Since offering people the opportunity to choose exactly which problem they’d like to have solved on my website
http://www.recreateyourlife.com/store
I’ve been wondering if there was something else I could offer that would let you live the life you’ve always wanted.
To find out I thought I’d just ask you the question and have you leave your answer on my blog:
“What else would you like to change about your life?”
And you know what, it can be anything at all. Just make sure it’s something you really want to change because I’m going to take your feedback and use it to create new programs in the future.
Examples could be fear of anger or confrontation, experiencing and expressing uncontrolled anger, and specific relationship issues.
You often do get what you wish for… so think BIG.
Just leave a comment below (to remain anonymous just give your name as “anonymous.”
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Hi Morty,
Too bad that I’m late and you will probably not read this, but here was my question- or better confusion: When I first discovered your process and started reading other people’s experiences and results, many reported that they are able to recognize a moment before beliefs kick in (forgot the name of your 10 week program), and realize they can put any meaning they want. They all sounded calm, centered and have not been experiencing fears who would usually stop them to go after the things they want. But what bothered me that they sounded too aloof and detached. They were not emotional and it sounded weird somehow, unnatural. I understand the place of piece and centeredness, I have experienced it as well although not in that measure- but I started questioning myself whether I want to be in that space. I know that nothing has meaning and that we assign meaning we want, and we are creators- but why does that leave me depressed and not sure if I want to do your program to get to that point?
Btw, I have eliminated some 40 beliefs so far using your method and my life is changing dramatically…for the better:)
I’d like to be totally fearless. Thanks Morty.
Your program is a huge help. I was actually led to you through another site. and to that site through another. As you know, there is a tremendous amount of help for those who are ready and want to find it. It’s easy to find oneself spinning off in a lot of different directions, spending a lot of time and money, and becoming overwhelmed by the amount of information, learning, clearing, and growth- and spending. Could you address this? I bet I’m not the lone ranger in this department.
I want to get rid of a general negativity. I d o not feel it is the real me, yet I catch myself thinking negatively about issues and circumstances all the time. Is it possible to behave in a way that is contrary to one’s true self, yet fall in the trap all the time?
I also need to get rid of fears of rejection since I submit writing work all the time to publishers, and overcome the expectation that I will fail in my attempts to change my eating habits because it has become a self fulfilling prophesy…
Hi Estelle,
It is possible to eliminate all three of the problems you mention: general negativity, a fear of rejection, and eating issues.
The fear of rejection can be handled with a DVD package we offer. The other two problems can be easily handled in one-on-one phone or Skype sessions. Call us at 415-884-0552 for further information.
Love, Morty
Hi Franc,
I’m not sure what beliefs you would need to eliminate to stop smoking, but they really don’t have anything to do with will and short term memory.
Thanks for your question.
Regards, Morty
How about How to Easily Talk to Strangers in a Social Situation?
Thanks a lot, Morty! I added you on Skype, I can’t wait to talk to you.
Hi Morty,
wow, what a numerous response to your question!
here is another one (I am not aware if it was posted on this page before):
I need a strong Will to make a change such as quit smoking. I belive strong will and focus are important to accomplish any goal in ones life but there are so many distractions and adverse conditions in our way of life…
What would be the chain of beliefs that anchors the lack of will, distractions, short memory of goal commitment?
I appreciate your work which helps so many.
Thank you M.
Franc
Hi Jose,
Please give me your phone number and I will call you so I can help you with you on the program to make sure it works for you. I’m sure I can help.
Do you have a computer? You can call me on Skype. There is no charge. My Skype name is mortylefkoe.
Hi Joy,
You name four issues you want help with. I think we can help with all four in private, one on one phone or Skype sessions.
You named: perfectionism, a powerful feeling of overwhelm I confront whenever I think about doing more than think about it, a sense that I’m not qualified to make real the vision I have and profound social anxiety and an aversion to promoting myself or my work.
We’ve helped people with all of these issues.
In fact, you probably could handle some of them with one of our products, which would save you a lot of money. Get our Natural Confidence program, which would help a lot with procrastination and social anxiety.
Then if all of the problems are not totally handled, you could have a few private sessions to handle whatever is left. You can find Natural Confidence at http://recreateyourlife.com/store/natural-confidence.php.
Regards, Morty
Hi Valerie,
You ask if we have a magic course to regain the power you lost. The answer is yes, we do. The course consists of private sessions in which you eliminate the limiting beliefs you have.
If you haven’t tried the process yet, try it for free at http://recreateyourlife.com.
If you like the process we can work with you on the phone, helping you identify which specific beliefs you need to eliminate, and then help you eliminate them.
You can call for more information or an appointment at 415-884-0552.
Regards, Morty
It would be nice after looking at all that I am grateful in my present life to beleive it is OK to want and get more…Which would be that money will not change who I’ve become or attract people who would take advantage of my kindness and naivity…Being on a spiritual path since childhood I came to beleive that We shouldn’t want any material, live without accumulation, to help others and be passionate about what is a balance of our Universe…Exept I forgot to ASK formyself…And it is true we allways get what we ask for It as never missed in my life that fact.So much people would call me to prey for what they wanted…And you know it always worked as long as it was to my eyes in accord with the law of the universe!!! So it was by painful trial I’ve learned how TO ASK…So that I came to a point I desired nothing…Yes you guessed it I got nothing not even thanks from my help…I am hoping to find my way back amongs the earth living creatures LOL and accept that I deserve life of aboundance with out being a bad person…Lack of self confidance in a mind that as been through a very special life with a very special parent!!!
If you have a magic course on finding back the lost habilities of spiritual faith and The power within I’ve lost moons ago I would love it!!!
It is always up to me to choose which path to use… the hard one or the loving one!!!
Morty,
I was going to ask for something about writer’s block but then realized that isn’t the core of my problem. I actually have no problem writing. I’m probably hypegraphia prone. I can write for hours off the cuff as long as I’m not trying to control its form. My files and notebooks and blog and journal contain millions of words between them. So writer’s block is not the problem.
The problem has to do with finishing creative projects whether stories or needlework or research. It’s the fiction writing that gives me the most fits. Yet story is my first and most enduring passion. I have begun dozens of stories/novels. I’ve finished maybe five. I have 20 novels in progress which all branched out of a short story I began in 1987. The story now spans 120 years with nearly that many significant characters walking in and out of each other’s stories. I would prefer to think of it as a single novel but who would read a 3 or 4K page novel?
I’ve spent 23 years on this story world yet have more words in the notes than in the narrative itself though it is hard to tell which are which as I slip from one to the other whether I am in the narrative file or the notes file. Even on the page or screen it is much easier to talk about the story and characters than to write the scenes that play in the background of my thoughts no matter what else I am doing or thinking about.
Some have suggested that creating such a tangled complex web of a story was a way of self-sabotaging. But that doesn’t feel right to me. I see the thing whole in my mind, can turn it like a many faceted jewel.
The issues I have identified are: First, my perfectionism which makes it hard to work with the previous messes (rough-drafts) I have made as well as hard to ever quit tweaking a story and call it finished. Second is the powerful feeling of overwhelm I confront whenever I think about doing more than think about it. Third is a sense that I’m not qualified to make real the vision I have. Forth is the fears I have of interacting with the world at large once I have a finished story that wants readers. That last is composed of at least two issues: profound social anxiety and an aversion to promoting myself or my work (born of the particular Christian sect I was raised in that named that as prideful. Especially for women. Even tho I’ve broken from the sect I still carry most of the social conditioning.)
Well, I’ve rambled some. So much for writer’s block.
Thanx for your attention
I just want to help people spiritually but have no funds I cannot even see there Aura or anything else and feel very frustrated with myself I am 62
To learn to speak kinder as I tend to be very straight and brusque
Hi Morty!
I think what you do is awesome and I admire you. (I’m sorry if my comment gets too long-winded, I’ll try to keep it short!)
If I could change ONE thing about my life, it would be my preoccupation with what people think of me, I want to not care AT ALL because it cripples me in many different ways =(
The most painful consequence of this is that I’m kind of a hermit. I seldom go out and my dating and sex life sucks (it’s practically non-existant). I have like 1 friend. I think this is mostly because I don’t see myself as a responsible adult or a mature man (I’ve never had a job). Or maybe it’s because I’m embarrassed if my family sees me with women and being social in general (specially my father, with whom I don’t have a good relationship with; I’m 20 and I live under his roof). Or maybe I’m just scared of meeting new people because they’ll think I’m a loser. Who knows? It’s either that or some other equally ridiculous psychological barrier. The worst part is that I feel more of a loser with every day that goes by.
I want to tell you something, and I actually told you this before on Facebook, but your response was “give us a call” and I was too embarrassed to tell you that, for me, calling you is out of the question, because I don’t have the money for a long-distance call, much less a private consultation. Here’s the deal:
I’ve done the Natural Confidence program, and I’m still not too confident. I feel just like before and I think the reason for this is that I didn’t eliminate my beliefs correctly, because either:
A) I did a half-assed job with the program (maybe I didn’t interact with it correctly because I don’t remember events before the age of 5)
or
B) My beliefs were actually formed in my native language (Spanish) and therefore, I have to do the program again but this time changing everything in my mind to Spanish.
I have the program here with me and I’m willing to do it all over again, but I’d like some reassurance before spending several hours on it (plus, I suck at identifying wether I have a belief or not).
I have 2 questions for you:
1) Assuming I were able to correctly eliminate the 19 beliefs and 4 conditionings of the Natural Confidence program, do you honestly believe my preoccupation with what people think of me would be gone?
and
2) What tips would you give me for when I do the program again? Any mistakes I should avoid making while doing it?
Your response means a lot to me, thanks!
i would like unshakeable confidence in all situations. sometimes im very confident for instance , no trouble speaking in front of a large group of people. but put a man im attracted to in before me and i want to run for the hills and usually do.
I do have a lot of issues with the way I interpret certain people’s behavior in a negative and personal way..I am very interested in trying the Lefkoe Occurring Process..how can I get signed up with this program?
