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Here’s the link to my program to bust a limiting belief that 90% of people have. When you break through this inner barrier you’ll find yourself more able to achieve things you’ve been unable to achieve for years.
Click here to get rid of a limiting belief for good
After you get rid of your belief, let me know what you think below.
Morty Lefkoe
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Hi Morty!
Thanks for offering for free an opportunity for testing your method. I’ve gone through the “I’m not important” and really felt different at the end of the process. The other two beliefs did not resonate with me though. However, there are other beliefs in the list that I would like to work on. So I haven’t decided whether I would buy the Natural Confidence program or buy separate beliefs instead. I also ordered your book “Re-create Your Life” and will be getting it in a few days. So, I guess I will read the book first and take a decision then.
One thing I would like to hear from you is that I noticed that all three free beliefs recordings have about the same script for the basic part, differentiating only in the parts regarding to the specific belief. Do all the beliefs in the Natural Confidence program do the same? If that is the case, doesn’t it become boring to hear again and again the same explanations on forming beliefs (among other parts in the script), for example? Or this repeating is part of the process? How about the actual one-to-one consultation, does the facilitator do that too?
Thanks and regards,
Silvio
hi Morty,
I just purchased the program and waiting for it to come. I think I eliminated “Im not good enough. I don’t feel the same gut reactions when I say it. Just like many of your clients I need emotional healing. But I also need physical healing in my body. I know “logically that it already exist” but I have not been able to receive and really “believe” I have been trying to for sooooo long. My life is pure hell due to the non existence of both. Have you encountered any people in similar situation? What could be the limiting beliefs which could be holding me back from receiving and believing? I know many people are able to receive healing though. I am excited about working the program and being LIBERATED! I had such an emotional and physically abusive childhood. Thanks Morty God Bless!
Hi Morty,
I haven’t read through a great deal of your material but I did go through one of the videos and read through your blog. I find the material, problems, difficulties, that you discuss resonates with me a great deal. I have a lot of the “I’m not good enough”, “I need attention from other people” beliefs. But it seems like a lot of your philosophy is that these beliefs originate from your parents. But I’ve always been so perplexed because I had an ideal childhood. MY parents were incredibly supportive and even when I deserved it they did not punish me or tell me I did anything wrong. It was always building me up and building me up. And yet for reasons uknown to me when I was younger I started developing these beliefs that I needed and wanted and would do just about anything to get the attention of others. Does any of your material speak to this kind of a situation and the reasons behind a spontaneous need of such a thing?
Morty, I bought the whole program and I’m really enjoying these videos. And I am struggling with one thing. When you ask “Do you still feel… (belief)?” I do often feel sadness or hurt or anger, related to the belief, which seems like I’m still “feeling the belief.” I’m guessing I would feel relief or nothing, if I no longer have that belief. So…should I go back and work on those beliefs? I hope this makes sense! Thank you, Melissa
Hi Melissa,
The feelings could be the result of the belief still being there, but it doesn’t sound like that is the issue. It also could be thoughts about the childhood events that led to the beleifs, and the beliefs are really gone.
I can’t really tell without spending some time talking to you. You can try going through the process again with a belief and see if that changes your feelings.
Love, Morty
Hi Morty,
I wanted to thank you for offering some of your videos on getting rid of negative beliefs for free. At this time I am unable to pay for the program which I feel is extremely valuable. The fact that I was able to get rid of a few of my beliefs for free has already made a difference and has empowered me. Again, Thank You So Much for truly helping me get rid of some of my negative beliefs. You have made a huge impact in my life in such a short time, a gift that I would not have been able to afford.
Extremely grateful, Karitzme
Hi Morty,
I’d like to thank you for the natural confidence program. It’s been going great so far and I feel a difference already. I reached the 9th belief but right now I’m a little confused. I just don’t know what’s the difference between I’m inadequate and I’m not competent. (Also ‘I’m not capable’ feels a little like them but I can see the difference) They seem the same to me and if I eliminated one of them and went on to do the other one, it would feel like I’m trying to remove something that is no longer there. I wouldn’t know what to do. What am I missing? English isn’t my first language so there might be be a difference in meaning that I don’t get.
Thank you in advance
Hi Sh,
For some people, the different beliefs you name are different ways of saying the same thing, so getting rid of one automatically gets rid of the others. For others, the beliefs are experienced differently, so each belief has to be eliminated separately.
If it feels like getting rid of one belief gets rid of another, then you don’t need to work on the second one.
Love, Morty
Morty,
Most of the garbage was dumped on my brother, 12 years my senior.
I have felt that even though, to a great degree, I was spared their anger and rage I assimilated what they dumped on my brother.
Am I thinking correctly?
Many thanks
Hertman
Hi Herman,
In most cases we form beliefs based on our own experience, not on how we observe others being treated. It is hard to see how you formed negative self-esteem beliefs based on how your brother was treated.
Love, Morty
I just want to say thank you again Morty. Your Lefkoe method has been very liberating for me. I decided to pick up a copy of your book also, to learn more about the process. Thanks!
Hi Hans,
You can understand The Lefkoe Method better by reading about it.
If you want to eliminate more beliefs and create some real improvements in your life, such as getting rid of anxiety and stress, check out our program: http://recreateyourlife.com/naturalconfidence.
Love, Morty
I love the idea of you as my kindly neighbor. That part was so helpful. I can see my young self talking with you and becoming so relieved to find acceptance. I also see myself enjoying your adult attention and wisdom. Thank you
Hi Morty,
First let me begin by repeating what everyone else who has gone through this program has said (though I am on belief # 7), your program is really amazing. I get it and it has been very effective so far. I just finished the belief “nothing I do is good enough”. this was a very tough one, but I think that I did it. I feel so much better now. I haven’t checked what all the remaining beliefs are about, but how about the belief: “everything has meaning”. this is something my father says all the time and has always said. do you think that this is something that has to be eliminated as well or is it kind of embedded in the other beliefs?
thanks so much for all that you do!!!
Pani
Hi Pani,
I think most people have that (unconscious) belief but it seems to take care of itself in the process of using the Lefkoe Belief process many times and getting that the events that lead to beleifs never have any meaning.
Love,Morty
Thank you, Morty! Your work is ground-breaking. My comment is quite long but I hope you’ll get back to me!
I used to have the belief that mistakes and failure are bad but over the course of 2 years, I got rid of it by myself when I failed at some of my endeavors over and over. I was depressed for a long time but eventually I realised that the sky didn’t fall when I made a mistake or failed. Life is too short to take too seriously. Living life with ease and a light heart makes success come to you much easier.
I did watch the videos for eliminating ‘I’m not good enough’ as well as ‘I’m not important’, because for me, somehow they went both hand in hand. I now feel much lighter and looking back, it was rather silly of me to have those beliefs when there could have been many other reasons to explain the events in my life.
Beliefs are only our attempt at expaining various events in our lives. I’m also personally working on replacing detrimental beliefs with useful ones. I’m very interested in natural confidence program. Where can I get it?
I’ve also noticed that now when I tell myself ‘I am important…’, I don’t seem to believe it 100%. There’s still some resistance and I find that I have to rationalize with myself as to why I really am important. Similarly, when I tell myself ‘I am good enough, I deserve the best that I can get’, there is some resistance and I still have to stop and run myself through why I DO think I’m important and try to ‘convince’ myself. How do I get rid of this? I want to be totally confident in my beliefs.
Hi Ray,
First of all, you can get the Natural Confidence program at http://recreateyourlife.com/naturalconfidence.
I can’t be sure what is happening to you. If you did the process correctly, the beliefs should be gone. And if they are, then one possible reason you still don’t feel the opposites are true is that you have other similar beleifs that make you feel as if the original beleifs are not gone.
For example, you could get rid of the belief, I’m not good enough, and still hold the beliefs, I’m not okay and nothing I do is good enough. If you held the latter two beliefs, it might still feel as if you believe, I’m not good enough, when in fact that belief is gone.
If you wanted to have a session with a Certified Lefkoe Method Facilitator we could figure out exactly what’s happening and help you. For more information please call us at 415-884-0552.
Love,Morty
Thanks Morty!
After working for years with various techniques and various results I happened across your information. After the free session I noticed significant changes in my feelings immediately. Within 1 day I have observed my behaviors playing out differently which has made significant improvements in my life, and this is only the first belief, and the first twenty four hours. This is amazing work, thank you so much.
Morty;
thank you and your team once again. You help me lot and soon definetly i will go for the complete online program to get rid of all limiting beliefs possible. With the help of your methods, love, and care now i forgive the things faster and naturally getting lighter, thanks for that once again..i am sure that Morty methods will help our planet to chance to better..Regards. Faik
Hey Morty,
I just wanted to say thank you so much for taking the time and energy to put on these videos and teach people about this. I have really seen a difference in my life already and I can’ t wait to see what my future will hold. Thank you!
Hi Morty.
I love the belief buster. The possibility part in the end was lovely.
I would like to add a comment to your videos, since i have been working as an NLP Coach for some time now.
I have also helped a lot of people go through theyr limiting beliefs, and i would offer the advice to you of adding Auditory and Kinesthetic language pattern.
You often say “can you see”, and “see yourself”, but many people have a preferance with sounds or feelings when describing events. Maybe you could add some more of theyr type of language.
Hope this was helpful and thanks for helping people all over, expanding conciousness
Hi Magnus,
Thanks for the suggestion. We do have something specific for emotionally kinesthetic and maybe we also should have for auditory.
Love, Morty
I read the material on the website and am not sure if your program can help me. Over sometime I have started following certain things which are effecting my personal life
I used to be very carefree with my daughter initially. Sometime back I had bad experiences with her health one after the another. Now I feel myself to be overly concerned for her. Everything small thing make be become nervous. I am a working women. Thankfully I do not take any tension for anything other thing in my life – be it professional issues or financial issues. The only thing I am always worried about is my daughter. I am not able to sleep properly. If I do anything for my personal pleasure like reading a book or watching movie – i have a guilt feeling. I feel if I plan for enjoying activity, I will have bad effect on my daughter’s health. I have totally stopped engaging my self into any activity that would give me pleasure. I have built of this belief – like if I do x thing then it will be bad for my daughter. And the list of the this ‘x’ thing is growing. I find myself always thinking negative and at times when I go against them and try to break the belief something bad happens and the negative belief/feeling becomes more strong. I used to be very carefree and ambitious female and now its only about my daughter.In my professional life and other aspects of personal life I am very confident, I know I can do anything. Issue comes when I start relating these to my daughter. I want be myself, what I was. I want to enjoy my daughter’s childhood. Please guide me through it and let me know if I need to provide my details
Hi Testola,
It appears from what you’ve told me that your fear about your daughter is the result of beliefs about parenting and having a child. We probably could help you in private one-to-one phone or Skype sessions.
If you would like further information or would like to make an appointment, please call us at 415-884-0552.
Love,Morty
Thanks for your quick response. I see a ray of hope in this state of depression. Please let me know what time suits you, I would really want to get rid of this problem. I am in India, please let me know the time that suits you and whatever mode of conversation is better
Now I don’t believe in anything, I don’t know who or what I am or supposed to be, just blah. Thanks for erasing who I was but now who am I. I don’t even know what I want to do or who I want to be because I don’t care either way. How do I find out what I want to do or who I want to be now.
Hi Tanja,
If you want to find out who you really are, try this short video for an answer.
http://d3n3f57qjh51zc.cloudfront.net/who-am-i-really-new.mp3
Love, Morty
Well, I’m more into conditional, behavioral therapy ie making changes in present behavior to effect real, genuine change. However, I enjoyed going through this. One really positive thing that I learned here and that I hope to apply to all aspects of my life is the realization that surrounding events have no meaning, only the meaning that I give them. What a powerful tool for re-framing events. Thank you so much!
Hi Yosef,
Glad you found the belief-elimination process useful.
If you eliminate all the beliefs that cause a specific dysfunctional behavior, the behavior will cease. You can get rid of procrastination or fear of public speaking by eliminating 10-15 beliefs.
Love,Morty
Morty
I think your method can be very effective but I have some challenges in making it work for me. Perhaps you can help.
I applied the 20 min process to the limiting belief that mistakes are bad. I know I have this belief but when I think back on early memories around which I may have formed this belief, I cannot find an instance of disapproval or punishment form my parents. My mom was very kind and tolerant and I remember that. But I feel great internal shame, humiliation etc when I think of asking questions, singing in public (lest I make a mistake), showing emotion of any kind (appearing out of control) initiating anything I won’t be immediately successful at. So that is problem one.
Problem Two is I know I have other limiting beliefs but I don’t know how to make them into simple statements (like: Mistakes are bad) in order to apply your method toward them. How do I get a list of typical limiting beliefs?
much appreciated, Micheline
Hi Micheline,
There are common beliefs that most people have, but what you want to do is eliminate the beleifs that cause specific problems in your life, not just a random list of beliefs.
The beliefs in the Natural Confidence program are responsible for the most common problems people have. To see a list of the beleifs in that program, go to http://recreateyourlife.com/naturalconfidence.
Love, Morty
thank you for your thoughtful reply – extraordinary that you have time for all these replies!
yes, true. I do want to look at limiting beliefs that I hold but I needed a list from which I could determine what beliefs I have. Sometimes it is difficult to distill your beliefs into a basic statement with which one can work. The list you offered is good and fairly thorough.
I will look further into your methods.
Hi Morty,
I’m currently working through the Speaking Without Fear program through sessions with Shelly on the phone, and it’s going pretty well, but I have a few questions/concerns. How many beliefs must be eliminated before I no longer have fear? The first belief we did was “I’m not good enough,” and I just worked through it again with your video. In the second session we did another 5 or 6 beliefs, and I’m not sure the effect really took hold, because even now, days later, I’m still terrified of public speaking. Going through classes today, there was no way I was going to speak up in class! I’m still really scared, and it’s painful. I read somewhere on one of your websites, or perhaps your blog, that I have to de-condition the stimuli that lead to the emotional response also, which we haven’t worked on yet. I really want this process to work, but the whole time, even going through the beliefs, there’s the feeling that I’m going to have to speak publicly in the near future (which I am, in a little over a month). So when I eliminate a belief, it feels different to say it out loud, but I still FEEL fear. Maybe I just haven’t eliminated enough beliefs. I think perhaps the belief that “change is hard and takes a long time” should be addressed, because I certainly feel that. Anyway, I really appreciate the program, and I’m determined to keep working at it until I finally am free of my fear.
Thanks a lot,
John
Hi John,
As you surmised, the fear won’t go away until you have eliminated all of the beleifs and conditionings that cause the fear.
It won’t be long.
Love,Morty
Thanks Morty! I think I am going to purchase the Natural Confidence DVD as well, because I think that going over these concepts again and again helps to strengthen them for me – that’s just how I learn, and with the DVD I can use it as many times as I want. Would you recommend that course of action?
Thanks again,
John
Hi John,
The Natural Confidence program will enable you to eliminate the 19 most common beleifs that cause several of the most common problems people have.
The point here is not learning the process, which you can do with the Lefkoe Method Training, but to eliminate the beleifs that are causing you a problem. The NC program is the best and fastest way to do that.
Love, Morty
Hi Morty,
I agree with a lot of the people here that this program is very good. I have just finished the natural confidence program and I have noticed very positive changes in my behaviour and attitude towards life. But there is one thing that I am concerned about. When I was doing the program I started to feel more and more anxious the further along I got and now that I have just finished the program I am sitting here writing this message and I feel awful. I feel very anxious about everything in my life. Is this a normal reaction? I did everything in the program and I know I have eliminated the beliefs because I can feel it. So what is going on with me? Was I expecting to much? or am I just overwhelmed now that I have finished the program? Should I do the entire program again? Not sure what to think of this.
Best wishes
Sylvia
Hi Sylvia,
Sorry you seem to be having difficulties. I’m not sure what’s happening. I’ve never heard of someone getting anxious after finishing the Natural Confidence program.
What thoughts are you having? What thoughts are accompanying the anxiety? I don’t think it is merely overwhelm.
What meaning are you giving your feelings?
That will give me a clue as to what’s going on.
Let me know.
Love, Morty
Hæ Morty,
I just saw your reply, thanks.
It has been a month now that I finished the NC course so I can´t remember exactly what I was thinking, I just remember the feeling I had. I read something you wrote about people who feel their beliefs and have a hard time seeing the beliefs and I think I am one of those people. I realize now that in every belief that I tried to eliminate I had a very difficult time when you or Shelly talked about the fact that “meaningless situations can´t make you feel anything”. I understand it but the feeling never went away. I can always “feel” it, even now I can feel “I´m not good enough” when thinking of a situation. I truly believe in this program as I can feel and see change, although some beliefs have come back (or never eliminated). What I most wanted to change was the way I talk down to my self when I have a difficult task in front of me, which has not changed at all. Not sure what to do. Maybe I should do the program again and focus more on “not feeling” than “trying to see something”. I thought I was a visual person but by the looks of things, I’m not.
Best wishes
Sylvia
Hi Sylvia,
Please call me and let me see if I can help. 415-884-0552.
Love, Morty
Thanks Morty, but unfortunately I can not afford to call you at this time. The currency in my country is very low against the U.S dollar so the price would be three times what I would pay for a session with a trained professional here. I´m just going to do the course again and “see” what happens.
Best wishes.
Sylvia
Hey Morty,
I did what you told me and it worked.
You told me that I should skip the part where you talk about “seeing” the belief and only do the “feeling” part and it worked. I cried after I finished the “I´m not good enough” because finally I feel that the belief is gone. What a relief.
I see now that I have to skip the seeing part as it interrupted my processing of the program as I was trying to force myself to see something I didn´t really see.
Thank you very much.
Best wishes
Sylvia
Thanks Morty, I love the method and I felt very positive about the results. This is a cognitive approach that is simple and clear. Do you teach the technique?
Hi Joseph,
Yes,there is a course starting today, in fact.
If you are interested, check it out at http://lefkoeuniversity.com.
Love,Morty
Hi Morty,
I want to accept all that you say but the following keeps coming to mind.
My survival can depend on the approval of the next up on the pecking order beginning with my parents( or perhaps step parents) to bosses, all the way up to medieval Kings who had the power to chop off my head. So their opinion of whether I am good enough could count for more than my opinion of whether I am good enough – my very well being or life could depend on my fear and response to their opinion.
Perhaps the answer is that if I hold the energy of being good enough then the universe will respond in kind.
Cheers, Alasdair.
Hi ALasdair,
It might well be that your survival can depend on what someone thinks of you (maybe once in a lifetime in the 21st century USA), but what has that to do with whether or not it is The Truth about you?
Nothing your parents did or didn’t do when you are a child means that you are not good enough.
Love,Morty
Dear Morty,
I can easily say that you have helped me eliminate one of my limiting beliefs. I am very grateful to you for that especially since I never believed I could rid myself of it. Thankyou SO much. I hope your program can help many other people the way it has helped me. Thankyou!
Hi Marty,
Thank you for making your video available. I find your process very interesting and helpful for those events to which we attribute meaning by which we develop limiting beliefs. I find it most helpful for things more recent than childhood.
How do you deal with an auditory learner who was told directly and explicitly throughout childhood that she was “not good enough, not smart enough and not worthy of being heard or seen”? This was based in an atmosphere of extreme abuse.
Do you find this process effective when the experience and messages were very explicit, using these very words?
Thank you!
I do not believe your ‘free’ course will help me sadly, it may work for others but I am writing a film script to deal with my issues. Good feedback so far, was interested to hear what you were telling people. Do not flood my email with nonsense for I will report and block you. I was dangled out a 13 floor high rise at the age of 4 by a drunk father while my mother watched coldly on…Do you HAVE a video to deal with that sort of trauma…doubtful. Nice idea but too vague in your belief elimination. I will Create MY OWN reality with help of my Inner Guidance thank you. Good luck on your journeys people…Look Inside Your Self. Namaste <3
You assume that one’s parents were the cause of beliefs, but what if it came from siblings ore extended family. OR what if the beliefs are from a kind of emotional neglect? And I wonder if it is true that the scenarios from childhood truly had no meaning? Or was it that the meaning really was more about them than it was about us?
just did WAIR for the first time. What a remarkable process – life changing . thank you, thank you, and blessings. J
Dear Morty,
I did listen to the talk on getting rid of an unhelpful belief. I found it helpful. It is very sound, reasonable and empowering. When I have time I want to listen again, and / or read some more stuff.
Thank you for this service, Jaya
Hi Jaya,
Thanks for the post.
Don’t worry about listening again; eliminate a couple of more beliefs and notice the change in your life.
Then let me know about it.
Love, Morty
Thank you so much for sharing your work. I can’t believe how fast I was able to get rid of my belief that mistakes are bad. It almost seems funny now. Of course they are not bad, they are part of life, it is how we learn… lol. Awesome work. And again thank you so much for sharing. I look forward to hearing your wife speak on Shifra Hendri’s Quantum Healing and Soul program later on this month about how to parent so we do not add these same limiting beliefs to our children lives. I heard your call last night and had to try to see if it would work. I am still amazed at how fast and easy it was. Thank you and keep up the great work!!!
All the best to you both
Lynn
Lynn,
Thanks for sharing your excitement about getting rid of a belief. If you think that’s exciting, wait until you experience a total transformation when you eliminate the 19 beliefs on the Natural Confidence program.
Let me know what you think.
Love, Morty
Outstanding! Thank you for such an awesome gift! I have advanced education and training in psychology including cognitive and hypnosis and yet I found your method to be incredibly useful, widely applicable, and quick and easy. Can’t ask for more than that! Offering this opportunity as you have is a huge gift that no doubt is bringing rich blessings to many, yourself included. Thank you again for making such a difference!
Hi Bailey,
Glad to hear that you found our work so incredibly useful. And that was just one belief. Wait until you complete the 19 beliefs in the Natural Confidence program and you experience a total transformation in your life.
Let me know what you think.
Love,Morty
Great stuff, would it work for a lack of true courage and strength, the stuff you need to push forward in life and really be yourself, and help obtain the things you know deep down that you really want ?
Hi Craig,
Yes, it does work for a lack of courage and strength. In fact, we have a digital product called Natural Confidence that is designed specifically for that. It consists of a program to help you eliminate 19 of the most common beleifs that undercut confidence.
Check it out at http://recreateyourlife.com/naturalconfidence.
Let me know what you think after you try it.
Love,Morty
Hi Morty,
I want to thank you with your life changing program.
I feel so much more confident!
Normally i was to scared to play guitar when other people could hear or see me playing, i would just lock up and feel ashamed.
Now i just do it ! and really enjoy playing, i now love it when people are listening.
This is just one example of the many big changes in my life for witch i`m very gratefull for.
Thanks for helping me being able to express myself!
Regards Stephan
Hi Stephen,
Thanks for sharing your expeirnece with our free priogram.
And if you think you got value from eliminating a couple of beleifs, wait until you see how much your life changes when you eliminate more beliefs.
Check out our Natural Confidence program at http://recreateyourlife.com/naturalconfidence.
Love,Morty
Hi Morty,
I noticed change after doing the process. Do you have an affiliate program. I am living in Brazil, but I have an address in Canada that I use. Is it possible?
Thanks!
Hi Pippa,
Yes we have an affiliate program. You can sign up at http://recreateyourlife.com/partnersignup.
Happy to have you aboard.
Love, Morty
Interesting methods but I had a huge resistance to what you were saying in the “your not good enough section”.
My father died when I was 8 months old. My Mother sigle handidly brought up my brother and I. I cant ever remember her saying anything like you have described. My belief came from within, I wasn’t good enough because didn’t have a father. It was other significant people in my life like teachers (I was born in 1958 by the way so im 53 today ) aunts and uncles and believe it or not, other kidsYou haven’t got a dad so you are a shit. You haven’t got a dad so you will be rubbish at sport and even once I remeber some kid saying you haven’t got a dad because he died because he didn’t love you. Utter crap now but the event did imprint I am not good enough.You keep saying it was your parents actually made it impossible for me to buy what you were saying. And yes your research shows that for 13000 people or 130000 or 13oooooo people it was thier parents who were responsible. for many people it was other SIGNIFICANT people in their lives. How about a kid brought up in an orphaage MORTY? My wife recently separated from me after 30 years. Was that because I wasnt good enough? Is that why I am broken hearted? I wasn’t a good enough husband?
You need to rethink your methods to make them universally applicable. Also your website streams have glitches in them. People have told you this before and you haven’t fixed them. Why not?
I think on a one to one your methods could be really good and have a high success rate. Don’t get defensive either. Send me an email I think I could help you sort this all out. Maybe this is fair comment and your current content “isn’t good enough”?
best wishes
Graham
Hi Graham,
Perhaps the source of your belief is not your mom. With 999 people out of 100 it is parents, so we created a program that works for almost everyone.
For blog posts that explain why parents are almost always the source of our beliefs, see http://www.mortylefkoe.com/092209/# and http://www.mortylefkoe.com/wonderful-parents/#
I’m not sure what glitches you refer to. Over 100 people a day watch that program and we haven’t had a comment in ages. Please tell me what wasn’t working for you and we’ll investigate and get it fixed.
I’m not sure what you want to help me get straightened out but thanks for the offer.
Love, Morty
I just did the Mistakes and Failures are bad on the online video. I listened to the 4 min video, said the words out loud and then typed in and repeated out loud per directives. Is that all? I was wondering if there is anything else done to eliminate the belief? No other directives are given, and it still feels open, like I’m missing something. Nothing came up to say that completes the exercise… Thanks.
Hi Brenda,
You only watched the first part of the process. You need to click the “continue” button. The total process is almost 30 minutes and when you’re done the belief will be eliminated.
Try again and let me know what happens.
Love,Morty
Hi Morty
I have just listened to you on Jeneth’s New Wealth Experience replay. I think it is wonderful the work that you are doing with children. What an amazing world we can live in when we no longer have or do not even take on these limiting beliefs.
I went to your website to try your free eliminating beliefs programmes, I chose ‘I am not important’ I found it to be such an insightful experience and so freeing that I will now go on to do the others. I love the way you have included the opportunity to repeat those last steps as I realised that I had not spent enough time replaying the scenes. My second attempt really worked and I felt totally different when I said the words, there was no charge and my face didn’t screw up as I had noticed it did at the beginning.
Thank you so much for sharing some of what you do for free, I love that idea. I really believe our work is to empower people to create their own lives, and this is exctly what you are doing so well. This was a wonderful experience which found me laughing by the time I finished the process.
I loved the transformational Recreate Your Life it was such a feel good and inspiring experience, I have bookmarked the page. I am going to send this link to my friends.
With love and blessings and gratitude
Penny
Hi Morty,
I have recently returned to the computer audio program I purchased from you about 1 year ago. I “believe” I was/am resisting something about it.
I am an est grad so a lot of what you are talking about sounds familiar to me (jargon) like “making distinctions” – “making a difference’ – “getting over it” etc.
I am having trouble continuing with the program – because (to me) you say “events have no meaning “ – but then you also say that each event could have “different interpretations”.
One question I have is: What exactly is the difference between an interpretation and just another meaning? E.G.: If you have the belief “I’m not good enough” and then you (Morty or someone else) suggests that – (I guess as an “answer” to the problem of the negative belief, i.e.: getting rid of it) – “Your parents might have told you, you weren’t “good enough” but they were wrong”. Isn’t’ that too just another belief/interpretation/meaning? If yes then why “believe” that interpretation either– it’s not provable – therefore is it also not “the truth”, or even “a truth”? It’s just another (meaningless?) interpretation.
Maybe you are good enough – maybe you aren’t good enough – who determines whether anyone is good enough? Isn’t that rather subjective? Was Hitler “bad” and Mother Teresa “good”? Wouldn’t it be ultimately more accurate to say no one knows what “good enough” or “not good enough” even is?
I know you draw a conclusion that is similar to that – but it seems to me as if you are trying to keep the “positive interpretation(s)” intact .Isn’t the positive belief as much a crock/untruth-impossible to prove- and therefore as ultimately potentially limiting as the negative belief?
If being good enough is subjective- why keep any interpretation of it?
Ultimately you are either good enough or you aren’t! No? Most likely no one is “good enough” and no one is “not good enough” either.
You say these interpretations are only one truth but not the truth. Maybe there is neither “a truth”, “the truth” “two truth’s” or any “truths “at all (?).Would we (possibly) all be better off being neutral/completely objective about everything?
Wouldn’t that be a way more accurate and clearer way to experience life?
Why be happy or sad or angry about anything? Why cry at a funeral – even if it’s your mother or significant other dead -it’s just a meaning you’re giving to a dead body in front of your eyes – no? Why be happy if you win the lottery – you’re just going to have money in front of your eyes and – even if it frees you up to see the world or stay home and watch TV for the rest of your life – it doesn’t mean anything right? Therefore – using that “logic”: the lottery can’t make you happy and a dead loved one can’t make you sad (?). I guess I would draw the ultimate conclusion that to be happy – or even to strive for that – is as absurd in relation to objective reality as to be sad, or to feel anything emotionally for that matter (?).
I’m a performer and I have felt “fear” with stage fright – I also have felt “happy” when an audience claps at my performance – should I go up on stage neutral- deliver a neutral performance -and leave the stage not caring whether anyone enjoyed the performance? In a weird way it sounds very liberating. I shouldn’t even care if they pay me, or if a bus hits me going across the street to my car after the performance (?).
If someone believes “I can’t find a job” or if someone believes “I can find a job” maybe the one who believes he can, will be more motivated to go look for a job – but that doesn’t make the job there for them or not-no? Why need to believe anything – go out the door, resume in hand, and toss the dice, and feel nothing either way?
NLP and the Sedona Method (other Human Potential programs- I’ve taken) seem to suggest similar things – NLP tries to get you to get distance from neg. memories in your mind, and bring you closer to your positive experiences (in your mind’s eye). Sedona says to let “go of your feelings”. Why not eliminate all beliefs, good bad, and otherwise; especially if they (all beliefs and their subsequent feelings) tell you absolutely nothing about reality – right? And then become more neutral than even the Buddha could ever have been.
It seems (to me) that positive beliefs are just as delusional and absurd with regards to the accuracy of “reality” as negative beliefs?
I feel or think or believe (???) that the alternate interpretations from each lesson shouldn’t be trusted or are potentially as inaccurate as any neg. beliefs I already have and therefore should also be neutralized?
Your thoughts please…
Robby
Hi Robby,
Thanks for the questions. Let me clarify.
Meaning, interpretation, a different point of view, etc. are the same.
Events have no inherent meaning, in other words, any event can be given many different meanings, but it doesn’t have a meaning until we arbitrarily give it a meaning In other words, you can’t draw any conclusions from any event. You don’t know anything for certain from any event other than it happened.
Yes, the “positive” interpretation is as much “a truth” as the “negative” one. None of them are “the truth.” The only point of that step of the process is to realize that you what you thought was the truth is only one interpretation and there are many others just as good.
You say: “It seems (to me) that positive beliefs are just as delusional and absurd with regards to the accuracy of “reality” as negative beliefs?” I agree. I don’t know where you got the idea that I wouldn’t.
Because events have no inherent meaning, you can make up a meaning and live life as a game, pretending something is more important than something else.
For more details see my weekly blog posts at http://mortylefkoe.com.
Love, Morty
Hi Morty,
Thanks for creating this work. I especially enjoyed the experience of distinguishing myself as the creator of my life, the observer of the event and not the beliefs about what the event means.
Totally freeing!
Wishing you all the blessings life has to offer,
Dex
This did not do anything for me, I understand what your trying to say but I don’t think a belief you had for so long can just go away with one session. also, It takes a while for your subconscious mind to process a new belief.
Hi Raj,
Thanks for taking the time to write.
I notice that your comment indicates a belief that it is impossible to eliminate a belief in minutes because it takes the subconscious time to process.
In fact, we have now worked with well over 13,000 people one-to-one and almost all of them reported that a belief was eliminated in minutes. When we talked weeks and even months later, the belief still was gone.
Independent research confirms our findings.
Perhaps the process did not work for you, but beliefs can and do get eliminated in a matter of minutes.
