogram.com

      For more information please call us at 415-884-0552.

      Love,Morty

  11. I’m Bill 16 years old and I want to be more serious to grow and deal with situations properly so I get respect from others

  12. @nonymous says:

    Hi Morty!
    Thank you for your wonderful work- it is amazing!

    Please create somethng which will stop people responding in a psychosomatic way…. Dealing with issues instead of “swallowing down” the anger or the frustrations!

    I realized just now that at a certain time in my childhood I started to shut down and I finally found the long craved attention through illness… Unfortunately this pattern is still hunting me now! Not that I’d be deliberately ill, it just happens… Thank you in advance for your efforts!

    A big fan from the other side of the big Pond

  13. anonymous says:

    “What else would you like to change about your life?”

    I´d like to be more positive about new projects. Being eager to start them when I know that they are an important next step – not waiting and procrastinating until I am forced to change.
    And also to find this knowing place about the next step: what is it?

    1. Hi,

      Being afraid to start something new and putting things off until the last minute is a common problem that is caused by a few specific beliefs. You can eliminate all those beliefs in our Natural Confidence program, guaranteed.
      Take a look at http://naturalconfidenceprogram.com. If you have any questions, please let me know.

      Love, Morty

  14. anonymous says:

    Hi Morty,
    I would absolutely love to recieve training on how to become a Lefkoe Method facilitator. The program I would really like to use is the Stimulus process. I have finally won a 20 year battle with bulimia. My husband is overweight with type 1 diabetes. I am currently training as a life coach in Ireland. I believe that this method would be the answer to many prayers in my area. Are you likely to facilitate this training any time soon? Online would be fabulous!

    1. Hi,

      We intend to create on online program that will teach you to use all the de-conditioning processes, including the Stimulus Process. Our target is the end of this year.

      By the way, emotional eating is primarily the result of conditioned triggers. which are de-conditioned with the Lefkoe De-conditioning Process.

      Love, Morty

  15. I would like a blog entry about the belief that keeps people from asking for what they want or asking for assistance.
    When I got to Belief #19, I became anxious. It hit me like a rock that I had a hard time asking for help. I put my thought on paper and realized that it came from when I would try to ask my Mom for homework help. I did one of the belief I didnt have and replaced the wording, and I think I semi busted that belief. “Asking for help is difficult.”

    1. Hi Wanda,

      Asking for help is difficult is not the belief; that is the problem. What do you believe that has asking for help to be difficult for you? I don’t know your belief. I would have to ask you some questions to figure it out.

      Learning the difference between problems and beliefs is one of the first things we teach people in one of our Lefkoe Method Trainings.

      Love, Morty

      1. Good eve Morty,

        Ah, now I understand why I still feel the need to avoid THAT, like if it were a pair of smelly shoes. It has been frustrating to feel so now that I have this amazing sense of self and confidence– I stopped procrastinating, and I’m no longer late to places. <– I'm still baffled by this.

        It's imperative that I have access to Lefkoe Method Training, ASAP. In the mean time, I've noticed that you have blog entries on identifying belief and about occurring. I shall read more about these topics.

        When I thought about your question, and after checking out LFC, I think that asking for help will lead to irritation, argument, disappointment, fear, the person not doing their share, overwhelmed, stress, not being understood.

        Ah, the human mind is truly amazing. Thank you, for offering all these tools that really permit us to dwell into our mind works.

        Big hug,
        Wanda

  16. I am 73, and since ever, it’s difficult for me to have a deep, remedial, and uninterrompted sleep. It was the same for both my parents.

    I suppose it comes from “I have no right or no permission, to get it”.
    Or from “it’s very dangerous to sleep, you risk to loose your mother or/and your father, if you are not watchful and sleep deeply without interruption sleep”.

    Please, can you help me? Thank you.

    1. Hi Francoise,

      The problem is probably caused by beliefs, but there could be many possible beliefs causing it. There is no way to know for sure without having a session with you.

      You can get information about a session by calling us at 415-884-0552.