Jen
Morty, if I had to break it down, I would say that my Primary handicap is Fear of Rejection/Loss. Secondary to that is a crippling loss of motivation…depression/sadness…when I get overwhelmed.
I have done the Method and am doing it all over again, but if you have any other help to offer me I would Welcome it!!
Thank you,
D
Hi D,
When you say you have done the Method, what do you mean? If you’ve only eliminated one belief, that is not sufficient to make a fundamental shift in your life. Problems are usually cased by several beliefs.
Fear of rejection and overwhelm can usually be helped by our Natural Confidence program, which consists of 19 basic self-esteem beliefs and four de-conditionings. Check it out at http://recreateyourlife.com/store/natural-confidence.php and see if you think this would help.
Depression is so individual that it requires one-on-one phone or Skype sessions with a certified Lefkoe Method facilitator.
If you have any further questions, please let me know.
Regards, Morty
I have, in fact, done 16 of the 19 beliefs and 3 of the 4 conditionings and WAIR. A few of these I did more than once. Though I grasp this intellectually, and on a few could feel a change, there is still this that I described. I am not coming from a victim mentality, but just can’t seem to lick a few of these. I would welcome any further help you can offer.
D
Hi D,
Please call me so I can try to figure out what’s happening.
415-884-0552.
Regards, Morty
Morty, If I were to really break it down I would say that Fear of Rejection/Loss is my number one thing that I need help with and secondary to that is Loss of motivation….sadness/depression….when I start feeling down.
I have already done the Method and am doing all over again. If you have more help to offer me, Please let me know!!!
D
Hi
I would like to release negative beliefs such as i never meet any men I like or who would want to date me. Or i dont deserve an amazing relationship.
i am also having issues with finances and loss of a job. All in all a mess!
I am however feeling more confident about myself as i am on belief 10 of Natural Confidence
Is it best for me to contact you directly for these additional beliefs?
Many thanks
Hi Mel,
I suggest you complete all the beliefs and conditionings in the NC program. Then you can call and make an appointment to have a session or two with one of our certified Lefkoe Method facilitators to get rid of the specififc bleifs thaty are casuing relationship and money issues.
Our office # is: 415-884-0552.
Please let me know if you have any additional questions.
Regards, Morty
Morty, I want a magic bullet that I can shoot at people who consistently throw obstacles in front of me no matter WHAT I endeavor to do. Either that, or self-protecting techniques that protect me from this chipping away at creativity and self-esteem. Protections in place, I would expect much more to be possible.
Hi M.L. (my initials!)
Tghe magic bullet is a high level of self-esteem so that what others think or do does not affect you.
The best program we have for that is Natural Confidence. Check it out at http://recreateyourlife.com/store/natural-confidence.php
Let me know what you think of it.
Regards, Morty
2things
First, a resource to eliminate negative beliefs about money
Second, take the natural confidence a step further to create a tailor-made program for performance anxiety and stage fright for actors musicians and other stage artists
thanks for the great posts and the wonderful Lefkoe method
JL
Hi JL,
First, we actually already have a package of five beliefs on money that are not generally available, but which you can get if you call us at 415-884-0552.
Second, most if not all performance anxiety will be eliminated if you complete the Natural Confidence course.
Let me know if there is any left after you complete that program.
Regards, Morty
Marty,
My biggest problem is that I’m too sensitive and interpret many sarcastic comments as personal attacks. Eventually, the pain of the attacks results in an “deal breaker” mentally and I cut the person out of my life. I thinking I’m standing up for myself by not tolerating disrespectful and contemptuous behavior, yet I end up all alone.
Am I really under attack and keep attracting the “dark side” of my spirit self? Or am I really way too sensitive and intrepret what anyone else would blow off as a indicator that I am not really liked?
I’m really tired of living like this. It causes me to stay isolated to keep the “pain” away. I was raised by a parent who would not answer direct questions, joked and laughed at my expense, and got others to turn against me. Yet if I defended myself, I got pummeled with how disrespectful I was. After reading self help books for decades, I tried not to give my power away, but it’s apparent to me that I have not been successful.
I would have a much more productive and funfilled life if I could get and keep MY POWER!!!
Thanks for listening…
Hi Janine,
Your problems today are clearly the result of beliefs you formed as a child in your interactions with your parents.
But when the beliefs are eliminated, the problems will be too. You really don’t have to continue to live as you do. Reading books can be interesting, but they will not eliminate the beliefs that are currently causing the issues in your life.
The best way to find the specific beliefs that are causing your issues today would be one-on-one phone or Skype sessions. However, I suspect you could go a long way to resolving much of your issue by completing the Natural Confidence program, which gives you 19 common self-esteem beliefs and four conditionings.
Check it out and see what you think at http://recreateyourlife.com/store/natural-confidence.php
Regards, Morty
I would love to work through limiting beliefs surrounding money. They are everywhere and pervasive.
Thank you for asking.
Ryan
Hi Ryan,
We have a program with five money beliefs that are not currently being offered but if you want them, we could make them available.
Please call Karen at 415-884-0552 and tell her I said it was OK to sell them to you.
Let me know what you think after you use them.
Regards, Morty
This is a excellent piece. I must include you to my RSS list.
Hi Mobilya,
Glad you liked my post and thanks for subscribing.
Regards, Morty
I would embrace guidance in communicating my deepest needs. like sexually and even how to tell my husband how frustrated I become when he leaves his ‘trail’ behind him as he goes about the house. when I do take the “risk” and communicate them, things tend to go well, but I have a really difficult time getting up the courage to do so. why? because it makes me so much more vulnerable, and I am often just stuck in the same thinking rut I have been in, unless I become aware. often it is too late. thanks in advance!
Hi “C”,
There seem to be two issues you raise:
First, what your husband does is not inherently upsetting. The meaning you give it causes the upset and the Lefkoe Occurring Process can help you give a different meaning to what he does so it will no longer be upsetting.
Second, if you are afraid to communicate to him, you probably are afraid of anger and confrontation. Most people can get rid of that fear when they eliminate just 5-6 beliefs and conditionings. That could be done in one or two one-to-one phone or Skype sessions.
And of course getting rid of your negative self-esteem beliefs would improve your confidence, which is helpful in so many ways.
Let me know what you decide to do.
Regards, Morty
Morty, I’ve tried the natural confidence program, I haven’t finished it yet, but I have eliminated like 10 beliefs so far, and my confidence has really improved a lot. I also remember that I was seeing life full of oportunities, I felt really good (now that I’m remembering maybe it was as a result of the WAIR process). Anyways since a few weeks ago I started feeling really sad, until today, I have thought it has maybe something to do with my parents (I’m 19 and I still live with them), I really don’t know what to do, I just want to feel happy again, but the sadness won’t go away. My question is: Can I stop feeling like this?. I guess the answer of course is “yes”, and I also guess that the first thing to do is to determine the cause of my sadness, wich is the meaning I’m giving to a determinated situation, which (now that I’m just thinking) might be related to feeling guilty for my parents behaviour. Yes, I’ve been trying to find the cause for almost 2 weeks, and now that I’m writing to you I guess I finally got it. But could be only one cause to my sadness? Anyways I hope I can eliminated these beliefs by Skype on a one on one session. Wich, by the way, have they got guarantee too? I mean like if I can’t eliminate all the beliefs in that hour, I’ll have to pay for another one?
The last doubt is that on the WAIR I have to admit that “life is a result of my beliefs”, but you published an article a while ago in wich you say “…I no longer think there is a direct connection” (referring to how we live our lives and our beliefs). So now when I go through the WIAR I’m like stuck in that step and I don’t really know what to do.
That’s all. You don’t know how much you would help by answering some of my questions, even though you have already helped, so thank you Morty, thanks for everything you’ve done,
Juan
Hi Juan,
I’m not sure what is causing your sadness. It could be a lot of things and I don’t have enough information to even guess.
In a one-on-one session clients can eliminate from 2-4 beliefs. First sessions usually fewer. We have to figure out what your issue is and then determine what beliefs are causing the problem.
I’m not clear what step you are stuck in when you use the WAIR? Process. We do create our lives, though the old beliefs we are living with and also though the meaning we are constantly giving the situations in our lives as they occur.
Regards, Morty
Sorry,but it is only my temporary”financial situation that prevent me for not enroll at this time , I really think it is a good program but,I can’t at this moment Regards Zully
Confrontations are a big deal with me. Especially in my family, I cannot have an opinion that is accepted. For instance, visiting my sister and mother I feel stifled because my sister challenges every statement I make. I would like to have a regular conversation without her saying, “Where did you hear that?” I still feel blocked up when it comes to writing; a program for that would be awesome.
You should really take a look at the $10 free chip at SlotoCash. Limited time offer at: SlotoCash. Good luck!
My limting beliefs about money, and the guilt i feel for even wanting to change them.
How to love myself unconditionally so that other people don’t bother me, I don’t blame myself for unwanted situations, and I am joyful and hope just doing everyday activities, like brushing my teeth!
dealing with people who don’t seem to hear me and just repeat their position over and over again.
I would like to be able to overcome a handicap that I have so that I may feel confident enough to walk away from a realtionship that I believe I stay in for mostly security reasons and move south to be with some of my children wher I know that i am loved and appreciated for me.
What would I like to change? I would like for me to get my book published and become a wealthy best selling author. Does that count?
Hi Vincent,
I can’t guarantee that eliminating any negative, limiting beliefs will make you a wealthy, best-selling author, but I can predict that you probably will not have your dreams come true if you have beliefs that make it impossible.
Getting rid of limiting beliefs literally creates possibilities in our lives. Create some possibilities in your own life.
Let me know how it turns out.
