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Morty Lefkoe
Hi, I don’t know ……i don’t think this is working “I am not important” my mother left me and 3 other siblings when I was 2 from there on life was ruff my dad said i was not his child so i did not have a father or a mother. (other kids spend time with him) I was abuse in every single way you can think of, grandparent, children homes, faster parents that did not care. My believe is if your MUM dont want you or you not important to her then how the heck can you be important to anyone or thing in the world. I found my mum when i was in my 20 and she was still not intrested in me, she got married when she left us and had a life with no children -no one knew she had 5 children till 18 years later that i pop in to her life. Your program can work for those that and a OK life with parents but you tell me how do you not believe you not important, you are loved. when you were abandoned by your mother, were abuse by people that said they care about you!!! not possible pal!!!
I am so thankful for the wonderful work you are doing in the lives of many especially me,nothing so profound have i felt lifted away from me when i listened to your commentary on recreate your life.com.it is as if what i have been searching for some decade and half years has been given to me within some minutes,the truth about my low self esteem.thank you so much for making me know that you understand and even share the same limiting belief i grew up with.I am free now thanks to you.
Best Regards
Kwesi Kwatia.
Hi Kwesi,
Thanks for sharing your wonderful experience of eliminating a belief.
And if you think getting rid of one was exciting, wait till you eliminate all the beliefs that cause a problem in your life — and you see the beliefs and the problems just dissolve.
Regards, Morty
Hi Morty,
I have already eliminated 4 beliefs and I really feel quite different. I have been studying this kind of stuff for several years and I believe that your method does a great job. I’d like to mention though that I also do some emotional release after the process, because even after I change a belief I still find emotional charges around the subject which could potentially reinforce my habitual patterns. For that same reason I also like to go slow, which each belief so I can really become aware of the difference between the new and the old possibilities.
One question I have left here: Since I have been working with people who have these extremly self-destructive patterns, I like to know if you have a program that starts out with the kinds of beliefs like ” this stuff won’t work for me, nobody can help me, people don’t understand how hurt I am, ….” ???
Hi Doris,
The closest belief we have to what you discuss is Change is difficult. If people have other variations they need to handle we would need to help them get rid of them in one-on-one sessions.
Regards, Morty
Thank you for offering some of these for free. I am a bit skeptical in general (well, impatient is really the word… grins) and am going through a big life change right now. I tried out one of the free processes yesterday and, as if on cue, had the “opportunity” to experience a new way of handling things…an aquaintance treated me in a very disrespectful, rude way. In the past I would have internalized that and felt like a terrible person. Instead, I respectfully “called” them on their behavior and knew that I didn’t deserve that treatment …and inside I really *knew* that I am inherently a good person and not bad.
and, very oddly, immediately the person, the same person who was angry and treated me poorly, wanted to be friends (not sure I do, but hey… 🙂 ) the whole event felt much different than any similar event in the past. I wasn’t afraid to stand up for myself–and, very importantly, I did so from a place of loving and respecting myself, rather than simply to attack another defensively. ego wasn’t involved.
Hi Chris,
Thanks for sharing your experience of eliminating one belief.
And if you think that was impressive, wait until you eliminate all the beliefs that cause a specific problem and the problem disappears along with the beliefs.
Let me know.
Regards, Morty
Hi Morty, I am going to purchase the Natural Confidence program…are the streaming videos and the dvd’s the exact same thing. or would I need both to have the complete program?
Thanks
Jen
Hi Jennifer,
They are the same program. If you don’t need a hard copy, the streaming video should give you all you need. But for the streaming video you need an Internet connection.
Please let me know what you think of the program after using it.
Regards, Morty
I have to say that I was impressed with the method. I worked on “I’m not good enough”, but with a slightly different take. And what you walk us through is stuff that I know intellectually, but somehow your process made it really click for the first time. However, I did not feel certain that I had eliminated the belief. In thinking about it, I realized that the reason is that there are a number of unhealthy and self-defeating behaviors that are a result of the belief. Since I am not sure whether these have disappeared, I am not sure whether the belief is really gone. But I do feel that I have a handle on the behaviors now and even thought they might not have magically disappeared, I do feel that I will be able to discard them. Now when they come up automatically, I can look at them logically (I hope–we will see) and see that they came from I belief that I no longer believe.
What has been your experience with this issue of getting rid of the related behaviors once you get rid of the beliefs?
Thanks very much for the opportunity to try this out. I’m sold!
Hi Tamar,
Thanks for taking the time to write with your question.
Most behavior or emotional problems are caused by many beliefs, therefore, getting rid of one will rarely solve a problem. So you can’t determine if a single belief is gone by waiting to see if there is a change in behavior, because there rarely will be.
If you eliminate all the beliefs that cause a specific problem, then you will know they are all gone because the problem will be gone too.
Take a look at our store and see what beliefs cause eight of the most common problems people have: http://recreteyourlife.com/store
In the meantime the way to know a belief is gone is that it no longer feels true.