Thanks, love, Morty
Hi Morty,
I recently completed the natural confidence program and I just want to tell you that the results so far have been amazing. I have suffered from anxiety my whole life and became quite depressed when I was a teenager and into my 20s. My only refuge from this depression as I got older, even though it seemed to be a struggle, was accomplishing my goals but even afterwards because of my perfectionism I still wasn’t happy and couldn’t appreciate them or the praise that I received from people. I was constantly told to give myself more credit. After, and even during, the program most things have changed. I can get up in the morning when the alarm goes off, I can get out the door on time and time has seemed to slow down, messes seem to clean themselves up and things that once seemed tedious get done effortlessly. I am on track to pay off my debt. I believe in eating a healthy diet but when I decide to eat something that I know is junk I don’t get upset with myself anymore. I feel like the weight of the world has become so much lighter, that the fog has lifted, I notice so many things I never had time to pay attention to before and I have more then enough energy to get me through the day- even when I am tired physically. I don’t feel angry and stressed because of the actions of others as often now because I recognize that I am choosing to feel the way that I do. The biggest improvement of all has been with social anxiety, I admit that I still feel a little awkward or nervous before speaking to someone don’t know but once the conversation begins there’s times when I feel like I have known the person I am talking to my entire life. I no longer need to put effort into making eye contact and not making nervous gestures because it comes naturally now and it’s enjoyable. I have been in therapy and on drugs for depression, I have done yoga and meditation but these only ever seemed to treat symptoms and required so much time and effort, which is incredibly draining when you already feel exhausted. There are still some beliefs and conditions that cause me anxiety that I know i still have, but I am now fully aware of them and how I feel because of them and I feel in control of my life. As I am writing this I realize that the list of things can go on and on. Thank you for creating this program, it is amazing.
Hi LIs,
I’m thrilled that our work has made such a profound difference in your life. That’s why we go to work every day.
If you find additional beliefs you want to get rid of, either call us for a session at 415-884-0552 or learn how to eliminate beliefs using the Lefkoe Belief Process at http://lefkoeuniversity.com.
Keep up the good work.
Love,Morty
Hey Morty, hopefully you get this. I’m on the Mistakes and Failure are Bad belief and I’m struggling to get with it and skeptical. I can’t get behind the steps because the focus seems to be solely on “parents” I do believe & understand that much of our beliefs are molded by them and society at large but I just feel like putting it on parents is so black and white. There are many people that influence that belief and personally I can think of two figures that strongly shaped this belief in myself and that’s my mother and my childhood best friend’s mother. Because I can think of these two and memories attached to them, I don’t think it’s as easy to just state a memory from a parent is the source of why I feel the way I feel now especially because as you say sometimes events in your life add up to form this belief.
Hi Jardley,
After working with over 13,000 people directly, we are now convinced that virtually all our self-esteem type beliefs, such as I’m not good enough, I’m not important, and I’m powerless, stem from interactions with parents before the age of 6.
I’ve written a couple of blog posts that provide my reasons for this conclusion. See http://www.mortylefkoe.com/092209/# and http://www.mortylefkoe.com/wonderful-parents/#
Love, Morty
This was a waste of time.
Hi Sheila,
I’m sorry you did not experience value from the belief-elimination process.
It appears to work on over 90% of the people who try it. In any case, thanks for trying.
Love, Morty
If i dont replace a limiting belief with a new empowering belief after the limiting belief is elminated, wont it come back? and if so how do i install the new belief?
Hi Mark,
You don’t need to install a new belief to keep the old belief from coming back.
In fact, I’m not sure how to install beleifs so that you really believe them. And thousands of people, including me, have eliminate beliefs without them coming back.
Love, Morty
Really good so far, Thanks Morty. Although I have only done the first 4 beliefs in the program, (the streaming stopped for some reason) I am looking forward to getting the CD. Strangely enough I did not seem to possess the ‘I’m not important’ belief, yet I seem to be finding/noticing that I have all of these other beliefs that are untrue, yet I believe them, such as, Nobody likes me, People are mean, I’m always alone, I’m safer alone, People can’t be trusted, No one understands me etc.. etc.. etc.. And while I seem to have eliminated, I’m not good enough, and Mistakes are Bad, they actually seem to have reinforced some of the other beliefs. That kind of sucks. Logically they are untrue, regardless they are there. Those definitely need to go. But they are not on your list. So after I finish this… then what do I do.? I really would prefer not to spend the rest of of my life thinking, “Hey, I’m doing OK! But every one else are a bunch of ( self censored expletives)”!
Hi Suzanna,
After you complete the Natural Confidence program, there are two ways to identify and get rid of any additional ones you have that are causing a problem.
Either call us and have phone or Skype sessions and we can help you do it. For information about these sessions please call us at 415-884-0552.
Or you can take a course we offer that trains you to be able to eliminate beliefs on your own. For more information please go to http://lefkoeuniversity.com.
Love, Morty
I finished the program and what I noticed was when I got rid of negative beliefs about myself, I stopped believing them about other people. For example if someone did something and I didn’t understand why they did it I would think “they are stupid” Once I got rid of that belief about myself I stopped believing it about other people.
I couldn’t use your website on my iPhone???
Hi Paul,
Sorry but our websites use Flash and iDevices don’t use Flash.
We intend to change all our websites very soon.
Thanks for your interest. Try eliminating a belief on your computer.
Love,Morty
I did listened to the Who am I really and I love all the info I am gaining but I am stuck still with this one thing….I am the creator of my life…Yes I believe this to be true…but I am stuck with all this potential and options and I have no idea what to create. What do I do with myself? Is there any guidance around finding purpose or what ones passion to create/live is? I can just sit here and be but I feel empty and lack direction, focus and purpose. I want to create something but I don’t know what. Thanks for any advise on this.
Hi lp,
Try Janet Attwood’s book, The Passion Test. It is great for discovering your passion in life.
Let me know what you think after reading it.
Love, Morty
Sorry I just don’t think any of this makes sense. I guess if you can’t see mistakes and failures are bad then you can’t see happiness either. If you fail a test then why is that not bad. You didn’t study so you fail and why is that not bad. The meaning of mistake is an accident so that can’t be your fault so why feel bad about that anyways. You have to give meaning to events or you wouldn’t remember any events and therefor you couldn’t improve. That is just ridiculous.
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wow you are hopeless! your are the type of person that needs this the most!
It is actually Mistakes and Failures are bad with an “s”. It is hard to listen to that video hearing that mistake. So I guess this time a mistake can be bad.
I’ve finished the program and done all the beliefs except I’m stupid, I never felt that and don’t remember anyone ever saying that to me. I don’t ever think I’m stupid. I just finished the last one today so it remains to be seen the changes in my life. I do see very clearly that I create my life. I do feel lighter now somehow and better about myself. My issue was being assertive and speaking up for myself and also being too concerned with what others thought. I really hope that one is gone. Morty, you say you have eliminated 100′s of beliefs, how do we find out about all the other ones we might have that are not on the program? Also, I was wondering what age would be good for my kids to see this as I am sure they have some of my baggage also.
Thank you!
Hi Carmel,
You can start children on the program at whatever age they can understand it.
When we work with children directly we can modify the language a bit. But if you are using a program already created for adults, a child needs to be able to follow each of the steps. You could certainly try at 12-13.
There is no reason to get rid of beliefs except when they have a negative effect on your life. So the way to find additional limiting beleifs is to look for the beliefs that are causing specific problems in your life as you identify the problems.
Love, Morty
Thank you for this program. It was fantastic. I went through every belief even when I didn’t have one. Thank you for your work.
Hi Morty,
I did the I´m not important process and it worked out really well. I felt this belief completely shifted. And then I did the I´m not good enough one and I could get a shift in relation to my past. But my present is so difficult now that I feel that I´m not good enough now, I am unable to support my children financially and I don´t seem to find the right thing to do. So when you ask if I no longer have the belief, I feel I no longer have the one that stems from my childhood, but what about my present experience? How do I go about it?
Thank you so much.
Hi Heidi,
Just as I’m not good enough is just one possible interpretation of your childhood experiences and is not the truth, so too it is just one interpretation of your current circumstances and not the truth.
Events have no inherent meaning–what your parents did as a child has no inherent meaning and what you have done as an adult has no inherent meaning.
If you eliminate more beliefs it will become more real to you that events have no inherent meaning.
Love, Morty
What if I can not remember any events in the age before 11?? I just blank? Because something happened with 11 and therefore all before is gone?
Hi Lea,
The best way when you don’t have memories before 6 is to remember your parents at whatever age you can. Or how you remember they treated a younger sibling.
Once you have a sense of how your parents dealt with different types of situations, then imagine what children do at 2, 3, 4, 5, 6. Given what you know of your parents, would would they have reacted to what children do at different ages?
I remember nothing before 6 and little before 10, and this is how I’ve eliminated hundreds of beliefs.
Let me know how this works.
Love, Morty
I have been recommending this program to my family and friends and they dont respond like they understand what I am saying when I talk about beliefs. They seem completely clueless. I know this program will revolutionalize my life and could for others too. I just cannot understand why everyone I speak to about it looks at me like I am speaking another language. I want to continue to let people know about the program but just don’t know how to explain it to them.
Hi JH,
People are more interested in how the process will benefit them than in how it works. So I suggest that you talk about the problems in your life before and how the program has changed your life. Describe, with specifics, how your life is different today as a result of the program.
Thanks for telling people about our work.
Love, Morty
This is a unique and fascinating resource and I’m going to share it with my readers.
FYI – the “contact us” link on this page doesn’t work: http://www.recreateyourlife.com/free/help.php
Hi Rotem,
Glad you found this material useful.
And thanks for the heads up about the broken link. We’ll get it fixed right away.
If you have any questions as you eliminate more beliefs and read more of my posts (http://mortylefkoe.com), please let me know.
Love, Morty
While I agree with the majority of what he’s saying, the take home message just doesn’t seem to click with me. I agree, yes, that we are the creators of our beliefs. But I don’t agree that the self is totally seperable from our beliefs. Long story short: This didn’t work for me, but I could understand if it helped others feel better.
Hi,
There really is no “take home” message. If you complete the process, something you’ve believed for a lifetime will have been eliminated. The process eliminates limiting beliefs. There is nothing to learn or remember or use.
Thanks for taking the time to post.
Love, Morty
I’m not a native speaker of English. I’m from an asian country. I’ve been learning English since the summer of 2003. I go to a college in the USA. However, I still can’t communicate well in English. My spoken English is so bad. Now, I almost believe that there is no way to speak English like native speakers do. I watched your “I’m not good enough” video, and it seems that my current ability to speak English has nothing to do with my parents or siblings. I was always a good boy, and I did well in school. I was a neat boy who cleaned after myself. I don’t really remember my parents blaming for anything. So how do I believe that I can speak English like a native? What would you suggest?
Hi,
The program that helps you eliminate I’m not good enough is for that belief only. It will not work for other beliefs, like I can’t speak English like a native.
The source of that belief is obviously very different, as are the alternative interpretations.
We have private phone sessions with clients all over the world helping them eliminate a wide variety of beliefs. Call us for more information: 415-884-0552
Love,Morty
I am doing the natural confidence program and it seems wondeful. I keep running into an issue and wondered if other people had the same problem. Anytime I try to come up with alternative interpretations..like “My parents could have been wrong” my mind fights me and says “no your parents were the authority, they were right you were wrong” This keeps me from seeing the possibilities of the alternative interpretations with out this belief nagging at me and shutting me down. Is that something that will interfere with my success. Should the beliefs around them being the authority been put into the natural confidence program? Seems like eliminating this belief would take a lot of power away from the way we interpreted our parents.
Hi JH,
Sorry you are having a problem using the free belief-elimination process.
I guess we could have added another belief, but most people are able to find other alternative interpretations for their beliefs.
Keep at it and let me know how you do.
Love, Morty
Hi Morty!
I suffer with pains and aches in my body it really effects all aspects of my life. The doctors say its in my mind. Do you think it may be due to a belief I have picked up that may have caused this condition? I have had these pains for over 30 years. I am fit and otherwise healthy.
Regards
Wayne
Hi Wayne,
I can’t be sure. There is a significant mental component to physical pain, but I’m not sure if all the pain would disappear if you eliminated a bunch of beleifs.
Love, Morty
Hi, I just wanted to say that this is an excellent program. Although it’s true most beliefs were created when little children, I also believe that some of them were also reinforced or created by friends, school, other people, etc. For example when I was in grade school I formed a lot of negative beliefs because as a kid we want to belong to our social group and if that doesn’t happen, then we start creating negative beliefs, so instead of making it so repatative about just forming beliefs from parents, you can include scenarios that happened from one’s social circle. Just saying…..
Hi GT,
After helping over 13,000 people eliminate beleifs, we have found that interactions with parent are the source of almost all self-esteem type beliefs. Later events could have caused the beliefs if they hadn’t already been formed earlier in life.
Take a look at my blog post in whihc I discuss this topic in more detail. http://www.mortylefkoe.com/wonderful-parents/#
L0ove, Morty
Wow just did the video mistakes and failures are bad. I used to really stress out over that belief…now I feel nothing. It seems like mistakes and failure is not a big deal now, like its just not an issue anymore and I wont be worried about making a mistake or failing ever again. Like my mind is just uninterested in giving much thought to making a mistake and freaking out like I used to. The fear has been deflated. I always wondered what it would feel like to eliminate a belief and this is the best way I can describe what it is like with out it now. Pretty amazing program.
Hi JH,
Thanks for trying our program. I’m glad you had the opportunity to experience eliminating a belief.
And if you think getting rid of one is exciting, try eliminating the 19 that are responsible for most of the everyday problems we have, such as worrying about what people think of us, procrastination, lack of confidence, etc.
Check it out at http://recreateyourlife.com/naturalconfidence.
Love, Morty
For years and years,all of my life,my mother continued to repeat to me that I was born under a bad star.She used to say “poor….. you are born under an ugly star!I heard this hundreds of times and still now that she has passed away,I still sometimes hear her voice saying it.I know that it is not rational,but I sometimes find myself thinking that she was right.Is there anything that I can do to” put to peace”this belief? Thank you….. Regards
Hi Susana,
Thanks for your interest in our work.
You either can eliminate the belief on your own if you know how to do that, or you can call us for a single phone or Skype session during which we will help you eliminate that belief and a couple of others that might be a problem for you. 415-884-0552.
Love, Morty
For years and years,all of my life,my mother continued to repeat to me that I was born under a bad star.She used to say “poor….. you are born under an ugly star!I heard this hundreds of times and still now that she has passed away,I still sometimes hear her voice saying it.I know that it is not rational,but I sometimes find myself thinking that she was right.Is there anything that I can do to” put to peace”this belief?Thank you…..Regards
Hello, Thank you for all of your information. Is there anyway to view the belief eliminating on an iphone?
Hi James,
At the moment the program uses Flash, whihc is not accepted on an iPhone. We are in the process of switching all our programs over to another system that doesn’t require Flash.
It should be complete in a few weeks.
Thanks for your interest in our work.
Love, Morty
Morty,
Im starting out with the beleif that mistakes and failure are bad. The problem is i cant at all find refernces in my childhood where that might have came from. Im completely stuck. what do i do then? Is it a must to be able to come up with something from my past? My mind is completely blank. What should i do?
Hi Orrie,
Yes, you do need to find the source of a belief to be able to eliminate it using the Lefkoe Belief process.
The suggestions made in the video are the most common. If they don’t work for you, the only other suggestion I have is to schedule a session with a trained facilitator who will ask you questions and use a variety of techniques to help you find the source and eliminate the beleifs.
If you’d like to do that you can call us at 415-884-0552.
Love,Morty
Morty,
I just purchased your program after taking the free session, “Mistakes and Failure are Bad.” I now no longer believe that mistakes and failure are bad, and I also don’t believe that I’m not good enough. It’s amazing. It’s like the belief just melts and drains out of my head. I now see that I create the beliefs and attribute their meaning to meaningless external events. I have also taken “Who am I really?” and I have to say that this is the most powerful and succinctly stated piece of spiritual/psychological technology I have ever used! I now understand that I am what Joseph Campbell called the sacred “Thou,” I am not my beliefs, my feelings or what I do. I am the observer of these things, and I create my life by attributing meaning to them.
I recently lost my job, and my mom said I should seek counceling because I was getting pretty severly depressed. I chose your program instead, and even though I am currently unemployed, I understand that the events that have happened to me may be consequences, but they have no meaning other than what I attribute to them. For the first time in my life, I feel whole.
Regards,
Eric Evans
After I click on the belief the page I am told to bookmark is blank except for the comments window
Hi,
I’m sorry you are having problems. The site is working for me and for about a hundred others every day.
I suggest you try closing your browser and then trying again, or sometimes rebooting your computer works. But the site is working.
By the way, the program does not work on iPhones an iPads because it uses Flash. We are changing that so Apple products will work in the future.
Love, Morty
Plz don’t clame to give something for free when at the end of it all when u really want to know secret of loosing negative belief in 20 min, there is a huge price tag attached to. Good job in luring ppl to your web sit wit the aid of some friend, does take talent to do that But its not nice too fool honest ppl.
Hi Irene,
I’m really sorry you feel taken advantage of, but I’m not sure what you are unhappy about. We offer you the ability to eliminate three common limiting beleifs for free, and we do. If you want more than that, there is a charge, but we deliver exactly what we promise.
Love, Morty
Irene,
I got a negative belief taken away for free, and I also participated in “Who am I really?” for free. Morty gave me exactly what he promised. I then purchased the program, and Morty is continuing to give me exactly what he promised. He never promised the entire program for free, jut the belief of your choice. I am so thrilled with the results of his program that had I known it was so effective I would have gladly paid quadruple the price for it. Morty’s method is far more effective than anything else I have tried. I no longer believe that mistakes and failure are bad or that I’m not good enough. I took the Mistakes and Failure are Bad program almost three weeks ago now, and this belief shows no sign of resurfacing. In conclusion, Morty has given far more value than he’s asked for back in monetary compensation.
Regards,
Eric Evans
iam dying to see your video and gey acces to your freely available method.i cant see your video in my hand set.please avail your videos in mp4 or 3gp format.please.
Hi Xgon,
You must have an Apple product that doesn’t have Flash. Right now our programs require Flash. Try our programs on your computer.
Sometime soon our products will be available without Flash and will play on Apple products.
Love, Morty
Regarding this process to get rid of the belief that I am not good enough, what do you do if you feel that you know parents and others have probably said or done things that caused this belief, but you can’t remember any specific instances? I can’t come up with any pictures or images or memories.
Hi Ron,
You don’t need to rememebr specific situations for the Lefkoe Belief Process to work. A sense of your interactions with your parents is sufficient.
Thanks for your interest in our work.
Love, Morty
Dear Morty,
Heaps of gratitude for making such a gift available free to people. I’ll bet you are doing a great service to the world with just your free sample. Thank you.
I loved that changes I experienced in overall attitude, how I felt inside, a much greater feeling of ease, freedom, and a subtle deepening of presence, and most of all greater patience with myself. If you knew me, you’d know the lattermost is no small thing!
I gave it a few days before commenting, just to check if the changes were really lasting (and not just the aftereffects of trance or deep focus with no real substance). The changes are lasting. And the changes are continuing, subtly. Remove one part of the foundation of assumptions and the whole organism shifts. I must say, I like this shift!
On another topic:
I think I know what an earlier person, cheri, was posting about on 2 October 2011 when she said she was “tricked”. Below video #2 are the buttons “Discover More” and “Repeat”.
“Discover More” takes you to the sales page. “Repeat” is poorly labeled. It doesn’t repeat anything, it takes one to the third, final, and very important video in the process. It would be better to label that button “Continue to Step 3″ to accurately reflect where it takes you – to the final video in the process.
I initially poked “discover more” first, because I didn’t want to repeat anything, I wanted to continue! I was taken to a sales page, and felt very cheated myself because I was left hanging in the middle of a very deep process.
But, knowing that I can be too literal (and I can get snagged on words sometimes) and that websites are difficult to get perfect, I decided to poke the “Repeat” button just to see if it would get me better results. I was so very glad to discover the process is completed, after poking “repeat” under video 2.
“free” limiting belief page is a blank on iPad, or did you just want my email to spam me?
Hi,
Sorry but the program uses flash and Apple products don’t permit the use of flash. If you try on your computer it will work.
We will be switching to a new delivery system soon.
Love, Morty
Amazing program. I’ve tried a lot of different methods and seminars to improve my negative self-talk. I purchased the self-confidence course and I’ve never seen anything work so well, so fast and at a great price.
My childhood conditioning definitely had me reacting to situations in a negative way. I feel calm and really in charge of my life for the first time ever.
Thanks!
I keep getting tripped up when you ask “did you ever really SEE “I’m not good enough” (or whatever belief I’m working on). I get tripped up every time — I have to answer NO every time because a belief is not a thing like a tree or a car. Do other people think they SEE a belief? Am I missing something? Are you intentionally asking us a really bizarre question so we can see how silly it is or do people really think they SEE it. Could you have just as easily asked “did you ever really TASTE “I’m not good enough?” What am I missing?
Hi Joyce,
Thanks for your interest in our work.
Visual people think the meaning they assign an event is inherent in the event, so it seems to them as if they can “see’ the belief out there is the world. People who are more emotionally kinesthetic have no idea what we mean by seeing, and respond, I didn’t see it, the events made me feel it.
That’s why the Lefkoe Belief Process has separate steps to help both visual and emotionally kinesthetic people eliminate beliefs.
Love, Morty
Hi Morty,
I started the process of eliminating a belief and partway through the process I clicked continue and the next page didn’t load any useful content. I then restarted the process but this time there was nothing but a text box and continue button. I hit continue again and I kept getting pages without any kind of video player… is there something wrong with your site?
Thanks,
Casey
Hi Casey,
Thanks for your interest in our work. I’m sorry that you have had a problem trying to use our program.
We have about a hundred people a day try to eliminate a belief on the free site, and when we only get a complain from one person, it is almost always a problem with their browser.
Please try closing your browser and then trying again, or using a different browser. It should work then.
Love,Morty
I just listened to 10 minutes of your tape. It’s boring, depressing, unintelligent crap.
Hi Steve,
Sorry you didn’t find the process useful. Over 90,000 have been able to use it to eliminate a limiting belief. Thanks for trying it.
Love, Morty
Dissapointed at the lack of integrity……you adveetise at the end of tis perocess you will ave eliminated the belief…however ypou meant to say at the end of this process this is what I want you to pay for this information. Best say it how it is…….feels so not ok to be tricked.
Disapointed at the lack of integrity……you advertise at the end of this process you will ave eliminated the belief…however you meant to say at the end of this process this is what I want you to pay for this information. Best say it how it is…….feels so not OK to be tricked.
Hi Cheri,
There is no charge to eliminate the three beleifs.
If you want to buy additional products there is a charge, but eliminating three beliefs is free.
I’m not sure what you mean you were tricked.
Love,Morty
Dear Morty:I beleive we could help each other.Please call me at 818-385-0272 in L.A.
Love,Larry Crane
what happens if my father said I’m bad. HOW do I get rid of that belief.
Hi Dale,
how about stop believing what your father said?
At the end, isn’t is You who is believing that?
Hope this wil help.
Hi
I have a question.
In the “who I am I really” process, you talk about the eyes that gives meaning (interpretations) to the events, and the eyes are who we are.
I knew the things you shared about we are the creators of our life and we are not our acts or our thoughts an so on.
However I have always wondered why some child give negative meaning to an event while other child didn’t.
My guess is this child didn’t have “negative self restricting eyes”.
So I guess I am a negative self harming conscouiness?
Hi Morty,
I would like to say a BIG THANK YOU for creating the videos!
I’ve benefitted a lot just from participating in these videos. They make me more aware of my beliefs, but most importantly, I’m more conscious of when they are formed. They are mostly formed in my childhood. I still have many limiting beliefs, but now, I able to point them out and eliminate one by one after following your program and using your method.
Here’s my story and I would like to share with you:
I always have the belief that I have to please others or receive praises in order for me to be happy in life. I don’t necessary do things that please others all the time, but each time I did something good, I’m very eager for others to compliment me. If they do, I will feel happy and proud of myself. If they don’t or they didn’t like what I did, I will feel neglected, discouraged, upset etc. I’ll think that “I’m not good enough” or “I’m not important”… the other negative beliefs I used to have.
But after participating in your programs and thinking it through by myself, I know that my belief isn’t true. I don’t have to receive praises to be happy with myself or my work. Generally, when I completed and satisfied with my work, I’m already proud and happy with it myself! I do not need external confirmation or recognition, I already happy in the first place. These external comments could make me happier and improve my work, but they aren’t necessary to make me feel happy. So why do I believe in that I need praises?
I try to recall my childhood. It’s always a good starting point. Thanks, for pointing that out! Being a middle child in my family, I felt that I need to be obedient, extremely hard working, organized and excel constantly to gain attention from my parents. I would feel happy whenever they praise me even up till today. I’m already 27 now! And my dad is the type who don’t praise others easily. When I get full marks for my Mathematics exam, he could say something like the paper is easy. So to even get a praise from him, it’s heaven. haha… Sometimes, I also doubted when others give me praises. I wonder if they are genuine or not or they are just being nice. This all attributed to my childhood when the compliments don’t come easy. I suddenly realize I can never get happy from people’s praises! It’s either I don’t get compliments or I doubt them!
Thank you for letting me see that I’m the creator of my life. I can find my own happiness in my work internally. What comments whether positive, negative or none are just bonus to me. I shouldn’t let them get to me or affect me.
I’m sure I have much more negative beliefs, but I’m much more happier with myself now.
Thank you, Morty! =)
Hi Yong Kang,
I’m so happy that you have gotten so much value from my video programs.
It sounds like you still have the belief: What makes me good enough or important is having people think well of me. That, and 18 other common beliefs, can be found on our Natural Confidence program. Check it out at http://recreateyourlife.com/naturalconfidence.
Thanks for writing,
Love, Morty
Sometimes I have trouble at the end feeling whether or not I still have the belief. I’m totally getting it on an intellectual level but the feeling is something I’ve wondered about. Tonight I’m starting over from the beginning and this time I’m trying muscle resistance testing when I make the belief statement at the beginning and end. It seemed to work and so if and when I’m not sure I think I’ll use it. The method I’m using is the one where your standing body tends to lean forward for yes and backwards for no.
Hi Chuck,
Did the muscle testing help?
Most people are able to know if a belief is gone by how it feels when they say the words. They stop feeling true, they no longer resonate, they feel silly.
Let me know.
Love, Morty
Hi Morty,
I didn’t get this answered so I am passing it on to you: I dont hold negative core beliefs holding me back – as far as I am aware – I am only wondering if the path I am following is beyond my capacity or a limiting belief. I am not giving up or looking for an excuse but attempting to be realistic. By the way, right now and after a long battle I consider myself a happy being. I think I may have not expressed myself clearly enough. Thank you again.
Hi Maria,
Most of us hold some negatvie beleifs fromour childhoods,even when we’re not aware of it.
Thinking you might not be able to do what you want to do might be the result of some limiting belief.
Love, Morty
I’ve done the first 2 and my question is — aren’t I now just replacing one belief for another? You are asking us to give the event another interpretation, but now isn’t that just replacing the existing belief with another interpretation which now becomes the new belief? So for instance, now instead of believing “I’m not good enough” I give the events another meaning and believe instead “they were wrong”. It takes the personal charge off the event by placing the blame onto my parents, but it’s still assigning a meaning to the event is it not, by assigning another interpretation to it?
Hi Joyce,
Thanks for trying our belief-elimination program.
You don’t substitute one belief for another. The alternative interpretations are only to realize that there are many possible interpretations for an event, all of which are in your mind, and the event has no inherent meaning. Once you realize you can’t see the belief in the world and the event has no inherent meaning, the belief will be gone. You will not be left with any other meaning.
Let me know if you have any further questions.
Love, Morty
i read your blog,i strongly believe if you want to change you well.mind over matter,you give some good techniques and strong words to hold a person up and give them the confidence to want to change.
After listening to the Bust a Limiting Belief for Mistakes are Bad. I feel that Mistakes are Bad even more now. What’s that about?
Hi Susie,
I’m sorry to hear that you had a problem with one of our free programs.
I have no idea why you would have a stronger feeling that the belief is true after going through the process. Most people eliminate the belief after going through the process one time if they understand and do each step correctly. A few people are unable to get the process to work for them.
Actually, we either believe something or we don’t. There aren’t degrees of believing something. We can, however, have a stronger feeling about some beliefs. And apparently your feeling that the belief is true got stronger.
Sorry, but I have no idea why. You might try one of the other beliefs and see if that works better for you.
Love, Morty
This sounds very interesting and I would love to see it, however I have the limiting belief that your website does not display properly on an iPad. Could you help me with this please?
Hi Darryl,
Sorry you are having trouble using our free belief-elimination program.
It was created in “flash,” which means that iPads can’t run it. We intend to modify the files so they can be seen on Apple products.
In the meantime, please try it on your computer. Let me know how it works for you.
Love, Morty
Hi Morty,
I know you don’t think anything’s wrong with me. Perhaps I just don’t know what I believe anymore. How come it’s flat when I say I’m a woman, a man, a monkey, just like it’s flat when I say any statement before or after? (It’s not that I’m not seriously trying).
As I’ve said before, I get it, in the understanding conscious believing including the speed of elimination etc, and I know I’m not stupid, but yet other people respond normally, so here’s another belief coming in “I’m not normal”! Because nothing seems to have an effect, it gets of course, boring and dispiriting to hear you ‘promise’ and ‘guarantee’, so much so that I begin to wonder that the negative statements themselves are exacerbating my already negative beliefs. Why would my subconscious be in so much resistance to your positivity and obvious wish to help me? I believe in you. So here’s another belief coming in “I don’t believe in myself”. As I’ve said before, I’ve been round in circles covering all these things but it’s like I’m a piece of wood, just not connecting, conducting impulses or whatever. There’s a deadness that I know MUST be subconscious because it has happened so many times with other stuff I’ve BELIEVED in and have been enthusiastic about in application, but yet nothing happens at all. I recall one of your earlier bloggers saying that she thought her subconscious must be ‘locked in’ and I knew just where she was at…”There must be something really wrong with me!” Of course, you said there’s no such thing. So what it is that leaves us out in the cold, feeling we really are failures, when we read all these positive testimonials from folk. What separates us from the majority? It can’t simply be because there are so many negs to de-layer that I don’t notice the difference yet. I know that there’s no shift at all, because at least some or most of it would have vanished long since.
You know, and your bloggers must know, that this is not a criticism of your Method/programme, because it obviously works. I just wish that ‘Locked-In’ and me, knew how we could diagnose the stuckness.
Thanks for your love and care and all your hard work, it’s appreciated by me for the change you’re making in the world, despite me not yet catching on to it.
Recently started the pgm and perhaps the answer of my Q will been taken care of by itself sort of…What I´m wondering about is my interpretation or judgement of OTHERS judgement of me!
For ex if I just know that my father considers me to be of, say low intelligence as this shows up in my grades or bad results in sports. Perhaps he doesn´t say anything but I understand from his vibes and feelings that he´s not satisfied etc. This applies of course to any person, friends, classmates, teachers etc.
Sincerely,
Stefan
Hi Stefan,
What your father or others think of you has nothing to do with the type of person you are. Their negative opinion is not necessarily true.
I’m not clear what you are confused about. Please write again.
Love, Morty
I’m starting to see a connection to what I’m learning here and a few things I’ve heard about quantum physics. The idea that something has the options of being either a wave or a particle until it is witnessed and then it’s fixed, or Shrodinger’s cat who until we know is both alive and dead in the box and then would be fixed as one or the other until witnessed. I also think of the question about a tree falling in the forest and if no one is there to see it happen does it make a noise. All of this physics and philosophy seems to point to the witness, the meaning we give something, as having the potential to create it. For me the whole tree question is yes it does make the noise because it’s what we’re used to, it’s what we believe. I have much work still to go to rid myself of my beliefs. Intellectually this is making sense to me and that’s a good place to start. I think I’ll be going over this again and again, it needs to be ingrained in me, especially using the skill of interpreting life in a way that is kinder to myself and leaves more options open.