Regards, Morty
My cake and cookie decorating book has been completed. I’ve got the fans, friends and family who say they’ll purchase the book. In the meantime, over 200 copies (I’m down from 385 total to start with) still sit in the boxes. I’ve been out promoting the book at various events and online. I’ve stayed away from the bookstores because I wouldn’t make any money there. Sales are slow. I sent a cookie box to Wendy Williams who has a show and next week I’ll send one to Oprah. I need to get more sales. How else can I do this????
What would I like to change about myself? This insidious self sabotage that always takes over when I take on a big project or I’m anywhere close to success.
Hi Jenn,
Self-sabotage is the result of beliefs, such as I’m not worthy or deserving, I’ll never get what I want, life is difficult, etc.
Get rid of the beliefs and you’ll get rid of the self-sabotage as many others already have.
Regards, Morty
I have a deep fear of change– naturally no one wants negative change. But I mean positive change, too. As much as I want really wonderful dreams to unfold, I always get so nervous about it it almost always makes me physically unwell and I have to self-talk myself through the whole thing –it can be absolutely exhausting. I know that the fear delays things for me and also makes things much more difficult than they need to be. Im sure a lot of fears underlie this deep fear of change— I am not confident enough perhaps in my abilities. I fear the unknown, as many people do. It holds me back and wears me out…so I would love to really tackle this once and for all. I have ordered your dvd on getting rid of the belief that change is difficult and takes a long time, so perhaps that will help too
Hi Chris,
Usually issues such as the one you described are caused by a number of beliefs, not just one or two.
I think that if you got the entire Natural Confidence course you would see a profound difference in your experience of life and of change.
There is a sale going on for the next couple of days.
Here’s the deal:
Until 11:59 p.m. Pacific Time on Thursday, May 6th,
you can try the entire digital version of the Natural Confidence
system for $1 for 14 days.
http://recreateyourlife.com/store/natural-confidence-1dollar.php
This means you’ll have two full weeks to try the
Natural Confidence program, eliminate all 19 beliefs
and 4 conditioned emotions and see real, tangible
results in your life… before you pay the remaining
3 payments of $75.
Let me know what you think.
Regards, Morty
Monty
This is probably not the right place to share this but I am loving your stuff and had some questions about it. Mainly if when you bought a belief buster could you download it from a link rather than have the cd shipped as I live in Spain and didn’t want to have to pay the shipping costs. It would be easier if you could just provide a link and hey presto the product is downloadable. However I must say that I still have nor received a reply and it’s well over your 24 hr reply promise. I like what you are doing and would love to try more stuff but I am afraid your back office is not delivering.
Hi Mark,
We actually do offer a streaming video for our Natural Confidence course. Unfortunately technical problems make it impossible for us to offer individual beliefs that way.
I’ve sent your note to the people handling support tickets and asked them to respond right way.
Sorry for the delay.
Regards, Morty
Rencently I have gone through a hard time,especially my academic studies.I kind of don’t known how to get myself an aim,and preserverance to do the things I think is right and will help my study.
THANK you for your cencens to people.
Hi Jaisy,
The Passion Test is a good book by some friends of mine on finding what you are really passionate about.
And if you have any beliefs in the way (I’ll never get what I want, Life is difficult, etc.) make sure you get them handled too.
Regards, Morty
Thanks for asking Morty.
After having gone through massive makeover and repairing many of the problems fellow commenters mention here, my big wish is to find an ethical way to take it easy. I would like to provide valuable service to others in life makeover and well-being areas, but in an enjoyable and comfortably sustainable way. Universe, please make it so. Thank you.
Hi Kamil,
I don’t have any sure-fire answers for this one. My own approach is to do what I am passionate about, look for ways to make a profound difference in people’s lives every day, and see if I can get some of those people to pay me so I earn enough money for my family.
Certainly getting any limiting beliefs out of the way will help. I’m still doing that from time to time, but I’ve worked on hundreds by now.
Regards, Morty
Hi Morty!
Lately I feel a bit stuck. I’m following an education which I don’t like, but have to finish (moneywise) and my social life is in a complete rut. I’ve been putting of things now for so long, that it seems to get harder to pull myself together and start doing something with my life. Mainly I would like to get rid of my social anxiety or lack of social confidence, I believe this is what’s holding me back most of the time.
Furthermore I would like to say that I think it’s great that you are helping people from all over the world. Keep up the good work!
Regards
Not having the ability to fully speak up for myself and “making do” in a lot of situations. (took care of my parents 24/7 for 6 years , financially in a mess because of this and with a husband who has been in and out of work for the 20 years we have been married, still trying to do it all, trying to prove myself…I’m 58 now and I want to become “me” for perhaps the first time in my life…
Hi Tina,
The best way I know to become “me” is to get rid of the beliefs that get in the way. Our beliefs limit our options; eliminating our beliefs gives us freedom.
How did you feel when you eliminated a few of the free beliefs? Did you notice any difference?
Regards, Morty
To be able to take the actions that I know are the right ones at the precise right time, instead of waiting for the pain to get greater before taking action.
Hi Randy,
It sounds as if the problem is really procrastination. Putting off what you know you should do until you absolutely have to do it.
That is relatively easy to get rid of when you eliminate the beliefs and conditionings that create it.
Check this out: http://recreateyourlife.com/store/procrastination-ed.php
If you have any more questions, please let me know.
Regards, Morty
Hi Morty.
I am a Roulette player and i win a lot of money from the game. But what i would like to change is to stop giving the money back to the casino.
Cheers
Hi Tom,
Gambling (and the inability to stop when you’re ahead–or too far in the hole)is an addiction and can be stopped by eliminating the beliefs that cause it.
Regards, Morty
Hi Morty,
I ‘d like to eliminate all fears but fear of conflict. I run when there is a conflict between myself and others.
Thanks for all of your help with all that you do.
Hi Christie,
Sorry that we don’t have an online program for fear of conflict. It is only a few beliefs and we can help you eliminate them in one or at most two private phone sessions.
Hopefully some day we will create a program for this common problem.
Thanks for posting.
Regards, Morty
HOW TO GET OVER LONINESS AND STOP PEOPLE FROM HATING ME.
Hi Paulette,
Although there are some additional specific beliefs that cause loneliness and difficult relationships with people, most of the beliefs that cause these two problems are available on our Natural Confidence program.
For more information about it please go to http://recreateyourlife.com/store/natural-confidence.php.
Thanks for taking the time to write.
Regards, Morty
i would like to come to terms and understand why my city (adelaide,south australia)would use microwave mind control on me .How do i ignore the mocking ,abuse,vandalism,crap service,lies,vivid dumb dreams,sleep deprivation,petty thieving,hostility,zapping of the brain,piercing sound in ears,etc,etc,etc. This is no joke!
HOW can we get my normal old life back.(this has been going on for 17 years )
Hi Tyrone,
I can help you, but I cannot change the behavior of others. Sorry.
Regards, Morty
I have become a very negative person in the last few years.I want to become a positive thinker.
Hi Anshu,
Thanks for letting me know what you would like to change in our life.
Most of your negativity could be eliminated by getting rid of the 19 beliefs and four conditionings on our Natural Confidence program. For more information please visit http://recreateyourlife.com/store/natural-confidence.php
Regards, Morty
Hello Morty,
Thanks a lot for your courses and your help.
I do not know if it has anything to do with the beliefs but I would like some help in defining what do I really want, what I am here for, etc.
Hi Oxana,
One approach to find our what you want to do with your life that I think is very good was created by two friends of mine and is available in a book, The Passion Test, by Chris and Janet Attwood.
After you figure it out and find some barriers in the way of moving forward, then we can figure out what beliefs you need to eradicate.
Let me know how you like the book.
Regards, Morty
I am wondering if your method works when you want to add a belief as well as it works when you want to eliminate a belief ….. and how you would you go about it
Hi Basic,
I wrote a blog post recently on why you don’t need to create a new belief after eliminate an old belief. Go to http://mortylefkoe.com/ 010510.
If you still have questions, let me know.
Regards, Morty
My issues are around belonging. I never feel I belong anywhere. I feel like I am from outer space. Like today – in a professional meeting – and they begin to talk about television shows and sports. I don’t watch either – I am pursuing an advanced degree and am a big time organic gardener. I tried steer the conversation back to the professional topic – and was ignored in view of the latest rave about american idol.
I am much older and have a broader skill base than everyone at work. My kids are grown and theirs are small. I am liberal in a red state and desire to move somewhere where there is more conscious raising activities but fear I won’t fit in there either. I would like to be around people who have interesting things to say and impact real life.
I really don’t mind being different intellectually but emotionally it hurts to be excluded and not have my differences be a source of interesting conversation.
Hi Rox,
There are two issues involved in your desire to fit in.
One is practical in that some places are more conducive to finding people with similar interests. I moved for that very reason from Connecticut to the San Francisco Bay Area almost 8 years ago and have found many more people here who are interested in transformation and personal growth.
The second issue is your beliefs about yourself and life. If you believe I don’t belong, I don’t fit in, No one is interested in what I’m interested in (a belief I had many years ago), etc., then you will feel excluded no matter where you live.
So handle the beliefs first and that should help. And if you are still lonely, go someplace where more people are interested in what you’re interested in.
Regards, Morty
I have problems with feeling “no one truely loves me” so I’m guessing I have a problem with loving myself: although consciously I do feel lovable and that I deserve love. But I don’t trust others to see it or to mean it if they say it. I always find evidence that they don’t. So I guess trust is also a big issue here. I also suffer from procrastination, but my mind is always computing “Pi” so it may be that I am Psychically exhausted- I need to calm my mind so I can focus my creative energies.
Thank You So Much,
Renee
Hi Renee,
Thanks for writing.
Unfortunately, I’m not lovable is not on any of our online or DVD programs, but we do have a program specifically designed to get rid of procrastination.
Go to http://recreateyourlife.com/store/procrastination-ed.php.
If you have any additional questions, please let me know.