Regards, Morty
I grew up in a very dysfunctional home, my dad was an alcoholic and hardly ever home to help mom, they divorced and my sisters and i lived with mom. Mom was always on my case saying i never did things right, coming up behind me telling me i was doing my chores wrong, while my sisters, who are twins, got the praise and positive attention, i got the negative, and verbal, emotional and physical abuse. She’d say your just like your dad in negative ways, then said why can’t you be like your sisters? Mom has never respected me my entire life, never listens to me even now as an adult. She has it in her head her way is the onlly way of doing anything and my sisters are the same way as mom. they are control freaks who refuse to let me handle my own life. they recently helped me move and refused to allow me to run how i wanted things everything in my life always has to be their way yet my way is always wrong in their eyes yet who’s life am i living, mine, or theirs? they never listen to me they ignore my feelings and poohpooh them as if insignificant my entire life. yet in their eyes their way is the only way of doing anything. My entire family has a habit of telling me what to do, how to do it and if i rearrange my home my way i get criticised yet who lives here me, or them? i don’t go to their homes and dictate how they run their lives or homes, what gives them the right to do that to me? mom has said to me many times that my way of thinking is screwed up yet who’s the one who never wants to listen or learn from her daughter? I’ve had different therapists who have said i am stuck and i do blame my mom for that because she herself is stuck on treating me as if i’m 2 years old my entire life, and that’s unhealthy. I’m so damn sick of her excuses and ignorance to her own behavior, she blames everyone else but herself for her mistakes, and my sisters are the same.I’m 45 years old on disability and mom acts like i’m incompetent to do anything without her interference. she is like a helicopter mom and she refuses to back off. it’s as if she’s trying to make up for crap when i was a kid but i resent her constant meddling, i have tried to set boundaries since i was a kid but noone in the family respects me or my rights as a human being. they refuse to accept that i’m not their doormat. they treat me as if i’m retarded yet they are the ones who are unwilling to learn anything from me. mom is always complaining about dad to me and that’s wrong, and unhealthy. she heard dr phil on tv say never badmouth the ex to your kids yet that’s exactly what she did after dr phil said it. she acts like i’m retarded yet i think she’s the one who is. she doesn’t want to accept that her way is not the only way and she is always criticising how everyone else does things, not just me. recently she said that she thinks it’s dumb for her sisters son to have another kid with his wife, she thinks just ‘cus her sister had 2 everyone else should only have 2 kids. why can’t she realize it’s none of her business how many kids other people have, it’s not her decision. where does she get off trying to control everything and everyone else’s business when she can’t control her own mouth or life? she acts like she has a say in everyones elses business and she has no right to be so damn nosy. she has been divorced from dad for 35 years or so and yet she is still expecting him to pay for my 2 sisters weddings that were over 20 years ago. and she knows he’s never going to pay, if he can’t give me $20 for my typewriter when he asked me how much i wanted $20 what makes her think he’s going to fork out thousands of dollars? he only gave me $10. and she knows he was lousy at paying child support. she is living in a dream world if she thinks he’s gonna change .
Hi Carla,
It sounds like you’ve certainly had a difficult life. Yet the major problem you have today is not your family’s behavior, but the meaning you are giving their behavior.
One of the major meanings seems to be I’m powerless, and that is having a major impact on your life. When you change the meanings (get rid of the beliefs), I promise you will see a dramatic change in your life — no matter what your family does or doesn’t do.
Thanks for taking the time to share your story.
Regards, Morty
Dear Morty,
Thanks, yes i do have a problem letting go and i think i learned that from mom, which isn’t a good thing to teach your kids. She is always in my head saying negative stuff and i don’t know how to block it. she has taught me so many of the wrong things when i was a kid, such as that I’m supposed to care what everyone thinks. and that my way of doing things is never right.
What makes her think her way is the only way of doing things? she has told me many times that she has self esteem problems and yet she refuses to do anything to change her insecurities all the while teaching me to be an emotional mess, taking her adult problems out on me and that’s not right, yet she doesn’t want to listen to me, she treats me as if i’m dumb yet she’s the dumb one. Ever since i was little i have tried to get her to sit down and talk about issues and such yet she denied we ever had any problems, yet she’d be on the phone for hours whining to her sisters or her friends and neglecting our kids’s needs.
I learned to play the blame game from her and i know that’s wrong, yet noone in my family, but me takes any responsibility for my actions (does this make sense)?and behavior. Mom was so desperate to have any man in her pathetic life while she was so insecure, she chose men that i hated and at that time i didn’t want any man around since dad wasn’t a consistent father, what gave her the right to put men before her kids anyway? she even dragged an uncle into our business trying to control me, and her boyfriend Russell who i hated and resented physically mandandled me forcing me into the car when he had no right to touch me in any way. And yet Russell and i had talked when i was 21 years old and he told her she was harming me emotionally but she didn’t listen to him. she said i wasn’t ready to move outy on my own at 21 and that is wrong to hold me back like that. i had to move out behind her back and she threw that in my face after all these years when i moved recently. what the hell is she bringing that up for when i needed to get away from her negative unhealthy clutches , she was making me crazy and still does.. it’s as if she refuses to let me grow up and be my own person. and that’s selfish and destroying me mentally, emotionally. my entire family doesn’t respect me and that’s wrong, yet they taught me not to respect them. why should i respect anyone who tries to control everyone else’s life but their own? during the christmas blizzard of 2009 mom was calling me constantly nand she had never done that before, and i told her to quit calling me and what does she do she called me more.what the hell is her problem? why can’t she listen and respect my wishes? and my sisters are making excuses like her now saying she’s old yet they treat her like crap just like they treat me like crap and they themselves don’t respect anyone or my boundaries. then they preach to me to respect theirs. they are hypocrites and bullies all of them.