      Love, Morty

  17. Sherrie Phillips says:

    I’d like to clear the mind chatter that always feels the “I don’t have enough – I am not enough.”

    1. Hi Sherrie,

      This “chatter” is caused by beliefs, that can be quickly and permanently eliminated. And when the beliefs are gone, the little voice stops too.

      To find out more about our phone and Skype sessions where we help you identify and then eliminate the relevant beliefs, please call us at 415-884-0552.

      Love,Morty

  18. Hi, thanks for the opportunity.
    My question is – how to get rid of fear and feeling of guilt when you know you should end the marriage – but keep postponing it month after month, year after year…
    Thanks

    1. Hi Anna,

      The fear and guilt are caused by beliefs, that can be quickly and permanently eliminated. And when the beliefs are gone, the fear stops too. Once the fear is gone you can make the best choice.

      To find out more about our phone and Skype sessions where we help you identify and then eliminate the relevant beliefs, please call us at 415-884-0552.

      Love,Morty

  19. Fears( Anger and confrontation, women), express myself fully,

  20. Expressing anger, frustration, disagreement, etc. in a more calm manner.

  21. I would like to eliminate all fear of judgement from my life.

    Thank you!
    -Bikk

    1. Hi Bill,

      Fear of judgment is the result of several beliefs and conditioning. Literally thousands of people of eliminated that fear from their lives.

      For most people eliminating the beliefs and conditionings in our Natural Confidence program does the trick. Check it out at http://naturalconfidenceprogram.com.

      Love, Morty

    2. Hi Bill,

      Fear of judgment is the result of several beliefs and conditioning. Literally thousands of people have eliminated that fear from their lives.

      For most people eliminating the beliefs and conditionings in our Natural Confidence program does the trick. Check it out at http://naturalconfidenceprogram.com.

      Love, Morty

  22. I want to be more detached relationship with my family who need more support, I want to realize my own dreams. I am 60 years . . .

  23. Hi Morty. Your topic on “sense of self” is meaningful to me. Being able to neutralize the “old sense of self”, this “leftovers” created by default even after you have neutralized the beliefs is as important as eliminating the beliefs themselves. It should help us to become more aware of the “observer, the creator” that we are that has been impeded from our awareness all this while.

    There is nothing esoteric about this. You have talked about something significant and practical. Perhaps you can expand on this. Just thinking out loud. Thanks.

    Sazali

  24. Mizzuuuuu says:

    Thanks for your invitation. Well i am having fear of rejection. I am a confident female with “can do” attitude and i have been successful in many areas of my life except relationships. My ex-partners are wonderful. I cant blame them in any ways but i dont know what is wrong my relationships always end. All i want is a lasting relationship.

    1. Hi Missuuuuu,

      Thanks for taking the time to comment.

      You can absolutely get rid of your fear of rejection and other relationship issues if you eliminate the beliefs that cause that problem.

      You can get rid of most of them using our Natural Confidence program. For more information please check out http://naturalconfidenceprogram.com.

      If you have more q

    2. Hi Missuuuuu,

      If you have additional questions, please call us at 415-884-0552.

      Love, Morty

  25. fear of suffering, that is, fear of fear and fear of feeling bad. It is the feeling bad about the depression that has really kept me stuck in it. I managed a breakthrough with this recently, for me, and that has really helped me move forward, but I am still partially stuck. My experience with this has led me to believe it is one of the most important things we can work on to eliminate – I think focusing on feeling bad and being unable not to because of subconscious beliefs is one of the things that holds most people back. If there was one thing I could give people, it would be to feel okay about feeling not okay – because then you can release the feeling and be Free.

    1. Hi Gooconz,

      This issue, like all others, is the result of negative beliefs. Get rid of them and the problem disappears.

      For more information about ways to do that, please call us at 415-884-0552.

      Thanks for your interest in our work.