Hi Chuck,
I’m glad that getting rid of a belief is providing you with a lot of useful insights.
Use the free program to eliminate the other two beliefs and see if that helps even more.
Love,Morty
How do you define intelligence? How do you know if capacity is a belief or a reality? How do you know if what you want to achieve is beyond your capacity (eg intellectual) or a limiting belief? I am really struggling here. Any help will be greatly appreciated. Thank you for everything else.
you cant know can you achieve something, nobody can. but what can be eliminated is that you believe you cant achieve it. and if you try and fail, you wont interpret it as “i fail always” “i cant achieve what i want” because you eliminated all those beliefs and wont generalize one single event and apply your interpretation to you and your life in general. You can not know anything for sure and that will free you not to worry or regret.
Just do the exercises and you will see the effect, with analysing it you’re going in the opposite direction of where you need to go, you will only dig yourself deeper into despair if you try to prove that “you simply dont have the capacity for your goals”. not to mention that human beings usually naturally strive (when they are being themselves) towards something that is naturally achievable for them.
if you’re trying to be an athlete if you’re following your true self you will just have a goal to be best version of yourself, not to be “better than your friend”, so if you’re not being better at it is because you just follow your nature… other way you’re following a belief “i need to do this and this to be happy” which isnt true and needs to be eliminated as well.
there is nothing you need to be happy, so even if you dont achieve intellectual goals it wont make you unhappy.
out of all beliefs in Natural Confidence set, I am stupid was probably the only one I didnt have. I just never strived to be smarter than I am, never got that programme “i am good only if i am very smart”. shocking because i have all other possible beliefs LOL
Thank you Pepi, I dont hold negative core beliefs holding me back – as far as I am aware – I am only wondering if the path I am following is beyond my capacity or a limiting belief. I am not giving up or looking for an excuse but attempting to be realistic. By the way, right now and after a long battle I consider myself a happy being. I think I may have not expressed myself clearly enough. Thank you again.
I’ve done a few beliefs now and Who Am I Really. I feel like I’m starting to GET IT. Wow! The philosophy behind it all reminds me of A Course in Miracles — “Nothing I see means anything” and “I have given everything I see all the meaning that it has for me.” (Lessons 1 and 2) That is making more sense to me, too. It’s like a little light went on. “Oh! So that’s what that was about!”
I am having troubke, I did the limiting belief that I am not good enough, but it did not seem to work for me. I was the middle child in the family of 3 kids my sister did no wrong, strong christain perfect child and my brother was the baby. I was the free spirit, testing the waters and always in trouble. I have to say that I can understand why my parents reacted the way they did. I gave them a run for their money and really did some bad things in my childhood-teenage yrs so as I was saying this out loud it did not seem to fit, because honestly I was a handful a little rebel.. it has made me feel like the black sheep per say..how can I get rid of this feeling..
Hi Mona,
In almsot every case, if you follow all the steps in the process, the beleif will go away. But getting rid of one beleif will not change your overall sens eof yourself, that is the result of all your beleifs, that might include I’m not important, I’m not worthy, Nothing I do is good enough, etc.
Say, I’m not good enough, and ask yourself only if those words feel like the truth, If not, the belief is gone even though you still may not feel good about yourself due to the other beliefs. And even if you think it is impossible to eliminate a belief permanently in only 30 minutes.
Love, Morty
Mona, even if you were behaving bad, you are not permanently bad.. so thats what you can tell yourself as other possible interpretations. you were free spirit and sometimes your behavior caused problems, but you’re not the problem.
I am getting so many great insights and feeling so energized by stepping thru each belief “ridding”! My question is what do I do about the damage done by my behaviors before that were due to these beliefs? I would like do-overs!
I just bought the program but I can’t seem to access anything on line
Which is reinforcing my belief that nothing really works . Please fix!
I am from Eastern Europe, average salary here is $500 per month. How should I possibly have money to pay for sessions? I suspect I would have at least 20 sessions to clear all the issues because I have a lot of them.
What a waste of time. Got your link from the Lisa Garr show and it doesn’t work. You just want people to buy your programs.
Hi Emmy,
I’m not sure what link doesn’t work, but I’m sorry you are having a difficulty.
You can eliminate several beleifs for free at http://recreateyourlife.com.
Try the process and let me know how it works for you.
Again, sorry you had a problem.
Love, Morty
It would be very useful to have a subtitle option in the site… i can translate to brazilian portuguese.
Hi Morty,
Keep up the good work. Do you have any plans for certified practitioners of TLM over here in the UK? Also – how long would it take to become a certified TLM practitioner? Lastly – could you recommend the next most logical course/programme to follow after the natural self confidence programme i.e would it be End Social Anxiety / E
another question;
i think i am more kinesthetic. But can I be a mix too? Because first I tried methods doing only “seeing” part and it worked, but when i pay attention I feel it mostly, dont know how I see it ?
and just out of curiousity, did you notice difference in personality among kinesthetic and visual people – are kinesthetic more emotional, athletic ? some correlation, even slightly?
Question
Can things like “introversion” (getting drained by social events.. needing (too much) time alone) be also changed by your method, Morty?
I used to believe I am defected, I am an introvert and I dont fit in into the world. I tried many therapies and they helped a little but progress was EXTREMELY slow, and mostimportantly ; my belief that I’d be better if I was more social etc. was stuck, even worse than before?
Currently my goal is to be able to enjoy social activities and to participate in social life. So I wonder… is introversion -having “quiet” energy fixed, inborn, or it can also be changed?
I want to change it because I want to enjoy group socializing (for now I enjoy mostly one-on-one), I want to feel connected to the people, and not “outshined” by loud people!
Morty,
I wholeheartedly agree with you – Mistakes and failure are not inherently bad. As you say, it is only a meaning you ascribe to your parents’s actions in your childhood. However, just like your parents, most people in the world share this belief, and that makes it into a social reality, irrespective of its inherent falsehood. There are real-world negative consequences, whether for failing to do what your parents want or for failing to do what your boss wants, or failing to do that which society expects from you. Our society is often intolerant of mistakes, failure and incompetence. The results are often “bad” for you. Loosing a job bad for you even if you take it as a learning experience. How does it help me to disbelieve that “mistakes and failure are bad” if my boss will fire me for frequent failure to reach deadlines and stated goals??
Hey Morty, thank you very much for making these programs available, I can tell they’re going to make a big difference. That being said, I have a few questions about the “I’m not good enough” program.
Why is it that only the experiences with my parents give me my limiting beliefs? Couldn’t it have come from other kids? I was picked on a lot by bullies throughout elementary school and middle school. Couldn’t these events have contributed to my believe that I’m not good enough? They are the ones that really stick out as examples of why I don’t feel good enough – not so much anything my parents did.
Also, what if I’ve had an experience where “I’m not good enough” is really the only meaning there could be? For example, in high school I auditioned for a musical group and didn’t make it, meaning – I literally wasn’t good enough to be accepted into the group. How can I shake this belief in these kinds of circumstances? I know that I can’t “see” the belief, but it seems pretty close. I’ve had a few other similar experiences too, being a musician.
Hi Paul,
Thanks for your interest in our work.
See my blog post for a partial answer to your question: http://www.mortylefkoe.com/031610/#
See also the blog post I will be putting up tomorrow for additional information. http://mortylefkoe.com
Let me know if these posts answer your questions
Love,Morty
Thanks Morty, I found that article right after I posted. It actually makes pretty good sense to me. It’s just that the most memorable negative experiences are those from school and later in life.
I liked the example you gave about your daughter thinking something’s wrong with her teacher, not with herself. It really made me realize that the beliefs instilled in us early on can completely distort our perceptions of reality.
Looking forward to your next post!
Hi Morty,
I get it but I don’t feel or ‘know’ it. I’m the same before as after, and the next day. I’ve been round in circles reckoning so many beliefs and other ways of stating them, on long lists. (I covered all this ground previously with EFT too) Zilch. Your good book doesn’t mention the conditioning of infancy before beliefs were possible, though I can guess their nature. Unfortunately, as with some others of your fans, money is zilch too, so the cycles continue…
ps ‘Leaning’ and other kinesiology self-tests also seem unreliable in my case so “What’s wrong with me?!?!”
Hi AJW,
There is nothing wrong with you. You, like most people, have a bunch of negative beliefs that you have to get rid of. Getting rid of one belief might feel good for the moment, but it is unlikely to result in a permanent change in your life.
Call me Monday and let me see how I can help you. 415-884-0552.
Love,Morty
Hey Morty,
My school is giving projects for the summer. My lecture is in psychology, and I chose to write about your work. I just want you to tell me what events in childhood, could have lead a person to form “Change is difficult”. I would really appreciate it if you tell me…..
Thanks and regards,
Danny
Unbelievable! People wouldn’t believe it until they tried it. Morty, I got rid of 2 limiting beliefs, “I’m not good enough” and “I’m not important”. I’m so overwhelmed, I’m at a loss for words. You’ve helped me do for myself for free in 30 minutes what others charge for their programs that take months or years to accomplish.
As I answered the questions out loud, it was as if you were here right with me. I felt my conscious awareness soar like I’ve never felt before. I’ve been doing meditation with different programs and they’ve helped, but not like this. I also have the book, “Power vs. Force” by Dr. David Hawkins, and I can see how some of the things in that book intertwine with your program. Bless you!
Sincerely,
Sherrie K
Hi Morty.
My beliefs do not stem from “I’m not good enough, or I’m not important”, it’s almost the opposite.
I have always been involved in sports and my basic belief is that the only way I can feel good about myself is to win a competition. It’s how I felt important as a child, it’s what I received recognition for and I always felt good afterwards. Now, my sport is golf. When I play by myself or just for recreation I feel fine. But in a tournament setting, I worry about not playing well or not winning, because if I don’t – I won’t feel good about myself. How do I eliminate that belief?
Linda
Hi Linda,
Whenever you have to do something to be good enough, you must have the belief I’m not good enough. If you were good enough to begin with, you wouldn’t have to do anything to get good enough.
Then on top of the belief I’m not good enough it sounds like you also have the belief: what makes me good enough is succeeding/winning. That’s what you need to be good enough. And when you don’t win/succeed, then you feel as if you aren’t good enough.
If you can’t eliminate those beliefs on your own, we would be happy to help you in our one-on-one phone or Skype sessions.
Call us for more information at 415-884-0552.
Love, Morty
Hi Morthy
None of these 3 beliefs really resonate with me – I tried to do the “I’m not good enough” one as it’s close but unless it’s the exact one, I don’t feel I can engage with the process. My biggest one is, “I can’t do it” – this is similar to I’m not good enough and Mistakes are bad but not the same!
What do you suggest? Thanks.
Hi Matt,
We’ve found from experience that almost everyone has at least one of these three beleifs, which is why we used them.
If none of them seem to be true for you, then we don’t have any others available for free.
We do sell individual beliefs, which you can find at http://recreateyourlife.com/store/beliefs-list.php. Maybe one of these will resonate with you.
Love, Morty
Wow! easy, simple and right to the point.
Thank you, thank you, thank you Morty.
As soon as I get the money I will get your program.
I can hardly wait to see what my life will become once I eliminate all those believes.
What a gift to the world you’re doing.
Thank you
Thank you, Morty. I think I’ve always sort of known this information, but never really understood it until this program spelled it out for me. Thank you, thank you.
Hi Peter,
You’re welcome. Glad it was useful.
Love,Morty
Morty,
Thank you for making this process available for free. Wow. Life changing. Namaste.
Thanks Morty for your insight, it fits right in with another Author I am currently reading. I have to admit the focus on parents was a bit of a stumbling block for me as my limiting beliefs centred very much on peer harassment but the overall tutorial was great.
Hi Julz,
Thanks for your interest in our work.
Our experience directly with over 13,000 clients has shown us that self-esteem-type beliefs are always formed in childhood in interactions with our parents. See my blog post where I explain why: http://www.mortylefkoe.com/wonderful-parents/#
Other beliefs are formed later in life as we encounter different areas of life.
Love, Morty
morty,
i’m having problems with the analogy between the rain and the reactions of my parents. the rain is not a reaction. i was the proximate cause of my parents’ reactions. it’s easy to see that the rain has no meaning. but if you are the proximate cause of a reaction, it’s harder not to attribute meaning to them.
I have never been a bridesmaid or a bride! I have been in an unloving uncaring relationship for many many years and don’t know how to move on or get out of it.
I don’t feel good about myself or do anything write where I feel that was a great job.
I just feel like an existence with a huge empty hole on the inside! and nothing or nobody to turn to .
Hi Louise,
The problems you mention can be eliminated when you eliminate the beleifs underneath them. Have you eliminated the three free beliefs at http://recreateyourlife.com?
That would be a good place to start.
Love, Morty
Morty, why did you not answer Anthony ?
YEP this program works!! I just eliminated a belief.
Marty,
I think you are making a contribution to many.
What would you say to Stronger messages to children that are definitely NOT a misintrepation, e.g., child abuse where you are beaten or sodomized or told straight to your face, “YOU ruined my life! I had to get married at 17 and that ended all the fun of my younger years.”
Or – I have had clients deliberately told they were useless, a pain in the ass, crazy, ugly, etc.
These are more than just misinterpretations…and attributive meaning.
hi Anthony, i have just done this program and it has worked for me a little as i can see now that i am important. but i still see that i am not important to my parents. im 44 years old and they still only want me on thier terms and when they want some thing from me. there have been times of absolute dispare in my adult life and they could see my pain and need for thier love, yet still they walk away. maybe if they had been there for me in my adult years i would have forgot the childhood dispare by now. i want to love my parents but they make it so hard for me to love them.
Hi Anthony,
Being told something does not mean it is true. One interpretation of what you are told is that it is true. Another is that your parents thought it was true but they were wrong. Another is that your parents said it out of their beliefs and anger and they didn’t really mean it. Etc.
Being told something or even being beaten has no inherent meaning, only the meaning you give it.
Love,Morty
Your method is very biblical. Proverbs 23:7 says, “as he thinks in his heart, so is he”. Romans 12:2: “be transformed by the renewing of your mind”
John 8:32 “you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free”
God has thousands of wonderful promises in the Bible that would give us victory if we would just believe them and get rid of all the unbelief.
Your website given in your email shows ONLY #1 your pix #2 a blank screen follow with NO sound
I thought the same thing but you have to click on the arrow to start the video. This needs to be made more obvious
After i regesteted, I chose the belief and click. It gives me a blank screen which “continue” to more blank screens. I’m using an iPad. Maybe it’s not playing on the iPad or iPhone?
I’m having the same issue…
Hi Jenny,
Sorry but our videos are “flash” and Apple products (except MACs) won’t work with flash. We intend to change our videos as soon as we can so iPad will work on our site, but for the moment they can’t.
Please use your computer.
Love, Morty
Hi Morty,
I sat through your free introductory video and while I understand the message about limiting beliefs being in the mind, I just perceive this bit of information as an interesting fact. I feel that the video has little effect on me.
Basically, the attribution of meaning to events which are in itself meaningless, I can agree with. But in my experience, the events itself are not what cause me to validate my beliefs, it is the expression of beliefs by others. I have the belief (here we go again!) that other people are thinking entities, just like me, and have their beliefs shaped by experience in the interaction of the physical world. And other people, of course. Their meaning counts and I take it seriously. And, given enough evidence by way of external opinions that ‘I’m not good enough’, I will tend to believe this. To think otherwise, namely to accept that I am the only creator of meaning for meaningless events, is a solipsistic view of the world which I can not relate to.
On the other hand, I can understand that holding the belief ‘I’m not good enough’ will turn into a self-fulfilling prophesy if one continually searches for validation in interaction. At least I’m aware that this loop is present in my behaviour, I guess that would be a step forward.
And, with respect to being the creator own my own beliefs, and hence my life, my main reaction is ‘Great! So this mess I made of my life is also entirely my fault!’ Which would be just about the opposite of the message you want to get across. I don’t feel more enlightened or elated after viewing the video, just more stupid.
But again, the meta-view of my behaviour would be significant, at least that did get across. Maybe I just need more time than others till this feeling of power over my own beliefs sinks in.
Regards,
Bill.
But Bill because YOU created those beliefs YOU can change them… You should just try it out. There is more in the program that helps you understand and resolve the issues you’re having and if it still doesn’t work for you, you can get a refund
Hi Bill,
I did not say you ar ethe only creator of meaning,. I said you ar ethe only creator of YOUR meaning. You give meaning to whaat happens in the world, regardless of what other intend. And that meaning then runs your life.
Here is a good example of creating meaning: You discover the you create the beliefs that create your life. One meaning is: I’m a screw-up; I ruined my life. Another meaning is: If I created the beliefs that have negatively affected my life, I can remove them and create positive beleifs. If I created my life so far and I don’t like what I created, then I can create a different life. I love being powerful.
Thanks for your interest in our work.
Love,Morty
Hi Morty,
I just came across your site and would like to go through the free process you’re offering but for some reason the video keeps stopping… will that interfere with the process?
Many thanks! /Moria
Hi Moria,
I’m not sure what you mean by the video is stopping. It is in several pieces and you need to click “continue” after each section.
Other than that there may be a problem with your computer as tens of thousands of people view that video and very rarely does someone mention the video stopping.
Let me know if you can get it working.
Love, Morty
Morty,
First I’d like to say thnak you!! I love you!!! Thanks for sharing and putting this out there for all of us to have access to. I’m on Belief #3 at present and working my way through. Eating lunch now and so I’m checking other things out.
Second, I consider myself a bright person although my teenager thinks I’m a computer dork. The way the pages change is a tiny bit confusing. Not the actual changing, clicking continue, but when you get to the next screen is does appear to be blank and is not super obvious that a person needs to click on the video or the arrow to start up the video. That may help. Also, I didn’t have problems with the video stopping at one point today, had to refresh my screen. Not sure what that may have been caused by. I did have problems using some work software via internet yesterday because I have the very lastest version of internet explorer- just came out, a tech guy had to go in an allow something in my computer to work. I tried to send a message through the email support on the site but was having problems reading the code thing and it wouldn’t let me refresh it to one I could understand… any how, alll techie stuff. I’d send my kid over to fix it, ha ha, but we’re not just down the street!
Again, Thank you SOOO much for putting this site up or I may never have found you and would have still been stuck in my old beliefs.
Hello Morty.
I’m a senior, but I had this problem about lack of motivation for doing homework for many years now (Like most of the students, but my problem is more intense).
So what beliefs do you think I have?
Also, what beliefs might cause the same problem (lack of motivaion) for sports?
Hi Danny,
There are too many possibilities to know without talking to you. It could be procrastination, a fear of looking bad (worrying what others think of you), or several other things. Each problem has different beliefs.
We have one-on-one phone and Skype sessions in which we could help you handle both issues easily. For more information you can call us at 415-884-0552.
Love, Morty
Hi Morty,
I love your work and love your blog. I released a limiting belief with this and found it very interesting and extremely helpful. I am planning on buying one of your programs and I was wondering if you have some specific details on what beliefs form jealous behavior. I am guessing they would be covered in your natural confidence or stress reduction but I was wondering if there were specific ones that you could lead me toward? Or is there a good way for me to figure them out? I have worked on the outer surface of this many times but it just keeps coming up for me and I would love to release it for good.
Much love and light…Erin
Hi Erin,
Jealousy is a fear that something of yours will be taken from you. There could be many beliefs causing that problem.
Many of the beliefs are contained in our Natural Confidence DVD package. That might not handle the problem totally, but it should help.
The only way to make sure you identify and eliminate all the beliefs causing the problem is to have private one-on-one phone or Skype sessions with us.
For more information please call us at 415-884-0552.
Love, Morty
Hi Morty,
Well, just ordered Natural Confidence and I am beaming with excitement! I can barely wait to get started! I think I will hit that and then see what seems to be left after that.
Much love for you and your vision in this life…
You are helping so many and I appreciate it more than you know.
Erin
THANK YOU. Even though I’m educated as a NLP Psychotherapist, and has been through a lot of therapy, this helps me out changing radically some limiting beliefs.
hi, i thank you for the sessions they help me calm, and relaxed, i am in the middle of a big change at my job and normally i will stress out, frustrate, lost sleep, angry at anyone and everyone etc but after going thru all the sessions i find myself so relax, complete, whole, so calm and peace. i thank you so much, i still have some voices that caomes in not so strong but still i know they need to be get rid of, i tried your quick method of getting rid of any other fear or voice that might pop up and i feel great already, i am looking forward for the results of these program. i didn’t know why i had to pay for the cd when i already done all the sessions online, they are the same thing, am i suppose to relisten to them sessions every single day, i didn’t think so ut i am confuse now, please let me know, i am so looking forward for what the next thing for me to do to keep up and maintain this wonderful feeling i have, thanks once again, Faye
Hi Faye,
We offer three beliefs for free and you bought a program that has 19 different beliefs and four conditionings. The process for getting rid of each belief is the same, but you have to do the process with each belief to get rid of it.
Let me know if you have an additional questions and let me know how you feel when you complete the program.
Love,Morty
Hey morty.
I have been reading a lot about your work and I really appreciate it. Really, you are my saviour. I eliminated all 3 beliefs on recreateyourlife.com and you helped me save the rest of my life and countless other’s too. Thanks a lot!
PS – What software was used to make the cartoons of the children and parents in the videos on recreateyourlife.com ?
I get that we impose meaning on situations when there is no need for it – the rain is not “good” or “bad” it simply is raining. We have created beliefs in the past which influence us not even consciously but sometimes dictate how we feel. Those beliefs might not necessarily be true. If we attempt to tweak our lives though by coming up with new beliefs (which may or may not necessarily be true) it doesn’t feel to me like a breakthrough. I want to eliminate all beliefs, the filter that we see things through. I agree that I am the creator of my life but would propose that I create my life by my ACTION in every single moment. This is the creation process and with the awareness of being in the driver’s seat in the ever present (no going on auto-pilot) we take control of our lives…
Hi Abarenboushougun,
You can eliminate all the beliefs you want to. We have a package of the 19 most common beliefs that cause eight off the most common daily problems many of us have at http://recreateyourlife.com/naturalconfidence.
And in one-on-one phone sessions you can eliminate as many as you’d like.
For more information please call us at 415-884-0552.
Love, Morty
Thanks so very much for helping me too eliminate my limiting belief of “I am not good enough.” I have struggled to suppress that ugly hurt for so long that it was buried deep in my subconscious. Thanks for giving the opportunity to identify it, seek it and finally destroy. I am born again, I feel a soothing peace not only spiritually and mentally but my body feels relieve as well starting with the top of my head then my stomach and then the entire body. A thousand blessings to you Steve and Lefkoe too, for this incredible practical tool for self development that provides immediate recognizable results. Thanks again!
Hi
I tried to look at your page (video?) but see nothing but empty boxes and continue buttons, I’ve tried in Firefox and IE.
So um I still feel like I’m not good enough!! Bot even good enough to see the videos. Plus now I’m starting to feel like a failure!
Niki
Hi Niki,
Did you ever get it to work. It is working for hundreds of others, so I suggest you try again. The belief-elimination process really does work
Love,Morty
Hey Morty,
I find your method very interesting and I really want to give it a shot. I have two beliefs that I need to get rid of, and both of them come from and unwanted and uncharacteristic skepticism. I have OCD, so my brain likes to think a lot of things I don’t want it to. All of these thoughts are in opposition to my beliefs or something I would like to believe. More specifically, I am trying to make the law of attraction work for me. Now as I’m sure you know, the law of attraction is ALL about belief. What you believe manifests. Now my problem is that I have an unwanted belief that the law of attraction either isn’t real or won’t work for me no matter how hard I try. Now, I don’t AGREE with the belief, but I know it’s there and it’s making things unneccearily difficult for me. The second belief I need to get rid of is just a broader version of the first: nothing will work for me. Now, again, I know that both of these beliefs are untrue, but I’m having trouble TRULY eliminating them, and it’s of GREAT importance that I eliminate both of these beliefs ASAP, as my career and my happiness depends on it. PLEASE help me eliminate these beliefs. Thanks in advance.
-Joe
Hi Joe,
We could easily help you eliminate these two beliefs in a one-to-one phone or Skype session. Call us at 415-884-0552 for more information or to set up an appointment.
However … getting rid of those two beliefs will not get rid of your OCD and are unlikely to make any significant difference in your life Most issues in people’s lives are caused by several beliefs and often conditioning also, and eliminating the two beliefs you are aware of won’t do the trick.
We would be happy giving you want you want, but I want to make you aware that giving you what you want (eliminating two beliefs) probably won’t resolve the issues you want to resolve.
Love, Morty
Morty,
First, thanks for the wonderful program. I don’t believe my fear of making mistakes has changed, but we will see. I do however look forward to trying another one of the belief busters. I did want to mention that I found the concept that the event did not have meaning to be,……… incorrect. True, some events only have meaning if we attach the meaning to it. Others are forms of intentional communication just as surely as opening our mouths and talking. It is important to me to note that it was a miscommunication that helped create the belief.
I hope things go great for you always.
Jeff J
Hi Jeff,
Even if people mean what they say and intend it exactly as they say it, it still has no meaning, in other words, you can’t make any predictions for sure about you, people or life based on what someone says.
Even if someone says Mistakes and failure are bad, that doesn’t mean it;s true. You don’t know anything about mistake and failure based on what your parents said about it.
Thanks for taking the time to comment.
Love, Morty
Firstly i really want to appreciate the work and want to express my gratitude from extreme within me.But what i want to ask is that what type of role does meditation plays in our life,i have been doing breathing meditation for past 2 yrs and i am greatly benefited from in and meditation ultimately teaches to control our mind.So my question is this that even when one can control his mind through meditation then why not meditation is taught to conquer stage fear and other fears and why lefkoe himself never gone into this question or never tried to do any meditation.
Hi Chirag,
I’ve meditated from time to time during my life but I don’t know enough about it to know if it can totally stop one’s stage fear.
I think that although you can clear your mind during meditation, when you aren’t meditating I think the fear is still there. The Lefkoe Method removes the fear totally and permanently.
Thanks for your interest in our work.
Love, Morty
Morty, I want to thank you for this program. I am a college student, and self esteem issues have been holding me back from expressing myself and doing my best in and out of the classroom. I feel much more determined and positive about my future after completing the elimination of the belief that “failure and mistakes are bad.”
Hi Justin,
Glad our work has been helpful.
Thanks for taking the time to post.
Love, Morty
my limiting belief is not cited above. it is that i just cannot be bothered. no i am not a bit depressed. why strive ? why stuff up your good health with stress and overwork? i enjoy people, good food and conversation and many interests..flying aircraft,gardening,reading , bush walking and camping….. i cannot be bothered getting any better than what i am right now.i earn the minimum for the maximum.my kids have grown up,my wife died a few years ago. i plan in advance but live one day at a time to make the most of enjoying what i do that day..i find that there are many people like me. you are today because of what you were yesterday and will be tomorrow because of what you are today…the realistic truth so make use of it. gm.
Hi George,
There is never only one belief that causes a problem.
My experience is different than yours: You are tomorrow what your beliefs are tomorrow, not what they were yesterday. So if you eliminate your limiting beliefs, your future can be very different from your past.
Thanks for taking the time to post.
Love, Morty
All I can say is Thank You.
I have spent years trying to remove the ‘I am not good enough’ belief, through countless methods. Obviously they didn’t work. I still had the belief when I got here.
I don’t anymore. YES!
I can look myself in the mirror and SAY “I am good enough.” That so never could have happened before.
So again I say, Thank You.
Hi Nancy,
You’re welcome.
Love, Morty
Hi Morty,
I watched your free video on how to eliminate 1 belief.
I have some concerns regarding the material you’re presenting – as someone who’s worked as a trainer before – I hope you won’t mind me being plain about my questions.
(1) Life inherently has no meaning. Meaning is what we attribute to it (as a product of conditioning, etc.).
(2) Beliefs and feelings are products of attribution; they have no independent existence of their own
(3) You can be a happier and healthier person if you get rid of all your limiting beliefs.
Unless I’ve misread your intent, these are some of the key ideas that the free-demo of your program revolves around. I have queries on all three points and seek clarification:
(1) Life has no inherent meaning except that which we give it – Surely this undermines every tenet of every major school of spiritual (and religious) teachings. My own views are that there is a meaning to life, but it’s not the one that people in an unconscious state believe it to be. And really, overcoming false belief attribution is one leg of the journey, but nowhere near the end. In the symbolic paradigms of energy medicine, related to concepts of Chakras in the Eastern philosophical-spiritual tradition, knowing that the ego-self is a fiction is but one step, finding who you really are (and you state this in your video but don’t adequately explore it- perhaps you do so elsewhere) and what is your individual, personal sense of truth – is really the journey we take towards greater awareness. What I think you’re talking about is cultivating a ‘detached mind’, where you are able to accept and experience all events without judgements (good/bad, etc.). This relates to the 6th, or brow chakra, also known as the ‘third eye’ of discernment. Yet your program does not discuss how to find your own internal compass, how to seek your own truth. I fear it stops at saying: There is no truth. There is no meaning. And that is not a message I would endorse in my own work.
There are far too many people living off fake ‘spiritual highs’ believing that detachment from right/wrong; good/bad is the way to be. In practice, while these persons may be highly successful in business; quite often they exhibit signs of a lack of empathy. How often have we encountered typical type-A personalities who bash their way through the world uncaring of their effects on others? I’m not saying that the people who benefit from your program lack empathy, I’m just asking how you address this point.
(2) Beliefs and feelings are products of attribution: Again, I would have to disagree. People from different backgrounds, cultures, races, ages, etc. have experienced at some point in their lives a sense of ‘universal truths’, often breaking their own (false-sense) of limiting beliefs. Such life-changing experiences can occur whether or not a person is religious, or performs spiritual practice. To say that all beliefs and feelings are products of the mind limit severely the spiritual senses inherent in all human beings.
Moreover, certain ‘beliefs’ and ‘feelings’, regardless of whether they are internal or externally induced, may actually lead you to (correctly) conclude: that (certain) Mistakes are bad (for example). I’ll use two dramatic examples to make my point. Your demo provides the tools to eradicate any belief or feelings or negativity that arise from them by positing alternative views of a situation. (I should add that you also do not address who the ‘creator’ of these views are and why you would create such views for yourself in the first place – these are addressed again, in the traditions I described above). Say – for instance – someone who has committed a violent act of murder, rape or something less severe like theft or jaywalking seeks to disassociate themselves from the natural feelings of negativity that accompany such actions (in most ‘healthy’ people).
Bear with me – I realize this is hyperbole, but it does make the point: With the tools provided in your demo, a person may well convince themselves that it is okay to commit murder. (Internal dialogue: Mistakes are bad. I shouldn’t feel bad about making this ‘mistake’. Why? Because there are other possible interpretations. E.g. ‘I did them a favour’. ‘It was self-defense (which would be valid to a certain degree in a court of law’). ‘They were weak and did not deserve to live’. ‘They were of a different race/tribe and were not human so it was okay’ Or, take rape – the rapist may well say an alternative interpretation could be: ‘She deserved it’, ‘I thought she meant yes’, ‘She’s my property and I can do whatever I want’. And so on and so forth, an aggressor may well de-legitimize a belief (or instinctive gut reaction) that says violence against another human being is wrong. (Again this is not my view, I’m saying that your demo leaves these ethical and moral questions unexplored and I hope you address them elsewhere).
Essentially my second point of objection is that there are certain universal human truths that transcend mind-based beliefs and move into the realm of instinct, or knowing. One might say that such universal beliefs and spiritual experiences are accessed throught the 7th (Crown) or 4th (Heart) Chakras.
(3) Removing your limiting beliefs makes you healthier and happier.
If life has no meaning, then ‘peace’, ‘happiness’ and even ‘health’ are empty concepts. I’ve argued above why life does appear to have some meaning that transcends the limitations of ego (which really, I think your program can do wonders for, but in conjunction with other steps).