Mom blamed me for chasing one guy away, and yet she should have realized she can’t force a man into our lives just cus she’s lonely, we kids should have come first, or am i wrong? the 1 guy she did have in her life for 13 years was a creep and i told her so, i didn’t like him and i could tell he was a bad man but she ignored my warnings, well she was with him all that time and she learned the hard way that i was right, yet she said i refused to listen to her about an ex friend of mine and she was right about her as well.
to this day mom is still trying to mold me the way she wants me to be(exactly like her), and i think it’s way to late to teach me what i should have been taught as a kid, and she teaches me the wrong crap. She is so very negative and a downer, always complaining and whining to get her own way. and what kind of example is that to teach your kids?
My sisters are abusive to me as well just like mom, always telling me what to do, how to act and behave, and it’s not their place, they are my sisters Not my mother, and mom always makes excuses that they are trying to be the boss well why didn’t she teach them what their place was in my life when we were kids, why let them trample all over me just like mom does? they were almost 2 years old when i was born and to this day i think my sisters AND mom behave as if they are 2 years old and i’m the adult (kind of) it took me many many years to mature and i had to get away from them to grow up yet they have such a sick hold on me when i’m around them.
Maybe if she would have sat down and talked to me like a human being instead of treating me like a doormat and a puppet, i probably wouldn’t have had anger issues. when i was 16 i ran away from home and that made things worse yet it didn’t get her to wise up and pay attention to my emotional needs she only cared about her own. and that i embarrased her and the family. i thought that would have knocked some sense into her but as always she dug her head in the sand. she and my sisters are always condemning me for dwelling on stuff yet mom always brings up stuff herself. why can’t they see i learned all this crap from them, and i’m the one who has been in therapy for years and i still can’t seem to get away from my family in every way.
they have such a sick hold on me even when i have no contact with them , but it’s much worse when i do. like when they were helping me move to my new place there was no discusssing anything on how things were to be done, as always it had to be their way and i got pushed around and expected to be in 5 places at once. and they know damn well i don’t have a car and they expected me to go get boxes by city bus which costs money.my entire family treats me as if i’m incompetent or incapable to do anything right and they say my way is always wrong. well has it never occurred to them my home should be done MY way NOT theirs? my sister arranged my kitchen her way and never asked me where i wantyed things. they keep giving me crap i don’t wanty or need like furniture and organization bins. then they go snooping in my stuff and tell me i shouldn’t have things the way i have them. but as i said before who the hell lives here them or me? they are thin and i am overweight and they can’t see that their pressures on me have made me anxious and depressed and fat. i became an emotional eater cus i was always picked on at home and at school then they verbally abuse me telling me to get off my fat ass and go do something yet when i did do stuff it was never right anyway. so why bother? what gives skinny people the right to badger and dictate how a heavy set person lives when they are the reason i have these problems, yes in do play the blame game myself thanks to them teaching me,but at least i put it where it belongs. during the spring flood of 2009 my siter demanded i staY AT HER HOUSE saying it was mandatory and she treated me like shit, always on my back about something, i had no privacy and she was always monitoring my food and beverage intake ffs i’m 45 years old not 2 and NOT her kid. what gives her the right to force me to lose weight on her terms when it’s not her body or business? then instead of asking me nicely she screamed at me to wash the bedsheets. i tell you if i ever had a house and had her visit i would not treat her that way. i couldnt even have a drink of watter or cup of hot chocolate without her coming downstairs asking me what i was doing going through her cupboards, well i didn’t want to be there so deal with it and leave me alone. then she expected me to take care of her dog when i was taking care of my cat inthe basement.. she and my family havfe a bad bad habit of bossing me around expecting me to play carla doormat my entire life and if i say no i get abused. oh i forgot to tell u 1 year both sisters ganged up on me physically and emotionally just cus i told one of them to back offand let me be. i was in the bathroom taking care of a stain on a shirt and 1 sis barged in and decided i needed help which i didn’t and i got mad cus she pushed me aside and started treating me as if i couldnt do anything for myself,like a 2 year old yet at other times they tell me to act like an adult.
that’s what ticks me off they baby me and i get mad then they want me to be an adult. why can’t they see they can’t have it both ways and they screw with my head. they can’t sem to realize even 2 year olds need to learn to do things on their own, not be smothered like they smother me, they are usually out of my life for long periods at a time but when i have any contact my entire life gets turned upside down and i wind up upset and messed up for days. both sisters refuse to respect my requests of sticking to my birthday and christmas lists they still keep giving me crap i don’t need and will never use and they say why follow your stupid lists and i said becaUSE IT’S PRACTICAL. why give me a makeup bag when i don’t wear makeup why keep giving me lotions and shower gel when i tell them i’m allergic to it.they just don’t listen yet expect me to put up or shut up. i’m always in a damn battle of control with them and i can never seem to win. they are narcisstic controlling abussive bitches who want everything their own way with no regard to anyone else’s needs or desires.
please do one for I don’t deserve any thing good or to be happy
Hi Brent,
As I just told Robert below, you can get I’m not deserving as part of a package of five limiting money beliefs. If you are interested, please call Karen at 415-884-0552.