      Love, Morty

  26. Hi Morty
    Thanks for your invitation to leave suggestions. I havent yet done your natural self confidence course and I am not sure if I will be doing it as I am currently taking another personal development course. (I get confused that meaningless events can be meaningful and so I can give them better meanings. But really they are still meaningless. And not being clear about the way that feelings and meanings arise from meaningless events). I think I have benefitted from attempting to change the belief that mistakes and failures are bad and that I am not good enough. I also tackled the belief that I am not capable (of making others happy) And thank you very much for that. I am not sure how much I am allowed to do for free.
    You write that the natural self confidence course is useful for people when:
    *I put off projects that involve any degree of risk.
    *I start things and don’t finish when things get
    difficult.
    *I do things to get people’s approval that I might not
    have done otherwise.
    *I have a little voice in my mind criticizing what I
    do as not good enough.
    *I’m always worried about what people think about me.
    *I procrastinate.
    *I feel uncomfortable in social situations.
    *I don’t speak up for myself in many situations.
    *I am afraid to try things I’ve never done before.
    *I am afraid to fail.
    *I feel anxious when I am criticized.
    *I feel anxious when I don’t meet the expectations of
    others.
    *I feel anxious when I experience being rejected.
    The course programme lists that it covers:
    Mistakes and failure are bad.
    I’m not good enough.
    Change is difficult.
    I’m not important.
    What makes me good enough or important is having people think well of me.
    Nothing I do is good enough.
    I’m not capable.
    I’m not competent.
    I’m inadequate.
    If I make a mistake or fail I’ll be rejected.
    I’m a failure.
    I’m stupid.
    I’m not worthy.
    I’ll never get what I want.
    I’m powerless.
    People aren’t interested in what I have to say.
    What I have to say isn’t important.
    It’s dangerous to have people put their attention on me (something bad will happen).
    What makes me good enough or important is doing things perfectly.
    Conditioning: Fear associated with criticism and judgment.
    Conditioning: Fear associated with not meeting expectations.
    Conditioning: Fear associated with people putting their attention on me.
    Conditioning: Fear associated with rejection
    I think that if I had accomplished all that then I would have made great progress in responding to potentially oppressive influences with the willingness to create a good outcome and with the minimum of invitation to do harm to self or others – with greater self confidence.
    One aspect of fear (and so keeping attention on threat) comes to mind – that when scared of somebody putting me down – I might empathise with their mind set and in taking on their negative assumptions about me (& demands that I do what they want) I might assume that that is the only alternative. I might not hear the kind voice of Uncle Morty giving me alternative interpretations of their behaviour. And so miss the encouragement to create the good outcome (of not feeling stupid, bad, unwanted, or acting that way) that would result from this. It could be assumed that – if I took a break from empathising with the angry persons mindset – I would see the better alternatives that were available. But what about the belief – “I cant see good alternatives in difficult situations?”
    Best wishes
    James

    1. Hi James,

      If you eliminate the beliefs that cause your undesirable thinking, you don’t need anyone standing over your shoulder giving you advice.

      If you saw any changes when you eliminated 2-3 beliefs, imagine the fundamental shift you will experience when you eliminate 19 beliefs and 4 conditionings.

      If you try it, please me know what changes you notice. There will be many.

      If you have additional questions, please feel free to call us at 415-884-0552.
      Love,Morty

  27. I would like to no longer experience depression and anxiety without having to take any medication or have to undergo any other kind of treatment.

    1. Hi Ellen,

      You can definitely eliminate your anxiety and depression once and for all if you eliminate all the beliefs that cause those problems. For more information please call us at 415-884-0552.

      Sorry it took so long to respond to your comment. Somehow I missed it and just noticed it.

      Love, Morty

  28. I have been following the blog and did the belief eliminations that were free, yet I still feel that I have a lot of limiting beliefs about money, I would even like to invest in the occuring class but at the moment I can’t afford it and have yet to figure out how I can. I suppose I need more confidence to go out and carry out all the extra income generating things I’d like to but I don’t know where to start. What to do!?

    1. Hi Rocky,

      Sorrythis reply is so late. Somehow I missed it and just noticed it.

      The least expensive and quickest way to increase your confidence is to complete our online program, Natural Confidence. You can get it for only $199 with a three month payment plan. This program is guaranteed to significantly increase your confidence or you get a full refund.