Also as I explored in the examples of violence above, certain beliefs and feelings may be in accordance with an innate sense of morality that would be detrimental for any human being to lose. Certain experiences of beliefs and feelings — in my opinion — transcend the mind and actually signify the presence of a much grander, broader universal existence – they represent Truth. (with a capital T)
So these are my three (ultimately intersecting) critiques of the demo I saw of your program. I would be interested to know whether you address these questions elsewhere. I’m also curious as to know how it overlaps with practices in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy.
Hi BB,
I don’t address any philosophical questions and I don’t explain anything about my system in the free belief program. That program is a practical process that eliminates beliefs if you want to eliminate the belief.
I have written about most of the issues you raise in my weekly blog at http://mortylefkoe.com. Check it out.
A couple of points:
First, I said events — such as mom and dad yelling at you, someone not talking to you, a tornado, etc. — have no meaning. I never said that life has no meaning.
Also, to say that our beliefs are the meaning we give to meaningless events does not say that there are not any universal truths.
I am not theorizing that eliminating beliefs makes you happier. I’ve been told that by thousands of people who have used our processes to eliminate beliefs. Certain beliefs inevitably make you anxious, angry, and depressed. Eliminating them stops the negative feelings.
The point of alternative interpretations is not to create other (dysfunctional) beliefs, but to get that your initial belief and all the alternative interpretations are all in your mind, and that none of them are The truth. So you can’t use an alternative interpretation to justify anything.
Thanks for your interest in our work and for taking the time to write such an extensive post. Most of your criticisms are based on assumptions about what I think, not what I actually think.
Let me know if you have any further questions after reading some of my blog posts.
Love, Morty
Hi Morty,
I watched your free video on how to eliminate 1 belief.
I have some concerns regarding the material you’re presenting – as someone who’s worked as a trainer before – I hope you won’t mind me being plain about my questions.
(1) Life inherently has no meaning. Meaning is what we attribute to it (as a product of conditioning, etc.).
(2) Beliefs and feelings are products of attribution; they have no independent existence of their own
(3) You can be a happier and healthier person if you get rid of all your limiting beliefs.
Unless I’ve misread your intent, these are some of the key ideas that the free-demo of your program revolves around. I have queries on all three points and seek clarification:
(1) Life has no inherent meaning except that which we give it – Surely this undermines every tenet of every major school of spiritual (and religious) teachings. My own views are that there is a meaning to life, but it’s not the one that people in an unconscious state believe it to be. And really, overcoming false belief attribution is one leg of the journey, but nowhere near the end. In the symbolic paradigms of energy medicine, related to concepts of Chakras in the Eastern philosophical-spiritual tradition, knowing that the ego-self is a fiction is but one step, finding who you really are (and you state this in your video but don’t adequately explore it- perhaps you do so elsewhere) and what is your individual, personal sense of truth – is really the journey we take towards greater awareness. What I think you’re talking about is cultivating a ‘detached mind’, where you are able to accept and experience all events without judgements (good/bad, etc.). This relates to the 6th, or brow chakra, also known as the ‘third eye’ of discernment. Yet your program does not discuss how to find your own internal compass, how to seek your own truth. I fear it stops at saying: There is no truth. There is no meaning. And that is not a message I would endorse in my own work.
There are far too many people living off fake ‘spiritual highs’ believing that detachment from right/wrong; good/bad is the way to be. In practice, while these persons may be highly successful in business; quite often they exhibit signs of a lack of empathy. How often have we encountered typical type-A personalities who bash their way through the world uncaring of their effects on others? I’m not saying that the people who benefit from your program lack empathy, I’m just asking how you address this point.
(2) Beliefs and feelings are products of attribution: Again, I would have to disagree. People from different backgrounds, cultures, races, ages, etc. have experienced at some point in their lives a sense of ‘universal truths’, often breaking their own (false-sense) of limiting beliefs. Such life-changing experiences can occur whether or not a person is religious, or performs spiritual practice. To say that all beliefs and feelings are products of the mind limit severely the spiritual senses inherent in all human beings.
Moreover, certain ‘beliefs’ and ‘feelings’, regardless of whether they are internal or externally induced, may actually lead you to (correctly) conclude: that (certain) Mistakes are bad (for example). I’ll use two dramatic examples to make my point. Your demo provides the tools to eradicate any belief or feelings or negativity that arise from them by positing alternative views of a situation. (I should add that you also do not address who the ‘creator’ of these views are and why you would create such views for yourself in the first place – these are addressed again, in the traditions I described above). Say – for instance – someone who has committed a violent act of murder, rape or something less severe like theft or jaywalking seeks to disassociate themselves from the natural feelings of negativity that accompany such actions (in most ‘healthy’ people).
Bear with me – I realize this is hyperbole, but it does make the point: With the tools provided in your demo, a person may well convince themselves that it is okay to commit murder. (Internal dialogue: Mistakes are bad. I shouldn’t feel bad about making this ‘mistake’. Why? Because there are other possible interpretations. E.g. ‘I did them a favour’. ‘It was self-defense (which would be valid to a certain degree in a court of law’). ‘They were weak and did not deserve to live’. ‘They were of a different race/tribe and were not human so it was okay’ Or, take rape – the rapist may well say an alternative interpretation could be: ‘She deserved it’, ‘I thought she meant yes’, ‘She’s my property and I can do whatever I want’. And so on and so forth, an aggressor may well de-legitimize a belief (or instinctive gut reaction) that says violence against another human being is wrong. (Again this is not my view, I’m saying that your demo leaves these ethical and moral questions unexplored and I hope you address them elsewhere).
Essentially my second point of objection is that there are certain universal human truths that transcend mind-based beliefs and move into the realm of instinct, or knowing. One might say that such universal beliefs and spiritual experiences are accessed throught the 7th (Crown) or 4th (Heart) Chakras.
(3) Removing your limiting beliefs makes you healthier and happier.
If life has no meaning, then ‘peace’, ‘happiness’ and even ‘health’ are empty concepts. I’ve argued above why life does appear to have some meaning that transcends the limitations of ego (which really, I think your program can do wonders for, but in conjunction with other steps).
Also as I explored in the examples of violence above, certain beliefs and feelings may be in accordance with an innate sense of morality that would be detrimental for any human being to lose. Certain experiences of beliefs and feelings — in my opinion — transcend the mind and actually signify the presence of a much grander, broader universal existence – they represent Truth. (with a capital T)
So these are my three (ultimately intersecting) critiques of the demo I saw of your program. I would be interested to know whether you address these questions elsewhere. I’m also curious as to know how it overlaps with practices in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy.
Regards,
BB.
i m 5 time failer in ca exam now i can,t understand what to do. plz help me …..i lose my confidence also. how can i solve my problem
My mother was critical, my father died when I was 7. I did not experience any positive support from my father. I am not even able to imagine how it would feel but i know it would make a difference. I always felt unsupported and insignificant in the eyes of others but I do feel good enough within myself. My limiting belief is about determining and fixed effect of being unfathered. That it must be so because of this. There is no positive model of masculinity and creativity, of success in life. Weak men relating to me will become even weaker, due to the absence of strong father archetype there is no support for a man. My need for this energy may depleat a man. This is my limiting belief. It is kind of psychological theory belief. I do not see any argument to the contrary. What do you think?
Hi Christina,
Your post is a good statement of a psychological theory that explains your situation.
We have a different model: All problems are caused by beliefs and conditioning and can be eliminated fully when the beliefs and conditioning are eliminated.
WHat happened in your childhood is not affecting you today. What’s running your life today are the beliefs you formed as a child, about men, about not being able to trust men, about men not being available, etc.
Love, Morty
i need your help
Morty,
What you do works!
I’m recomending your website to my clients.
Yes! You have helped me personally. I feel better physically as well being more mentally focused.
Allan
Hi Allan,
I’m thrilled that you got so much value from our work.
Thanks for recommending us to your clients.
Love, Morty
Dear Morty,
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thank you so much for the brilliant demonstration of how to eliminate a belief. It was very important for me. Now I believe that I will be able to buy your complete method, one day. I don’t know when, but I surelly will…
Let me give you a digital hug
Morty!
Thank you so much for your work. I have purchased the natural confidence program and am in the midst of recreating my life. I love the strong new voices in my head that now say things like, “I’m important”!
The list of 19 beliefs and 4 conditionings is extensive, but I’m wishing you’d add something along the lines of “I’m not lovable.”
Thanks again for being there!
Hi EJ,
SOrry we couldn’t include all the beliefs, but we can help you get rid of specific beliefs in our private phone or Skype sessions.
ANd for the next two days we have a $100 off sale.
Let us know if you want to get rid of I’m not lovable and any others you might have.
Love,Morty
Dear Morty
I came across the free belief elimination, became convinced enough to eliminate the 19 beliefs and 4 conditionings and would like to thank you – it revolutionised my world and it was a little frightening at times as I didn’t know where the next change was coming from – now my life seems to be pointing in a much more fulfilling and constructive direction now and the delight I feel to at last say, ‘I don’t care what others think!’ and genuinely mean it is truly blissful. Bravo!
Here’s to you and your organisation’s happiness and success,
Jeff
Hi Morty,
I am working through your Natural Confidence program and have started to notice small changes in the way I think about myself and interact with other people.
I am struggling with belief # 14 ‘I’ll never get what I want.’ This belief def feels like it is true for me but I am having a hard time believing I got this belief from my interactions with my parents. Growing up, I got pretty much everything I asked for (within reason), this includes birthdays and Christmas.
The more I think about the belief “I can’t have what I want.” the more I believe it should be “I can’t have what I want on my own.” Meaning, now that I am an adult, how can I possibly get everything I want without the help of my parents?
I think I will go through the belief again but this time use “I cant have what I want on my own.”
Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks,
Jen
Hi Jennifer,
If the words of your belief are slightly different, use the words that feel real to you.
The NC program doesn’t contain all the beliefs one might have, just some common ones. If you have other ones and you are able to eliminate them on your own, that’s great. If not you can schedule sessions with us so we can help.
Have a great day.
Love, Morty
I wanted to try to get rid of a limiting belief There was nothing on the page ??
Hi Chantale,
You might have been using an iPad or iPhone. The program doesn’t support them yet. It works on regular browsers.
Sorry you are having a problem.
Love,Morty
Hi Morty,
Your method works. I feel some improvement in my feelings.
Regards,
Chetan
Hi Chetan,
ANd you will notice even more change. Try getting rid of a few beliefs and let me know what happens.
Love, Morty
Very nice. I’m not sure about the effect, but the initial statement does “feel” different. I will probably want to do the whole program. I’ll know better tomorrow, after I sleep on it.
Jim
Hi Jim,
The question is not do the words of the belief feel differently, but does the statement still feel like the truth like it did before you did the process. If you eliminated the belief, it will still be gone tomorrow.
Let me know.
Love, Mroty
The page is blank! I’m trying to read it on an iPod.
Hi Carol,
Not sure what web site you are looking it. At present you can’t do the free process on recreateyourlife.com because it is still in Flash and iPods can’t use Flash. We are in the process of switching formats so iPods will be able to access that site.
Sorry, love, Morty
Greetings,
I can’t say that my parents were particularly critical …… on the other hand, they were not encouraging either even when behaviors would have justified it.
I was physically small from grade 1 of elementary school and often I was bullied (all the way up thru senior high).
Also, my parent’s financial means were limited and the statement “we can’t afford the things other families can” created a “complex” of sorts.
On the other hand, I was a good student and usually got A’s and B’s.
I got a BA in liberal arts and got married to a fellow student upon graduating.
A subsequent failure of a business led to the eruption of these suppressed feelings …… I plunged into a deep depression and the marriage ended as a result.
I continued to stumble ahead, just managing to make ends meet.
At the age of 35, I returned to college and got a BS in pharmacy. Unfortunately, the motivation for this was to “prove” something to others …….. not a good motivation and I soon discovered after graduating that pharmacy was not for me.
Since then, I have had several opportunities to to pursue businesses and even go to medical school but in each case, I subconsciously sabotaged these opportunities (I have only recently been able to decipher my behaviors).
Now, I am telling myself it is too late to start over (I’m 62) and I beat myself up daily (even though intellectually I know that I was “unconscious” at the time).
Self-sabotaging behavior is still evident.
How might I use your program to get out of this stagnating, procrastinating loop (my confidene isn’t too good now) ?
Thanks ….. and best wishes.
Hi Morty,
I have noticed that you have stressed on the fact in the videos that almost all of our self esteem beliefs are formed by our interactions with our parents.
How would you explain in the case of two brothers who don’t have much of an age gap say 1-2 years having got the same parenting don’t succeed equally?
In other words one brother does exceedingly well while the other turns out to be a failure.
Regards,
Chetan
Unfortunately, we also received conditioning thru school, television, radio, etc and that conditioning and the cultural expectations (their demands) may conflict with our personal experiences …… plus I also believe that there may be individual predispositions due to genetics/brain differences …… ultimately beliefs make keep us from taking chances ….. achieving change.
Oh, I think I know this ! In the videos, he stresses that you are the creator of your beliefs, because you interpret the meanings of meaningless events. So, the two brothers each interpret the same meaningless events(interactions with parents) differently, and each formed different beliefs. One created beliefs that lead him to be successful. In contrast, the other brother interpreted the same interactions differently, and negatively, and formed beliefs that lead him to failure. Hope this makes sense. (:
Dear Morty,
I found your site by chance while looking on the net about self-esteem. I must admit, I was very curious. Maybe many people found what they were looking for, but it just seems I’m to complicated.
I remember most of my childhood and it was half – half. I was beaten, abused, tortured, especially psychological. If I ever asked why, which I quite often did, the answer was that I know why. After a good beat, I would receive some ice-cream and they would tell me “We’re friends again, right?”.
Anyway, enough with the details. The thing is, I wanted to be perfect and whenever I would achieve something, it was not good enough. Even now, although I repeat myself every time how wonderful and smart and beautiful I am, it doesn’t really help. It’s like a vermin eating me up inside. My mother thinks she raised me well and I’m afraid to make any reproaches.
The truth is I hate my family and I hate myself and I just wanted to vanish, not to exist anymore. Of course, now I have changed a bit, especially since I moved out… very, very far, about 9000 km away!
Many of my friends had or still have similar experiences and I don’t know how to help them.
So, my question would be how do I cope with my own vermin and how do I convince my friends that they are actually wonderful people with many achievements and do not need to listen to anyone saying otherwise. Including their parents.
I’m not looking for the perfect answer, just an opinion.
Thank you very much.
Regards,
Sandra
Is there supposed to be a lot of white space between the illustrations on the video? Because that is what I saw. Cartoon of parent and child, white space, cartoon of parent, white space….
I use a Mac; maybe it is a problem caused by crossing platforms?
LOL…and I luv your work also Morty
Luv ya work Monty
thnx
After a year of wondering and pondering I finally bought the Natural Confidence program. Normally I get nervous about spending larger amounts of money but I have to say that I didn’t even question this choice. I am ready to change.
I just eliminated the first two beliefs and I feel different, but I can’t fully describe it. It is almost like a new sense of calm or “a matter of fact” feeling has come over me. I know that ch…wait a second…I was about to say that “I know change takes time” but that is a belief waiting to be eliminated…haha.
In any case, I’m excited to work through the NC program and finally feel the way that everyone else sees me. Everyone sees me as a happy, confident and fun person…and I want to believe/know the same.
I have a ways to go, but thanks to you the journey is going to be simple and fun. Thank you! I’ll post again once I have finished the program.
Ooo…I do have one quick question. What sort of time line or plan is the best to follow? What is a reasonable number of beliefs to eliminate in a day?
Thanks again Morty!
PS: My husband and I are planning on starting a family in the fall and I’ve got Shelly’s “Parenting the Lefkoe way” http://thelefkoeway.com/ bookmarked. I’m sure that the Lefkoe method will help me raise a confident and happy child.
I just finished the complete system and can already feel changes. I look forward to making massive positive changes in my life from now on. Thanks so much for your wonderful system and I’m sharing my good news with as many people as possible!
Dear Morty,
Please excuse me for my absence but you must know that I am a good Christian Ortodox and in this week we pay great respect to Jesus so after pass-over celebation I shall contact you.
Sincerily yours,
Marin Tonciu.
Dear Morty,
This is powerful stuff, and I totally get the childhood thing, but I’m having trouble with other stuff. I am recently divorced. I discovered my ex had been spending a lot of time with porn on the computer, had been spending an enormous amount of time talking to his ex secretary on his cell phone, had opened accounts in my name that I was unaware of, and had lied to me about a lot of things. If these events had no meaning, and the meaning I attributed to them was all in my head, why did I divorce him? Should I have given them positive meaning? I don’t think so! However, I do see that they were actually positive events. They told me my marriage wasn’t what I thought it was and that I was married to THE WRONG man. Help me out here. They were hurtful and I felt rejected, unloved, and worthless. It was those feelings that caused me to divorce him and to realize that I deserve better. If, however, all men act this way, I have no need of them.
Don’t we have to attribute meaning to events in order to see that there is something better for us–that we deserve better? If there was no inherent meaning in those events, I could have decided to stay in an abusive, neglectful relationship.
Thanks for your insight,
Pam
Hi Morty,
Who would I call to learn the lefkoe method with better?
I am using the natural confidence program but I can’t tell if the belief, when I say it, produces a negative feeling and if it is actually removed later on in the videos. I want to work one on one and see the process work with a professional and then use their help to address everything in Natural Confidence Program.
Is there a specific amount of time to visualize my childhood and use a new interpretation on it before the belief gets eliminated?
Thanks a lot,
Jeff
Hi Jeff,
Thanks for your interest in our work.
If you are interested in a one-on-one session with a certified Lefkoe Method Facilitator please call us at 415-884-0552.
Love, Morty
Hello Morty, eliminating beliefs is part of my homework of the Lefkoe-Parenting-Course, so I am sitting here as a mother and a child. First things first: it works. Amazing. And I have a question. Is it true that behaviour of parents is meaningless? I have found, after studying your material, that I react in a certain way whenever I am identified with a certain belief about a situation and this always includes a meaning about myself, the child or a child’s behaviour or life. The crucial question for me is this: are our minds connected or not? Does a child really create her own beliefs or rather “download” them from their parents? I strongly feel the latter, we form these beliefs because the situations we experience HAVE meaning, they are given meaning by our parent’s, they give their meaning to a situation and we adopt it, just like we adopt other things. There is no meaningless situation in families where people hold strong beliefs about things. I mean, a parent who rather watches TV then talk to his child has a clear meaning: TV is more important than the child. I mean, theoretically of course the child still could detach from this meaning, but the adult holds ,a meaning. And if we don’t have uncle Morty around the corner giving us “alternative meanings” (thanks for doing so!) or telling us that this doesn’t mean that the child herself is unimportant, but only that for the parent TV is more important (which is painful enough), we are stuck with it.
Now, the method still works, as I can see now that I am not my beliefs and that I can create my own beliefs. But isn’t it so that in families situations ARE loaded with the parent’s meaning about children, life, behaviour etc. and the child takes it on, unless it has some other source of input that allows the child to form other meanings, or not? I absolutely can agree on anything else, but this part doesn’t go through. A child’s mind, I understood, is completely open exactly for this purpose, to download the information that exceeds instincts to learn the additional skills it needs. I think this includes “meaning” with respect to situations, as this will control our behaviour and results. If you can influence how a child feels about certain things or itself, i.e. what meaning it gives to certain events, you influence that child’s life, that is how culture is created and what education is about, or not? Am I completely off or where am I off?
And a second question: is it so that only when I hold a belief about something/give meaning to it that results in the creation of emotions, do I co-create my life, as my emotions determine how I ultimately act? So, if I don*t give meaning to things, I don’t co-create? Saying, if we want to co-create, we have to give meaning to events in life in order to create emotions that fuel our actions?
Thank you for your work, it is very, very interesting.
Here are my notes now that I am healed:
Eliminate belief I am not good enough
Beliefs
From our childhood and our parents
Be quiet
Be neat
do what you are told
Follow instructions: or be punished
This happened to me.
Didn’t live up to their expectations
many similar beliefs bring this on:
Their reaction when they did not like my behavior
I have experienced those!
Step mom: angry yelled, expected a lot, blamed,
Older: “I’m not good enough.”
The source of the belief is from parents reactions to us as kids.
Shipped me to boarding school in high school out of 7 kids…sent me away.
I am bad.
Dad was never home.
Mom, yelled all the time.
She talked on the phone about how bad I was.
__________________
Possibilities:
They had unrealistic expectations for me at my age as a child
Not a fact, a truth just an interpretation
THE TRUE NO A TRUTH yes
“because I said so.” mom said
“Don’t ask me why, when I tell you something.”
You could do better than that, blah blah
LEMON: see YELLOW
Meaning to EVENT
What did I am not good enough really mean can you SEE IT? NO
Saw and heard: many different meanings
They said, ——–
NEVER was it TRUE
THEY ARE WRONG.
If you cannot describe it, not true…what I really saw
was a angry mother, HER REACTION!!!!
series of events…
consequences and meaning: unpleasant consequences
was their meaning: Room- if they no speak to me I might think
they are rude, mad at me, stressed, deaf, I gave that meaning:
for their behavior from my mind
Meaning is in my mind.
No meaning as a child…until I gave it meaning.
What do I know FOR SURE? NOTHING.
It’s all IN MY MIND: not real
they made me FEEEEL like I am not good enough, you did that
to you with your mind. Meaningless events
Analogy: Sit in room, reading a book, and it starts raining:
Don’t feel anything: because of the rain.
A Farmer: needs rain feels good
wedding: feel bad
Is it the rain or the meaning I GIVE IT.
Rain has no meaning.
Feel good or feel bad meanings:
What did make you feel I am not good enough?
Only because you gave it meaning from your thoughts or your mind.
They sounded annoyed
Alternative: feel: unreasonable expectations of me, that is why they
are mad….not because I am not good enough.
I am good enough! This is TRUE!
3-18-2011 Notes
IF no emotions when I say I am not good enough, then it’s gone I am
healed. EMOTIONS heal you.
__________________________
Who am I really?
The conclusion: not true
You create your beliefs
My beliefs determine my life
I can change my belief’s and change my life
I am a hard worker,…etc…
I AM—————-
Never been the truth about YOU.
eliminate beliefs and feelings…
you cannot BE your feelings and beliefs
who are you really????
They got in my head because of your interpretations
I is who I is…the creator
You’re not your life you are the creator of your life
analogy: Imagine you are clay: you make it into I am not good
enough, mistakes and bad,
NOW: You can creator of your life and create YOU OR I.
Transformed
1. Cognitively* understanding it *experiencing it or *creating it.
Describe
-photo’s
distinguish it…
You are creator of your life not others.
not your experiences not your beliefs
what is possible right now?????
I am the interpreter not sum total of who you are.
Inside you…what limitations do you experience right now?
No limitations…
Feeling something is missing IF ONLY’s…
I expect to feel a release: I am good enough as I am the
creator
Nothing is missing and all is possible
distance yourself from thoughts and feelings: observe it
feels are there, but detached…
LEFKOE METHOD
Jackie Paulson
Hi Jackie,
Thanks for sharing your notes. I found the Lefkoe Method about a month ago and have been working through the beliefs. It is an amazing process. I have searched high and low for answers to why I think the way I do. Morty seems to have finally answered that question for me. I have shared the Lefkoe Method with my sister and she loves it too. Since we grew up in the same family with the same parents, we have similar beliefs and it is interesting to compare notes with her as we try to trace the source of our beliefs. I am so glad you now KNOW that you are not your thoughts and that by eliminating your beliefs you can have a whole new lease on life. Your step mom was very wrong to have ever given you the impression that you were not good enough. I am finding that when parents are insecure, they conveniently blame their children or hold their children back in order to protect themselves from their own insecurities. As Morty said, it is perfectly logical for us to think “I am not good enough, I am not important, etc…” I am sorry you had to go through that as a child but am so glad you have “figured it out”! I love the line “It is not The Truth but just A Truth!!!! Good luck in contnuing to eliminate your childhood beliefs that can stand in the way of self fulfillment!!! Maybe we will meet at a Lefkoe convention some day:) Take care. Bill Nonte, Orlando, Florida.
Hi Morty
Tried sending you this letter, but it wasn’t the right email…So I’m posting it here.
I left you a comment earlier, I’m sure you’re busy and can’t comment on every single compliment… It is sooo amazing that your wife is also great, her parenting tips are the best – you are one special couple!!
I live in Israel now, made aliyah from Montreal in 1981. I’m studying to be a marriage therapist now.
If you ever visit in Israel, please feel free to drop me a line and I’d love to meet both of you in person and take you out to lunch or dinner…
Racquel
Hi Racquel,
If we ever get to Israel we will look you up. Thanks for the invitation.
Glad you find our work useful.
Love,Morty
Then, after I managed to nudge it past the hangup point, it goes to a spam page selling more of your products.
Kind of scammy.
This is your “cure”? wow. I’m underwhelmed. You may have been able to trick me into saying and typing “I’m not good enough.” (Was that fun for you?)
But I am far too good to fall for something like that.
Good luck with your “business”.
Hi Barry,
I’m really sorry you had a problem with our program. It is designed to help you totally eliminate the three common beliefs. If you will scroll through the hundreds of comments underneath your post you will see that many people eliminated the belief and found it very useful.
SOmething happened with your computer and I’m not sure what because most people have no problem with the program.
You might want to try it again and let me know what you think.
Again, sorry it didn’t work the first time.
Love, Morty
The page hangs up and freezes at the point where I type “I’m not good enough.” Sort of has the opposite of the intended effect. Don’t you think?
Hi Morty,
I was wondering how long you should imagine for when you are using your new interpretation?? For the first beliefs 1-9 I could imagine for about 30 seconds and it seemed to work, now for belief 10 it is taking over a minute or 2 and still feels weird when I say the belief.
Also, what are you supposed to FEEL when the belief is eliminated? I felt a lighter feeling and a sense of happiness and started almost laughing when I would re-say the belief at the end of the exercise, does that seem usual to determine that the belief is gone?
Thanks,
Jeff
Hi Jeff,
You aren’t supposed to feel anything particular after finding a few alternative interpretations. You just realize your belief is only a truth, not the truth.
When the belief is gone people feel a lot of different things. WHat you feel is common. But whatever you feel, when the belief is gone it feels gone.
Love, Morty
Hi,
Ok thanks that’s good to know!
Although how long am I supposed to imagine when I use the new interpretation as a kid?
And just “knowing” it’s gone will bypass the conscious and eliminate it that easily from the subconscious?
Jeff
Hi Morty,
Just went thru the “getting rid of a belief” (I’m not good enough…) and it was incredible!! I found myself actually talking to my computer
saying out loud, Yes, Oh definitely, No, Not at All… I loved every minute of it! The little square where you have to submit what your parents did to you, how you felt, and what was your interpretation: was very painful, sort of like reliving the past (and I’m 53 years old!!) but when I finally “let go” of the belief… I was so happy! People look at me like I’m such a happy person, so beautiful, so talented, etc., but nobody can fathom that I still live with this terrible feeling of inadequacy… but hopefully, never again, and from now on – the sky is the limit!
Thank you for your help,
Racquel
I sent your link to my sister who went through the “I’m not good enough’ session. I asked her what she thought, she said “I don’t think I’m ready to let go of that” … So i think part of your challenge is that your clients need to be ready to let go.. or open to the idea of letting go.. or ready to shed negative beliefs.
so maybe there needs to be something to help people realize they need this help . Right now, you are at the mercy of clients realizing they need help, then searching for ways to resolve, then finding your site.. You might want to align your self with someone higher up in the self-help food chain, like Tony Robbins, or someone with name brand recognition
I think you need to get this into the school systems.. Ideally, for kids in 7th or 8th grade.. before they start getting in trouble with the law. I don’t know how to go about this, but I would love to see a teen version.. using language and examples that would resonate with teens.. perhaps even taught by young adults or someone they kids would view as a peer. Perhaps your daughter or school principal has some ideas .
Schools offer programs for kids that are high risk and this is the group of kids I would target. Perhaps you could link up with one of the ‘kids at risk’ programs that are already widely disseminated through the schools. That would give you immediate access to the right kids using existing delivery channel to a very large group of people who could use this program – BEFORE it is too late for them.
I am a Personal Life Consultant, a trained Psychotherapist and I am amazed at how quickly my belief of “I am not good enough” came up and all the supporting beliefs came up as well. Your method is sound and worked for me. I cannot however afford at this time to have the program. I am so glad that I click on your site and found you. I will be able to support it in the near future. I work with clients to support them in clarity, balance and well being. So you see how your program would be perfect for me.
Thank you for all your insights.
Compton
Hi Morty,
When following your process, you ask that we go back when we were children and look at specific examples of when our parents had reacted to us making a mistake. But, what about examples more recent examples of when we, as an adult, have been on the receiving end of a co-worker’s, manager’s, client’s, customer’s, spouse’s, etc., disapproval? While those really old memories from my childhood are still in the back of my mind, there are plenty of more recent experiences in my head that seem to confirm and/or prove the negative beliefs that I have of myself. Any suggestions?
Tom
Hi Morty.
I just ran through your free program about eliminating the belief of “I’m not good enough”. I can see what you are trying to do. I understand the realization that you are trying to get people to achieve and I think that this is a good thing. However the experience for me was extremely difficult. In fact, rather than feeling better, I feel a whole lot worse having re-experienced some painful memories.
Now I do understand that these past experiences need to be examined and looked on in a different light to create a change (we can’t just ignore them) but I think I am trying to say that, for some of us, so much happened to establish the erroneous belief that the experience of looking back at them can be overwhelming – which can be dangerous if the correct support is not around at the time.
I will now have to go over and over these past experiences to change my understanding of them, because right now I feel worse than before I began your method. I know that this is a good thing in the long run (a very necessary thing if i want to change my life).
I don’t think I am posting this to be critical of your method – I can see the intention and I think it is good and I understand that it is in fact the only way to correct the wrong thinking. I think what I am trying to say is that maybe for some people the whole experience could be a little dangerous depending on what they have gone through in their life. For example, when I found this, the first thing I thought was that I must get someone I know to do this because she has become very ill with ‘wrong thinking’, but after having been through the program myself I now would consider it to be very dangerous for her to study the past in this way without the proper support at her side.
I’m not 100% sure what my point is. It is just something that I wanted to say after having been through part of your program. I hope that this message doesn’t offend you – that is not the intention.
Regards
Rob.
Hi Rob,
Thanks for taking the time to write with your feedback. I really appreciate receiving it. I am not at all offended.
Our experience now with tens of thousands of people who have used the Lefkoe Belief Process to eliminate beliefs is that less than one percent of the people who use it have the problem you described. We obviously have to be concerned with even that small amount, but the clear value received from the other 99+% is so great that I think it is worth offering our work to people.
Obviously some people’s childhood experiences were very traumatic and could be upsetting when revisited. Most people, however, realize that they are in the past and no longer present, and all that remains of the past are the beliefs formed there that still run their lives. The process helps people give a different meaning to those early events, thereby forever freeing them from the events.
Love, Morty
what is the diffrence between “undoityourself” to “recreateyourlife” ???
Hi Alon,
Give us a call and we’ll tell you what is best for you. 415-884-0552.
Love, Morty
Hi Morty,
This is Essie. I would like to thank you for putting together this wonderful Natural Confidence Program!! I have completed total 19 beliefs and 4 conditionings. I am now more aware of my anxiety and be able to recognize them immediately. Knowing that all events have no meanings unless the meaning I give them is very empowering. I couldn’t thank you enough for how you have changed my life!
In addition, I still feel some negative beliefs regarding relationships. I find myself get anxious in my relationship with my boyfriend and family relatives over matters. I think it’s because there were negative beliefs formed from my parents’ divorce. They had a bad divorce. I still have some fear of having happy relationship even a happy marriage.
Would you please advice on how do I find the cause and eliminate these negative beliefs about relationship?
Thank you so much for everything!
Best regards,
Hi Essie,
I’m thrilled that the Natural COnfidence course has been so helpful.