I’ll make a note of the other belief you’d like us to make available on-line. We might create some more next year.
We do offer one-on-one phone sessions where we help people eliminate whatever specific beliefs are a problem for them.
Regards, Morty
i’m suddenly feeling surge of positive energies all over my body as if there is nothing to be afraid of which i believe it’s true.
Best Regards.
Hi Kwesi,
Yes, eliminating a belief results in all kinds of exciting things, including a surge of positive energies.
Thanks for sharing your experience.
Regards, Morty
What I have seen so far seems good. Thank you for allowing us the chance to try your products. Pity you don’t cover I don’t deserve any thing good
Hi Robert,
I’m glad you have found our work useful.
We do have a package of five limiting money beliefs, including I’m not deserving. It currently is not on the market, but if you are interested, call Karen at 415-884-0552 and she can tell you how to get it.
Regards, Morty
im sry..i forgot to say thank you earlier
hi,
im a student in india.im 18 years old. ur belief busting system is fantastic.i busted my belief”im not good enough” yesterday. i never thought that i could feel better in jus around 35 min. i wish i could bust all my beliefs.but i cant but your program.cn u plz help me to get rid of all my beliefs?PLEASE
Hi Aisvarya,
Go back to http://recreateyourlife.com and eliminate a couple more beliefs. And we will send you a link to one more.
Good luck.
Regards, Morty
Hi Morty,
Thank-you for helping me rid myself of the “I’m not good enough ” belief. I have felt more positive about my abilities and self worth in the last few days. I feel my issues stem from comparing myself with my super confident and successful sister who I felt my parents must also have been comparing me with. I look forward to seeing how my life will change and would love to bust another belief.
Thanks again
Jill
Hi Jill,
Life rarely changes much from eliminating only one belief. When you eliminate all the beliefs that cause a specific problem, the entire problem disappears.
Go back to http://recreateyourlife.com and eliminate a couple more. And if you want to get rid of a bunch of beliefs and specific problems in your life, check out http://recreateyourlife.com/store.
Please keep me informed as you eliminate more beliefs.
Regards, Morty
Hi Morty, I often wondered about the beliefs that are associated with someone that is afraid to travel and be far from home. It causes lots of anxiety and panic for me to travel..I know there are some safety beliefs but not real sure…have you had experience with this?
Thank you
Jen
Hi Jen.
Without talking to you it’s hard to know exactly what beliefs might be involved. It could even be conditioning from your childhood. Fear associated with being lost, or something like that.
I’m sure we could find the beliefs and conditionings, but I’m not sure what they are without being able to ask a lot of questions.
Sorry I couldn’t be more help.
Regards, Morty
Hi Morty. I am so thankful for your response. I am thinking it is associated with social anxiety. With fears that I might be out in public and start having anxiety and fear that I could not get to a familiar and private safe place to ease the anxiousness. I am going to get your natural confidence package and see if that helps, or should I get the social anxiety package. Your amazing to take the time to respond to all of us. Jen
Hi Jen,
I’d recommend the Natural Confidence package as it contains all the beliefs and conditionings necessary to handle social anxiety, plus a few more. That package should handle your problem.
Please let me know how you are feeling after you complete the program.
Regards, Morty
For the Natural Confidence Program..which one should I get. What is the difference between and DVD and Streaming video?
Hi Morty,
This program is fantastic! I’m up to belief # 15 or so. It’s just amazing how our beliefs are so “temporary”. I mean from a little child to adult. We can NOW make that correction (sort of speak) to the reality, “Who am I really” which I think is one of the keys to the whole program. It puts the whole thing in perspective. I really had the experience from a deep level.
I’m looking forward to doing the conditioning exercises involving fear . These are the ones that may be the most difficult for me, being in front of people, trying new things, all fear related. Anyway, thanks again so much. I’ll let you know how the rest of the program goes.
kind regards,
Dave
Hi Dave,
Thanks for letting us know how useful our Natural Confidence program has been for you.
Please let us know what happens to your fear when you complete the program. I don’t think you will have any difficulties with the de-conditioning program.
Regards, Morty
First and foremost THANK YOU!,
I thought I was confident before so I grab the course just to see how it worked. I starting doing them , I did first one and when i said the belief, I could feel the charge inherent in it.I thought wow really. At the finish of the first belief, when we repeat the belief it was dead, no charge whatsoever. It was more observing the belief as if someone else said it not me believing it. That moment I was hooked.
I could not stop, I did the first 5 beliefs in a day. Each day I did 4-5 beliefs.
I love it. I dont really know what I had before the course, it was not the confidence I thought. But now I feel deep inside a calm assurance, a swagger if you will. I am walking taller, chin up giving eye contact without instructing myself to. Before I would say to myself ” you gotta make eye contact”..etc there is no little voice telling me to act confident; it is just what I do now. I just am Now.
They say when the student is ready the teacher will appear, I guess I was ready!
Thank you once again,
Giorgio
Hi Giorgio,
Yeah! It is so exciting to hear people’s success stories. Thanks for sharing yours with us.
I guess you were ready.
Regards, Morty
I just saw this on stumbleupon and thought it was pretty funny (tongue-in-cheek):
http://www.richardsreader.com/morty-lefkoe-wants-to-talk-to-you/
Hi Kelsey,
Thanks for forwarding it. It’s great.