      If you have any additional questions, please call us at 415-884-0552.

      Love, Morty

  29. Hi Morty,
    I would like to thank you for your incredible work. I did free program, and it’s really work! Thank you Morty!

    I have negative unconscious beliefs about money. When I start earning, I give it back.
    Maybe you have program about eliminating money beliefs.

    Thank You in advance!
    Vasil

  30. I’d like to eliminate:
    1. fear of making dozens of cold calls a day, every day (business development – to get clients)
    2. fear of quitting my current job to either work on my own (same industry) or do something completely different

    In general, I’d like to remove whatever blocks I have that would make me more successful in my current job and career in general. I have alot of great experience and skills but there is obviously something holding me back.

    1. Hi Diana,

      Fear of taking action is always due primarily to limiting beliefs–such as Mistakes and failure are bad, I’m not capable or competent, I’m inadequate, and what makes me good enough or having people think well of me–and conditionings.

      Take a look at our Natural Confidence program that enables you to eliminate 23 of the most common beliefs and conditionings. It will make a profound difference in your ability to make cold calls and do what you decide to do. http://naturalconfidenceprogram.com.

      Love, Morty

      1. Morty,
        I just bought the Natural Confidence program. I’m looking forward to eliminating those pesky limiting beliefs so that I can LOVE making dozens of cold calls every day!
        D.

      2. Hi Morty
        I just finished the Natural Confidence Program. There was alot of information so I’m still processing it all. Some of the beliefs resonated with me on a profound level where some did not although I seemed to have most of them. (I suffered a great deal of mental/emotion/physical abuse as a child) I did find the program really repetitive but I’m guessing that in itself is a technique to really drill the information in. The Who Am I really segment is a good way to enable one to make that distinction between being the Creator and the creation which is a critical in achieving self empowerment. After I started the program, I started to see a subtle shift, mostly in my job which is where my issues seem to be magnified. My husband has noticed a positive change in my behaviour. I guess time will tell if I really eliminated the beliefs and how far reaching the transformation will be.
        Thank you for the opportunity.
        Diana

  31. To maintain motivation and positive intentions, and to rid myself of fears and sudden outbursts of negativity.

    1. Hi Courty,

      Negatively and fears and lack of motivation are all the result of beleifs. Many of the beliefs can be easily eliminated with our Natural Confidence program. You can get more information at http://naturalconfidenceprogram.com.

      If you still have questions, please feel free to call us directly at 415-884-0552.

      Love, Morty

  32. Hello Morty!

    Fear of confrontation.

    1. Hi Julia,

      Fear of confrontation is usually due to beliefs like anger is dangerous and confrontation is dangerous, and conditionings like fear associated with anger and fear associated with confrontation.

      Those and other relevant beliefs and conditionings usually can be eliminated in a couple of sessions with a Certified Lefkoe Method Facilitator. Call us at 415-884-0552 for more information.

      Love, Morty

  33. Anonymous says:

    The two limiting beliefs for me are:
    1. I am not lovable.
    2. I am ugly, inside and out.

    1. Those two beliefs can be easily eliminated in a single phone or Skype session with one of our Certified Lefkoe Method Facilitators

      For more information please call us at 415-884-0552.

      Love, Morty

      1. I have the same problem but deeper to the point of comparing myself to others to the physical level.

  34. Morty,
    I think u r amazing! I did all 3 of ur free eliminating limiting beliefs. Im working on getting the money for ur whole confidence building program, and hav felt and seen tremendous changes in myself since doing this.
    But there is 1 , since you ask, that I dont tink I’ve seen, or maybe I just havent recognized it.
    I’m also not exactly sure how to put it into 1 succint sentence. Let me explain:
    It’s on the order of “I’m not good enough”, but not quite that. U see along with early (3 yrs) sexual abuse from step-uncles and grand fathers I had the additional fun of a violent mother that blamed me for everything wrong in her life. I’ve been reading a lot lately, on Law of Attraction, and ur newsletters, and realize shes not totally to blame for my plot in life. I have had a major role (unbeknownst to myself) in the lack of abundance in my adult life and in the losers I seem to attract. Is there 1 sentence for the overall feeling that ur never “enough”?
    3 of my last 5 boyfriends cheated on me an put me down constantly. the last one with my best friend, which destryed me for a cpl of yrs.
    It just always seems or I end up feeling like, why wasnt I enough? any clues what I need to eliminate to get rid of this feeling?
    Thank you Morty, and what a blessing you are to so many.
    P.S… I love your voice!
    Athena granger