Regards, Morty
The two excuses that often occur in my mind are limited time and money. If you could tag some specific beliefs that feed those excuses, it would be a big help. Also, I’ve had the bad habit of blaming authority figures for my problems–I hate to admit it. I always catch myself at some point and remind myself that I am responsible for me, but If there is some belief feeding this, I’d be nice to do away with it. The Lefkoe Method may not be some cure all, but I believe that its the truth that sets one free, and the Lefkoe Method seems to take a very rational and systematic approach to exposing falshood, and eliminating it.
One other thing I might add, a discipline I’ve learned to practice, and am still learning, and that is the art of forgiveness. Unforgiveness can be just as crippling as false beliefs.
Thanks Morty
Hi Steve,
Yes, The Lefkoe Method isn’t the only thing that can make a difference in our lives, but it can help a lot.
I found that forgiveness became much easier as I eliminated more and more beliefs. It didn’t matter what they were. As I realized that all of my behavior is the result of beliefs, and most of those beliefs were formed in childhood when I had little choice about the beliefs I was forming, I realized the same was true of everyone else.
We are all run by our beliefs. In that sense we are like a programmed machine. Would you find it difficult to forgive a machine that was programmed to harm you or our possessions — or would you even get angry at it to begin with? We assume free will when we get angry at people’s behavior. If it comes from beliefs, then just view them like a machine and see if that helps.
Blaming people in authority, time, and money for what you don’t have and want is the result of a bunch of beliefs, all of which could be easily eliminated.
If you have specific questions about how to do that, call us at 415-884-0552.
Regards, Morty
Dear Morty,
Thanks for asking me this question. It gives me the possibility to explore further the keeping me from the change topics I d love to work out.
I have a special belief, at least for me, which creates a lot of problems with my everyday duties. And its : I just dont want to remeber! That would say :
I d love to stop trying to forget! Things, information, situations, words experienced like not nice to me make me not willing to let them come to me and very consciously I just try to forget. How could I see the possitive meaning of emotionaly not pleasant experience and rather use it to make my memory open for at least selectively and possitively arranging my thoughts so that my confidence of understanding each situation I am in can bring me peace an joy of having it clearly placed in my mind. So that tomorrow I dont have to question myself again: What was that about? I dont know if you could understand me – I d love to have an instant waking up moment that remembers me rather to use the situation to make myself clear in a joyful way that what I get from the surrounding world is not me and I have to stay better open for the information than to close me from it.
Excuses for the not perfect english! I’d appriciate any corections!
Hi,
I suspect that your “poor memory” is the result, as you say, of not wanting to remember. And that is the result of beliefs. If you believe you are powerless to do anything about your life, or that you don’t deserve to have a better life, or that nothing you do will be good enough, etc. — then you will not want to face difficulties in your life.
Thanks for writing.
Regards, Morty
Here are some thoughts for new programs:
Dressing, clothes…never wore anything right
Smoking / drinking self destructive behavior
Body image not right
I was a bad parent
Eating disorders
Bless you for the work you are doing. This program works!
Hi Marie,
Some of your thoughts for new programs are problems people face today (such as self-destructive behavior and eating disorders), some a specific beliefs (such as I was a bad parent), and some are the source of beliefs (never wore anything right earlier in life).
We can help people with eating disorders but it is very complicated and has to be done in one-on-one phone sessions.
Happy to hear that our work is useful to you.
Regards, Morty
I’d like more faith…in myself and in God’s love for me. I’d like to believe that I already have everything I need for a beautiful life. I can think of nothing that this faith could not create for me.
Thank you for asking the question; becoming clear enough to answer is a blessing!
Hi Kat,
A lack of faith in yourself usually is a sign of low self-esteem, which is a sign of a lot of negative beliefs.
If you want to get rid of them, the program with the best selection of negative self-esteem beliefs is http://recreateyourlife.com/store/natural-confidence.php
I had a negative sense of myself for most of my life. I was unhappy being me. I always wanted to be someone else. After eliminating all my negative self-esteem beliefs I am now happy being me and I have a very positive sense of myself.
Regards, Morty
Sir: I have lacked self-confidence for years. As thoughts are things I have tried to visualize, but seem to fail each time as doubts come in destroying what I want. My prayers seem to be answered at times. I would like to know how to consentrate more fully to acquire what I need. I know we each have a purpose in this life and I have asked again and again for that purpose to be shown to me with no results. What are your thoughts on this. Thank you. Joan
Hi Joan,
A lack of confidence is one of the most common problems clients bring to us, which is why we created a DVD that is so effective that it has a lifetime guarantee to eliminate low self-confidence.
To get more information about it please go to http://recreateyourlife.com/store/natural-confidence.php.
If you have any additional questions, please let me know.
Regards, Morty
Hello, it would be wonderful to see:
Eating healthy…chose the right foods for you
Take time for prayer/mediation/gratitude
The world is not a bad place
Feeling safe and supported
My body and mind is well, healthy and whole
I can’t give love … I can’t receive love
Your program is remarkable. I have a sense of peace about me that I never knew possible. Keep up the great work!
Hi Sharon,
Congratulations on the positive change in your life.
The other issues you mention are the result of specific beliefs that can be eliminated in phone one-on-one sessions. If you have questions about them, please call us at 415-884-0552.
Regards, Morty
Dear Morty,
There are several things I would really like to change:
Panic when having to do public speaking – I would like to fascinate people.
Feeling like a little dumb child when speaking in public, feeling hurt and not worthy to speak to people.
Not feeling part of groups, be it in further education, hobbies….
Feeling overwhelmed of the work I have to do, not being able to find the big picture and gaining a clear focus (perhaps I have too much going).
Not being able to get a clear vision of a nice house with nice furniture and garden and a georgious view…and taking action.
I would like to enjoy life at a very high level.
I would like to be able to relate to people on a comfortable level and not feel smaller and far less important, interesting or competent than all the others.
I would like to contribute and offer my contribution without the fear of redicule, rejection, doubt of whether it is needed or whether I can do it.
I would like to be rid of the constant nagging feeling that I am not worthy. It is like an enduring inner panic. It’s always there, in each and every situation, like a blow to my chest, like a burning in my heart.
Hi,
Thanks for writing.
You’ve listed a lot of issues you would like to resolve and most of them are the result of the same 19 beliefs and 4 conditionings in our Natural Confidence program.
Take a look at this program and the specific beliefs it will help you eliminate and see if you think this will help. I think it will. http://recreateyourlife.com/store/natural-confidence.php
Regards, Morty
There are several issues I would love resolved.
A failed grad school attempt left me with massive amounts of debt, jobless with no hopes of getting my dream job, and having to move back in with my parents. I’m 42 years old. The anger, shame, and guilt I have is overwhelming, not to mention the hopelessness about the future.
I battled very severe depression and anxiety since day 1 of grad school. It was 3 years of pure hell until I failed. For lack of any better explanation, my spirit was taken from me by my adviser and I couldn’t recover. My spirit was calling me to do something that would allow me to grow to the next level so I could be ready to do what I was meant to do when I graduated. Without it, I was completely lost. Four years later, I’m still struggling without it, and without any clue of what to do with my life.
There are many issues in there. I wouldn’t mind having any of them solved so I could at least make some progress towards living life again.
Hi Kevin,
You’re right,there are a lot of issues there.
Our Natural Confidence program would certainly help, but depression is too complicated at this point to be able to put it on a DVD.
We certainly could help you in phone one-on-one sessions. If you’d like more information about this, please call us at 415-884-0552.
Thanks for taking the time to write.
Regards, Morty
How to experience joy!
Hi Riel,
Thanks for taking the time to write.
In my personal experience and based on what literally thousands of people have told me, joy comes from pursuing your passion with no beliefs or conditionings in the way. Knowing you are the creator of your life and being free to pursue your passion brings true joy.
If you haven’t eliminated your most crippling self-esteem beliefs yet, think about how that would feel.
Regards, Morty
Hi Morty, I have seen some positive changes in my life in using your methods. I would like to receive help in socializing and making friends. I am petite and feel overlooked by people and life in general. I need help in being noticed and viewed in a positive way and not talked down to like a child because I’m a little taller than one.
Hi Carmen,
What programs have you used so far?
The Natural Confidence program will give you a lot more confidence in socializing. However, none of the programs have relationship beliefs or beliefs about being small or not noticed. If you have any beliefs like that, you might want to have a private one-on-one phone sessions.
We could help you handle such beliefs that way. If you have any specific questions about our phone sessions, please call us at 415-884-0552.
Regards, Morty
Thank you for the Natural Confidence Course, I am experiencing significantly positive changes in my life after doing it. I would like to eliminate limiting beliefs centered around jealousy, not being able to take a day off (over-achiever syndrome), interruptions/being cut off in traffic/walking, frustration when I think I am misunderstood or not listened to. Cheers!
Hi Bodhi,
Some of the problems you name should be handled by the Natural Confidence course. The others could easily be handled in one-on-one sessions if you’d like.
Regards, Morty
Hi Morty, with your help I have improved my life a lot. I have more fun, friendship and good times. I can see a way to stay on this upward trend and I really want to. Do you have a program that will help me stay committed to this? Thanks again.
Hi Leila,
You don’t need a program “to help stay committed.”
Once you eliminate all the relevant beliefs that cause a specific problem, the beliefs and the problem won’t come back. So there is no “commitment” necessary.
I’m not sure what programs you have used. If you haven’t tried our Natural Confidence program, that will put you on an “upward trend” and keep you there. You can find it at http://recreateyourlife.com/store/natural-confidence.php
Regards, Morty
I want friendship & being a friend to mean the world.
Hi Morty,
I have completed Natural Confidence and can highly recommend it to anyone – it’s been very helpful for me in moving forward on many personal and business projects, and helping me have a general ease about my presence. I am now doing some phone sessions with Shelley on relationship issues.
So here’s the area I hope you can do for your next product – Relationships!! e.g. how to communicate and ask for your wants and needs in relationship, how to remove barriers to believing you can have a wonderful relationship, communicate clearly with your partner about needs and wants, and better listen to them from a non-judgmental place. Beliefs like: I can’t get what I want. I don’t know what I want. I can’t ask for what I want or need. Wanting is bad. I don’t deserve to be loved. Relationships don’t work. My partner is responsible for my feelings. relationships are hard, etc.
thanks!