Regards, Morty
Thank you for these exercises! As I’m going through the process I’m having a hard time remembering exact experiences or memories when I felt these beliefs; it’s more of a feeling for me. How does that affect the process?
Hi Vanessa,
As long as you have a sense of the source of a belief, the process usually works. There really is no single exact experience anyway. It is a series of events. A sense of what your life was like.
Ultimately, only you know the answer. Is the belief eliminated?
Regards, Morty
Morty,
I just completed the free program on Mistakes and failure are bad. I was skeptical at first that these feelings could be eliminated in the time you claimed. I was wrong. I’ve felt bad about myself and my personal dreams and goals since I was a child(I’m 52) and have used various self help programs to eliminate my fears. When I did the program, I felt as if the dirt was clearing away from the diamond beneath. My whole life I’ve thought there has to be something better. Now I know there is something better and I am the creator of it. I’ve always wanted to be a published writer, but my fear of making mistakes and thinking I’m a failure before I even started has held me back. Now, I am ready to go! Thank you from the bottom of my heart. As Shakespeare said, “Our remedies oft in ourselves do lie.”
Hi Lauren,
I’m so excited that our program freed you up to start writing.
There may be some other beliefs holding you back. If so, get rid of them the same way.
Regards, Morty
And example in the Money Belief Busting program really hit home for me! The example given had to do with attributing meaning to the “rain”.
20 years ago, when my bride and I were married, we had a simple, beautiful Buddhist wedding with family at a forest ranger cabin high in the Colorado mountains. The sky opened up with rain all morning; and then suddenly, there was this little :30 minute break in the clouds — like a smoke ring surrounding a patch of blue sky. We had our ceremony and celebrated after in the cabin while the downpour resumed!
At the same scheduled time, friends of ours had an outdoor wedding in town, and it rained on their morning as well. Sadly, when we next got together, our friends could only talk about how their wedding was “ruined” by the rain.
For us, the rain was the perfect gift on an absolutely, lifelong, beautiful day!
Hi Malcolm,
Thanks for posting.
Yes, events have no inherent meaning. Our lives are run by the meaning we give meaningless events.
Regards, Morty
Dear Mr. Lefkoe,
I thought you did an outstanding job of negative belief busting – something I have never really had the patience for in my practice. I followed it up with a tapping session during another teleseminar which was good as well. I think your contribution here is valuable. Keep up the good work.
Monica
Hi Monica,
I’m glad you liked our belief-elimination process. Feel free to do as much tapping as you’d like, but our process will permanently eliminate beliefs without the tapping.
Thanks for your comment.
Regards, Morty
Thank you for your ingenious process. I found it very helpful.
Hi Helena,
Glad you found our belief-elimination process useful. Wait until you eliminate enough beliefs to change something significant in your life! That will really be exciting.
Regards, Morty
Thanks again Morty, for all this wonderful information.
I have another question.
Is it possible to aquire some of these limiting beliefs at an older age – such as in ones 20’s and 30’s? I understand that we are the MOST impressionable when we are small, but with a LOT of influential talk and actions, can it happen when we are older?
I was in an environment for a LONG time, where I was bombarded with criticism and often told that I wasn’t good enough etc. Various other demeaning comments were constantly delivered to me at that point in my life. Up until then, I had been a very positive and determined character, and these characteristics were beaten out of me by some sort of emotional abuse. I have got a lot of my positivity and determination back now, 10 years later, but I wonder if that period of my life could have been the time when I aquired some of the beliefs I now hold?
Thanks again for all the help, I truly want to become the best person I can possibly be!!
Love and Peace,
Geri
Hi Geri,
Yes, it is possible to form beliefs later in life, but the odds are we formed our self-esteem beliefs as a child and then when later events could lead to certain beliefs, we already have them from childhood. Beliefs about other aspects of life we do form later in life when we first encounter the issues, such as work, politics, etc.
You have an admirable goal to be the best person you can possibly be, and it is a privilege to support you in the goal.
Regards, Morty
Thanks again Morty for the help. That all makes complete sense.
I just purchased the ‘I’m not Worthy’ program which I am certain will help me enormously. Onwards to that goal . . . . .
With love and peace,
Geri
Enjoy the program and please stay in touch.
Regards, Morty
Morty Hi
enjoyed watching the program a lot, It was fun at a certain point I actually felt smething inside but unfortunately it faded awawy i’m still thinking about, mean while I would like to know if you have your materials traslated into hebrew and have you worked with them on kids. I would like to try some of them if so.
thank U very much.
Daniel.
Hi Daniel,
Thanks for your interest in our work.
We’ve sold a bunch of programs in Israel and have been asked to translate our programs into Hebrew. We haven’t done that yet. It doesn’t make sense to spend the time and money on a translation until we have a way to market it in Israel.
The belief-elimination program can work with children if they can understand the words used and sit still long enough. Generally 14-15 is about the minimum but you can always try it with a younger child and see if it works.
Regards, Morty
Thank you Morty,
truely inspirational.
Hi Geneva,
Our goal is to leave you inspired and free of your limiting beliefs. I’m thrilled we have been able to help you.
Regards, Morty
Very helpful. Thank you so much for sharing this. I got your name from Learning Strategies and I will thank Paul also.