    1. Hi Althena,

      The answer to most of your questions is that you have additional beliefs that have been response for your feelings. Many of the beliefs are on the Natural Confidence program. Some are not and will have to be eliminated in private sessions with a certified Lefkoe Method facilitator.

      Use the NC program first and see what problems remain.

      Love, Morty

  35. Fidelma Pereira says:

    Hi Morty,

    I eliminated 4 beliefs from your free belief eliminating program and I saw AMAZING and AUTOMATIC changes in me.

    The first one I tried was “I’m not important.” I just tried it for the experience, I wasn’t expecting any change in behaviour at all, specially because I didn’t really believe I had that belief, but all it took was for me to say the words out loud. It was a very emotional experience so I knew I had the belief.

    I let a few days go by, without trying the other 3 free beliefs. Believe it or not, I was scared that by eliminating them I would become a completely different person and I would also lose some of the characteristics and behaviours I like in me and define me. In my opinion one of the most difficult things about changing is that we’re used to who we are and most importantly it’s difficult to act differently in the presence of people who knew us before.. It’s not easy to hear comments like “you’re not like that” or “what happened to you?, you’ve changed” even if the comment is well intended, we feel we’re not being who we really are, that we’re pretending to be something we’re not.

    What made me decide to do the other three free beliefs:

    1-I realized that what you say in the “who am I really?” is really true, because I’ve eliminated one belief and I was still ME, just a more FREE version of myself. And I liked this new version!!

    2-I started to imagine all the possibilities that could come from eliminating the other beliefs!!

    I was ready to go for it! And I’m so glad I did it :))

    After eliminating the beliefs I’m not important, I’m not capable, I’m not good enough and Mistakes and failures are bad, my biggest improvement was that I started participating in the classroom, asking questions, giving my opinion, even making funny comments…Before I’ve always been very very quiet, specially in the classroom, as if my opinion wasn’t important, afraid I’d say something stupid or ridiculous and afraid of embarassment. After eliminating the beliefs I didn’t have to force myself to speak up, I did it NATURALLY, there was NO anxiety like the one you feel when you promise yourself you’re going to do something you don’t usually do and then you feel so awkward and nervous you can’t even do it.

    It was a true blessing, to change the way I did effortlessly, as if this new person I became was always there!

    I can’t wait to eliminate other limiting beliefs I know I have. And I love the fact that you give us the chance to erradicate the beliefs one by one without having to buy the complete program at once. For me that’s wonderful!!!

    I’ve been wanting to give this testimonial for some time and now was the right moment for me!

    I’m truly thankful 🙂

    Now answering YOUR specific question, there are 2 things that I know I feel limited about:

    -Dancing in public (specially when with family members, it’s easier for me to dance around strangers)

    and

    -Driving (I have a driver’s licence for 10 years now and never drove a car after passing the exam)

    I’m naturally good at everything that involves studying and dealing with theories but when it comes to doing practical things, like those I mentioned I feel very awkward and not confident at all.

    I’ve checked all the beliefs and the next ones I’m going to eliminate are: “Fear associated with people putting their attention on me” and “It’s dangerous to have people focus on me”. I think these two are the most directly related to my first problem about dancing in public… About the fear of driving it probably has its cause in other fears that are in your natural confidence program…

    I know I want to go through all the beliefs, but I’ll do them in order of importance to me.

    I’m glad I found the Lefkoe method (by accident, or maybe by serendipity). I can say without a doubt that self-help books have enriched my knowledge but could never do what your program has done and will continue to do for me.