John
I have a fear that what I say could hurt people or alienate them, so I only say what is perfectly 100% right with the current situation, or nothing at all. I have trouble with conversation in general, as I was never properly socialized in conversational frameworks. I try to read 15 books at a time, and I never feel like I have the time to sit down and read a book. Yet I spend hours surfing the internet. I have problems getting close to people and once I do I become somebody totally different and then they end up not liking me.
@: Hi Angela,
We can help people with eating/weight issues (see my blog post http://www.mortylefkoe.com/101309/) but we can’t (at least at present) put it in an on-line package because each individual is so different.
We do work with people with eating/weight issue in private telephone (or Skype) sessions. If you’d like more information, please call us at 415-884-0552.
Regards, Morty
I really wish you guys would come out with a weight loss package. I used to Natural confidence and that did take care of a lot of issues I had with dealing with people. Alternately, I’d like one that would help me keep my house clean. : )
@: Hi Harold,
I’ve been where you are and I know how difficult it can be. I’ve felt suicidal and gone into bankruptcy. I’m sorry to hear about your situation and I know from personal experience that it can be changed.
I totally transformed my life when I changed all my beliefs. I haven’t been depressed for years.
At least eliminate the three free beliefs on our web site, http://recreateyourlife.com. And if you are able to get the Natural Confidence course, that will get rid of most of the important negative self-esteem beliefs.
You can change your circumstances and feelings, I promise.
Regards, Morty
Hi Morty, I’m having a rough time with my life right now. I’ve isolated myself because my results with people are not what I prefer. I was fired from my job because I lost control of my mouth with my boss. That was 2 weeks ago. I have just barricaded myself in the house, all my bills are behind, I’m even suicidal. I’ve been pursuing the law of attraction and many different teachers for the last 3 years but I have not achieved any significant breakthroughs. I’ve spent lots of money online for business ops and LOA classes. I never meet any people who pursue this stuff like I do or who use it like I want to. I just feel hopeless and I want things in my life to be different. Thanks for listening.
Harold
Hi Morty,
My biggest set of limiting beliefs deal with money. “I don’t deserve money,” “I’ll never have enough money,” “Wealthy people are dishonest,” “Poverty is a virtue,” you know NONSENSE like that. There are plenty more, and I might have them all. So please look into this topic for your next video series. I have your Natural Confidence streaming video, and all I can say is Brilliant!!! All the best.
Jeff
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Hi Kristiano,
Thanks for your interest in our work and for your post.
We have a program that we guarantee will eliminate your procrastination. You just need to overcome your procrastination long enough to read about it and then purchase it. Here is where you can find out more about it: http://recreateyourlife.com/store/procrastination-ed.php
If you have any questions after visiting that site, please let me know.
Regards, Morty
1).Self Trust
2).Eliminating negative based survival skills – intergrating empowering survival skills. Example: negative survival skill – manipulation ,
3) Forgiveness of self and others – releasing blame – shame – guilt ect…….
I have experience extreme procrastination, I never wait a second to do a job or to go to work, anything that my mind think is required I go fort and do so..But when it is time for me to work on inspiration mode on something that really count, like the novel I’m writing or business plan…it takes forever and it is really frustrative..I could give any reason, and I did, but now, I have to act. I want to get rid of this procrastinating problem, so I can put energy on acting instead of fighting procrastination….what the hell!!
Feeling vulnerable and threatened by the world and other people, seeing self as weak and helpless – so essentially Learned Helplessness caused by an abusive childhood.
“I always lose when taking risks”
i worry too much, about everything, about the future. i always have the ‘what if……,’. i worry so much that i can at times have a dream about that particular issue bothering me. i am not sure whether i worry too much or i take things too seriously. it is such a burden.
I have control issues,(I am ) very un organized,to the point where I get very frustrated, and start having anger issues ,my family has been telling me about my controlling ways for years so I am trying to work on it .ps I need my user name and pass word mailed to me I can not get onto your website thanks…….Sat.,02/06/2010
I would like to stop procarstinating and worrying about ny academic coursework for my Psychology degree..
I would like to get out of a negative and psychologically abusive relationship.
I fear criticism and here I am under constant criticism. As soon as I want to leave I get pulled back in by his story. Why can’t I make this move. Mainly it has to do with money. I feel completely depleted.
I have a disabiity others do not understand and I would like to stop being concerned about other people’s judgement of me.
I don’t know if this is something I would like to change about my life, I would just like it to come at me in a different way.
I have many interests. I pick up new skills easily, and my life grows more interesting as each piece finds its place in the master jigsaw puzzle. I believe my value grows as I add more tools and am able not only to select the right one for the job at hand, but to understand their inter-relationship and interaction.
My skills are, however, 1 inch deep and a thousand miles wide. I know quite a little about quite a lot. And as you might expect, push one more thing in my head and something else will fall out.
My life is a banquet, a buffet if you will.
It would be much better if it were served in courses — to temp, savor, consume and digest before being presented with the next one.
to be able to live the truth from GOD
TO BE A FAITHFUL SERVANT OF THE MOST HIGH GOD
THERE IS POWER IN GODS WORD.
KEN THANKS.
I am a bit shy when in a social situation where I don’t know anyone so I do go to social funtions by myself, how can I get rid of that fear.
My misperceptions about the situations and the people. Silence the trials, the interpretations. Learn to wait for act when the mind is clear.
Do not experience the anguish or anxiety.
My misperceptions about the situations and the people. Silence the trials, the interpretations. Learn to wait for act when the mind is clear.
Don’t experience the anguish or anxiety.
I would like to stop worrying about my financial future. I would also like to get rid of the fear of failure that prevents me from actioning new money-making ventures.
I would like to get rid of the habit of worrying. It would seem my ego needs something to worry about so I tend to attract more things to worry about. I know I can do EFT to control this but I would like a more permanent shift in my subconscious mind to eliminate this need. I would also like to be able to control my body’s fight or flight response. It is overactive in my body to the point where I will turn red very easily when I talk to some people or if I bump into someone I know when out and about or if attention is on me. It is very embarrassing because I can’t hide it. The fact that I know it happens a lot just makes it worse so it happens even more. My body also goes into little panic attacks sometimes, which is probably linked to the oversensitive fight or flight or freeze response. Any help would be appreciated.
i want to Make millions money ,I love to be successfull and Being make me happy, i want to change my beliefs
I would like to stop procrastinating.
There are a few things I would like to change in my life.To be the person I know I am inside.( strong,outgoing,friendly supportive and alive) Give my family the life they deserve. Have a supportive and loving husband. I know these are all things I can change but right now I am lost in so many ways.
I need to work on being afraid of getting close to people. I have a mate I am close to, but rarely want to let others into my world.
Morty,
The following isn’t a specific comment, but more of a laundry list. Your program on self confidence would seem to cover a great deal of the areas I’d like to change or improve upon, but after doing the complimentary trial of the Lefkoe method, I’m still not convinced I got any results. It’s very difficult to measure such changes.
One of the biggest obstacles for me in utilizing your program is a seeming inability to recall much in the way of detailed conversations with my parents that would qualify as instances where I got the impression of being told I’m incompetent, or whatever. So when asked in the free trial to say can’t you see this event happening, I can say yes and pretend to go along with it, but I really didn’t.
I’m very happy your method seems to work for some folks, and I honestly wish I were one of them. If I thought I would get different results with your self confidence program than I did with the complimentary trial I wouldn’t hesitate to order it. I think part of me doesn’t want to order the program because I’m afraid it won’t work for me and I like to maintain this fantasy that somewhere out there a program like this does exist that would really aid me.
Morty, based on what I’ve read about your method and comments I’ve seen I really think your heart is in the right place and your method really seems to work for some folks, so these comments aren’t directed at your sincerity. I don’t think you could get a much better endorsement than the one from Steve Pavlina. For me I think this may fall into the same category as hypnosis; I know it works very well for some people, and I wish I could and have tried to be hypnotized, but my brain doesn’t seem to work that way.
Morty, thanks for creating and bringing this method to the world. Godspeed.
Hi Jeff,
Thanks for your interest in our work and for your note.
A couple of comments.
First, take a look at my blog post that helps people realize that a belief really is gone when you aren’t sure. http://www.mortylefkoe.com/110309/
Second, if you are kinesthetic, you might not have “seen” the belief, you might have “felt” it. If you completed the process, you would have eliminated the belief using the part of the process specifically for people who feel rather than see their beliefs.
Third, here is a blog post that might help you find the source of your beliefs: http://www.mortylefkoe.com/092209/ See also the help video for people who have had difficult finding the source of a belief. I don’t remember much of my childhood and I’ve been able to eliminate hundreds of beliefs using the techniques described in the help video.
Finally, you have nothing to lose by trying the Natural Confidence program of 19 beliefs and four conditionings. If you don’t think it worked for you, you have a lifetime guarantee and can get all your money back at any time. Try and and return it if you aren’t convinced it worked for you.
Let me know what happens.
Regards, Morty
I think there are some very good suggestions above.
I’d like to get rid of negative beliefs related to money, for example: “rich people are greedy and selfish”, “it’s noble to be poor and to struggle” (my parents were catholics!) and “I don’t deserve to have money.”
Thanks.
Fear of confrontation is a good one. Also I’d like to be able to articulate my thoughts and opinions more clearly to people. I’d like to be able to stand up for my beliefs and explain them to people in a non-confrontational way.
i want to be a successful person in every aspect of my life.
Hi Morty
I would like to adapt to life here in Canada.I often feel depressed and overwhelmed with the lifestyle here. It would be a good idea if you could come up with a program that would address the issue of “culture shock” experienced by most new immigrants to countries like the US, Canada and elsewhere.