Hi Anita,
Glad our program was useful. Did you just use the free belief or did you get a package of beliefs and totally eliminate an entire problem?
Paul and I are friends and I am happy to have been able to make a contribution to him.
Regards, Morty
Hi Morty,
I actually tried eliminating one of your free beliefs, “I’m not capable” several weeks ago. I was very impressed! In fact I did feel a definite shift in my awareness of who I thought I was to one of “maybe there are other explanations to the way my parents and others reacted to my behavior”.
My mom was a perfectionist (actually she suffered from OCD in a big way). She would not let me try or touch anything in the house or outside. My curiosity and experimenting with things was severly restricted. My self-esteem and confidence were greatly affected. I grew up feeling stupid, unworthy and really unmotivated. I went from job to job going for low paying positions all because of how I felt about myself. I ended up projecting all of this outside to my “world”.
I was layed off from a corporate job about 2 years ago. That’s when I decided enough already! I’m going to work on myself and start enjoying my life again. I sent for your confidence program yesterday and am very excited about getting started.
I’ll let you know how it goes. I’m so happy I found your web site.
Thank you so much,
Dave
Hi Dave,
Glad we have been able to help.
Please write again after you eliminate all the beliefs on the Natural Confidence Program and let me know the results you achieve.
Thanks for writing.
Regards, Morty
Hi Morty,
Missed your call with Joe Vitale, but didn’t miss his email with your kind offer.
I completed your “Mistakes and Failure are Bad” process. It works! This is something that has been haunting me since I was 9 or 10 years old when I made my “unrepairable mistake” because I “didn’t think things through enough.” That was 48 years ago and it still bothered me. Always in the back of my mind telling me to think things through – from every angle. Don’t miss anything or I could make another unrepairable mistake.
No more! You’ve helped me see other interpretations even benefits from my mistake. Yes I made an unrepairable mistake, but now I know in my heart not just intellectually that it wasn’t bad. And I’m not bad, dumb, or thoughtless for having made my mistake.
My mistake — I saved my money and bought my first model car. Took it to the basement and carefully painted it red but decided to change the color. I knew turpentine would take paint off things so I made a little tub out of aluminum foil, set it in the cement sink, filled it with turpentine and set the car body in it. The paint started to disappear but then I suddenly noticed pot marks forming in the plastic car body. I quickly pulled the car out and rinsed it in water. It was completely ruined. My Mom was working maybe 5 feet away doing laundry. I called out to her upset by what just happened. Her response was to say this happened because I didn’t think things through. She was busy, didn’t stop doing laundry. I threw the car away beyond repair.
The memory of that has *truly* bothered me all these years – telling me that I can make mistakes I can’t “take back” or correct. So I worked hard not to make mistakes, thinking through “things” as much as I could. “Paralysis by analysis” happened often. I also couldn’t understand why I’d start something, work hard at it, and then not finish it. And fear of making mistakes, fear of failure was huge in my life.
You’ve changed my life. Thank you.
God Bless,
Mike
Hi Mike,
I get up every morning inspired by the idea that today I will help people change their lives. You made my day worthwhile.
Thanks for letting me know about your experience with our process.
Regards, Morty
Hello and thank you Morty,
I see myself as the sculptor and the possibilities are limitless!
I am an new member of your program Natural Confidence and I am so excited to get started. I have tried many different methods to become clear and thanks to Joe Vitale for having you on that confrence call last thursday it has opened up a brand new door for me to explore.I can’t wait!
thanks again
much love Shila
Hi Shila,
I’m glad you were on Joe’s call and I acknowledge you for following up.
And I am so happy that you got value from the free program and that you will get even more value from the program you purchased.
Please let us know what results you notice after completing the program.
Regards, Morty
Hi Morty,
Thank you so very much for sharing this amazing technique with us all. I wil be soon be able to purchase one of the programs. I already worked with the ‘I’m not good enough’ one and feel amost certain that it has cleared this limiting belief that I have had for so long. I have tried to work with the ‘I’m not capable’ one and am coming up with no answers to the questions about remembering events where I might have felt that I was not capable. Perhaps I do not have this belief – it is more than possible as I have always been a determined person – even at a very young age I would insist ‘I can do it by MYSELF!’
I find it very difficult to actually remember events as a child. I simply cannot remember my parents yelling at me. I do remember getting annoyed with MYSELF when I couldn’t do things. As I mentioned, I was a very determined child, but I know I still hold some limiting beliefs. Not being able to remember actual events makes it harder for me to follow the program and imagine what actually caused my beliefs. I have NO bad childhood memories whatsoever, but I do know that I hold limiting beliefs such as ‘I’ll never have a lot of money.’ and ‘I am not clever enough to be able to earn a lot of money.’ However, I don’t know what events led me to believe this.
Just like I hold a very USEFUL belief which has helped me all my life which is ‘My body can heal itself.’ and it always has. I I have never had any grave illnesses or injuries. I also believe that ‘I’ll always be alright.’ and I am always alright. Nothing bad ever happens to me, but still nothing really amazing happens either – I just do ok!! I have NO idea who told me these two things the same as I have no idea who told me that I was not good enough to earn above the average wage etc.
Do you have any suggestions to help me with this?