    Kind regards,

    Fidelma Pereira

  36. Stronger self confidence and image so they don’t wither in the face of negativity. Increased health and vigor to do the necessary work. To feel the joy in life in the face of frustration.

  37. I have done many years of self work including natural confidence program. I tend to quickly see the story (or the meaning) that my friends, family or I, have given to events. Many times I feel uninterested in engaging with people as conversations usually revolve around their problems. It seems that problems are the primary “connection” tool that people use. I have no problems that are unsolvable, so connection in this manner is quickly becoming pointless. Ive discovered most people do not want solutions, their desire is mainly to vent. I find my alone time far more fulfilling. I would like to LOVE being with people and I no longer do.

  38. The fear to act now and act out of love , courage and passion! Believe I Have within me all it takes to do and be the best of me! Fully trust intuition! 🙂 thank you Morty , your a pretty amazing person!! Appreciate Your actions !!

  39. When I was a young boy I tried many sports to try and find one that was a good fit for me. My most successful was boxing winning 2 of my 3 competitions at age 10/11. Unfortunately for me my Dad only came to see the third one; the one I lost. My confidence was shattered and I gave it up.
    From then on when I tried a sport he would laugh at me and call me an instant Judo expert or a an instant footballer etc…. I finally gave up on sports one day when I was going to play a football match and he said to me: “Bring your boots, someone might need them”.
    That was a long time ago, but now that I have changed my career I am struggling with the decision as to the exact direction I should take in my new career.
    I am in a happy state at this point in my life after being unhappy for many years (even though I have been financially successful in business).
    I know I am good enough, I know I am capable, and I know I will succeed, but I don’t know if I will be happy with my decision. Should I follow my heart or my head?

    1. Hi Johnny,

      Given the way your dad treated you, you must have a bunch of limiting beliefs that are affecting your decisions. Beliefs like nothing I do is right, I’m not capable, I’m not good enough, etc.

      Get rid of those beliefs and it will be a lot easier to make up your mind.

      Check out our Natural Confidence program that helps you eliminate 19 common negative self-esteem beliefs, including these. http://naturalconfidenceprogram.com.

      Let me know if you have any additional questions.

      Love, Morty

  40. Thanks for your work. I’ve not completed a limiting belief yet, computer problems on my side I think! But I will.
    Currently I’ve identified I have a need to prove that I am right, with old relationships of friends that I don’t want back but have to see regularly I am always so conscious they are there, so much so, that I stop myself being free to be me. I don’t relax and properly enjoy myself. I know I’m limiting myself.
    I think this follows on from ”I’m not Important” or ”Not Good Enough” I want them to see how great I am and think how they were wrong, but this need to prove myself is probably having the opposite effect. I know how I want to feel and be, but just seem unable to do so.

  41. Hi Morty, I read the comments, that in itself is very eye opening!,

    I would love to leave the pattern of procrastination. I have very good ideas and projects, I start and then…… I just can not find the will to finish it.

    One of the posts talked about fear of rejection and made me think that could be what is behind it.

    Thanks for sharing your work and insight and keep evolving it

    Rita

  42. I want my mother back. Is it possible for you?

  43. Although Fear is usually the result of a self-limiting belief, identifying that particular self-limiting belief when Fear gets in the way. What about a special video about working through fear to get at the self-limiting belief causing the Fear?

  44. Great work Morty, have just recently become aware of your terrific work.
    The concept of letting go is difficult for me to grasp. what is letting go, how does it feel, how do you know you have. I can forgive and look at another point of view and allow that to be, but to let a thought go seems to me something non- tangible. Can you help explain this exactly. thanks Chris

    1. Hi Chris,

      I’m not sure what you mean by “letting go.”

      The Lefkoe Belief Process enables you to eliminate beliefs, but I would not describe that process as “letting go.”

      The Lefkoe Occurring Process enables you to dissolve the meaning you unconsciously and automatically given meaningless events, but I would not describe that process as “letting go” either.

      Where did you see that phrase?

      Love, Morty

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