Mr. and Mrs. Lefkoe,
If I could choose an area of my life to improve, that would be my relationships with womens that I find attractive. Wich I know It might be related to a lack of confidence or maybe a fear of rejection, but I also think that the fact that both of my parents haved always been arguing, discussing and not really getting along may have lead, as welll, to me forming another beliefs related to these kind of relationships.
By the way, I live in a spanish-speaking country (Chile), so it would be great if at some point you could do the same programs in multiple languages, so more people could benefit.
Thanks for your discoveries and your work, I really appreciate it.
Morty,
There is 1 desire and it’s a BIG one.
I left corporate world and am becoming a professional adventurer. As stated in my blog, the world inside my head and how I see myself is grand and brilliant. I love my ideas and enjoy creating them and I love adding adventure into the lives of others.
However, when I present these ideas to anyone other than myself whether in written form on my blog or site or in person (to anyone, family or stranger) my beliefs fall apart. It’s as if I suddenly don’t believe in myself at all. That great self confidence just evaporates.
I want the true belief (what I know to be true) to be resilient and strong regardless of who I’m sharing my ideas with. I want confidence and belief in myself no matter what obstacle or bad words are said about them.
Cheers and thanks again!
Hi Morty,
Mine would be to know exactly what my goals are – to know what I really want in life. I don’t want to drift through life, not being aware, and then to come up with the answer on my death bed! What a waste!
Thanks
Hilary
Hi Morty,
I think I have uncovered a belief that I have yet to dispel: That I must suffer to improve – or something like that. I think that when I was punished as a child, I felt not only that I deserved to feel bad, but that feeling bad was a necessary step in improving my behavior or whatever. Consciously I find this silly, but again and again I find myself feeling bad and thinking that when I feel bad enough I will do something about whatever is bothering me, as if feeling bad (or really terrible) is somehow a catalyst for making improvements in myself or in my life.
Hope this helps,
Denise
Hi Denise,
Thanks for your interest in our work and for your note.
Sounds like you have identified a belief you need to get rid of. Because this is not that common, it is not one of the beliefs we have available on-line. We probably could help you get rid of it and any related beliefs in a single one-on-one phone session.
If you have any questions about getting rid of “I have to suffer to improve (or get what I want) please call us at 415-884-0552.
Regards, Morty
Morty
To let you know I am interested.. There seems to me to be so many mentors and help programs out there which one do you go with. Information comes at you on the internet at lightning speed and there are numerous people that send you there help program obviously you can’t do them all. I am in a position right now where I don’t really know where I should be going or doing in a business, job or what?? If you can help me with this it would be great as I know that I have many gifts and abilities in business but am not sure how to get from where I am right now to where I should be. If you can help that would be awesome!!
Thank you for what you have done and getting in touch with me as I appreciate it.
Hope you had an awesome Christmas and I wish you incredible success in the New Year!!
Thank you,
Mark
Hi Mark,
I’m sure we could help if you set up a phone session with us. Please call us at 415-884-0552.
Regards, Morty
Dear Morty,
well I must admit, this is one of the nicest favours anyone has ever asked of me and an opportunity the like of which I´ve rarely seen, so a big thanks in andvance.
Here goes:
Plain and simple I´d like to be less lazy. A lot less lazy to be honest.
And while I love being active and productive, there´s always this “hurdle” of lazyness I´ve got to overcome before being able to do something soundly and properly.
More often than not the hurdle wins and I end up doing things half-heartedly and with a result that is mediocre while it could have been a lot better.
I´d like that obliterated for good!
Thanks again, and as we germans say:
Einen guten Rutsch ins neue Jahr.
Andreas
Hi Andreas,
As is the cause with almost every problem in life, the source of your laziness is beliefs and conditionings. You should be able to identify and eliminate them in a few one-on-one phone (or Skype) sessions.
If you’d like more information about these sessions and what we could do for you, please call us at 415-884-0552.
Regards, Morty
Hi Morty
I ‘d like to ask how to stop seeking approval and permission from others . Ie breaking away from the need to be dependent.
I guess its a fear behaviour., Not really sure.
thanks,
Ann
Hi Morty,
i’d like to turn my life coaching business into a multi-million dollar successful business that has people flocking to my motivational workshops and seminars and become New Zealand’s most sought after motivational speaker of all time!
Hi Chris,
I can’t guarantee that you’ll create a multi-million dollar business if you eliminate your limiting beliefs, but you’ll have a hard time doing it if you have limiting beliefs.
So I suggest you take a look at see what you believe about yourself, live, people, and having a successful business that might be getting in the way of you having what you want. And then get rid of those beliefs.
If you need some help in doing that, we’d be happy to help. Call us at 415-884-0552 for more information.
Regards, Morty
If U can offer any type of course where we can learn & then teach to other people any crash course. Thanks Salim
Hi Salim,
We intend to offer an on-line training course early next year. We’ll let everyone on our mailing list know when it is ready.
Regards, Morty
Thanks Morty!
I’d like to stop procrastinating, get done what needs doing in my life, accomplish the goals I want.
Hi Bill.
Not all the questions on this blog are as easy to answer as yours.
We have a program specifically designed to get rid of procrastination. In fact, we offer an unconditional lifetime guarantee that it will go away and never come back.
For more information please go to: http://recreateyourlife.com/store/procrastination-ed.php
Regards, Morty
There are no limits to what you may achieve except those you yourself believe and impose. If you are able to think it you are able to create it. Thank you universe.
Hi Lory,
Thanks for taking the time to write.
I agree, our biggest limitations are the ones we impose on ourselves.
Regards, Morty
I like to learn to let go and be patient to see things happen as it supposed to happen.
Hi Nikki,
Usually what keeps us from letting go are two things:
A bunch of negative self-esteem-type beliefs.
The sense that we are this body, this creation. Using the Who Am I Really? Process enables you to experience that you are creator the the creation, not merely the creation. In that space letter go is a lot easier.
Regards, Morty
I would like to create funding to provide an environmental information and comment web page to inform we the people of current choice technologies that restore both elements of life.
We can not continue burying waste in landfill sites that pollute our natural resources without the benefits of certified re mediation technology, We have been destroying both elements of life for decades, it’s time we either start to clean up the mess we have created and replace our current methods of disposing waste too methods that restore clean water and air.
To be pain-free so that I can enjoy life.
I would like to change the way I react to upsetting or stressful situations. I can be in the best mood and something unsettling can totally spin me out. I don’t want bad events to have control over my mood. Thanks for your help
Fix whatever keeps money and prosperity away from me. I’ve tried soooooo many modalities, it’s not funny any more
Love,
Ed
I’ve been depressed (on & off) my whole life. THe earliest depressive memory was when I was 2 yrs old. Depression effects people mentally, emotionally, spiritually & physically. I want to know how to beat this once and for all, so I can live life.
xoxo
Good morning, and thank you for everything you do
I am just starting to finally tell people what I think, but I wish I wasn’t so afraid of confrontation all of the time. For years, I kept my mouth shut when people would say or do something that would hurt my feelings, and in finding myself and gaining a bit of courage, I am finally standing up for myself. My problem is that I can’t talk to them face to face and say the things I want to say, so instead I write a letter. I feel the need to get everything off my chest but I dont like arguing, so I do it the ‘chicken out’ way. I wish I was able to just say what I felt at the time I felt it, and I’m working on it. I hope you all have a great day!
i would love to get rid of my insecure and gealous feelings i have and have had in all my relationships. The pattern needs to go that i have as i cannot enjoy and relax in my relationship. I am fixated that my partner always fancies other women whether its someone he has just met or his female friends. When im not with him im always thinking hes flirting with women and looking at other women and doesnt care too much for me.
Morty,
Is there any way for you to put your method on CDs? You could also put it on I-Tunes as well.
Hi Morty,
in the past I have purchased several “self-help” programs and I noticed myself either not using them or if I used them, they did not do anything for me.
The reason why I didn´t use some of them is a belief “this will not work” and this belief was also active when I used a system — so no wonder that I didn´t change.
I would love if you could adress this belief “this will not work (either)” or “nothing will work”.
It feels to me that “I know better”, I simply know that things will not work and it is not worth trying them, I´ll waste my time on them. I feel so strong that I am right about it that it´s almost impossible to give anything a fair chance to change/help me.
Hmm… I guess if anything would suceed in changing me that would mean I would have been wrong in the first place (with the belief that “this will not work) and this I can not allow to happen because I am the one who is right!!
Morty it seems that there is more than just one belief here, maybe a whole identity which needs to be changed.
Thanks for your comment on it.
I would like to change the way I react to upsetting or stressful situations. I can be in the best mood and something unsettling can totally spin me out. I don’t want bad events to have control over my mood. Thanks for your help
I would like to change my derfault mode of making others wrong when something does not go as I would like it to.
I guess, the thing I’d like to get rid of, is something like procrastination, but nor quite : it’s a real difficulty to go and do concrete things for myself. I’m able to do them for others, and I do not procrastinate (or maybe not as much?) when things are less real, less concrete. I mostly don’t do what I want to do when my action will bring a very concrete real consequence in my life (well or not, but since I don’t do, I don’t know).
It’s like I’m afraid of success instead of failure.
Thank you for creating your program and sharing it with us and the world.
I’d like to see something which would propel people–myself included–past the negative effects of bullying. With workplace bullying a pervasive problem and the economy working against those who try to escape, and given the refusal of schoolteachers to act against school bullying but penalizing those who defend themselves, this should sell. A high school boy just killed himself here from the effects of bullying. Can you help?
I would like to learn how to remove conditionings. Your book explains how to remove known limiting beliefs, and I’ve used this to huge effect, but I still don’t know how to remove conditionings beyond the four in the Natural Confidence course.
I have a severe eating disorder and I would love to eradicate it from life along with other addicitons. I want to stop having to eat ALL the time for reasons including: anger, upset, fear, anxiety, exhaustion and to avoid intimacy. I am bulimic with compulsive over eating tendencies.