If you had a session with us on the phone or Skype, we could first figure out what beliefs were causing the relationship problem, and then we could help you eliminate them. ANd there might be some conditionings involved in your relationship issues too.
Call us to discuss at 415-884-0552.
Love, Morty
Dear Morty;
My first attention was failure. I am listening to your youtube videos. As soon as I understand your process I will try for a new one. Language may be a problem to figure out what you are saying. I have a hard time to catch all of the words. The sentences could be written at the same time. I mean any of your sayings. So, the people in all around the world would have better understanding. I got a strict belief what you were doing. My son took your programme. He said that he’d got rid of some uncomfortable feelings even behaviours. He worked hard on your process.
Thanks for everything.Love,Ayşe
I know that mistakes are not bad. I believe that creativity can be born in the midst of mistakes. However the consequences of my late age error, is killing me health wise and eliminating time being spent with my dying mother. I know that there is a creative solution, just have not found it yet.
Hello Morty,
I just finished Conditioning #1.
I bawled my eyes out through most of it …Got to the end and repeated the phrase…and the rainbow came out and I couldn’t stop laughing. I feel like the weight of the world has been lifted off my shoulders. Can’t wait to do the rest!
All I can say is that this is working for me and I am so so grateful. Thank you, Thank you.
Allie
Hi Allie,
Yeah!! Thanks for letting me know your reaction to the first conditioning.
Please let me know how you feel when you complete the program.
Love, Morty
Hey there,
I just eliminated a belief of “I’m not capable” and it feels amazing. I was wondering though, taking the “Natural Confidence” course will be amazing for me I’m sure, and I’m going to partake in it soon, but what about other beliefs. For example, Jack Canfields belief that you eliminated for him on “having free time and being able to read more and not feel like leisure activities are a waste of time” is a belief that I would love to get rid of. Although, there are no videos for random beliefs such as these. Is there a way I can get rid of other beliefs with the Lefkoe Method.
For example, I bite my nails and there must be a belief programmed in me to do this action. I REALLY want to eliminate this.
Or, the free time belief that Jack Cranfield had is a must.
And there are some other beliefs I’d love to “discover” because like Jack also said, “I didn’t even know I had some of these beliefs”. So where can I DISCOVER these beliefs that I don’t even know I have and eliminate them as easily as the 19 in this program?
Thanks so much!
Jeff
Hi Jeff,
We have a few programs that help people eliminate the most common problems and the beliefs that cause them.
To find and get rid of the specific beliefs and conditionings that cause your specific problems you would need a trained Lefkoe Method facilitator to work with you.
For more information about private one-on-one phone or Skype sessions, please call us at 415-884-0552.
Love, Morty
Hi,
I just thought I’d share this in case someone else is having this issue. I am going through the program, but had an extremely hard time trying to get rid of belief #10, ” if i make a mistake or fail, I’ll be rejected.” I didn’t even know i held the belief until I started this process. After going through the process 6 or 7 times with no luck, I was very irritable and had alot of anxiety.
Eventually, I just had to write down what the actual events were, and come up with my own possible interpretations. I guess none of Morty’s interpretations really felt right for me, for the situation I was thinking of, and that was enough to make it impossible to eliminate the belief.
Anyway, its gone now, but it was a very hard, emotionally draining process.
I’d also like to say thank you to Morty. I saw this program for a long time before deciding to purchase it, but i’m glad i did. Some of it is very hard, but i’m glad i’m doing it. Overall, I’m happier day-to-day.
Thanks
Mark
Do conditioning #1. I know you are supposed to do them in order but I had the same trouble, did this and the light bulb went off!
Hey Mister great stuff you posted here!
As far as coaching by video can reach I think you did a really nice job.
Just one thing I want to add since I consider it very essential.
Please pardon me if it is already included in the videos, I didn’t watch the whole 33min one. In case it’s already there just delete my comment.
Now my point is that in order to effectively change believes, you have to set up a new one. If you do not, you just delete and erase. This might be a nice thing as well but the problem is – in the absence of a new believe, your mind goes searching for something to relate to, to evaluate the situaion and inevitably comes up with possible ‘new’ believes which can be (since the brain works largely by examing old experiences) your old ones. So after spending an amount of energy on getting rid of some particular belief, your mind recreates it in such a case. This way you might eventually get caught up running in circles.
That’s why I say (and admittedly – I learned it somewhere else either) when you examine your believes and decide on which one you are going to change – make up for yourself a clear picture on what you want to have instead.
Lastly all that has to be conditioned. While one video or simliar exercise can give you the critical kick to get started, you have get used to your new pattern of belief. So everytime get in a situation where your new belief has any relevance, use it to condition that new belief until it’s automatic.
Best Regards!
Hi Lion,
Thanks for taking the time to comment.
My experience after helping close to 100,000 people eliminate many, many beliefs, is that the beliefs do not come back even if you do not create a new one. And I wrote a blog post on why we do not think in necessary or even appropriate to create a new one. (See http://mortylefkoe.com)
Also my experience is that once the belief is gone, there is nothing more that needs to be done. There will be an automatic change in your behavior and feelings that will last.
You might try completing the program and see for yourself. Please write again with more questions or comments.
Love, Morty
Hi Morty,
I’m still working on my NC-program but here are some findings and questions. I’ll start with a little background so you get to know my perspective and maybe it’s helpful for others as well.
My perspective
Coming from a childhood with a strong mental abuse (single child from single parent who was in hiding during WWII) I found the program sometimes a bit too ‘light’ in addressing my barriers and needs. I was literally brought up with the message that I was no good and send off to a foster home at age 7 for that reason. As a result of my messed up childhood I spend most of my life in survival mode instead of actually living.
Feeling unsafe is my main theme and has limited me in many ways which consequences I can see almost every day. Although I was able to repair my life over the years I still noticed something I call a strong negative/destructive subconscious that instantly kicked in when I visualized progress and expansion in my life. Lack of self confidence shows mainly in my work. But being self employed this has severe consequences. Then someone pointed me to your program and after trying the free beliefs I ordered the NC-program.
The First Round
In a week I went through all the beliefs, the conditionings and the bonus program. I had already decided to run the complete program at least twice to make sure I fully grasped every theme. Some of the bonus beliefs I did 2 or 3 times. And of course I ran the WAIR-program frequently after the most important beliefs.
During the process I could easily relate to the alternative answers. Needless to say most of them were way better answers than the ones I formed in my mind. These were great insights and touched some of the feelings I already had as a child! At the end of the weekend I suddenly felt sad and helpless. I noticed that I still operated in the same mode as before running the program. I went too eager and too fast through the program.
The Second Round
I ran the whole program again, this time making and saving the notes about all the beliefs. I had some trouble to recreate the childhood scenarios with the alternative meanings on some beliefs. After each belief or conditioning I ran the WAIR-program. But there’s a big discrepancy between feeling and knowing. Cognitively, my mind completely agrees with the statements but when it comes to feeling as if anything is possible there was quite some resistance. I didn’t end up feeling nothing is impossible although I want this immensely. Instead I ended up feeling much more is possible and I still can have a better life.
Even with the conditionings I took notes and played them back and forth. I’m glad I did because this addressed my main theme in the very essence. In line with the conditioning: with almost every large project I feared failure and therefore no love (lost client), abandonment (no clients at all) and therefore death (bankruptcy). For me this is most likely the main reason why I couldn’t break through the survival mode. Knowing that survival mode blocks growth and expansion this was great news! I hope this finding will lead to my breakthrough. Or does this need more work or another program?
My results so far
It’s too early to tell if I made the breakthrough but this I can share. It’s much quieter in my mind and for sure less criticising. Using the statement in the WAIR program regularly helps me to silence negative thoughts or feelings. I’ll continue with the program again and again. Adding more notes and maybe more detailed memories will pop up so I can make the visualisations more real. That’s it for now. I’ll report more findings when they occur.
Hi David,
Thanks for the long report.
The NC program is meant to deal with the everyday problems most of us experience. You only have to go through the program once to get rid of the beliefs and eliminate the problems this program is designed to deal with.
When the issue is more serious, as yours seems to be, you don’t need to do this program again, you need to get rid of the additional beliefs that aren’t on this program.
There are no other DVD programs available, as each person is very different. Call us to find out about our individual phone sessions where we help people identify the specific beliefs that are responsible for the remaining problems, and then eliminate them. 415-884-0552.
Love, Morty
Thanks Morty,
I hoped the NC-program could tear down my negative subconsciousness as it is the result of negative beliefs formed at childhood.
Hi Morty,
Is this method based on New Thought commonly know as Metaphysics. I firmly believe in the power of our subconcious mind.
Thank you for sharing
Are you kidding me? $250.00 bucks for one DVD? You are crazy! There are other programs out there that are just as good. I can’t believe I got sucked into even watching your video!
Hi Robin,
We put over 10 hours worth of material on one DVD to save the environment from too much plastic. We could have made a separate DVD for each hour, but why do you need 10 DVDs when one will do.
Moreover, I do not know any other program that offers a lifetime guarantee to permanently eliminate the beliefs that cause many of the most common day-to-day problems. Not to improve your condition; but to eliminate it totally. ANd that claim has independent university research that proves we do what we claim.
In any case, if you are not happy with what we offer, I truly am sorry.
Love,Morty
I DONT THINK THIS WORKS AT ALL. THE AUTHOR ASSUMES THAT ALL CONCEPTS ORIGINATE FROM CHILDHOOD, WHEN IN FACT THERE MAY BE MANY EXTRINSIC FACTORS THAT WILL DEVELOP OVER TIME FROM VARIOUS SOURCES OF INPUT.
Hi Matt,
I don’t assume that all beliefs come from childhood. They don’t. We form beliefs about issues as we are exposed to them in life. But almost all self-esteem beliefs are formed before the age of six.
And it isn’t an assumption. We’ve worked with almost 100,000 people from over 50 countries and have discovered this fact. It is not a theory.
Thanks for taking the time to post.
Love, Morty
Morty. I think I have a belief that I am having trouble getting rid of. The belief is “It’s wrong to want more”. Its not so much about I don’t deserve it, as it is a belief that wanting more is evil and not wanting is righteous. While logically I don’t really buy into this, the more I think about feelings that I have under some situations, I think I have this belief. What are some alternative explanations for this? I am pretty sure that it comes from the church teachings I had as a child. I would really like to shed this belief, but haven’t been able to yet. Any ideas?
Hi Matthew,
If you really have the belief, it is easy to get rid of using the Lefkoe Belief Process. If you are able to use the steps of the LBP yourself, that’s the way to go.
If you are not, you can call us and schedule one session with a certified Lefkoe method facilitator and we can help you get rid of that belief and a few others in the one hour session. 415-884-0552.
Love, Morty
Dear Morty….
I tried your 3 belief elimations having been referred by a friend. I loved the way you faciliate. It is both refreshing and insightful. As a ‘releasing’ website we hold Sunday evening live conference call sessions for our 400 members around the world on the variants of releasing and letting go of and eliminating belief structures and emotions.
We would simply love to have you come and facilitate a call for us. Would that be something that could be a possibility? We would like to spread the word for you and for our members to experience the phenomenal effects of your process. I know you are extremely busy and whatever happens, thankyou for bringing this wonderful process to the world…..
Much love
Lisa
XOX
Hi Lisa,
I’m looking forward to being interviewed by you on the call and answering any questions your members might have.
Thanks for inviting me.
Love, Morty
I remember my childhood well. My parents were very supporting and make me feel totally loved and did NOT give me the belief that I wanted to get rid of so a BIG part of your program was kinda off for me. I replaced most of what you said with the group of person who ACTUALLY gave me the belief. PLEASE BE MORE CAREFUL with what you say.
Hi Ashanti,
Based on our experience with over 13,000 clients, 99+% formed their self-esteem-type beliefs in childhood interactions with parents. So we created a product for those 99%.
Maybe your beliefs were formed differently.
I’m glad you were able to use the process by substituting a different source for the beliefs.
Love, Morty
Dear Morty,
I will highly recommend it to everyone who will listen.
I have just completed your Natural Confidence program and I cannot thank you enough! I feel like a new person
Natural Confidence is a pathway to emotional freedom. At times, I questioned the necessity for the repetition, but I am so pleased I stayed with it, because it works! It was through the repetition that I ‘got it’. At times, I thought the beliefs did not apply to me and almost skipped some of them, only to find I experienced a shift in feeling that told me some small part of me had believed it and now it was gone.
I think one of the great challenges in life is to see our parents as people. People who are sometimes confused and afraid and often without parenting training or skills. This program really helped me to see the role of poor parenting skills in my parents’ behavior. This alone was freeing as I no longer felt personally responsible — especially after I talked with uncle Morty
The changes this week have been dramatic. I am so grateful!
Thank you (as they say in French Merci Mille Fois) a thousand times!
Hi Shirley,
Thanks for sharing your experience with the NC program. I’m thrilled you feel “like a new person.”
Thanks also for telling others about our work.
Please stay in touch and let me know s you see more changes n your life.
Love, Morty
Great Program.
“I’m not who I think I am; I only experience Life through Who I think I am”
All the Best
Hi Steve,
Thanks for taking the time to comment.
Love, Morty
Morty,
I watched the “I am not good enough video”. I don’t have the feeling that it worked for me. I guess, in my heart I don’t believe that you can not change feelings and believes that are rooted so deep inside just in a couple minutes.
I suggest that you offer the video to delete the believe that you cannot change so quickly as well for free. If that really works then more people would probably buy the other videos.
I also saw that you offer the stress video together with a lot of other videos, but the procrastinate video comes with less videos. Why?
I would need a couple if not all of the other videos as well.
Hi Heidi,
The stress and Natural Confidence programs have the same beliefs and conditionings. The other programs have fewer beliefs and conditionings, as fewer are needed to get rid of the problem.
However, the NC video has all the beliefs and conditionings of ALL the other programs, so if you get NC you can all the other programs for the same price.
The NC program includes Change is difficult. You also can purchase individual beliefs, including Change is difficult.
Let me know if you still have questions.
Love, Morty
Hi. I just wanted to check if there is anyone in Johannesburg, South Africa that is doing this work? Pls let me know urgently. Thanks. Rani
Hi Rani,
There is no one in South Africa, but we work on the phone and on Skype with people in over 50 countries around the world. We could certainly have sessions with you that way.
Let me know if you have any additional questions.
Love, Morty
Hi! I tried yr 3 free belief elimination processes and they were good. However, I do think that I have many underlying beliefs to eliminate first. I know you have to charge for the programs but I am unemployed as well and living off the generosity of family as I suffer with severe mental health problems. Is there any way that your programs can be made available to people like me? Thanks. Rani
Hi Rani,
Call me at 415-884-0552 or Skype me at mortylefkoe.
Love, Morty
Morty. I have purchased your Recreate Your Life system and am finding great benefit from it. I am surprised at how many of the beliefs that you help clear, are beliefs that I really didn’t think I had. Can you suggest ways for me to find other beliefs that I don’t consciously think I have, so that I can work on clearing them using your method? I am struggling to identify more limiting beliefs that I might have, especially since I don’t consciously think they are a problem. Any suggestions would be appreciated. Thanks.
Hi Matthew,
Take a look at the Table of Contents on my blog, http://mortylefkoe.com and look for posts dealing with identifying beliefs. There is at least one, maybe two.
The best way is to work with a trained certified Lefkoe Method Facilitator who can help you identify the beliefs and conditionings that cause specific problems, and then help you eliminate them.
Love, Morty
Love, Morty
Dear All and Morty,
I mistakenly copied some pretty foul language regarding some of my issues.
I assumed that it would be cleaned up before posted to all. Please remove move post and I will copy in a clean one.
Thank you for addressing my mistake.
Hi Morty.
To keep a long story short… Your program has changed my life forever. It wasn’t just about eliminating those specific beliefs. It was about me being able to see that all my limitations are a joke I pulled on myself. It’s about me finally being able to realize I never saw my limiting beliefs to be true.
I am sitting here with tears in my eyes and a feeling of peace in my heart. Thank you so much.
Hello Morty,
I purchased the Natural Confidence program and just completed Belief #8. Overall, what if I can’t recall specific events in childhood but I do have a “sense” of my parent’s criticism, annoyance and anger? In fact, I can’t recall much, just a handful of memories prior to age 12.
And, at the end of a couple of belief processes, when I say out loud the belief, to determine if I still have the belief or not, I just kind of go blank and really don’t know. If I don’t know, does this mean I still have the belief?
Thanks for NC program. Looking forward to improving my life with great strides.
Fanco L.
Hi Franco,
You don’t need to remember specific events in your childhood. A sense of what happened is sufficient.
When you say the words of the belief at the end, does it feel like it did at the beginning when you thought you had the belief? If it feels the same, if it goes clunk, if you resonate with it, if it feels uncomfortable, you probably still have the belief.
If it feels very different than it did at the start, if the words feel sort of meaningless, if they don’t resonate, if they feel silly, if they aren’t difficult to say, the belief is probably gone.
Love, Morty
Hi again.
I happily want to add that I found your latest blogs. This is great. And for anyone else who haven’t, here’s the link; http://www.mortylefkoe.com/
But please, if you would, answer my inquiry below. Now, I’ll go back an check out this other website of yours.
Thank you again.
Sally
Mr. Lefkoe,
I’ve been looking over your site and I’ve come to realize that you haven’t posted any blogs for over a year. Is that right? If not, please reply with a link to your later stuff. I’m curious what you’re doing these days. And too, are there seminars that you offer.
Also, I went thru your video on busting a belief and I thought it was useful. My problem is my parents weren’t the problem, but it was my sisters and their childhood friends. They were very emotionally abusive to me and my parents just seemed to look the other way. I would put on a brave face, then later cry my eyes out when alone in my room. My mother’s favorite saying was, “this too will pass”. Well, now as an adult well into my forties, it hasn’t. Failed relationship after failed relationship, I always thought I was the problem and, in a sense, I am. That is, I now realize the beliefs I’ve carried with me since my childhood days were just an interpretation of the hurt I had to endure and nothing more. I created those beliefs and I can dispel them.
Finding Eckhart Tolle was a big help for me but your program seems to me much more practical. The one problem I can’t seem to get past is when I go through your video, it’s harder for me to relate since it’s all about the parents. Do you have programs that deal with siblings and/or others? I think that would be considerably more helpful for dealing with my past trauma.
Thanks for all you do.
Sally
Hi Sally,
After helping thousand of people, we have discovered that the source of most self-esteem beliefs is our interactions with our parents. There are rare cases in which that isn’t true, but it is for the most part.
Sometimes people aren’t aware of how they formed their beliefs between the ages of 2-6, but this is when they usually are formed.
If you read some of my old blog posts you’ll see more details on topic.
Happy Holidays.
Love, Morty
Hi,
Just like to say that I agree with Sally. The problem, most definitely, wasn’t with my parents but with my older siblings. If beliefs come about between 2 & 6, then it was from them, not my mom & dad. Guaranteed!
I’m sure your presentation may serve the majority of the population, but it does nothing for me. Plus, I’m sure not all beliefs are formed before the age of seven. Perhaps the core beliefs, which all others may hinge off of, but absolutely, positively not all.
Why not think about providing an alternate script excluding any reference to parents? I think you’ll find that there is an audience for it. I, for one, would welcome it.
Joe
Hi Joe,
As I told Sally, our experience with many thousands of clients is that core self-esteem beliefs usually are formed from interactions with parents. If they are formed in a unique way for you, I don’t know what that might be so i can’t write a script for it.
All you need to do is when the script asks, what is the source of the belief, you give whatever your source is. ANd when we are looking for alternative interpretations, make up your own to go with whatever your source it.
Let me know how this works for you.
Love, Morty
A quick follow-up, while at my brothers New Year’s Eve, he made a disparaging remark about me to some others to get a laugh. Nothing new there, but what was new was the lack of affect it had on me. Like other times I had no come-back, but at least this time it didn’t ruin my night. I just shrugged it off and almost felt sorry for him lowering himself like that to get some attention. I found this change in reaction by me encouraging and I can only attribute it to your free belief busting video. Very interesting, and thank you.
Joe
Hi Morty,
I did take you up on your free offer and I did very much feel a shift, but it is very difficult for me to believe that this is long lasting. I tried other products that were excellent days and weeks after completing the course and then one day I seem to “wake up” and realize that over time I’m fell right back into the old mindset.
Everything you say in your talk is absolutely true and the old belief is eradicated, but how does one hid himself of all the tendencies and associated triggers he has accumulated over the course of his life? My belief is the world is unsafe. It formed when I was a very small child and was abandoned and even though I know now that it wasn’t intentional on my parent’s part, that is at that time they probably thought they were doing the best for me, my tendency to treat the world as unsafe seems unescapable.
I realize that I’ve created this as a very small child, but coming to grips with this with your free trial or any other system I’ve tried seems to help temporarily. As life gets in the way again I seem to unconsciously fall back into old negative patterns. Kind of like coming out of a motivational weekend. You’re on top of the world for a good three to five days and then the wonderment of it all wears off and you’re back where you were prior to that weekend.
I’ve come to believe, at least for me, there’s no magic bullet. This negative belief in so entrenched in every aspect of my life that it has simply become part of me. And I’ve tried a lot of programs which have a score of testimonials from all the same wealthy self-help “stars” that you have on your sites and in the long run… well, as you see, I’m still looking, so I still must not be clear of my limiting beliefs.
You seem like a great guy, though, and I’m not saying your system doesn’t help some people reversed their lives permanently. I’m just saying that, from my experience, it’s not as easy as you make it to be. Though, I say from the deepest part of my heart, I wish it were.
Frank
Hi Frank,
It sounds like you did eliminate the belief and still have the belief, Change is difficult, based on your past experiences. That belief is making it difficult to believe that you actually did eliminate a belief permanently.
From your experience it isn’t easy. From my experience of having worked directly with over 13,000 clients and helped over 70,000 on line, it is that easy.
Getting rid of one belief is only getting rid of one belief– not too much in your life will change. You have to eliminate all the beliefs that cause a problem for the problem to disappear permanently.
There s a lifetime, unconditional, money back guarantee on our Natural Confidence package. Check it out and let me know what you think.
http://recreateyourlife.com/naturalconfidence.
Love, Morty
Morty, you said,
“Change is difficult, based on your past experiences. That belief is making it difficult to believe that you actually did eliminate a belief permanently”.
Wow. That’s some statement. I’m actually having trouble wrapping my head around that. I guess what you’re saying is I need to eliminate my limiting belief that ridding myself of limiting beliefs permanently is difficult because I did eliminate a belief but I just won’t believe it. Is that about right? What a mind twister! But you could very well be right. I mean it sounds like double talk, but I know it isn’t. I know the mind is very tricky and you just might very well be on to something.
But can you answer me this? Is you program just a series of going thru that cartoon scenario of having four of your friends over and they have their own interpretations of what happened or is it more than that? I went through all three freebies and by the third one I’m thinking, “been there, done that” and I just didn’t have the same interest. The information on your link doesn’t provide enough detail of what I’m buying for $300. Perhaps a link on what I can expect from your program.
Thanks so much for answering. I have to admit. Of all those other programs I’ve bought into, I wouldn’t have had this type of interaction with the developer of the product.
Very unique.
Frank
I want to correct what I wrote above. Your product is as low as $200. Really not a bad price at all and especially compared to what I’ve paid in the past for other offers that haven’t come through on their claims.
Frank
Hi Frank,
The Natural Confidence program uses the Lefkoe belief process to help you eliminate 19 of the most common limiting beliefs and four conditionings– that cause most of the everyday problems people have. For details see: http://recreateyourlife.com/store.
The steps of the LBP are the same every time you eliminate a belief. Sorry. But you have to go through them every time you want to eliminate another belief. Getting rid of one or two doesn’t automatically get rid of all the others. And you have to get rid of all of the relevant ones to get rid of specific problems, such as a lack of confidence, a concern with the opinion of others, social anxiety, a fear of rejection, etc.
Love, Morty
Thanks for the follow-up, Morty.
To be honest, I’ll very likely purchase your program. I can sense honesty coming thru in everything you do. It’s good to see. I was looking at the blog you did on money beliefs and I saw myself as one of those that sometimes purchases self-improvement programs and don’t do them all wholeheartedly. But even for those that I gave pretty good effort toward, the results weren’t long lasting. But it could be a belief that change is hard or unlikely. That just might be it…
Thanks again, Frank
Hi Morty,
Wow, I just finished the entire Natural Confidence program that you made available to me including the 4 conditionings. Thank you so much for this amazing work you have done. When I eliminated the first couple of beliefs I can remember thinking “Ok, I still feel depressed”. And other negative thoughts were there as well. But then I did the “WAIR” process and it was all down hill from there. I have heard and read through many teachings that I must take full responsibility for the results that I am getting in life. But this is the first time I have been given the tools to actually do that. It’s not that so many “bad” things have been done to me; it’s the meaning that I have assigned to those events that have kept me bound. And now that I know this, I can move forward by either choosing better meanings for the events in my life or simply leave them as the meaningless events they showed up as.
I no longer feel suicidal as a result of doing this program over the last 4 days.
There is silence in my mind. Over the last several weeks before doing the Lefkoe Method I had begun to tell myself “I hate you”. I would even look in the mirror and speak those words to myself. Even knowing that those words and thoughts would attract like words and thoughts didn’t hinder the negative beliefs and conditionings from continuing to destroy my life. Now that I know that I am not my thoughts, feelings or actions, I can recall that I am the consciousness in which those things manifest at anytime to get myself back on track.
I look forward to the changes that have already occurred in my life manifesting themselves in the coming days. I look forward to conquering the issue of money using the Lefkoe Method as well. I am setting a goal to have phone sessions with a certified Lefkoe Method facilitator within the next 60 days to do just that.
Again Morty I am eternally grateful for your generosity towards me. I look forward to continued growth and expansion.
Love Harold
Hi Harold,
Thanks for letting me know that our Natural Confidence program was so beneficial. Having been depressed myself I know how debilitating depression can be.
Please stay in touch and let us know how you are doing.
Love,Morty
Hi Morty,
Just a little thing. When I went to the sample video it wasn’t immediately clear that I should press the play button. I actually hit the continue button before watching the first video. Also, when I came to this page to leave this comment, it took me a while to find it at the bottom of the page.
Cheers, Bill
P.S. The first thing I thought when I discovered you, is “I like this guy.”
Hi Bill,
Sorry about the problem you had with the video but I’m glad you worked it out. What did you think of the video?
Also, there is a place to write a comment that the very top also.
And thanks for liking me.
Love, Morty
MY BELIEF IS MORE SPECIFIC “I AM NOT CAPABLE … OF MAKING THE MONEY TO PAY MY RENT AND MY BILLS”. THIS HAS BEEN MY REALITY SINCE I DECIDED TO DO WHAT I LOVE AND ONLY WHAT I LOVE TO DO.
I AM A WRITER AND ACTRESS. IT’S BEEN MORALLY DEVASTATING.
HOW CAN I BELEIVE THAT I AM CAPABLE TO MAKE MONEY AND DO WHAT I LOVE AND ONLY WHAT I LOVE?
THANKS .
INGRID
310-9633870
Hi Ingrid,
Your belief is based on your recent experience of not being able to earn a living.
What you need to identify are the beliefs that created the situation of not being able to earn a living doing what you want to do. And then get rid of them.
The belief you name is not the source of the problem. It is a result of the problem.
Love, Morty
Hi Morty,
I have managed to eliminate the belief, that mistakes and failures are bad.
I wanted to leave a message to let you know so that it would add to the people responding positively to your work.
I have been working on myself for a long time now, maybe consciously for 15 years and it’s been tough. But through it all, I’ve never given up hope and I’ve kept going. It’s kind of like everything is finally coming together.
I’ve read Anthony robbins books and a lot of self-help books. I then decided I was going to research into what makes people happy and that’s when I found your website, which brought everything I’ve been doing over the years together.
I now see how I created and can therefore create what I want.
Thank you for all your hard work and contribution and I just hope I can share mine with others as you are doing.
Hi,
I’m happy to hear it is now coming all together for you.
Thanks for taking the time to write.
Love, Morty
Hey Morty, Thanks for sharing your great information with the world. Everything we do is created in the mind to some extent. I used to get really stressed out and think I had no time in my life. I started changing my perception of things as it was the way I was perceiving things that made me feel those signals of stress. Now, I have extra time, I am getting all my word completed and I feel great. I’ve always been a positive person. This just is taking it to the next level! Your program was a big part of this experience for me. Changing beliefs, are huge! Thanks again!
Hi Joseph,
Glad to hear our work is making a difference for you.
Which program did you do? Did you just eliminate the free beliefs or did you complete the Natural Confidence program with 19 beliefs and four conditionings that I guarantee to improve your confidence and reduce your stress, among other benefits?
Check it out at http://recreateyourlife.comnaturalconfidence.
Love, Morty
Hi Morty,
I am going through the NC program and it is great!
A question: How can I avoid in the future forming limiting beliefs?
Thanks
Karthik
Hi Karthik,
Glad to hear you are getting value from our Natural Confidence program.
The best way to keep from forming new negative beliefs is just to be as conscious as possible and ask yourself constantly, what meaning am I giving to new situations in my life.
Love, Morty
this program was awesome simply feel grateful to the creator
Hi Rajith,
Glad it was “awesome.”
Your welcome, love, Morty
Hi Morty,
How can I go about eliminating beliefs which are not on the Natural Confidence programme? Can I find alternative interpretations to a belief which is specific to me and then say the belief elimination process to myself, or write it down? Would that work?
Looking forward to hearing your response,
Jon
Hi Jon,
If you can get through the process by yourself, then do it. Soem people can. Most people can’t.
If not, you can have phone or Skype sessions with a Certified Lefkoe Method Facilitator. Call us at 415-884-0552 for more information.
Love, Morty
Thanks a lot for your great work !
love zobida
Hi Zobida,
Glad you find it useful.
Love, Morty
Morty,
I have completed all the beliefs and conditioning. I feel more confidant than before now but really wonder if the deconditioning has succeeded. What do you suggest if I don’t feel I have been properly deconditioned? A
Thanks,
Bindu
Hi Bindu,
Why do you think the process didn’t work?
When the stimulus appears, e.g., rejection or criticism, do you feel fear?
Love, Morty
Hey Morty,
Yes I am feeling fear an anxiety. And suddenly powerless as well. I have done the “I am Powerless” belief and felt great for a while. But some how when I try to decondition, I am either not understanding the concept or am not gettig it. I have joined a new company and suddenly certain situations are making me feel powerless. What do you suggest?
Thanks,
Bindu
Hi Bindu,
There are so many possible answers it is hard to know from your note.
It could be that the belief isn’t really gone so you should go back and work on I’m powerless again.
Also, there could be other related beliefs that are not on the NC program that are getting in your way. The beliefs and conditionings on NC are some of the most common, but there are many others not on that program that might be causing you problems.
The only way to identify and eliminate all the relevant beliefs is to have a private session with us.
If you are interested you can contact us at 415-884-0552 for more information.
Love, Morty
Dear Morty,
Was listening to your well-made & truly unique video on eliminating “I’m not capable,” and was wondering if these ideas can be applied to children.
My husband is the authoritarian type who is fond of “What is wrong with you?” and I often look at my daughter’s defeated face and tell her that he’s just mad and it doesn’t have to so with her abilities.
Do you think this is effective in preventing these beliefs from forming?
Hi Adina,
It certainly can’t hurt and could possibly help. Don’t deny her experience. Just show her that her father’s behavior could have several interpretations other than the one she probably is giving it.
Also, check out my wife Shelly’s new parenting course which is nothing short of brilliant. It shows how to keep children from forming negative beliefs.
http://thelefkoeway.com.
Love, Morty
Hi Morty
Well, I had to work on belief #5 again, I knew I would have to do this, this one has been difficult to shred up and out. I was so lost in the crowd as a child and being mediocre in everything I did became my way of life. This was caused from a sense of futility I felt because of family circumstances. This time around I felt the re assurance of Uncle Morty next door help me to re define my image of myself. I really struggled with this one, and couldn’t believe how deeply ingrained it was to get go of. Will come back to it again if need be, but feel much more positive the second time around. Thanks
Hi Dorothy,
I want to acknowledge your commitment to yourself, to doing whatever it takes to get rid of the beliefs that are holding you back.