Hi Geri,
I wrote a post a few months ago on how to find the source of a belief. http://www.mortylefkoe.com/092209/ This might be useful.
If it isn’t, the only other suggestion I have is to have private one-on-one sessions where we help you find the source of beliefs and then help you eliminate them.
And it is possible you don’t have any given belief, but not being able to find the source of a belief isn’t a very good way to determine if you have the belief. Say the words of a belief out loud and see how it feels.
If you’d like more information about our phone sessions, please call us at 415-884-0552.
Regards, Morty
Thanks so much Morty.
I might well be interested in one on one sessions.
I am so close to reaching many of my goals, but I am certain there are still a couple of limiting beliefs holding me back.
Thanks again for all the help, your program is fantastic!
Hi Geri,
Call us if we can help. You also might want to check out the most complete package of beliefs and conditioning we have, Natural Confidence.
Regards, Morty
Morty, Sir Thank You So Much!!!!. I eliminated the ” I’m Not Good Enough” belief. I seriously have tried many different things and techniques to help me. But yours worked just as promised, and you gave it away free ?? Well that does not happen too often today. I thank God for your gift to me and others. I am feeling more happy than I have felt in years. My wife has noticed a difference. I also have purchased some more tools from you, and I will tell my family about you too. Thanks again 🙂
Hi Mark,
Thanks for taking the time to write and let me know that the free program made a difference for you.
Please let me know what results you get from the other program you purchased.
And thanks for telling others about our program so they can get the same benefits you got.
Regards, Morty
i want to say to rahul b , i like have correspondence with you
sincerely yours.sara
i have driving license and 2.5 years passed of it but i never drived. its hurt me,i should get teacher and practice driving from first.its caused depression for me, also in my work i should write mail,but im not well in grammar and its also hurt me,its gave me feeling that i could not using of my learened things.
My dear Mr. Lefko,
I wish to share with you and all who read your blog that your program is exceptional. I started with “I’m not good enough” and felt a bit better about myself. Since then I’ve noticed I’m talking to others in the household differently.
Before I say something discouraging to them, I stop and weigh the effect my words will have on that person. I also feel like I can actually begin creating a profitable home business.
I shall listen again and continue with the other free changes for now untill I get enough extra money to purchase your full program.
Thank you Mr. Lefko for the service you do for us.
Sincerely,
Izzy
Hi Izzy,
Thanks for letting me know how much of a difference the one free belief has meant to you. Getting rid of limiting beliefs truly does transform our lives. Please let me know what changes you notice after you get our full Natural Confidence program.
Regards, Morty
@: Hi Aishah,
Thanks for letting us know how much value you got from using our Natural Confidence program. That’s why we all come to work here every day.
Let me know how the program affects you after you eliminate the four conditionings and after a couple more weeks.
Regards, Morty
Hi I did the four step conditioning and I decided to wait a few days to see how I feel.I’m not sure if I did the step correctly as I was tired when I did it. I can’t believe it,can this amazing thing really happened to ME! My obsession to change me has stop,I spent the last few years trying to eliminate the me I dislike.I can’t rest either I am healing myself or searching for new things to try .I was so tired of trying and spending money I can’t afford to spend.
You kindly gave me something free to try and it works and I bought your Natural Confidence program and here I am no desire to do any changes to me,it almost as if I accepted who I am.I went out with some friends Friday night and I feel relax and confident being me in a crowd.Amazing!!
At work usually when people push my buttons I feel so angry I don’t know how to deal with it but today I feel a slight anger and I use your I have feelings but I am not my feelings….and it stop my anger and I am able to function normally and assert my self without losing my cool.I use it all the time now.I’ve changed in a good way,I’ve notice lots of little things in the last few days that gave me hope for the future.
Actually I am stun at how fast it work,after ten years of trying.Thank you so much.I sincerely hope more people will try this and see for themselves.
Blessings
Aishah
Hello I bought your natural confidence program yesterday and I did the 19 steps beliefs clearing and today I feel like a different person,there’s an inner calm and I am amaze at how quiet my mind is! Amazing,you know my mind use to drive me crazy,it won’t shut up,all negative stuff.
Today I Keep dancing and this joy I feel inside I can’t describe.Thank you so much,I am so grateful I found your work,it brings tears to my eyes.
I have spent ten years trying all sort of healing on me,and today I can honestly say the demon is almost gone.
I still have to do the 4 step conditioning.I can’t wait.I have to write and let you know how amazing this methods is.Thank you to Paul Scheele ,I ‘m his fan another great man.Mr Lefkoe I thank you and your wife for your great work.I’m of now to do the four step conditioning.
Blessings
Aishah
Hi Aishah,
I’m thrilled at the results you’ve achieved. In fact, would you be willing to send us a video in which you say essentially what you’ve written here? We could post it on You Tube and tell the world how much value you got from our program.
Congratulations.
Regards, Morty
Dear Mr. Lefkoe, i tried your tests and they are very helpful for many folks that just do not know where their beliefs come from. Most of my worries and doubts come from the fact that i was adopted, i heard about not being ” Like the rest of us ” soooo many times, that i have grown up with the belief that i do not belong anywhere!!!?? I an 62 yrs. old, it has been with me all my life. Thankyou for the free tests and i know that this is a very valueable coarse as i am a huge believer in Paul Sheele and Pete Bissonette, hang with them and you can not go wrong! God Bless, nancy f.