I am so anxious all the time around food, I can’t stand food preparation and my life literally revolves around food obsessions. I am obsessed with weight trying to lose weight and the incredibly rigid beliefs that I can’t do anything while Im fat. IE. No one dates a fat person, fat people can’t have fun. No one likes fat people. I know how ridiculous it is but its wrecking my life! I have tried for years to get over my eating disorder, medication, gyms, trainers, dietician, psychologists but i keep eating when i get stressed and hiding food “in case Im starved”. (There is no physical threat of starvation either).
Any thing you could develop to help this problem would be great. Alot of people seem compulisivley over eat. Thank you.
I just want a job in shanghai.
It is so difficult for me to get a good job.
I am blue these days
I can’t find a purpose to my life that resonates with me. Nothing seems to excite me and call me for action. That’s what I want to change in my life.
Hi, Morty!
I have a sales job and I really suck at it. I seem to be a bit of a pushover sometimes. When some potential customers offer up their initial “not interested”, I say “OK!” and I zoom out the door.
The biggest change I’d like to make in my life right now is I’d like to be able to be just assertive enough to push beyond those initial reflex responses/objections from potential customers, but not so much as to come off as a jerk.
I am almost afraid of seeming pushy, and one thing I’ve noticed about me is that I like to be liked by others, and I don’t like confrontation or antagonism between me and others. I hope that helps you get some ideas for future programs
What I would like to change the most is how to communicate my knowledge to others in a meaningful and helpful way…in particular my children. I usually feel anxious and do not know what to say… Often I cannot read them…what they need or what they’re looking for when they come to me for help.
Thank you
Jacqueline
Hi Morty,
I’m working through Natural Confidence right now with great enthusiasm and encouraging results.
Having read your October post on food issues, I know that I should get some improvement in that area from Natural Confidence. But I’d love a whole program or maybe multiple programs that address certain dimensions on making unhealthy food choices and eating when you’re not hungry. In addition to beliefs you mentioned, I’m grappling with things like:
* I prefer the taste of junk food (high fat / salt / sugar) to fresh fruits and vegetables
* Healthy food doesn’t taste good
* I’ll never succeed in changing how I eat
I recognize that food is a complicated area as you discussed, but I think the potential for a product that works is huge and the positive benefit you would have in the world would be amazing.
More general and probably related to food as well as other areas:
* If I express emotions I will be rejected
* It is weak to have emotions
* It is a waste of time to think about your emotions
* Asking for help is a sign of weakness
…and finally I agree with others who are stuck on money and career
* I can’t make much money doing what I love
* Work has to be unpleasant. They call it “work” for a reason.
* I’m only as worthwhile as the money I earn (hoping to get some progress on that one via Natural Confidence)
Thanks, Morty! Great stuff.
Inspired,
Caryn
What would help me is to identify which limiting belief limits me most. I mean, working in which direction would give me the best results. For instance, with your free ofer I tried to eliminate the “I’m not good enough”, but I’m not even sure I had that belief. Maybe my belief is “I’m really good, but I can’t do anything with my talent, I just can’t see how I could be useful”. So a tool to understand which is the real belief that is holding you back would be really useful for me. Thank you Morty.
Hopelessness, pessimism, fear of chaos and disaster — I would like to change these negative beliefs about the nature of the world, not just about myself (you already offer help with a sense of powerlessness and worthlessness, which are related problems for me). A difficult childhood with both physically and psychologically abusive parents left me with a very sad and fearful world view, an idea that bad things are constantly lurking. To paraphrase an old saying: “A pessismist dies a thousand deaths, an optimist dies but one.” I’d like to be the optimist and aim for the happy ending.
Hi, I have a problem of finance . I live in Ethiopa,Addis to get a job i mean appropriate job is diffcult right now
i am my way to achive my Accounting degree, but the job market is not that much demanded.Anyway,Now i am dependnt of
my family for my well being.If you have anything please help me i am frustrated with my life.I am 37,i don’t have my
own income i mean i have no job.i have no relationship.Please give some idea to be positive towards life. sometimes
i feel like a victum of my childhood.
Thank you.
I would like to eliminate my limiting beliefs about money. I seem to still think that making money is difficult and that making money requires doing something that I don’t enjoy. But I have a suspicion that if I am aligned with my true purpose and using my unique abilities to their full capacity, the opposite would be true.
Thank you
@: For me the biggest belief issues are with finances and money. Here are some:
“I don’t know how to stay out of debt”
“I can’t handle money well”
“I can’t have the things I desire”
“I can never be wealthy”
“I can never have financial freedom”
Thanks Morty for your website. You are adding to the evolutionary impulse of the universe.
I’d like to change the way how I feel about my looks. I think I have a major negative belief about this issue that keeps me from working towards improving myself in this area.
iam a very confused person.some times i feel yes this is right and the nxt moment i feel its not the correct thing.iam totally confused.i can’t take any decision easily.i always hit my head to find the right solution for the problem, but i couldn,t do it.what should i do.
Hello,
if you could cure my fear of approaching woman, that would be great.
Volker
I am interested in busting through the belief that I can’t make good income doing creative, fun artistic work or that the jobs that pay well are boring, restricive and unfulfilling.. I also want to bust the belief that financially successful people are different from me.
Thank you for all you do!!!
Hi there i keep getting whats left
Over no one ever puts me first and the work that i do have done is never right there is always flaws in everything people do for me so i end up with not being able to move on say i have a little bit of money i ask someone to do something to help my career and they always mess it up or its incomplete not to mention my marriage which i have felt second or third in and my parents who always put me less than first my dad even said once that if there was a fire i would have saved my mum first because they could always have more kids so no wonder i never get put first after this and i cant seem to move on at 50 poor and stuck and terrified
I also noticed the relationship issues people brought up. I’m wondering if these beliefs may resonate with people:
“I’m afraid that my partner will cheat on me”
“I can’t trust anyone”
“People disappoint me”
“People hurt me”
Ooh, I like the first responder’s answer – jealousy. I forgot about that one. (How cool to forget, means progress, right?
A lot of people are mentioning money beliefs, I noticed. Here are a few:
- “I’m not good with money”
- “I struggle financially”
- “Wealthy people are different than me”
- “I could never have those things”
- “I will never get to where I want to be financially”
Great question, thank you for asking it!
my jealousy? … i dunno but in this relationship i am in i feel jealous about my girl friend alot.. when any guy walks towards her i start to feel annoyed, i dunno how to describe how i feel inside, but i definitely wanna reduce that
I would like to change the patterns I have had in relationships whereby the relationship degenerates into something which is power based and all the men I have been with in one way or another have undermined me and have had anger issues. I have been way too passive and have stayed in situations that were of no real benefit to me. I also haven’t reached a deep connectedness with a partner and wonder if I have issues with intimacy and vulnerability. Often in relationships I fear that my mate will loose interest in me and this has played itself out.
I think a lot of people share some common limiting beliefs surround money and wealth.
Morty
I dont want to change anything you see I came here to experience so many particular things and thats just what I am doing…yes I had probs as a child …but hey I chose my parents to be exactly who I am. My life is perfect just the way it is.
I m so grateful for all I am learning… I am so grateful for all that I have
I give thanks every day for my life …cant wait for my next adventure
love Karyn
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Hi Sanjay,
Thanks for taking the time to post on our blog.
We have a program that we guarantee will significantly increase your confidence and ability to express yourself.
For details go to http://recreateyourlife.com/store/natural-confidence.php
If you have any questions, please let me know. Feel free to call me if you’d like: 415-884-0552.
Regards, Morty
I am in a situation that I have been trying to resolve for a long time. A friend introduced me to Mike a few years ago. We became friends and did things together but I wouldn’t consider it “dating”. Mike has been a kind friend to me and helped me out a lot. He is, however,in love with me and I do not feel the same about him. I have explained this to him repeatedly yet he insists on calling me his girlfriend and tells me he loves me even though I do not respond with the same to him. He is happy staying in one place with his life and it feels like I have a huge rock hanging around my neck where he is concerned. I do not want to hurt him so the situation isn’t changing but it sure needs to change. When I told him I didn’t feel the same way he does, he said “that’s ok”. I need help in getting him on the right track so he isn’t inhibiting me so much. How can I compassionately tell him to move on?
Hi Katrine,
We already have a program that we guarantee will stop you from worrying about what others think of you.
Glad to hear that our work has been making a difference in your life.
Regards, Morty
Stop worrying what other people might think about you. Stop limiting beliefs. These are unfortunately big issues for me, but hopefully the Lefkoe method can help me in the future with the above. It already has ; )
Hi Rod,
I’m thrilled that eliminating only one belief made such a difference for you and your daughter.
I don’t mean this to be a sales pitch, but most of what you’re talking about could be relieved, if not totally eliminated, by our Natural Confidence program that helps you eliminate 23 basic beliefs and conditionings.
We have been offering a Money Package but although the five beliefs are eliminated if you do this program, there don’t appear to be enough of a change in attitude about money to keep it on the market. We probably will revise it at some point and bring it back.
Thanks for your interest in our work.
Regards,Morty
Thank you for your work so far! Not only did I experience a great and sudden change from your “I’m not good enough” program but I also asked my 11 yr old daughter to try the “Mistakes are Bad” session. She’s a new person…confident, decisive…it worked like a charm. Again, my most sincere thanks.
After reading the above posts, I share a few of the issues presented, specifically regarding money consciousness… I have struggled with it for years, read books, attended seminars, used affirmations, self-hypnosis, re-birthing, you name it I’ve tried it…still seem stuck somehow. So that would be a good topic to create a specific product for.