Stay with it and you will love the changes that show up when the beliefs are all gone.
Love, Morty
Hi Morty,
Thank you for providing this program.
I’ve just started working my way through, with the first belief, “Mistakes and failure are bad.”
When you asked me to say the words out loud, a huge wave of sadness welled up from deep within. I don’t know exactly from where or when, it just happened.
Guess what came up for me. My later father, bless his soul, was an airline captain. He commanded his first airplane, a Grumman Goose seaplane, at age 21 or 22. Piloting was his passion and his interest, not parenting us four kids, of whom I’m the eldest.
He expected his commands, in the cockpit as well as at home, to be obeyed without question, without delay, and to the exact procedure required. That may have worked well in the cockpit, before the days when crew management training became the norm. But such an oppressive, authoritarian atmosphere hardly constituted a healthy, open, and experiential learning environment for children!
I’m not sure about Mom’s role. She fell under his ‘command’ as well and had little to say in the home.
Blessings,
Tom
Hi Tom,
Thanks for sharing your experience of doing the first belief with me. Everyone’s experience is different in eliminating the belief, but everyone experiences great freedom when the beliefs are gone.
Love, Morty
I followed your program, or videos, on importance, and it really did help me. I had a dichotomy of a family, with one there for me physically and the other emotionally, but never at the same time. In context of my situation, whenever I tried to express myself, I felt like it didn’t matter and would have no end.
It’s really about having someone say it back to you; thanks.
heya morty.
your voice is so familiar, are you a speaker for landmar k?
i beleive ive been to one of your seminars in melbourne australia.
please email me buddy
Hi Tom,
No, I’m not a speaker for Landmark. And I’ve never been to Australia, although I would like to some day.
Love, Morty
Hi Morty,
Is there any chance that the Lefkoe method be tailored to get rid of shy bladder syndrome?
Thanks,
Jon
Hi Jon,
To the extent that the problem is largely mental and not physical, then yes, we could help.
If it is probably a physical problem, we might not be able to.
Love, Morty
Hi Morty,
Can the Lefkoe method be tailored to get rid of shy bladder syndrome?
Thanks,
Jon
Oops. I forgot to ask you this so here is an addendum to my previous post.
I can identify much more strongly with the belief you talk about in your video: “What makes me worthwhile is overcoming obstacles”. Bingo along comes a life of obstacles. I think this is a big one for me. I think/act like this: “Life is a challenge, and I am going to rise to each challenge and surmount it”. the only problem is it takes sooooo much energy now for me to surmount all the challenges I create in my life. I would prefer to go from A to B directly without confrontation, disappointment, bad luck, fate, unexpected turns of events etc.
How do I free myself of this in 30 minutes? That would really alter my life. Imagine what it would be like to achieve what I want without there having to be a battle, struggle, bloodshed and war! Life would be such a pleasure!
Hope you see a way to free me to live a life that is rewarding without the challenges!
I live in hope,
Claire
Hi Claire,
You can’t free yourself of this in 30 minutes.
You can eliminate a single belief in 30 minutes or even less, but you need to eliminate a bunch of beliefs before a given problem disappears.
And many thousands of people have disappeared many different types of problems by eliminating all the beliefs that caused the problems.
See also my answer to your other post.
Love, Morty
My take away from Morty’s method is that I create the meaning to all the events… I walk around now catching myself before I assign ‘battle’, ‘struggle’ etc… and know, with certainty, that I have the abilities to overcome whats in front of me to the best of my current abilities… and within my control of course…
Challenges happen every day. Your day will be exactly the way you want it.
In my opinion, I think it can be done in 30 minutes…
Thanks Morty… seeing life a lot differently these days….
Rick
I tried to eliminate the belief “I’m not good enough”. I don’t know if this is the ideal belief for me to begin with, but it was more ‘real’ than the other two options you gave me, so I chose that one. After all, I know deep down, there are times – in later life – when I have felt not good enough – though I have difficulties feeling this or recreating that feeling as a child.
So I’ve been throughyour exercise, done the replay once and still feel no better. I cannot really believe my parents were disapproving for another reason. They did react like that because they did disapprove of me/my behaviour.
On an intellectual level I understand that we attribute meaning to events, and I have experienced this Aha moment for myself spontaneously when realising that events were not perhaps as I had initially interpreted them. So your line of logic makes sense.
But in this instance I can’t let go of the meaning I attach to it. Of rejection, anger….. in fact I seem more able now to feel the “I’m not good enough” than I could before I started the exercise.
Two very probable, rational explanations for my Dad’s glazed, bulging eyes or my Mum squeezing my knuckles til it really hurt could be:
A) Dad had post-traumatic stress disorder (a fact) and he didn’t like any unpleasantness – so eye rolling at me when I performed wrongly in his view
B) My mother was very stressed and afraid of losing her job, so it was important that my off-behaviour was kerbed immediately in case there were negative repercussions (we lived at their place of work, so naughty kids could be a risk to her employment).
Both are probably the real meaning I should attribute to their disapproval. [Not wanting to confront bad behaviour; fearing losing job if I misbehaved]. However it does not make me feel any better about myself.
It just doesn’t work. I continue to hold the belief and I am afraid this exercise has just reinforced it.
Hope you can help me!!
Hi Claire,
The issue is not did you feel I’m not good enough as a child. Do you feel it is true today? You state at the end of your post that you do hold the belief.
The question is not were your parents disapproving of you for another reason. They criticized you. They might well have disapproved of your behavior. That is a fact. I’m not good enough is your interpretation of that fact.
If I know your parents criticized you as a child, what do I know about you as a human being … for sure. What can I be absolutely positive about?
Can you get that I don’t know if you are good enough or not. In fact, I don’t know anything about you at all from knowing how two people treated you as a child.
So your parents behavior has no inherent meaning. There is no “real” meaning. The only meaning for your parents’ behavior is that which you made up in your mind.
There is nothing to let go of. All you need to do is get your parents’ behavior has no inherent meaning, it doesn’t necessarily mean I’m not good enough, and the belief will be gone.
Also, there is no way to reinforce a belief. You either believe something is true or you don’t. It is on or off. There is no in-between.
Hi Morty
I been anable to remember much about my relationship with my parents because I never live with my father and my mother were almost always over protecting me. Perhaps my beliefs have another root. How can you help me?
Regards
Jorge
Hello Morty,
I have successfully eliminated one belief for free and really saw a difference after watching the “Who am I” piece. I went ahead and bought the Natural confidance DVD set and received an email with an order confirmation but no where is it mentioned when the DVDs will be sent or any means of tracking my order. I tried looking for a phone number I could call but could not find anything. Is there a number I could call someone at regarding my order?
Thanks,
Bindu
Hi Morty,
For some reason I felt strangely ill at ease after watching #5. All my life I have been considered a nice person and people like me. It was like I was stripping away something I was afraid to look at. I almost felt anger. It that unusual?
Hi Morty!
I bought Natural Confidence resently, and i’m still watching it, but when I was watching video “i’m not capable” I had this big question in my mind: What about talents? What if that believe comes from reasonable situation before or after age of six such as being good at math or bad at studying different languages or bad at remembering other peoples names and so on from situations that had nothing to do with our parents but our skills with different things. Also some people say that whatever talent we have comes from passion to practise that skill but then other people talk about specific genes that is connected with talents with sports for example.
Hi Joonas,
The belief I’m not capable does not come from merely not being good at a given subject or task. That situation would just have you conclude, I’m not good at this specific thing right now.
I’m not capable is a judgment you have placed on yourself as a person, applicable to everything.
Moreover, we may have genes that predispose us to excellence at certain things, but after that comes hard work and our beliefs determine what we are interested in and how hard we are willing to work.
Love, Morty
I completed the full program over a week ago and I found this interesting observation and it may help others !
I did not feel any signifacant differance at the end of each segment or even after completing whole program… What I have noticed though is I have done some things over the past few days that previously I have either put off,not done or didnt think I could do ! Looking inside I realise there are no blocks or walls and instead a feeling of peace even freedom !!! Thank you very Cool!
Rick
Hi Rick,
Your experience is common. There is no specifically observable change, except that new possibilities open up that you aren’t even aware of .
Thanks for sharing your observations with us.
Love, Morty
Morty
great program ! I have gone through the natural confidence program and feel amazing results. I have a lingering question about the process. When I go back to my early interactions with my parents to eliminate a belief it IS almost as if I can see that belief. It is true that after I eliminate that belief I can no longer see that belief from my early childhood however images of the belief still linger from a time later in my life ( some are in my early teens and early adulthood) It seems your program stresses that when you find the earlier/earliest image of the belief the more effective it will be in eliminating that belief. My question is should eliminating a belief with images that occurred in my early childhood completely and automatically eliminate the images associated with the same belief that occurred in my teens and early adulthood? Does the fact that I still have some later life images associated with the eliminated belief indicate that I did not do the process correctly the first time? When eliminating a belief should I incorporate all images of the belief even if they spill over into early adulthood.
Thanks
Francis
Hi Francis,
No, you don’t need to incorporate all images from all periods of your life.
Just use the earliest ones, which is when you formed the belief. That is sufficient to eliminate the belief.
Love, Morty
I couldn´t ne free from my beliefs seein g this I saw 2 times and still gfeel the situation I AM NOT CAPABLE I AM REJECTED, I AM FEARFULL OF THE OPINION OF OTHERS, ….I AM DESPERATE. Please forgive me I am the worst for you, but in fact all my limiting beliefs are still here.Thank you any way
Dear Mrty6 and family, please I saw this 2 times and keep my beliefs, i still feel, and is a feeling ,not a cognitive sensation that shows me I AM NOT CApable, i am procrastinator, i am fearfull, i am rejected, FEELING OR NOT THE FACT IS THAT IS IT, i FEEL IT AND I CANNOT GO ON.Please i am desperate to be free from my limiting beliefs, I know I am your worst learning or expeinece, but in fact till now you don ´t help me to be free.Thanks any way.joao
any discount for student?
Hello Morty. I just went through your course to eliminate the belief that “mistakes and failure are bad.” However after the course, I still believe this statement to be true.Here are my reasons/questions:
1. What if you believe mistakes and failure are bad simply because when you make mistakes or fail, it causes people around you to give an undesirable result such as shouting and angry faces? (Even if shouting and angry faces are nothing but your interpretation they still to me are a bad thing because I don’t like them, if that makes sense lol)
2. I only believe mistakes and failure are bad because I don’t enjoy the reaction from others. If I make a mistake like unplugging someone’s life support (completely made up) and the family and public have a terrible reaction to it, I know that I will beat myself up for that mistake.
I feel like I don’t like mistakes and failure simply because I don’t like letting people down, especially if the situation could have been avoided. I might just have a problem with other people’s opinions? I don’t know. Please help =)
Hi Aelisha,
It sounds as if you have a lot of other beliefs that are affecting you.
However, if you follow all the steps of the process, you still will eliminate the belief, Mistakes and failure are bad.
Love, Morty
Dear Morty, i have seen this film m,any many times and nothing change i still be fearfull, feeling I am not good enough, mistakes and failures are bad, and others beleifs, please help me to get rid of this fearfull life.Thanks,Joao
hi, im using firefox, but when i go to the page to eliminate a belief, no video comes up. whats wrong?
Hi Morty,
Another one who found you through Steve Pavlina, just to let you know.
I’m currently doing the “I’m not good enough” free thing, and very interested in what you have to say, and will keep an open mind and follow it through.
Just wanted to let you know my reaction when you start talking about needing to remember a feeling and connection with events with parents in childhood. This worried me as I think my parents weren’t really like that, but there would be plenty of incidents from childhood not related to my parents which I could easily imagine being connected with limiting beliefs. I do think my parents have certainly managed to pass on their limiting beliefs about themselves and money to me though, without really being critical of me.
Anyway, I’ll carry on with it now
Going through the “I’m not good enough” program — carefully following all directions — made me feel worse than ever about myself, my competence, and my capabilities. Was this the effect you intended? Whether it was or wasn’t, I now need a way to reverse the effects of your program. For this, I will not turn to you or to any source you recommend — for the same reason that a physician who breaks the elbow of a patient with a sprained wrist should not be trusted with treating the fracture.
Thank you so much for the program. It seems to me it is quite powerful. I speak English but I still miss some things up. My native lenguage is Spanish. You happen to have a written copy of your method so I can understand everything you say while listening to it? No problem if it is in English.
Thank you again
Antonio
Hi! I found your free site through a link on Steve Pavlina’s blog. I had disappointing results with other self-improvement programs I bought over the Internet; they offered some insight but the results were slight or temporary. They included “free bonuses” from other writers which were of spotty quality and let me even more disappointed.
This one was different! It was refreshing to be able to try the free part of the program before I bought it; I knew what I would be getting. I went through the whole program as quick as I could; I was determined to truly follow through. I liked the interaction; the program took me on an enlightening journey through many childhood experiences (and some experiences later in life). I have seen some changes already and I’ll be trying to notice more in the near future.
I found the repetition helpful; as I went through the program I could listen to the same explanations again with a better perspective and catch more of the critical nuances that really made the point. For example, after this program I could see clearly how with the perspective of a child, the beliefs were perfectly reasonable conclusions in my world at the time, and it doesn’t mean that I was foolish or that my parents were bad people.
I took notes for myself to remember which beliefs I thought I had more than others, and I saved my notes on which prior events led to these beliefs. As I approached Belief 19 I found many events from later life popping into my head that had been affected by past beliefs. When I got through Belief 19 it all fell into place; it felt like dialing the last number of a combination lock. The 19 beliefs chosen and the particular sequence of the beliefs resonated for me; I probably needed to get rid of the earlier ones before I could approach the later ones.
My significant other of 10 years passed away just over a year ago and this threw everything topsy-turvy. Over the past year I found times when I was experiencing new feelings and states of mind but also at the same time observing myself experiencing them. This now reminds me of the “Who Am I Really?” experience of Self and perhaps because of my recent experiences I’m especially receptive to these new ideas.
Dear Morty -
There’s a video that you should add *right now*: “I’m cynical about changing my beliefs”. :-\ <— (That's a sad smile…)
Dear Morty
I simply love your kind, intelligent and luminous face
and I now know that I am important.
thank you so very much
Social anxiety is awful. I feel ashamed of almost everything that makes me unique, half the things I have done in the past, and most of my major goals. I can’t even fool myself into thinking I will socialize easily or naturally next time; I know I won’t know what to say. My head is overloaded with memories of times I felt particularly stupid. When I am accused of doing something wrong or disagreed with on an issue I care about, I cry uncontrollably.
I used to get any school assignment done on time no matter how pointless, so a teacher would write the letter A on a piece of paper. This summer, I thought the most important thing I could do with my time would be to use this program, but I procrastinated relentlessly.
After I tried eliminating “Mistakes and failure are bad”, I knew it worked because it was noticeably easier to write without nitpicking over the perfect words. However, none of the next 3 beliefs have worked. I’ve attempted to get rid of “Change is difficult and takes a long time” several times without success. This has been very discouraging and it’s hard to try again because I think it probably won’t work, and I can’t decide if I should keep trying the same beliefs or move on and come back alter.
I am very disappointed in myself. Soon I won’t be able to use a computer for several weeks due to an important event, and I still have almost all the old beliefs. I doubt there’s a point of posting this comment, but I’ve tried to post a couple and backed out, so what a relief to finally submit.
hello, in response to your comment above, I can say, that it does work for me. I choose the believe, I am not good enough.
-I now i know where it comes from, so I am going to show myself & others in the future, That i am good enough, because………
-And that I know that they are not good enough , because, there are things that they definately very dumb, stupid & ignorance about.
-So I wonder now, who is not good enough?
I didn’t think a short programme could be so powerful. But it is very powerful. Thank you so much for letting others share in this.
Dear Morty,
To be honest, I didn’t think it was possible to eliminate a negative belief in such a short time, but I thought it was worth a try. I ran through your video twice, and surprisingly it worked! And the feeling is still with me. Not only that, but also I became able to identify other situations, when my feelings are effected by a belief which is not necessary true. It opens a great opportunity for future self development.
Thank you very much for sharing your program with everybody.
Kind regards,
Olga
Hi Olga,
A lot of people are skeptical and it works anyway. Thanks for trying it and getting value from eliminating one belief.
And people who eliminate a lot of beliefs see a fundamental shift in the way they experience their lives.
Love, Morty
Hi Morty,
Thank you so much for creating this program. Since yesterday, I have been going through many of the beliefs modules and have seen a huge difference since the first one. I’ve had the problem with making cold calls my entire life and now I don’t feel the anxiety at all. Parts of me doesn’t even know why, I just don’t. So thanks!
The who am I really module is awesome. Puts so much in perspective. It also made me think and brought up a couple questions. Should we have beliefs at all or just not the negative ones? I mean, is it better to live consciously without even positive beliefs? I’ve used affirmations in the past and they can make you feel better but is it better have the belief that “I am a hard worker” or is it better to not have any belief about it and just work hard?
Again, thanks for your program. I take breaks in between modules but can’t wait to get to the next one and remove another belief!
Scott
Hi Scott,
Thanks for your interest in our work and for writing.
I wrote a blog post that explains why we don’t need to form “positive” beliefs. http://www.mortylefkoe.com/010510/
Love, Morty
Morty,
Thanks. That article answered and validated what I was feeling and let me know that I am on the right track. It seems I have almost, unconsciously, tried to label events and feelings for some reason, instead of just experiencing the situations as they come.
As if almost by habit, once I removed the negative belief, I started thinking that I should have “some” belief but it didn’t feel like I needed to but again, by habit… wanted to. The article and process makes perfect sense.
It seems somewhat ridiculous now, but whenever I would enter a situation (eg cold calling), I would try to visualize the process and experience. Always trying to determine the outcome before it occurred by linking them with previous feelings, beliefs and experiences. All negative ones. When it was time to perform, I immediately saw the negative belief, I’m not capable or worthy etc…, and would get the sweats, nervous and eventually bail which ultimately validated the negative belief. To counteract this, I would always try to create positive beliefs to overpower the negative ones. It never worked. All of that seems almost silly now. Also, as I am thinking, positive beliefs may lead to negative ones. Whenever I am in a very positive mindset, I tend to think I can make 1,000 calls a day. When I start calling and realize that’s its too unrealistic, I would do 5 and feel like a failure which would reinforce a negative belief. Instead, had I not had any belief, I would have just called and seen what would have happened. I would have been way more successful. That’s very liberating and I am looking forward to making my calls today. That’s a first!
Again, thanks! It’s been very helpful so far.
Scott
I got the natural confidence CD in June and have “eliminated” each belief several times. It seems to work for a while, and then fades partly away, and then I do it again. I realize your approach is essentially correct, but at my current rate it’s going to take me a couple of years spending 8 or so hours a week trying to convince myself that I no longer “see” beliefs in certain childhood events. I’m committed to working through the process but it’s one heck of a long slog, and so far not so easy. The bit about doing it in 20 minutes has only worked if I realized a belief was goofy in the first place. If the beliefs were a sensible conclusion of a 4-year old, then I can rationalize other interpretations, realize that I never “saw” the beliefs, that the events had no meaning, that the meaning was only one I assigned to explain the event, that I made it all up. But the new rationalizations haven’t eliminated the beliefs yet for me, they only seem to get covered up for a few days. In your blog you acknowledge that your system doesn’t work for everyone, but this acknowledgment doesn’t come across very well in the marketing, or in the DVD. Given the nature of the subject (you’re not selling tires, you’re providing help to sometimes desperate people) I don’t think this is fairly done. Telling someone with poor self image that they’re not part of the 90% of normal people isn’t right. That’s what I’ve been hearing all my life, it’s what I’m trying to get out from under. Instead, I wish you could earlier on in the DVD, or an accompanying email, identify the sorts of people or thought patterns of those for whom your method is more difficult, and then provide some guidance on how they could approach it.
Hi Sean,
I’m not clear why you are having a problem eliminating beliefs. Or if the beliefs are going away and then coming back. That happens to some people once in a while. Call me at 415-884-0552 and let’s see if we can figure it out.
By the way, I never said that if someone has a problem with our process “they’re not part of the 90% of normal people.” I said it works on 90% of the population and it doesn’t work for some people and I’m not sure why so I can’t tell you. If I knew why it didn’t work, I might be able to find a way to make it work. It doesn’t mean there is anything wrong with that 10%, only that my process doesn’t work for them.
Love, Morty
Morty,
I had and hour phone session with Shelley yesterday and since then I feel much more confident about the process. I think you deserve a Nobel prize for sharing your insight. I feel freedom like I never knew. Thank you!
Sean
Hi Vicka,
Yes we do have an affiliate program. You can sign up at http://recreateyourlife.com/partnersignup.
Thanks for your interest in our work.
Love, Morty
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Actually, one other thing is that I have always put enormous pressure on myself to excel and be perfect at things and very harsh on myself when I didn’t/don’t live up to that. I definitely have the belief that my worthiness and happiness lie in being superhuman in every way. Naturally, in retrospect, this has led to constant performance anxiety in any situation where I may be seen as less than fit… I know this particular belief (and possibly a few accomplice beliefs) is at the core of my problems. I know that when I am relaxed and at ease I am very capable but these days I am rarely relaxed and at ease. I hope the public speaking DVDs address this kind of belief!
Thanks again,
Andrew
@: Hmm, perhaps that is the one I need to get. I am waiting for the public speaking DVDs to arrive, I paid for them Friday so I guess they have probably been shipped out by now. I will go through it thoroughly and see how it feels afterwards, to me it seems that if the fear of speaking to a room of people was gone then so would the remainder of my fears because it’s the exposure of myself to other people that produces the fear and anxiety rather than a feeling that I don’t have the ability to speak well.
I have always had a belief that i am inferior and not loveable just as I am, that I am inherently not worthy somehow, that there is inherently something wrong with me and that I should feel ashamed and not show myself to others or at least not show negative parts of myself to others. For instance it’s so hard to talk to people about negative feelings or failings or less-than-perfect things about me and my life and my family. I’ll tell my story…
A few years ago my dad went through a nervous breakdown which triggered in me a series of beliefs that I am inherently associated with all of these negative things like his depression and bad anxiety. Prior to this time I didn’t seem to get much anxiety or fear of other people but since then it has grown in me to the point where j have to figure out why I believe I have to be this way. Any time life presents a situation where I will have to show ‘myself’ or talk about my life or family generates bad anxiety.
In the first 6 years of my life both of my sisters were born who weren’t as robust as me and needed lots of care and also my mum got sick with chronic fatigue and was bedridden for 3 years while my dad took on every responsibility himself. It’s very obvious that I reached conclusions during this time but I am still working to pinpoint what they are. I also know in the proceeding years I had a bad relationship with my dad, I was critical of him and ashamed of him and didn’t want to be seen at school with him etc, even though I loved him of course. Plus I always had a jealousy of my sisters because they got so much attention, I called myself the black sheep.
Anyway I’m sorry to post such a long message, I’m not sure if this is the place for it. I’d love to hear your thoughts and insight into what beliefs I am likely to have formed and what program would be most appropriate. Thanks again for caring.
Love Andrew
Hi Andrew,
The public speaking DVDs don’t have as many beliefs as the Natural Confidence. The public speaking program is designed just to handle that problem, and some of the beliefs that cause shyness and social anxiety are on that program.
If you want to make sure you get rid of your shyness and social anxiety, try the Natural Confidence program. If all you want is to handle a fear of public speaking, then those DVDs will work just fine.
Love, Morty
I was just wondering if the public speaking DVDs also remove the kinds of beliefs that are responsible for shyness and anxiety in social situations? I know these are conditionings that have worsened over time as I have been reinforcing the belief that I get nervous around people, even though I have always had a lot of close friends. It seems to me that both would originate from the same core negative beliefs but I just wanted to hear tour thoughts on it.
Cheers,
Andrew
Hi Drew,
You’ve been removed from our list.
Our web sites have contact information. Sorry you were unable to find what you were looking for.
It sounds like you purchased our Natural Confidence program for $1 and agreed to be charged in three installments unless you let us know what you wanted to cancel, and then you never let us know.
Regards, Morty
Hi Andrew,
I’m happy you’ve found our work useful and that you will be trying our public speaking product.
No, you do not have to remember specific incidents in your earlier life. All you need is a sense of the way you were parented.
And no, I do not know why about 10% of the population do not get value from our work.
Let me know how it gos for you after you complete the program.
Regards, Morty
Hi Morty,
I am awaiting my copy of the public speaking DVD package at the moment and I am intrigued by how overwhelmingly people respond to your program. I am hoping the beliefs tackled by this course are the whole issue for me as I could just as easily have bought the natural confidence program.
As long as I can remember I have had low self esteem and need other people’s positive responses to feel good and worthy.
I am just wondering if I will be able to remember specifics about my childhood that could have led me to form certain beliefs because I don’t have all that many memories of what it felt like at that age. I do know a lot about what it was like though and there are clear circumstances that would have affected my self image but do I need to remember specific occasions and feelings too?
Only other question is whether or not you have identified any personal characteristics or attitudes that correlate with the 10% of people who this doesn’t work for?
Thanks for your wonderful work,
Andrew
You should really make it easier to contact someone in your org. Your website isn’t too accessible. I’m not writing about belief issues here but the fact that I once had signed up for a trial use , then wanted to end it, then you offered use of the site with delayed paymt. which I really don’t want & haven’t used. Please remove me from your list & don’t charge me for services I never used. I’m sure you folks are fine I just don’t have the need right now nor can I afford it. Thank you for your understanding.
D
Hi Poby,
Your comment is already published. Did you think we were going to take it down?
Which program are you referring to? The free beliefs are about 30 minutes.
Sorry if we misled you in some way.
Regards, Morty
Well, here´s a comment you won´t publish:
“A few minutes” doesn´t mean 1 hour. Why do you guys always have to be so freaking “Texan Car Salesman”? You can tell me it´ll take an hour, I am a grown up. Maybe you should value my confidence in you and not ruin it midways.
Morty, I eliminated almost all the beliefs in the natural confidence program, and I’m really happy with the results, I have much more confidence now.
So now that I know that the Lefkoe method works, I want to used it to solve other two problems: depression and my negative beliefs about relationships.
So I’m about to pay for an individual session, but for me it is a lot of money, so can you tell me more or less how many sessions will I have to do? And also if this individual sessions have guarantee?
The last question is that I speak english, but not perfect, so do I need to speak it very well? I understood all the videos of the natural confidence program by the way.
Sorry for all the questions, it’s just that it’s a lot of money, and I don’t want to risk it.
Thanks Morty.
Hi Dims,
Congratulations on being able to eliminate additional beliefs on your own. Most people are unable to do that.
Please stay in touch and let us know how you use the process in the future.
Regards, Morty
Hi Kyalo,
I’m happy my program worked so well for you. Which program did you get? The Natural Confidence program with 19 beliefs and 4 conditionings? That’s the one we guarantee to significantly increase your level of confidence.
Regards, Morty
thank you, for your program… it real helped to boost my self esteem & confidence.
Morty, you’re Natural Confidence program has been amazing.
I am forever grateful, for years I’ve been looking for an effective
method for eliminating negative beliefs, changing my self talk
and changing my self image without ridiculous amounts of
effort, mindfulness and self discipline… the results came
slowly and felt laboured!
With the Lefkoe process though I feel like I’ve changed my
whole perspective on life within just a couple of days. This is
by far the best $250 I’ve ever spent in my life, not just for
the fact that I’ve eliminated the beliefs, but also because
following along with your videos taught me the process itself
so when I identified a belief that wasn’t covered in the program,
specifically, “I’m not cool”, I was able to shatter that belief
that had stayed with me since I was 5 years old and got
bullied at my new school… and I was able to do so in just
minutes!
Thank you, thank you, thank you, what you’re doing is
truly amazing!
Dima
Sorry, this don’t works for me,it is just another, hopeless tentative.
Hi Joao,
Sorry our program didn’t work for you. It does work with about 90% of the population. Some day I might be able to create something that works for a larger percent. I wish you luck in finding something that gives you what you want..
Thank you for the revelation! What a powerful experience indeed! Life is never the same after the Lefkoe experience. The most interesting aspect of this inner adventure is that it feels like liberating an imprisoned part of yourself! In a way, it feels like it breaks free…Like creating its freedom by itself. Thank you so much for your inspired work!
Hi Rene,
Congratulations on your new-found freedom. Keep eliminating beliefs and the freedom will grow.
Regards, Morty
Hello Morty,
I just tried your free course and it really seems my negative feeling went out. Whenever it would try to come back, I always remember that we create our interpretations and that it’s even more enforced that there are many views to what happens.
I am really surprised and eager to try this technique at work!
Thanks a lot,
-K
Hi K,
Glad to hear you liked the free belief.
Let me know what you think after you eliminate all the beliefs hat cause specific problems and the problems disappear along with the beliefs.
Regards, Morty
extraordinary site. I have honestly appreciated it!
Hi,
Glad you found our free belief elimination site useful.
Regards, Morty
Hi,
I purchased the Undoityourself Public Speaking Fear DVD’s recently and completed them. Unfortunately, it did not seem to remove my fear of public speaking.
Hi Gary,
Sorry to hear that. The program works for most people most of the time.
Please call me so I can figure out what happened and help you get rid of your fear.
Call em at 415-884-0552.
Regards, Morty
OK, I’ve got to admit I’m hesitantly blown away by this belief-eliminating stuff. I think I eliminated a couple beliefs (or are they just sleeping?). It hit me like a rock when it happened. A day after I did it I was able to speak in public settings in ways I’ve never been able to. It’s weird. Was it coincidence? Is my self-doubt going to come back? I hope not. I ordered your book. I’m really intrigued about your ideas of reducing my emotional response to other peoples words & actions. I really pray this is for real. It’ll change my life if it is. I’ll owe you an enormous debt.
Hi Jon,
Thanks for sharing your success and your doubts.
The biggest problem we have is that people don’t believe they just did what they just did: permanently eliminate a belief.
I do want to emphasize that it is unlikely that you’ve resolved all your self-doubt by eliminating two or three beliefs. There probably are a bunch more. But when you eliminate all the relevant beliefs, the self-doubt will be gone.
Reading about the Lefkoe Belief Process is interesting, but it will not eliminate beliefs. You need to DO the Lefkoe Belief Process.
If you aren’t sure if this is for real, read the hundreds of comments on this blog. It is. It really is.
And you don’t owe me anything. It is what I live for.
Regards, Morty
Morty,
thanks for the quick reply. How best to do the Lefkoe process? Are the DVD’s enough? The phone sessions? The phone sessions seem pricey if they don’t work, but a bargain if they do. Are there practitioners in my area (baltimore-annapolis) who know how to do it?
I’m also wondering if repeated undoing of the same or similar beliefs–beliefs I don’t think I have anymore but can’t believe are really gone–will sort of wear out the magic and return me too my previous condition.
Jon
Hi Jon,
What program to get depends on what problems you want to get rid of.
This program is our most complete and will handle most of the most common problems. http://recreateyourlife.com/store/natural-confidence.php
The phone sessions enable us to specifically identify your specific problems, and then help you eliminate exactly the beliefs that cause them. But they are more expensive.
You might want to start with the Natural Confidence program that will handle a lot of issues and then see if you need one-on-one sessions. If you do, you will have already handled most of the negative self-esteem beliefs.
You might have to get rid of the belief: Change is difficult and takes a long time, before you will believe that the beliefs you worked on really are gone. That belief is part of the Natural Confidence program.
Regards, Morty
HI Morty<
Thanks very much for your free program. It has bbeen extremely useful as I carefully noted my reactions to my normal triggers and I am happy to tell that they are gone.I am goiing to do the elimination programs again< just to make sure that the last vestiges have gone . I shall be very happy to inform you of my progress.
I do find myself at a point where I want to choose a new life, one that fulfills my deeper desires and I am confident that I will be able to create this very soon.