Hi Nancy,
Thanks for your note. Paul and Pete are good friends of mine and do great work.
If you eliminate the beliefs you formed as a child you can let the past be in the past and no longer be affected by what happened to you and what people said to you.
Regards, Morty
If events have no meaning, doesn’t that prove that nothing is important including me? I have never been normal. My mother said that she left me alone a lot when I was little. She said that she didn’t mean to, but she would get busy and forget about me. When she remembered me, she would find me just quietly playing by myself. My dad only wanted to have four kids and I am the fifth kid. He wasn’t a bad guy, but he grew up during the depression with ten brothers and sisters and he knew how difficult it was to support a large family. My former pastor says that single men like me are utterly useless to the church or society. My former boss told me that I was no good and was basicly a charity case. When I was forty-six, I was diagnosed with a mild form of autism. They say if this autism is recognized when a person is very young, it is possible to teach them social skills, but at my age it is hopeless. I have no social skills, no ability to connect with other people, no skills or abilities of any kind really, so I have no purpose. I am also emotionally deficient, mostly I don’t feel anything at all. It seems to me that existence is illogical (from my perspective anyway) so it seems the logical thing to do would be to quit existing. Seemingly, death does not accomplish this. Reincarnation would be a revolting development, and I don’t see the point of heaven or hell since seemingly nothing has any meaning. If there is a God, he has surrounded me with people and events that reinforce the idea that I am not important and my life has no purpose of meaning. Do you have anything that might prove me wrong? Something that would help me realize my purpose and accomplish it? Failure to respond will reinforce the belief that I am not important.
Hi Mark,
The fact that events have no inherent meaning says nothing about whether or not you are important. I have nothing to prove you wrong, other than the experience you have as the creator of your life that is experienced after people eliminate a belief. You will realize that you created all the beliefs that are determining how you experience your life. And by eliminating the negative beliefs, you can totally change your experience of life.
Thanks for taking the time to write.
Regards, Morty
Mark your post has made quite an impression on me. I know that you are very important. I am moved and compelled to respond. Please know that love is the only meaning anyone need to give to the beautiful gift of Life. Especially love for one’s True Self. Then this ever creative abundant and abiding love you’ll share with the entire universe. Please find it in your heart to love yourself. We can only experience true happiness when we are loving. Please know that you are always loved and that we are all One and together in this universal Love.
@: Diane, We give the meanings we do as a child because they make sense to a child. And luckily we can change them all when we grow up.
Regards, Morty
@: Sherrie,
Happy to hear our program has made such a difference in your life. And if you think getting rid of one belief was exciting, wait until you eliminate all the beliefs that are responsible for specific problems in your life. You will not believe the impact it will have.
Thanks for your post.
Regards, Morty
I felt true joy by the end of the lesson. I knew our beliefs were formed early and that they are what we use to make our relationship to the rest of the world. Good, bad or otherwise. Saying it out loud really made a difference. Not looking to get or give forgiveness, from any person, place or thing really released me from the old belief “I’m Not Good Enough”. I was laughing out loud at myself at how silly that belief had been and how I have used it to create a since of lack in a very abundant world.
Thank you so much for the freebie – It has helped to set me free.
Recently a process did not select me for a position everybody said i deserved to have– not only, i got to know that the process was biased, but also that one person choosed purposely for somebody else, and asked me to move on.
Obviously, major bad feeling came with that, like ” i am not good enough”, but much more ” people do not like me, or reject me”, “i am not likeable”
i see the “iam not good enough” program– do you others looking at fear of rejection” , not being loved” etc?
Hi John,
The events in our lives don’t cause us to feel bad about ourselves. The beliefs we form early in life cause the feelings today. Eliminate the early beliefs and events like not getting a jog you deserved will no longer make you feel bad about yourself.
Regards, Morty
Clearly mistakes and failures are sinful, and therefore evil. The Sacred Scriptures make that clear.
Where does it says that if we try someone with good intention and it doesn’t work out exactly as planned (we failed or made a mistake) that we have sinned?
Thanks for taking the time to write.
Regards, Morty
@: you have to click on the player button to get it going. I noticed mine was grey but clicked it anyway and it worked.
I tried to go through the “I’m not good enough” process and the second segment screen had no video or audio. I waited for it to load and it remained blank. I’m interested in seeing the demonstration and learning more about the process.
Hi Garry,
Sorry you are having a problem with our site. Please try rebooting your computer and trying again. That usually solves the problem.
Regards, Morty
Wow, why do we give parents such power to take over our little minds. What a shame to have to live with all that insanity for so long. Now I know why I’ve been a perfectionist all my life but yet not satisfied with my achievements.
Hi Diane,
We don’t “give them power.” We are just trying to make sense of our experiences and come up with what makes the most sense to an infant. The point is our parents have no power. The power is all ours. We gave their behavior meaning and we can eliminate that meaning (the beliefs ) at any time.
Regards, Morty
I’d be interested in your response to Rahul. #4 above.
Your method is less comprehensive but similar to one I have experienced. The core concept is the same, just a different process.
I’m glad you have put it out there for people to try.
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Hi Judi,
Did you see my reply to Rahul?
By the way, what is the other method you’ve tired that you think is more comprehensive than mine?
Regards, Morty