This next one is not as easily identified or verbalized… as far back as I can remember I have felt as if there was a membrane enveloping me, keeping me just out of reach with my goals. I work hard, get results, then things fall apart (self-sabotage, I’m sure) but why? A suppressed guilt, feelings of unworthiness, perhaps (but I really do feel I’m good enough now)– it’s simply maddening that I see other people go from poverty mindset and change their mindset to one that allows them to overcome all obstacles, yet try as I might that same process seems to elude me. I need to break through whatever the ‘membrane’ is, so I can set an example for my children rather than feeling as if I’m always the one who needs to ask favors or borrow money from others. I’m way too capable to be in this hand-to-mouth state…and it causes me to feel ashamed of my current situation. I need to celebrate my victories, not feel ‘less than’.
I hope that makes some sense to you. As I said, it is very hard to verbalize exactly.
Thanks again for all you’re ding to make this world a better place one person at a time.
First ofall thank u very much for running such a good programme.I have a problem of self expressing. I also lack in cofidence building.
Thanks once again,
Sanjay Negi
Dear Morty,
I had already asked for a program
about my need:
I critisize everything around me, both positively or negatively. In the later I get angry when others opinion does not meet mine.
So far no reponse from you. Have you?
Truly Joee
I have a fear of regret. That I must be very careful of what I do and the decisions that I make or I will grow to regret my life and dispise myself. There is no basis for this fear because I have not regretted even my most horrible mistakes because they brought me to this point, but I still fear it.
I would like to change the faulty programming that caused me to lose two of my children and continue to have failure with the legal system working to irradiate prejudice against me and financial complications that keep me from pursuing this venture . I am compelled to change the AZ laws against Child protective services. I need to have them changed to bring my now adoptive children home. More than twenty regulations that CPS were to follow were not met or were falsely reported by CPS. I am dealing with legal ramifications due to all of this. I need assistance both monetarily and legally to continue my plight. I know this is mine to take responsibility for, but it was not mine as to why it happened to me.Any assistance will be greatly appreciated. Thank You in advance. I love you and peace be with you.
I need to grow the balls to leave my girlfriend of 15 years; she doesn’t understand money and refuses to even confront the issue. I’ve tied speaking to her, but her respnse is that my blood sugar is low, or i’m just being mean. The problem is she’s so not in touch, she’ll be homeless within weeks and my natural compassion is making me feel guilt.
Dear Morty,
I tried to stop 2 of the offered beliefs: “mistakes … are bad”, and “I am not important” – just to understand your method, but these were not really my beliefs.
It will help if you can offer overcoming my really disturbing belief that:
I criticize every body and anything but myself, both positively and negatively, because I am confident about my views and ideas, which proved correct most of the times. Therefore I get angry and quarrel with people having different ideas. Therefore I have not many friends, and cannot find my matching woman, even tried many.
I hope you will find this as an issue for a specific program, for which I could not find an offer in your lists.
Thank you,
Joee
financial fears
There are so many beliefs one has and 23 on offer is just the tip of the ice burg. I noticed that each belief program follows a very similar structure.
Now this would enable a template approach where one is asked specific questions, types the answers and the result is a personalised belief buster type application. The financial model would be intresting – maybe own the application like any other where updates were sold, or one payed and used it online or even a SAAS model.
Also for your technique to really get globle attention it needs to be able to be accessed by the masses. What would be great would be a steped process one goes through with ones self, an online question answer process or even a directed process with the aid of a companion to be able to identify ones belief structure. I know you often say it takes a trained fascilitator to do this, but a DVD or book if structured in the right way could surely deliver a positive result. Even if the answer is : Most likely negative beliefs.
Another possible way of packaging your beliefs is under Mental Illness. Ie Anxiety – social, performance, general, panic etc. Everybody in this world gets labeled at one point and so is looking for answers under these labels – this would also be a great way to direct more traffic to your site as people who are seeking answers and help if asociate themselves with a mental illness are much more likely to purchase.
P.S I think this internet prospective client interaction model is very powerful – find out what people want and give it to them – simple yet very clever.
One of my friends is constantly saying, “It might work for you, but nothing works for me.” Do you have something that deals with victim consciousness?
First of all, thank you so much, Morty for your amazing program. I cannot recall when somebody made such profound impact on the way I look at life and myself.
I’ve read the other answers and if I may say, I think all of us here need to hear more of the “I’m not good enough” podcast. I personally think all of my problems originate from that single belief. Just like Mr. Lefkoe, I didn’t know what was standing in my way of true freedom and success. I think he finally revealed it to me.
There is no silver bullet for our problems, in my case, I need to let certain truths sink in, meditate about the ways I went about life.
I thought of beliefs that I would like to eliminate and so many things came to my mind ( fear, anxiety, useless perfectionism, to name a few) but I’ve realized all of them come from one single belief that I’m not good enough. I can’t believe how repressed that belief was and how well hidden it’s been all these years. I would lie if I said that belief is gone overnight but just knowing what’s been standing in my way for so long is half way there:)
Good luck to all of you and thank you again from the bottom of my heart, M.L.!
i would like to sell my artwork. I love doing it but very difficult to find market. My work I would catogorize as “Slow Art”. In this fast world the problem is slowing people down long enough to expirience thae value of the work. in fact I beleive the value of slow art is that it does slow you down in the right way. How to market this. The making and selling of art seem opposite.
Feeling that my best years are behind me — and they weren’t even that good! Fear that other people’s age discrimination will prevent me from getting what I want in job and relationships, and I can’t control other people so why bother?
I would really like some help with procrastination.The feeling like the task at hand might be overwhelming so you do Nothing at all. Need more motivation. I want to be excited and eager to get things done, instead I do nothing and then fear peoples judgement about not getting anything done.—–Also have LOTS of limiting beliefs about money—and last have lots of fears about being judged by people—it’s almost like I’ve become a recluse because I feel like if people knew the real me they wouldn’t like me and really I know thats silly, but it true for me. I feel like I’m different even tho I know I’m not
Thank you very much for offering help to people which I hope will help me too.
My biggest problem is that whenever I feel happy because something (be it romantic relationships or money)is going smoothly in my life all of a sudden I am confronted with a blockage and things seem to go downwards. Can it be because I do not feel lovable and have a fear of rejection? Is there any hope for me to reverse this situation? I should reall be very happy if you would help me.
Hi Morty,
Thank you for all your help. Like Vikki’s comment above, I am plagued by the addiction of bulimia. I have been sober for 28 years and can’t seem to keep abstinent of overeating and vomiting. Is there something we can do?
What would you like to change about your life? Great question. Much more challenging to answer. I believe that I what I would like to change most in my life to have more confidence, faith, belief, trust when attempting to manifest and attract what I desire into my life. To be able to quiet my negative doubts and quit making excuses about why my life isn’t working and celebrate the reasons is a miracle.
I need HELP with substance abuse….I suffer with the dis-ease of addiction…smoking, gambling, drugs, drinking,it’s always one of the above at any given time…please advise
Thanks….Vikki
how to access unconscious beliefs
Morty fear of rejection is the big one I find for several groups 1. Sales. 2. Dating. 3. Socially in general.Your Thoughts?
experiencing and expressing uncontrolled anger
and specific relationship issues such as lack of hope in improvement (fear of owning and being in one’s own power)
fear of violent / non violent confrontation,
You have done an excellent job of recreating a piece of the Forum in an amazingly succinct manner.I “got it” in a way I never did originally. I forgot all about it and still need to brush off the cobwebs from the 80′s. I don’t think I ever worked on it with beliefs and specific problems but rather from specific events. In any case, I am looking for some real results which I have not been able to create up to now and I think your program might be the next piece of the puzzle for me. Once I get a little money together, I will purchase your program. The question is “Will I need to do your program in order to “get a little money together?”
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Thank you so very much for helping me get rid of a limiting belief. There are no words to descibe this.
My desire is for a program to help me with money beliefs. I don’t know that would be the answer to end all my problems…but I do struggle with money. I have read alot of different books and yes, even gotten programs all supposed to help me. I am fairly intelligent and yet there is never enough money to go around. I am now seeing an abundance of money from expected and unexpected places, showing up…yet, I am still stuck. I have plans for an internet biz but don’t do anything…or it is too hard and will take too long(I think) Yet, I am stuck. WHAT should I work on first?
Firstly, I would like to thank you for producing and sharing a fabulous programme that is not only fascinating and powerful, but free. I am in the depths of very debilitating debt, and am living on a prayer at the moment. So thank you so much.
For myself, a future programme on the fear of letting people get close to you. The fear of letting yourself go to the experiance and trusting that it will be OK. The fear of being loved. Another programme would be on not allowing the thoughts of others to stunt your choices and your brilliance. Jealousy is a cunning constraint on our pysche.
Thank you
I tied one of your 3: not good enough, in the late evening. Early morning had a sort of waking-dream where I watched an animated drawing of a little girl striding along confidently in a pretty dress with a sash. I noticed a number of traits about her, all seemed OK; I thought, there’s nothing wrong with this kid, she’s been fixed. Because she was an animated drawing, yet “me”, and the “fixed” characteristics were in printed sucinct phrases, I recognized this as reflecting your mini-program.
Very interesting!
I would suggest a fear to fix as a new program: the fear of annihilation. Sound extreme? I live in an old house in eastern France, a region that was occupied during the war. A few years ago a geo-biologist as they are called here, helped some of the stuck “ghosts” to become free of this fear and and the house feels entirely different since, and I am more at ease.
This is the fear that came to mind when you asked. Jews, even though French citizens, had to hide, if they could, in order not to be annihilated, and as no one knew for sure who was a colaborator, just carrying on with business-as-usual was uncertain for ordinary villagers too….the Colective Subconscious has a lot of that left I think.
I also notice in myself that when I experience anger directed towards me from someone I can’t escape(father, husband) I feel it in an exaggerated way: as an annihilation intention that (normally) won’t be carried out. When in middle school Latin class we learned that in ancient Rome the father, Pater Familias, had the legal, religious & cultural right of life & death over his children. I immediately thought “how lucky not to be living with my father then, I’d have to be so carefull because I’d risk a lot more than a spanking!
So your innocent little program has brought up a lot of insights on what to clear! It gives me leads that I can follow through on with TAT & EFT also. Very compatible techniques with your process.