Your contribution to society is enormous and I feel like a lucky chosen one to have the opportunity to rid myself of unconscious and limiting beliefs which go on repeating the patterns of the past endlessly.
I am done with that
I do look forward to your free program as presently I am not able to buy the consolidated programs.
Thanks for your help and I am very grateful.
God bless you
Kiran
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Hi Kiran,
Thanks for sharing your experience with our free programs. Hopefully you will be able to get some additional beliefs in the near future, so that you can further expand your sense of freedom.
Regards, Morty
Hi Morty,
This seems to be the only way to contact you, as have raised a support ticket over 3 days ago and no reponse.
I purchased Natural Confidence, and have a query. On some of the beliefs, i really dont recall anything damaging, hurtfull etc with parents, yet definitely recall incidents with school friends that has negative connotations (e.g. bullying etc) and left me upset at the time (and leaves deep seated feelings). Is it probable that beliefs can be caused by these events, in which case can I replace the events with parents with that of friends/school mates?
Hi Robin,
Sorry you didn’t get an answer sooner.
Don’t look for “terrible” incidents with your parents. Parents get frustrated and annoyed (or angry) when their children don’t do what they want, when they want and the way they want. It happens many times each day. That annoyance leads a child to conclude: Mistakes are bad, I’m not good enough, I’m not capable, etc.
See my blog post for more details. http://www.mortylefkoe.com/092209/
Very, very rarely is the source of self-esteem beliefs incidents later in life with others, although new beliefs can certainly be created in such situations.
Regards, Morty
hi Morty,
Thanks for free video. Intellectually excellent, but as Rox says, if you somehow got the impression that just being female was an unforgiveable sin, and that God had created you seriously flawed and with the expectation that you would spend the rest of your life trying to
behave well and sacrifice yourself to make up for it….well as you can see , the adults in my life were NOT well- meaning. They were wounded and so fearful of their wounds they transferred the pain to us.
There is pain to be felt and worked through. Your programme seems to
infer this is not so. Any programme that” airbrushes out ” the necessity to reexperience repressed emotional pain is only addressing the mental part of the belief. Love and gratitude Anna
Hi Anna,
I don’t “infer” that you don’t need to feel and “work through” old pain. I state it explicitly.
There is nothing wrong with feeling pain. And if you feel pain, you shouldn’t repress it.
But all feelings are ultimately caused by the meaning you give meaningless events (and sometimes conditioning). So dissolving old meanings (eliminating beliefs) will change our feelings and you do not have to re-experience repressed emotional pain to get rid of it.
This isn’t a theory, it is my experience with thousands of clients, including my personal experience in my own life. You might believe that you need to re-experience old pain, but that isn’t necessarily the truth — just your belief.
Thanks for joining the conversation.
Regards, Morty
Morty,
Thanks for making this program available. I am working my way through the Natural Confidence videos and they are helping. I especially want to note the “Who Am I Really” video, its a life changer!!! all on its own.
I am struggling with the web of 40 years of events that have been confirming my beliefs, the last 20 years especially.
I understand the concept of where the beliefs start. The challenge is when I go to answer out loud I keep “yeah butting”
because of all present day confirmations I have about each belief.
>>>>>>> How can I get my big buts out of the way? <<<<<<<<<<
I just finished belief four, so I have a ways to go. I will keep on, keepin on.
Julia
Hi Julia,
In doing the process for each belief ignore current situations. They are not the source of the belief; they are the consequence of the belief that had been formed earlier in life.
Just do each step of the process and ignore current reality. You are looking for the early childhood source of the belief, alternative interpretations, did you “see” the belief as a child, did the events have inherent meaning, and can you see that the feeling you had as a child was caused by the meaning you gave the events — not the events themselves.
Nowhere in the process is there a question about current or recent events.
Let me know how you are doing with the rest of the program.
Regards, Morty
Thank you very much! I was thinking in the past and when i remaind a specific memory (i tried all my best to make a joy to my mother but i didn’t succeded just because lack of know how) i started to cry and i feelt release… This is amazing for me. Thank you. God bless you.
Hi Violeta,
Yeah for you. Congratulations on the release of a belief that’s been a barrier for you since you were a little girl.
Thanks for writing.
Regards, Morty
Hi Morty
Tried your FREE eliminate the your not good enough programme yesterday and all i can say is WOW the penny dropped and i opened my eyes!! ever since a quite a sad negletfull abusive childhood i had had councelling and felt i had moved on in many way’s but still alway’s felt not good enough. every time something in my life went wrong… you guessed it i was not good enough!! Now i feel so unburderned i spent all last night smiling at the realisation that it was in fact my mother who was not good enough to be my parent!! i feel light, happy and at peace with myself and so much more confident overnight!!!!
Cant thank you enough Morty xx
Hi Kell,
Thanks so much for sharing your experience with me and the others who read this blog. I am so excited for you.
And if you think that getting rid of one belief is exciting, wait until you eliminate all the beliefs that cause a specific problem and you watch all the beliefs and the problem disappear.
Please keep me informed about results in your life as you keep eliminating the beliefs that have kept you from feeling the total bliss that is your birthright.
Regards, Morty
Morty,
You are doing so much to help people. I feel so thankful to be a part of this group and your Wonderful energy! Thank you!
I have a perspective I would like you to keep in mind and only use if it seems right for you. I have noticed that you are compiling more and more limiting beliefs to choose from and eradicate. I think that is awesome and also I notice inside myself that the ever increasing selection brings about some uneasiness and lack of action to move ahead. Questions like, “What if this new eliminating belief isn’t the one that effects me the most?”, “How many specific beliefs do I need to get rid of?”. “Is there ONE belief that would take care of all the beliefs simultaneously?”
I think the choices are great! If I had a specific belief that I knew of and I saw it on your list I would jump in and listen to the eliminator for it. I am also seeing that when it was simpler I acted on your program without much hesitation.
Thank you, Morty and keep doing what you are doing. You can’t please everyone and to the people who are using your program with no qualms, you are a God send. You and your work are needed just as you are! Keep doing what you are doing no matter what people say!
Becky
Hi Becky,
I’m a little confused by your post. We haven’t added any beliefs since we put up the store about a year ago. We have the 19 beliefs and four conditionings available separately only for people who know they have a specific belief and want to get rid of it.
We try to make it clear on the store that getting rid of one belief will not eliminate a problem in most cases. You need to eliminate all the beliefs that cause a specific problem, and we’ve put all the needed beliefs into packages for specific problems.
For that reason, very few people buy individual beliefs, but we want to make them available to people who want them.
Oh, we also created a package of money beliefs we were offering for a while, but that are now not available.
Please clarify.
Thanks, Morty
Morty,
Wow is all I can say. The change was immediate for me, it feels like I broke through a wall, it has affected my every moment.I feel so much better about the world and myself. Thank you for this amazing and simple technique!
Regards, Vicki
Hi Vicki,
You are welcome. Keep eliminating beliefs and you will find your world changes totally. If you eliminate all the beliefs that cause a specific problem, such as worrying what people think of you, the problem will disappear when all the beliefs are eliminated.
Thanks for sharing your experience.
Regards, Morty
Morty,
I worked through all the beliefs except one, “What I have to say isn’t important.” There were a couple I didn’t know I had until I repeated the belief and discovered a “down feeling” and when I worked through them, the beliefs were gone. Going through the beliefs was like being on a roller coaster as far as my emotions until the end when the belief was gone. The most difficult, emotionally, for me was “If I make a mistake or fail, I’ll be rejected.” And getting rid of the “What makes me good enough or important is doing things perfectly.” I’ve struggled with these two beliefs my whole life and has crippled me as far as accomplishing anything in the world or expressing my creative talent in writing. Another side note, is that I view my parents with compassion now and not bitterness and blame. I am more patient and when my husband says anything that I used to respond to with hurt feelings, I felt that distance you reiterated in the program. I’ve mentioned before about an experience I had years ago; it happened on our family’s beach. When I finished “I’m powerless” I paused for a few seconds as I realized something personally important to me, “I’m back to the beach!” I’m reminded of a family portrait taken when I was two years old. I sat on my eldest sister’s lap with a happy, natural, excited smile on my face. I feel I’ve regained that excitement and eagerness now at the age of 53. This truly needs to go out into the world. And the four conditionings were like “mind cleansers” especially the one about imagining my life from 1-7 with unconditional love and the same until age 21. I felt like I was bathing myself in the power of my own unconditional love. I will continue visiting this blog as well as post something on your Facebook pages to share my experience with other people. Love and Light
Hi Lauren,
Yeah!!! I’m thrilled to hear about the incredible results you’ve experienced from the Natural Confidence program.
Thanks for taking the time to share your experience. I will read what you wrote at our next staff meeting at Lefkoe Institute to remind people why we go to work each day.
Thanks for sharing your experience with others. We still want to reach five million in 2 1/2 years.
Regards, Morty
I tried to access the free belief eliminator and it took me to a page that said “bookmark this page” but there was not any other info on the page? Thanks.
Hi Cheri,
Please try again. The program is working. I think there is a link somewhere on that page.
Start off at http://recreateyourlife.com.
Let me know if you are still having a problem.
Regards, Morty
I’m currently working through the ReCreate Your Life program and have seen amazing instant results in my life. The “Who am I really” section helped me see that I’m not my beliefs but instead the creator of them. It all sounds like common sense, but in reality this was not a belief I truly believed in. Now I know that I can do anything I want to. Thanks for all of your wonderful work Morty! It’s helped me believe in myself and strive to enjoy a more meaningful life!
Hi Jennifer,
Congratulations on the results you are getting. And thanks for taking the time to share your results with us. You can inspire others to take control of their own lives.
Tell your friends, your Facebook buddies, your Twitter followers, etc.
Let’s help everyone”believe in myself and strive to enjoy a more meaningful life.”
Regards, Morty
hi morty,
thank you for your free trial and i find it amazing. i choose mistakes and failure are bad but stopped t after i broke the belief. you see, my negative belief was really not about this but the challenges/obstacles i face whenever i try to forge ahead with my business. so i have to remove the belief that response is slow or non-existent. that people do not value my product. they are always excited in the beginning but this fades soon after.
thanks a mil for sharing your technique. i find you an incredibly sensitive and caring person for setting up the video the way you did, with the space for writing etc. you are literally spoon feeding us!
Hi Karen,
I’m glad you have gotten so much value from eliminating one free beleif. And as you can read from the other comments here, wait until you eliminate all the beliefs that cause specific problems in your life. The results will be spectacular.
Please write again and let me know about your life when you eliminate more beliefs.
Regards, Morty
Morty, if you REALLY want to get this message out there, I would recommend that you consider contacting guys that go by the name of Eben Pagan and Frank Kern.
If they can’t hep you, no one can
Hi Arto,
Thanks for the suggestion. We are working with a bunch of great Internet marketers who are mailing for us and giving us advice.
I know about the two people you mention and will look into contacting them.
Regards, Morty
Morty,
I have eliminated 6 beliefs so far from using the Natural Confidence program and it’s been an amazing ride! During the “I’m not good enough” and “I’m not important” belief sessions, I actually cried. I realized I was grieving and I allowed myself to grieve until I worked through the alternative interpretations. By the time I finished, I felt lighter and happier and more confident. The difference between this and all the other ways I tried to “be better” and “feel better” about myself and my place in the world always felt like they were missing something. The missing something was realizing there is nothing missing where it really counts: My Self. I’ve also left comments on the Facebook sites. Thank you so much for teaching me to help myself! I’ll continue to leave my comments as I continue forward. Love and Light!
Lauren,
I’m so glad the program is working for you. I totally understand what you are going through. I wish you the best of luck completing all of the belief sessions!
- Jennifer
Hi Lauren,
Thanks for sharing your experience of using the Natural Confidence Program. Please make sure you write again after you complete the program.
Results like yours inspire us at Lefkoe Institute to do what we do every day.
Regards, Morty
Morty,
just paid for your full program yesterday on http://www.recreateyourlife.com, but I haven’t received any link there I can see the streaming video. Under my login page – no information – only proposal for some additional subscription for 249$. Have sent 2 requests to your support – no reply. What’s this? How is it all supposed to work?
Thanks for your soonest reply.
Hi Igor,
You should have been sent an email (check your spam folder) with a link and a password.
I’ll have our support people check and get in touch with you right away.
Sorry for the problem.
Regards, Morty
Hi Morty,
I like the look of your program and want to get started.
BUT ..your customer support is terrible and this really concerns me.
I raised a support ticket in order to clarify if the single $14.95 videos were download or DVD, as it doesn’t say and it was adding $13 int’l shipping at checkout.
No answer!
I’m ready to spend $100′s, if you’re stuff works, but now very hesitant as support/customer service seems to be AWOL.
Hi Robin,
First, I apologize for the lack of a response. There is never a good excuse for poor customer service and I will talk to the appropriate people Tuesday (holiday here in the U.S. on Monday).
Second, the single beliefs are available in CD-ROMs only. It is technically impossible for us to sell individual beliefs by streaming video.
Third, we had a sale two weeks ago that led to literally hundreds of service tickets and emails at the same time that our email system failed and we literally didn’t get many emails for a week before we noticed it. I thought that had been fixed and that we were up to date by the close of business yesterday, but obviously we missed at least one support ticket (yours).
Fourth, if you just want to see if our belief-elimination process works, you can eliminate three of the most common beliefs without charge at http://recreateyourlife.com.
If there is anything else we can do for you or if you have any further questions, please let me know.
Have a great weekend, regards, Morty
Hi Morty, I am doing the natural confidence program and it is working!!!! I do have one question about a belief I have and wanted to know if it is some how covered in this program. When people are rude to me or snap at me I feel disrespected and it makes me angry. Do you have any advice on this one…it is really painful.
Jen
Hi Jen,
There are several beliefs that cause anger and fear of someone else’s anger that are not on the Natural Confidence program. They can be handled, however, in one or two one-on-one phone or Skype sessions.
For more information please call us at 415-884-0552.
Regards, Morty
Morty, quite simply, Natural Confidence is awesome!
I have a suggestion for you, though… Could you make a kind of like “blank” video series, where one could choose whatever belief they want to eliminate, and they would be guided through the same process ?
I mean, I’ve started to discover some of my limiting beliefs and I would love to keep using the Lefkoe method for eliminating them.
Thanks again and all the best !
Hi Arto,
If I could, I would.
Most beliefs have different sources in childhood (and many non-self-esteem beliefs are not formed in childhood and could come from many different types of situations).
ALso, the alternative interpretations can be very different depending on the belief and source.
That’s why we’ve created videos for the most common 19 beliefs and four conditionings (which help to create many of our negative emotions). You can purchase each of them individually or as part of a package to eliminate all the beliefs that cause specific problems.
Finally, getting rid of beliefs is a means to the end, not an end in itself You want to find and eliminate all the beliefs and conditionings that cause a given problem so you can eliminate the problem. And finding all the relevant beliefs can sometimes be tricky (it take us almost an entire weekend to train people to be able to do that).
Regards, Morty
Oh yea I forgot to mention that one belief that I have that pretty much holds me back from anything is that “This thing or that thing won’t work for me”.. maybe that has something to do with the free trial not working
Hey Morty I just did the free belief elimantor thing for I’m Not Good Enough and when I say that out loud I still kind of feel it. Does that mean that your method doesn’t work for me or what? I’ve read nothing but good things about your method and this kind of worries me that maybe your method doesn’t work for me. I really hope thats not the case becuase I have a ton of beliefs that I would like to be done with once and for all.
Hi Tanner,
Our belief-elimination process works for about 90% of people. I’m not sure why it isn’t working for you.
You need to make sure you have the right source of the belief (childhood experiences with your parents).
And as you mention in your second post, the belief could have gone away and your other beliefs keep you from acknowledging that it is gone. The other beliefs won’t keep the process from eliminating a belief, but they could keep you from acknowledging that the belief is gone.
And finally some people have a hard time with the on-line process and need one-to-one work with a live facilitator on the phone or Skype.
Try one of the other two beliefs and let me know what happens.
Regards, Morty
Morty,
I don’t know if this is the right place, but I just wanted to let you know that since I went through four of the limiting belief busters, I find myself craving vegetables more and actually losing weight as a side benefit. I’ve been interested in nutrition and health since my father had his heart attack when I was ten years old, but there was always something holding me back from actually doing any of the healthy things. In the nineties, I discovered Blood Type Diet and I figured this was great. In practice, I’ve struggled with implementing it. Now, I’m naturally drawn to the food that is good for my body and am doing tai-chi and walking for exercise and strength. I intend to buy the Natural Confidence program and my two sons(both in their 20s) and I are going to work our way through all the belief eliminating processes. Thank you so much for this; it is the first time a program got down to the nitty-gritty and the core of things. By the way, I’m a Teacher Genotype(acc’d to Dr. D’Adamo’s latest Blood Type book) and one of the characteristics of this genotype is wanting to get to the heart of problems. You’ve certainly done that with this program and I feel my heart opening up and actually “returning” to who I was before I allowed beliefs to damage my self-esteem. Love and Light
Hi Lauren,
Thanks for taking the time for a detailed comment. I love the way to described your experience; feeling your heart opening up and returning to who you really are.
We love hearing reports like this as it inspires us daily to keep making this work available to people like you who can use it.
After you and your two sons complete the Natural Confidence program please let me know what you all think.
Regards, Morty
I would like to get information on how to order some of your materials.
Hi Sharon,
Thanks for your interest in our work.
You can get information about all our products at: http://recreateyourlife.com/store.
If you have any questions after checking out that page, please let me know.
Regards, Morty
This is interesting. I believe EVERYONE could use this program.
Hi Clare,
Glad you are finding the Lefkoe Belief process so interesting. I agree, everyone could use this program.
And we are working every day to figure out how to give it to them.
Thanks for taking the time to comment.
Regards, Morty
It’s like peeling an onion. Do this NOW!
Hey Morty
I signed up for your trial and was doing pretty well considering. Last night they charged my credit card as agreed (after ten days) but now I cannot login at all. Says I have to order the product again to get access.
I emailed support but no response. Is ther a phone number I can call to sort it out?
Any help is appreciated.
Thanks
Hi Rox,
I’ve asked Karen to get right back to you. Sorry about your difficulties in accessing the program.
Regards, Morty
Morty,
Any idea when the Lefkoe Occurring Process will become available? Is it true that this will have the same overall effect as eliminating beliefs?
J.C.
Hi JC,
The Occurring workshop will be announced in the next week or so.
No, it is not the same ting as eliminating beliefs. Please read this week’s
blog post at http://mortylefkoe.com in which I explain the difference.
If you still have questions, please call our office at 4145-456-3700.
Regards, Morty
Very good work
Beliefs change
Feel good about what you want
Feel good about yourself
Hi Elizabeth,
Thanks for taking the time to comment.
Regards, Morty
Hi
Was wondering if there are going to be any more beliefs available soon, such as the ones discussed recently in ur blog i.e. fear of confrontation, anger etc
Would be nice to eliminate those.
Thanks
Hi Terry,
At present there are no immediate plans to add more beliefs that would be available on-line or on DVDs. At some point I’m sure we will.
People who have a few beliefs they would like to eliminate can always can us for a one-to-one session that we can do on the phone or on Skype.
Regards, Morty
I am very much interested in this program “Natural Confidence”.
But wanted to ask you if this is what I need take. I have identified and listed the below problems I am facing currently.
Please let me know if this is the course I need to take.
1) Very bad Public speaking fear: This is the top most fear I am in utmost need to get rid of today. Though I have the right talents I am unable to progress in career and even thinking of quitting due to the pain inflicted in mind several times.
2) Low self confidence
3) Procrastination
4) Fear of criticism and confrontation
5) Need approval of others and Self criticising most of the times
Also, is there any discounts on this package? Currently I am finding it difficult to spend this much amount.
I truly appreciate your help to the living creatures on earth. Thank you once again!
Hi Vidy,
The Natural Confidence package is perfect for the issues you mention. It should handle all of them.
There are no discounts available but you can put only $75 a month for three months.
Please let me know how the program helps you with all of your problems.
Regards, Morty
I am very much interested in this program “Natural Confidence”.
But wanted to ask you if this is what I need take. I have identified and listed the below acute problems I am facing currently.
Please let me know if this is the course I need to take.
1) Very bad Public speaking fear: This is the top most fear I am in utmost need to get rid of today. This has caused me to not progress in my career though I have the talents and knowledge and now I have quit my job also, unable to bear the pain for long!!!
2) Low self confidence
3) Procrastination
4) Fear of criticism and confrontation
5) Need approval of others and Self criticising most of the times
Also, is there any discounts on this package? Currently I am finding it difficult to spend this much amount. I need your help please.
I truly appreciate your help to the living creatures on earth. Thank you once again!
I am curious about the beliefs that revolve around being fearful that your spouse or significant other might cheat on you. I think there might be something about not feeling important possibly. Could these beliefs that create this fear have been formed from childhood..I mean we are not in romantic relationships as children..do you have any thoughts on this? This has to be a very common thing for most people.
Jen
Hi Jen,
Sorry it’s taken so long to reply.
Jealously can be the result of several beliefs, usually from childhood. It is a feeling of powerlessness to keep something from being taken from you. The beliefs aren’t necessarily about romantic relationships, although they could be and they could be adult beliefs and conditionings also.
I don’t know what beliefs it might be for you until we had a chance to talk.
Hi Morty
You mentioned that a belief about powerlessness could be a contributing factor to these jealousy type feelings. I think that could be a lot of whats going on with me. I bought the Natural Confidence program and am working my way through it….powerlessness is one of them so I am hoping it helps!
Thank you so much!!!!!
I have a severe hearing loss. I can understand most of what is on the samaple, not everything. If I purchase a package, is it mostly a dvd or mostly cd’s? Any chance that there are transcripts available? Would I do better to buy the book? Thanks.
Hi Mary,
Sorry about your hearing loss. Unfortunately the program is designed to be listened to. The packages are DVD-ROMs but you need to be able to hear my voice for them to work.
There are no transcripts available at this point.
You might enjoy reading my book, but it will not enable you to eliminate any beliefs.
Regards, Morty
Wow. That strikes me as a very discouraging response to Mary’s question. Particularly:
“You might enjoy reading my book, but it will not enable you to eliminate any beliefs.”
Sure, Marty can’t ‘guarantee’ any results from reading the book as he does for his audio program — and it’s important for him to be clear about what he can promise, but…
Mary, I feel I must ‘whisper the truth in your ear’ to offset his response…just as the Marty cartoon in the sample video does to keep the children from internalizing the wrong messages.
No one can tell you what resources will enable you to eliminate a belief or heal or find peace.
Consider this:
Marty figured out this method he is selling all on his own during a five hour plane ride, and he used it on himself to eliminate beliefs with success – and yet here he’s telling you that you will not eliminate ‘any ‘ beliefs even after reading his book? Only through his audio program?
If only his audio program, and not his book, will enable someone to drop a belief, then how back in the day did Marty figure out this system on his own? Did a Marty from the Future appear in the seat next to him on that plane, and convince him not to buy the book, but to purchase the multi-media program? And smartly, Marty coughed up the cash for the multi-media?
I suspect the response left by Marty serves to discourage Mary…for the sake of communicating to other potential program customers that a person WILL NOT eliminate ANY beliefs using the (less expensive) book, and therefore MUST purchase the (more expensive) audio program to do so. Otherwise, why the added insult of stating so directly that his book might be enjoyable, but WON’T help you.
I would imagine that whatever’s in Marty’s book would provide some information and key concepts that could be useful for Mary to go ahead and create her own plan for eliminating a belief. If not, I can’t imagine what’s in the book.
It’s weirdly negative. It’s like if someone had a self-help program in Russian, and said to an English speaker who was seeking help, “we don’t have any translations in English for my success program and so let me assure you, You Will Not be Able to Succeed in Life using my program. I have a book about it in English which you can read for leisure, but it will not enable you to succeed in any way.”
THIS is a limiting belief Marty’s imposing, which serves to disempower people into believing that their only hope is in his particular audio program.
Any wisdom or system that’s actually worth anything tends to run deep enough that it is available in various forms, from different teachers, and didn’t only ‘manifest’ in one salesman. Great teachers, including those who charge for their products and services, do not insist that theirs is the only path to peace. I promise you there are many sources of literature that can show you how to accomplish what he promises.
Keep looking, Mary. Don’t be discouraged. Check out Louise Hay, Caroline Myss, Tony Robbins, Napolean Hill. A lot of the classic and absolute best books to help you address bad beliefs about yourself are in the Public Domain…free! (Napolean Hill, Florence Scovel Shinn to name a few) You can find them on gutenberg or other sites that list ‘self help in the public domain’ or ‘self-help classics.’
Best Wishes.
Hi Jacqueline,
It saddens me to think that someone thinks I give advice based on how much money I will make. But I guess if that’s how you see me, I have to accept that.
If someone asked me if they would find my book interesting and useful, my answer would be yes. That;’s why I wrote it.
But reading about how beliefs are formed and eliminated rarely eliminates beliefs. And you need to eliminate beliefs to make a change in your life. Every once in a while someone tells me that they are able to eliminate beliefs after reading my book, but most people cannot do that. So I would be misleading someone to tell them to get my book in order to eliminate their beliefs when I know that most people won’t be able to do it.
In fact most people who eliminate a few beliefs on our free site still need help in eliminating additional beliefs, and that’s after going through the process a few times. And every once in a while someone says they figured out how to use the process on themselves after using the free process.
I’ve never said that my process is the only way to get rid of beliefs or to have you life be all that it can be. It is one very effective way (as thousands of people have testified) and many are just as satisfied with other systems.
Sorry that you seem to be so negative about our work. Did you personally have a bad experience or not get what you were hoping to get? If you purchased a program and are not happy, we will be happy to give you a full refund.
Regards, Morty
I actually support your work, and that’s why I was so taken aback by this one response. The program resonated with Mary enough for her to reach out despite hearing loss being an obvious impediment to her using the program, and so it bothered me that the response didn’t offer an alternate suggestion or sentiment of encouragement.
Feel free to remove my long comment from this post.
Dear Morty,
I just wanted to respond to you regarding Jacqueline’s post. I personally found your answer to Mary’s question and post a very honest one. It did not come across at all to me that you were trying to make a bigger sale.
It was a very direct, clear, and honest answer to Mary’s question.
Regards,
Mary Ann
Hi Mary Ann,
Thanks for reading all the comments and for your own response.
Have a great day.
Regards, Morty
I am stuck on a few exercises.
See my father wasn’t just unrealistic or unaware about his child rearing techniques – he was openly and intentional and personally abusive. And I know you handle the problem of a parent looking at a kid and say “you are stupid” due to behavior which probably sums up most people’s experience. My father doubled his abuse when we actually did something wrong or not to his liking – and I am sure your program would be effective with those.
My trouble is that in addition to those there is a whole set of messages he sent specifically and directly to his three daughters every day at dinner table – that said we were inferior and stupid and idiots BECAUSE WE WERE FEMALE because females are inherently inferior. He said it in so many words every day.
I haven’t had much luck with “I’m stupid” or “I’m not capable” because although I do the exercises – the reasoning exercise doesn’t have anything to allow me to offload – “inferior” because a innate quality about myself I can never change. It is hard for a child to ignore a direct message like that. In most of your exercises the parents don’t mean to send the message and there is great effort not to blame them. No I cannot see “I am stupid” but I can see my gender. So in the case the abuse is about a personal physical quality or trait about the child – the program seems too mild.
So my suggestion to you – maybe consider having a module with these same topics for people who’s parents are not well meaning, for parents whose behavior cannot be excused with “well they didn’t know”. Parents who beat, sexually abused neglected or verbally abused in a personal way may all need this. There has to be some acknowledgment of the mean spirit and some effort to deal with parents who just were not that kind. We need a stronger acknowledgment of what it is like to be raised by truly dysfunctional (crazy) people
I do find benefit from imagining a resource when I was a kid that would sooth me or interpret my parents behavior – it is just the other interpretations in the program where the friends come over an offer other different interpretations of the same events and don’t fit the only possible excuses for their behavior >they weren’t sane.
Thanks
Hi Rox,
We tried to give the most common sources of beliefs knowing that there are always people whose beliefs came from different sources.
Try going through the process and filling in what your father said to you as the source of the beliefs. And after seeing a few other alternative interpretations, get that you never saw in the world that you are inferior or stupid because you are female.
You saw your father say it, but you never saw it was true. It is just as reasonable that he was wrong in what he said as he was right. That he said it has no meaning, in other words, you don’t know anything about women in general or you as a woman based on what one person (your father) said when you were a child.
The only place it is true that women are stupid is in your mind.
Regards, Morty
I’m wondering: I know I can buy the packages and get DVD’s, but are the individual belief programs streaming, like the free ones are?
Hi Chris,
The individual beliefs are only available on CD-ROMs for technical reasons.
Hope that works for you.
Regards, Morty
I am also not sure if this is the best place to send an email concerning a question, but here goes:
So many beliefs are located in the primative brain and based upon “survival”. I always knew that my parents were “wrong”, but it still has effected me for a lifetime of emotional distress and living life in a survival mode.
How does one eliminate the belief that they’re “cursed” because NOTHING ever works out well, and anything good that happens doesn’t last. Your program might be suitable for superficial beliefs, but how dos it work on mor complicated ones like what I’ve described.
Hi Lee,
Based on our experience with over 13,000 clients in about 50 countries, the Lefkoe Belief Process works with “complicated” beliefs like the ones you named. In fact in our one-on-one phone and Skype sessions we have helped people get rid of those specific beliefs.
Thanks for the questions.
Regards, Morty
I have had crippling social anxiety for quite sometime now and even had to quite my job because the social stress made me very ill and I couldnt be around hardly anyone including family and my boyfriend with out some sort of painful anxious discomfort…I just started the Natural Confidence Program and have only done the first 5 beliefs and have noticed some real improvement. I was out riding on my bike and ran into a group of people that I often see out there..usually I would be really nervous and just want to get the heck out of there..but today something was very different…I stood there in front of those people and talked to them and was totally calm and there was no panic…there was no voice in my mind telling me to run or get away or that something bad might happen…I actually WANTED to stay and chat and that just blew me away. I don’t know if it is this program doing it but something is different. I think it would be nice to find someone else that is also doing this program to share stories and ideas with..I think that might really help me. My email address is mountainbikingrulz@yahoo.com if anyone is interested.
Hi Jennifer,
I’m thrilled to hear about your progress. Thanks for sharing it. You will see even bigger changes when you complete the program.
I suggest you join http://facebook.com/recreateyourlife which is a site we created for people to ask questions, answer questions, and share and be supported.
I look forward to seeing you there.
Regards, Morty
Hello,
How do I eliminate a belief that has actually proven to be real?
“If I make a mistake or fail, I’ll be rejected.” My failure caused my wife and friend to reject and discard me.
Hi David,
Beliefs are never true because they are always generalizations.
even if they said it was. Because if they were to change some of their beliefs, they might not reject you even if you failed. And they might not have rejected you for a different type of failure.
Moreover, maybe two people rejected you. The belief says you will be rejected by anyone for any failure. You have no way of knowing if 6 billion people will reject you for any failure.
What we do is give meaning (frequently a broad generalization) to events that have no inherent meaning.
Thanks for the question.
Regards, Morty
I’m not sure this is the place to leave a question, but I can’t find the regular email. My question is: What if you can’t remember when you aquired a belief? On some of the beliefs, I cannot recall the event or time. I am 76 years old and sometimes finding the origin of a belief is tough! Will the belief go away anyway? Thank you.
Hi Amy,
There usually is not a single day when the belief was formed. It is a pattern of events, such as mom and dad usually yelled at me when I didn’t do what they wanted me to.
Also, you can extrapolate backward from your parent’s behavior at some later time to figure out how they must have acted when you were younger, which is what I’ve had to do.
But you do need to have some sense of the source for the Lefkoe Belief Process to work.
See my blog post on 9/22/09 for more details on that issue. http:/mortylefkoe.com
Regards, Morty
Regards, Morty
Hi, I don’t know ……i don’t think this is working “I am not important” my mother left me and 3 other siblings when I was 2 from there on life was ruff my dad said i was not his child so i did not have a father or a mother. (other kids spend time with him) I was abuse in every single way you can think of, grandparent, children homes, faster parents that did not care. My believe is if your MUM dont want you or you not important to her then how the heck can you be important to anyone or thing in the world. I found my mum when i was in my 20 and she was still not intrested in me, she got married when she left us and had a life with no children -no one knew she had 5 children till 18 years later that i pop in to her life. Your program can work for those that and a OK life with parents but you tell me how do you not believe you not important, you are loved. when you were abandoned by your mother, were abuse by people that said they care about you!!! not possible pal!!!
Hi JJ,
There is a difference between consequences and meaning. The consequences of how you were treated by your mom and foster parents were terrible. I don’t mean to minimize them at all. But they had no meaning, in other words, how people treated you says nothing about who you really are as a person.
If you go though the I’m not important process on the free belief-elimination site, your belief will go away and you will discover that it really isn’t true. Try it at http://recreateyourlife.com and let me know what you think.
Regards, Morty
Hi, I don’t know ……i don’t think this is working “I am not important” my mother left me and 3 other siblings when I was 2 from there on life was ruff my dad said i was not his child so i did not have a father or a mother. (other kids spend time with him) I was abuse in every single way you can think of, grandparent, children homes, faster parents that did not care. My believe is if your MUM dont want you or you not important to her then how the heck can you be important to anyone or thing in the world. I found my mum when i was in my 20 and she was still not intrested in me, she got married when she left us and had a life with no children -no one knew she had 5 children till 18 years later that i pop in to her life. Your program can work for those that and a OK life with parents but you tell me how do you not believe you not important, you are loved. when you were abandoned by your mother, were abuse by people that said they care about you!!! not possible pal!!!
I am so thankful for the wonderful work you are doing in the lives of many especially me,nothing so profound have i felt lifted away from me when i listened to your commentary on recreate your life.com.it is as if what i have been searching for some decade and half years has been given to me within some minutes,the truth about my low self esteem.thank you so much for making me know that you understand and even share the same limiting belief i grew up with.I am free now thanks to you.
Best Regards
Kwesi Kwatia.
Hi Kwesi,
Thanks for sharing your wonderful experience of eliminating a belief.
And if you think getting rid of one was exciting, wait till you eliminate all the beliefs that cause a problem in your life — and you see the beliefs and the problems just dissolve.
Regards, Morty
Hi Morty,
I have already eliminated 4 beliefs and I really feel quite different. I have been studying this kind of stuff for several years and I believe that your method does a great job. I’d like to mention though that I also do some emotional release after the process, because even after I change a belief I still find emotional charges around the subject which could potentially reinforce my habitual patterns. For that same reason I also like to go slow, which each belief so I can really become aware of the difference between the new and the old possibilities.
One question I have left here: Since I have been working with people who have these extremly self-destructive patterns, I like to know if you have a program that starts out with the kinds of beliefs like ” this stuff won’t work for me, nobody can help me, people don’t understand how hurt I am, ….” ???
Hi Doris,
The closest belief we have to what you discuss is Change is difficult. If people have other variations they need to handle we would need to help them get rid of them in one-on-one sessions.
Regards, Morty
Thank you for offering some of these for free. I am a bit skeptical in general (well, impatient is really the word… grins) and am going through a big life change right now. I tried out one of the free processes yesterday and, as if on cue, had the “opportunity” to experience a new way of handling things…an aquaintance treated me in a very disrespectful, rude way. In the past I would have internalized that and felt like a terrible person. Instead, I respectfully “called” them on their behavior and knew that I didn’t deserve that treatment …and inside I really *knew* that I am inherently a good person and not bad.
) the whole event felt much different than any similar event in the past. I wasn’t afraid to stand up for myself–and, very importantly, I did so from a place of loving and respecting myself, rather than simply to attack another defensively. ego wasn’t involved.
and, very oddly, immediately the person, the same person who was angry and treated me poorly, wanted to be friends (not sure I do, but hey…
Hi Chris,
Thanks for sharing your experience of eliminating one belief.
And if you think that was impressive, wait until you eliminate all the beliefs that cause a specific problem and the problem disappears along with the beliefs.
Let me know.
Regards, Morty
Hi Morty, I am going to purchase the Natural Confidence program…are the streaming videos and the dvd’s the exact same thing. or would I need both to have the complete program?
Thanks
Jen
Hi Jennifer,
They are the same program. If you don’t need a hard copy, the streaming video should give you all you need. But for the streaming video you need an Internet connection.
Please let me know what you think of the program after using it.
Regards, Morty
I have to say that I was impressed with the method. I worked on “I’m not good enough”, but with a slightly different take. And what you walk us through is stuff that I know intellectually, but somehow your process made it really click for the first time. However, I did not feel certain that I had eliminated the belief. In thinking about it, I realized that the reason is that there are a number of unhealthy and self-defeating behaviors that are a result of the belief. Since I am not sure whether these have disappeared, I am not sure whether the belief is really gone. But I do feel that I have a handle on the behaviors now and even thought they might not have magically disappeared, I do feel that I will be able to discard them. Now when they come up automatically, I can look at them logically (I hope–we will see) and see that they came from I belief that I no longer believe.
What has been your experience with this issue of getting rid of the related behaviors once you get rid of the beliefs?
Thanks very much for the opportunity to try this out. I’m sold!
Hi Tamar,
Thanks for taking the time to write with your question.
Most behavior or emotional problems are caused by many beliefs, therefore, getting rid of one will rarely solve a problem. So you can’t determine if a single belief is gone by waiting to see if there is a change in behavior, because there rarely will be.
If you eliminate all the beliefs that cause a specific problem, then you will know they are all gone because the problem will be gone too.
Take a look at our store and see what beliefs cause eight of the most common problems people have: http://recreteyourlife.com/store
In the meantime the way to know a belief is gone is that it no longer feels true.
Regards, Morty
I grew up in a very dysfunctional home, my dad was an alcoholic and hardly ever home to help mom, they divorced and my sisters and i lived with mom. Mom was always on my case saying i never did things right, coming up behind me telling me i was doing my chores wrong, while my sisters, who are twins, got the praise and positive attention, i got the negative, and verbal, emotional and physical abuse. She’d say your just like your dad in negative ways, then said why can’t you be like your sisters? Mom has never respected me my entire life, never listens to me even now as an adult. She has it in her head her way is the onlly way of doing anything and my sisters are the same way as mom. they are control freaks who refuse to let me handle my own life. they recently helped me move and refused to allow me to run how i wanted things everything in my life always has to be their way yet my way is always wrong in their eyes yet who’s life am i living, mine, or theirs? they never listen to me they ignore my feelings and poohpooh them as if insignificant my entire life. yet in their eyes their way is the only way of doing anything. My entire family has a habit of telling me what to do, how to do it and if i rearrange my home my way i get criticised yet who lives here me, or them? i don’t go to their homes and dictate how they run their lives or homes, what gives them the right to do that to me? mom has said to me many times that my way of thinking is screwed up yet who’s the one who never wants to listen or learn from her daughter? I’ve had different therapists who have said i am stuck and i do blame my mom for that because she herself is stuck on treating me as if i’m 2 years old my entire life, and that’s unhealthy. I’m so damn sick of her excuses and ignorance to her own behavior, she blames everyone else but herself for her mistakes, and my sisters are the same.I’m 45 years old on disability and mom acts like i’m incompetent to do anything without her interference. she is like a helicopter mom and she refuses to back off. it’s as if she’s trying to make up for crap when i was a kid but i resent her constant meddling, i have tried to set boundaries since i was a kid but noone in the family respects me or my rights as a human being. they refuse to accept that i’m not their doormat. they treat me as if i’m retarded yet they are the ones who are unwilling to learn anything from me. mom is always complaining about dad to me and that’s wrong, and unhealthy. she heard dr phil on tv say never badmouth the ex to your kids yet that’s exactly what she did after dr phil said it. she acts like i’m retarded yet i think she’s the one who is. she doesn’t want to accept that her way is not the only way and she is always criticising how everyone else does things, not just me. recently she said that she thinks it’s dumb for her sisters son to have another kid with his wife, she thinks just ‘cus her sister had 2 everyone else should only have 2 kids. why can’t she realize it’s none of her business how many kids other people have, it’s not her decision. where does she get off trying to control everything and everyone else’s business when she can’t control her own mouth or life? she acts like she has a say in everyones elses business and she has no right to be so damn nosy. she has been divorced from dad for 35 years or so and yet she is still expecting him to pay for my 2 sisters weddings that were over 20 years ago. and she knows he’s never going to pay, if he can’t give me $20 for my typewriter when he asked me how much i wanted $20 what makes her think he’s going to fork out thousands of dollars? he only gave me $10. and she knows he was lousy at paying child support. she is living in a dream world if she thinks he’s gonna change .
Hi Carla,
It sounds like you’ve certainly had a difficult life. Yet the major problem you have today is not your family’s behavior, but the meaning you are giving their behavior.
One of the major meanings seems to be I’m powerless, and that is having a major impact on your life. When you change the meanings (get rid of the beliefs), I promise you will see a dramatic change in your life — no matter what your family does or doesn’t do.
Thanks for taking the time to share your story.
Regards, Morty
Dear Morty,
Thanks, yes i do have a problem letting go and i think i learned that from mom, which isn’t a good thing to teach your kids. She is always in my head saying negative stuff and i don’t know how to block it. she has taught me so many of the wrong things when i was a kid, such as that I’m supposed to care what everyone thinks. and that my way of doing things is never right.
What makes her think her way is the only way of doing things? she has told me many times that she has self esteem problems and yet she refuses to do anything to change her insecurities all the while teaching me to be an emotional mess, taking her adult problems out on me and that’s not right, yet she doesn’t want to listen to me, she treats me as if i’m dumb yet she’s the dumb one. Ever since i was little i have tried to get her to sit down and talk about issues and such yet she denied we ever had any problems, yet she’d be on the phone for hours whining to her sisters or her friends and neglecting our kids’s needs.
I learned to play the blame game from her and i know that’s wrong, yet noone in my family, but me takes any responsibility for my actions (does this make sense)?and behavior. Mom was so desperate to have any man in her pathetic life while she was so insecure, she chose men that i hated and at that time i didn’t want any man around since dad wasn’t a consistent father, what gave her the right to put men before her kids anyway? she even dragged an uncle into our business trying to control me, and her boyfriend Russell who i hated and resented physically mandandled me forcing me into the car when he had no right to touch me in any way. And yet Russell and i had talked when i was 21 years old and he told her she was harming me emotionally but she didn’t listen to him. she said i wasn’t ready to move outy on my own at 21 and that is wrong to hold me back like that. i had to move out behind her back and she threw that in my face after all these years when i moved recently. what the hell is she bringing that up for when i needed to get away from her negative unhealthy clutches , she was making me crazy and still does.. it’s as if she refuses to let me grow up and be my own person. and that’s selfish and destroying me mentally, emotionally. my entire family doesn’t respect me and that’s wrong, yet they taught me not to respect them. why should i respect anyone who tries to control everyone else’s life but their own? during the christmas blizzard of 2009 mom was calling me constantly nand she had never done that before, and i told her to quit calling me and what does she do she called me more.what the hell is her problem? why can’t she listen and respect my wishes? and my sisters are making excuses like her now saying she’s old yet they treat her like crap just like they treat me like crap and they themselves don’t respect anyone or my boundaries. then they preach to me to respect theirs. they are hypocrites and bullies all of them.
Mom blamed me for chasing one guy away, and yet she should have realized she can’t force a man into our lives just cus she’s lonely, we kids should have come first, or am i wrong? the 1 guy she did have in her life for 13 years was a creep and i told her so, i didn’t like him and i could tell he was a bad man but she ignored my warnings, well she was with him all that time and she learned the hard way that i was right, yet she said i refused to listen to her about an ex friend of mine and she was right about her as well.
to this day mom is still trying to mold me the way she wants me to be(exactly like her), and i think it’s way to late to teach me what i should have been taught as a kid, and she teaches me the wrong crap. She is so very negative and a downer, always complaining and whining to get her own way. and what kind of example is that to teach your kids?
My sisters are abusive to me as well just like mom, always telling me what to do, how to act and behave, and it’s not their place, they are my sisters Not my mother, and mom always makes excuses that they are trying to be the boss well why didn’t she teach them what their place was in my life when we were kids, why let them trample all over me just like mom does? they were almost 2 years old when i was born and to this day i think my sisters AND mom behave as if they are 2 years old and i’m the adult (kind of) it took me many many years to mature and i had to get away from them to grow up yet they have such a sick hold on me when i’m around them.
Maybe if she would have sat down and talked to me like a human being instead of treating me like a doormat and a puppet, i probably wouldn’t have had anger issues. when i was 16 i ran away from home and that made things worse yet it didn’t get her to wise up and pay attention to my emotional needs she only cared about her own. and that i embarrased her and the family. i thought that would have knocked some sense into her but as always she dug her head in the sand. she and my sisters are always condemning me for dwelling on stuff yet mom always brings up stuff herself. why can’t they see i learned all this crap from them, and i’m the one who has been in therapy for years and i still can’t seem to get away from my family in every way.
they have such a sick hold on me even when i have no contact with them , but it’s much worse when i do. like when they were helping me move to my new place there was no discusssing anything on how things were to be done, as always it had to be their way and i got pushed around and expected to be in 5 places at once. and they know damn well i don’t have a car and they expected me to go get boxes by city bus which costs money.my entire family treats me as if i’m incompetent or incapable to do anything right and they say my way is always wrong. well has it never occurred to them my home should be done MY way NOT theirs? my sister arranged my kitchen her way and never asked me where i wantyed things. they keep giving me crap i don’t wanty or need like furniture and organization bins. then they go snooping in my stuff and tell me i shouldn’t have things the way i have them. but as i said before who the hell lives here them or me? they are thin and i am overweight and they can’t see that their pressures on me have made me anxious and depressed and fat. i became an emotional eater cus i was always picked on at home and at school then they verbally abuse me telling me to get off my fat ass and go do something yet when i did do stuff it was never right anyway. so why bother? what gives skinny people the right to badger and dictate how a heavy set person lives when they are the reason i have these problems, yes in do play the blame game myself thanks to them teaching me,but at least i put it where it belongs. during the spring flood of 2009 my siter demanded i staY AT HER HOUSE saying it was mandatory and she treated me like shit, always on my back about something, i had no privacy and she was always monitoring my food and beverage intake ffs i’m 45 years old not 2 and NOT her kid. what gives her the right to force me to lose weight on her terms when it’s not her body or business? then instead of asking me nicely she screamed at me to wash the bedsheets. i tell you if i ever had a house and had her visit i would not treat her that way. i couldnt even have a drink of watter or cup of hot chocolate without her coming downstairs asking me what i was doing going through her cupboards, well i didn’t want to be there so deal with it and leave me alone. then she expected me to take care of her dog when i was taking care of my cat inthe basement.. she and my family havfe a bad bad habit of bossing me around expecting me to play carla doormat my entire life and if i say no i get abused. oh i forgot to tell u 1 year both sisters ganged up on me physically and emotionally just cus i told one of them to back offand let me be. i was in the bathroom taking care of a stain on a shirt and 1 sis barged in and decided i needed help which i didn’t and i got mad cus she pushed me aside and started treating me as if i couldnt do anything for myself,like a 2 year old yet at other times they tell me to act like an adult.
that’s what ticks me off they baby me and i get mad then they want me to be an adult. why can’t they see they can’t have it both ways and they screw with my head. they can’t sem to realize even 2 year olds need to learn to do things on their own, not be smothered like they smother me, they are usually out of my life for long periods at a time but when i have any contact my entire life gets turned upside down and i wind up upset and messed up for days. both sisters refuse to respect my requests of sticking to my birthday and christmas lists they still keep giving me crap i don’t need and will never use and they say why follow your stupid lists and i said becaUSE IT’S PRACTICAL. why give me a makeup bag when i don’t wear makeup why keep giving me lotions and shower gel when i tell them i’m allergic to it.they just don’t listen yet expect me to put up or shut up. i’m always in a damn battle of control with them and i can never seem to win. they are narcisstic controlling abussive bitches who want everything their own way with no regard to anyone else’s needs or desires.
please do one for I don’t deserve any thing good or to be happy
Hi Brent,
As I just told Robert below, you can get I’m not deserving as part of a package of five limiting money beliefs. If you are interested, please call Karen at 415-884-0552.
I’ll make a note of the other belief you’d like us to make available on-line. We might create some more next year.
We do offer one-on-one phone sessions where we help people eliminate whatever specific beliefs are a problem for them.
Regards, Morty
i’m suddenly feeling surge of positive energies all over my body as if there is nothing to be afraid of which i believe it’s true.
Best Regards.
Hi Kwesi,
Yes, eliminating a belief results in all kinds of exciting things, including a surge of positive energies.
Thanks for sharing your experience.
Regards, Morty
What I have seen so far seems good. Thank you for allowing us the chance to try your products. Pity you don’t cover I don’t deserve any thing good
Hi Robert,
I’m glad you have found our work useful.
We do have a package of five limiting money beliefs, including I’m not deserving. It currently is not on the market, but if you are interested, call Karen at 415-884-0552 and she can tell you how to get it.
Regards, Morty
im sry..i forgot to say thank you earlier
hi,
im a student in india.im 18 years old. ur belief busting system is fantastic.i busted my belief”im not good enough” yesterday. i never thought that i could feel better in jus around 35 min. i wish i could bust all my beliefs.but i cant but your program.cn u plz help me to get rid of all my beliefs?PLEASE
Hi Aisvarya,
Go back to http://recreateyourlife.com and eliminate a couple more beliefs. And we will send you a link to one more.
Good luck.
Regards, Morty
Hi Morty,
Thank-you for helping me rid myself of the “I’m not good enough ” belief. I have felt more positive about my abilities and self worth in the last few days. I feel my issues stem from comparing myself with my super confident and successful sister who I felt my parents must also have been comparing me with. I look forward to seeing how my life will change and would love to bust another belief.
Thanks again
Jill
Hi Jill,
Life rarely changes much from eliminating only one belief. When you eliminate all the beliefs that cause a specific problem, the entire problem disappears.
Go back to http://recreateyourlife.com and eliminate a couple more. And if you want to get rid of a bunch of beliefs and specific problems in your life, check out http://recreateyourlife.com/store.
Please keep me informed as you eliminate more beliefs.
Regards, Morty
Hi Morty, I often wondered about the beliefs that are associated with someone that is afraid to travel and be far from home. It causes lots of anxiety and panic for me to travel..I know there are some safety beliefs but not real sure…have you had experience with this?
Thank you
Jen
Hi Jen.
Without talking to you it’s hard to know exactly what beliefs might be involved. It could even be conditioning from your childhood. Fear associated with being lost, or something like that.
I’m sure we could find the beliefs and conditionings, but I’m not sure what they are without being able to ask a lot of questions.
Sorry I couldn’t be more help.
Regards, Morty
Hi Morty. I am so thankful for your response. I am thinking it is associated with social anxiety. With fears that I might be out in public and start having anxiety and fear that I could not get to a familiar and private safe place to ease the anxiousness. I am going to get your natural confidence package and see if that helps, or should I get the social anxiety package. Your amazing to take the time to respond to all of us. Jen
Hi Jen,
I’d recommend the Natural Confidence package as it contains all the beliefs and conditionings necessary to handle social anxiety, plus a few more. That package should handle your problem.
Please let me know how you are feeling after you complete the program.
Regards, Morty
For the Natural Confidence Program..which one should I get. What is the difference between and DVD and Streaming video?
Hi Morty,
This program is fantastic! I’m up to belief # 15 or so. It’s just amazing how our beliefs are so “temporary”. I mean from a little child to adult. We can NOW make that correction (sort of speak) to the reality, “Who am I really” which I think is one of the keys to the whole program. It puts the whole thing in perspective. I really had the experience from a deep level.
I’m looking forward to doing the conditioning exercises involving fear . These are the ones that may be the most difficult for me, being in front of people, trying new things, all fear related. Anyway, thanks again so much. I’ll let you know how the rest of the program goes.
kind regards,
Dave
Hi Dave,
Thanks for letting us know how useful our Natural Confidence program has been for you.
Please let us know what happens to your fear when you complete the program. I don’t think you will have any difficulties with the de-conditioning program.
Regards, Morty
First and foremost THANK YOU!,
I thought I was confident before so I grab the course just to see how it worked. I starting doing them , I did first one and when i said the belief, I could feel the charge inherent in it.I thought wow really. At the finish of the first belief, when we repeat the belief it was dead, no charge whatsoever. It was more observing the belief as if someone else said it not me believing it. That moment I was hooked.
I could not stop, I did the first 5 beliefs in a day. Each day I did 4-5 beliefs.
I love it. I dont really know what I had before the course, it was not the confidence I thought. But now I feel deep inside a calm assurance, a swagger if you will. I am walking taller, chin up giving eye contact without instructing myself to. Before I would say to myself ” you gotta make eye contact”..etc there is no little voice telling me to act confident; it is just what I do now. I just am Now.
They say when the student is ready the teacher will appear, I guess I was ready!
Thank you once again,
Giorgio
Hi Giorgio,
Yeah! It is so exciting to hear people’s success stories. Thanks for sharing yours with us.
I guess you were ready.
Regards, Morty
I just saw this on stumbleupon and thought it was pretty funny (tongue-in-cheek):
http://www.richardsreader.com/morty-lefkoe-wants-to-talk-to-you/
Hi Kelsey,
Thanks for forwarding it. It’s great.
Regards, Morty
Thank you for these exercises! As I’m going through the process I’m having a hard time remembering exact experiences or memories when I felt these beliefs; it’s more of a feeling for me. How does that affect the process?
Hi Vanessa,
As long as you have a sense of the source of a belief, the process usually works. There really is no single exact experience anyway. It is a series of events. A sense of what your life was like.
Ultimately, only you know the answer. Is the belief eliminated?
Regards, Morty
Morty,
I just completed the free program on Mistakes and failure are bad. I was skeptical at first that these feelings could be eliminated in the time you claimed. I was wrong. I’ve felt bad about myself and my personal dreams and goals since I was a child(I’m 52) and have used various self help programs to eliminate my fears. When I did the program, I felt as if the dirt was clearing away from the diamond beneath. My whole life I’ve thought there has to be something better. Now I know there is something better and I am the creator of it. I’ve always wanted to be a published writer, but my fear of making mistakes and thinking I’m a failure before I even started has held me back. Now, I am ready to go! Thank you from the bottom of my heart. As Shakespeare said, “Our remedies oft in ourselves do lie.”
Hi Lauren,
I’m so excited that our program freed you up to start writing.
There may be some other beliefs holding you back. If so, get rid of them the same way.
Regards, Morty
And example in the Money Belief Busting program really hit home for me! The example given had to do with attributing meaning to the “rain”.
20 years ago, when my bride and I were married, we had a simple, beautiful Buddhist wedding with family at a forest ranger cabin high in the Colorado mountains. The sky opened up with rain all morning; and then suddenly, there was this little :30 minute break in the clouds — like a smoke ring surrounding a patch of blue sky. We had our ceremony and celebrated after in the cabin while the downpour resumed!
At the same scheduled time, friends of ours had an outdoor wedding in town, and it rained on their morning as well. Sadly, when we next got together, our friends could only talk about how their wedding was “ruined” by the rain.
For us, the rain was the perfect gift on an absolutely, lifelong, beautiful day!
Hi Malcolm,
Thanks for posting.
Yes, events have no inherent meaning. Our lives are run by the meaning we give meaningless events.
Regards, Morty
Dear Mr. Lefkoe,
I thought you did an outstanding job of negative belief busting – something I have never really had the patience for in my practice. I followed it up with a tapping session during another teleseminar which was good as well. I think your contribution here is valuable. Keep up the good work.
Monica
Hi Monica,
I’m glad you liked our belief-elimination process. Feel free to do as much tapping as you’d like, but our process will permanently eliminate beliefs without the tapping.
Thanks for your comment.
Regards, Morty
Thank you for your ingenious process. I found it very helpful.
Hi Helena,
Glad you found our belief-elimination process useful. Wait until you eliminate enough beliefs to change something significant in your life! That will really be exciting.
Regards, Morty
Thanks again Morty, for all this wonderful information.
I have another question.
Is it possible to aquire some of these limiting beliefs at an older age – such as in ones 20′s and 30′s? I understand that we are the MOST impressionable when we are small, but with a LOT of influential talk and actions, can it happen when we are older?
I was in an environment for a LONG time, where I was bombarded with criticism and often told that I wasn’t good enough etc. Various other demeaning comments were constantly delivered to me at that point in my life. Up until then, I had been a very positive and determined character, and these characteristics were beaten out of me by some sort of emotional abuse. I have got a lot of my positivity and determination back now, 10 years later, but I wonder if that period of my life could have been the time when I aquired some of the beliefs I now hold?
Thanks again for all the help, I truly want to become the best person I can possibly be!!
Love and Peace,
Geri
Hi Geri,
Yes, it is possible to form beliefs later in life, but the odds are we formed our self-esteem beliefs as a child and then when later events could lead to certain beliefs, we already have them from childhood. Beliefs about other aspects of life we do form later in life when we first encounter the issues, such as work, politics, etc.
You have an admirable goal to be the best person you can possibly be, and it is a privilege to support you in the goal.
Regards, Morty
Thanks again Morty for the help. That all makes complete sense.
I just purchased the ‘I’m not Worthy’ program which I am certain will help me enormously. Onwards to that goal . . . . .
With love and peace,
Geri
Enjoy the program and please stay in touch.
Regards, Morty
Morty Hi
enjoyed watching the program a lot, It was fun at a certain point I actually felt smething inside but unfortunately it faded awawy i’m still thinking about, mean while I would like to know if you have your materials traslated into hebrew and have you worked with them on kids. I would like to try some of them if so.
thank U very much.
Daniel.
Hi Daniel,
Thanks for your interest in our work.
We’ve sold a bunch of programs in Israel and have been asked to translate our programs into Hebrew. We haven’t done that yet. It doesn’t make sense to spend the time and money on a translation until we have a way to market it in Israel.
The belief-elimination program can work with children if they can understand the words used and sit still long enough. Generally 14-15 is about the minimum but you can always try it with a younger child and see if it works.
Regards, Morty
Thank you Morty,
truely inspirational.
Hi Geneva,
Our goal is to leave you inspired and free of your limiting beliefs. I’m thrilled we have been able to help you.
Regards, Morty
Very helpful. Thank you so much for sharing this. I got your name from Learning Strategies and I will thank Paul also.
Hi Anita,
Glad our program was useful. Did you just use the free belief or did you get a package of beliefs and totally eliminate an entire problem?
Paul and I are friends and I am happy to have been able to make a contribution to him.
Regards, Morty
Hi Morty,
I actually tried eliminating one of your free beliefs, “I’m not capable” several weeks ago. I was very impressed! In fact I did feel a definite shift in my awareness of who I thought I was to one of “maybe there are other explanations to the way my parents and others reacted to my behavior”.
My mom was a perfectionist (actually she suffered from OCD in a big way). She would not let me try or touch anything in the house or outside. My curiosity and experimenting with things was severly restricted. My self-esteem and confidence were greatly affected. I grew up feeling stupid, unworthy and really unmotivated. I went from job to job going for low paying positions all because of how I felt about myself. I ended up projecting all of this outside to my “world”.
I was layed off from a corporate job about 2 years ago. That’s when I decided enough already! I’m going to work on myself and start enjoying my life again. I sent for your confidence program yesterday and am very excited about getting started.
I’ll let you know how it goes. I’m so happy I found your web site.
Thank you so much,
Dave
Hi Dave,
Glad we have been able to help.
Please write again after you eliminate all the beliefs on the Natural Confidence Program and let me know the results you achieve.
Thanks for writing.
Regards, Morty
Hi Morty,
Missed your call with Joe Vitale, but didn’t miss his email with your kind offer.
I completed your “Mistakes and Failure are Bad” process. It works! This is something that has been haunting me since I was 9 or 10 years old when I made my “unrepairable mistake” because I “didn’t think things through enough.” That was 48 years ago and it still bothered me. Always in the back of my mind telling me to think things through – from every angle. Don’t miss anything or I could make another unrepairable mistake.
No more! You’ve helped me see other interpretations even benefits from my mistake. Yes I made an unrepairable mistake, but now I know in my heart not just intellectually that it wasn’t bad. And I’m not bad, dumb, or thoughtless for having made my mistake.
My mistake — I saved my money and bought my first model car. Took it to the basement and carefully painted it red but decided to change the color. I knew turpentine would take paint off things so I made a little tub out of aluminum foil, set it in the cement sink, filled it with turpentine and set the car body in it. The paint started to disappear but then I suddenly noticed pot marks forming in the plastic car body. I quickly pulled the car out and rinsed it in water. It was completely ruined. My Mom was working maybe 5 feet away doing laundry. I called out to her upset by what just happened. Her response was to say this happened because I didn’t think things through. She was busy, didn’t stop doing laundry. I threw the car away beyond repair.
The memory of that has *truly* bothered me all these years – telling me that I can make mistakes I can’t “take back” or correct. So I worked hard not to make mistakes, thinking through “things” as much as I could. “Paralysis by analysis” happened often. I also couldn’t understand why I’d start something, work hard at it, and then not finish it. And fear of making mistakes, fear of failure was huge in my life.
You’ve changed my life. Thank you.
God Bless,
Mike
Hi Mike,
I get up every morning inspired by the idea that today I will help people change their lives. You made my day worthwhile.
Thanks for letting me know about your experience with our process.
Regards, Morty
Hello and thank you Morty,
I see myself as the sculptor and the possibilities are limitless!
I am an new member of your program Natural Confidence and I am so excited to get started. I have tried many different methods to become clear and thanks to Joe Vitale for having you on that confrence call last thursday it has opened up a brand new door for me to explore.I can’t wait!
thanks again
much love Shila
Hi Shila,
I’m glad you were on Joe’s call and I acknowledge you for following up.
And I am so happy that you got value from the free program and that you will get even more value from the program you purchased.
Please let us know what results you notice after completing the program.
Regards, Morty
Hi Morty,
Thank you so very much for sharing this amazing technique with us all. I wil be soon be able to purchase one of the programs. I already worked with the ‘I’m not good enough’ one and feel amost certain that it has cleared this limiting belief that I have had for so long. I have tried to work with the ‘I’m not capable’ one and am coming up with no answers to the questions about remembering events where I might have felt that I was not capable. Perhaps I do not have this belief – it is more than possible as I have always been a determined person – even at a very young age I would insist ‘I can do it by MYSELF!’
I find it very difficult to actually remember events as a child. I simply cannot remember my parents yelling at me. I do remember getting annoyed with MYSELF when I couldn’t do things. As I mentioned, I was a very determined child, but I know I still hold some limiting beliefs. Not being able to remember actual events makes it harder for me to follow the program and imagine what actually caused my beliefs. I have NO bad childhood memories whatsoever, but I do know that I hold limiting beliefs such as ‘I’ll never have a lot of money.’ and ‘I am not clever enough to be able to earn a lot of money.’ However, I don’t know what events led me to believe this.
Just like I hold a very USEFUL belief which has helped me all my life which is ‘My body can heal itself.’ and it always has. I I have never had any grave illnesses or injuries. I also believe that ‘I’ll always be alright.’ and I am always alright. Nothing bad ever happens to me, but still nothing really amazing happens either – I just do ok!! I have NO idea who told me these two things the same as I have no idea who told me that I was not good enough to earn above the average wage etc.
Do you have any suggestions to help me with this?
Hi Geri,
I wrote a post a few months ago on how to find the source of a belief. http://www.mortylefkoe.com/092209/ This might be useful.
If it isn’t, the only other suggestion I have is to have private one-on-one sessions where we help you find the source of beliefs and then help you eliminate them.
And it is possible you don’t have any given belief, but not being able to find the source of a belief isn’t a very good way to determine if you have the belief. Say the words of a belief out loud and see how it feels.
If you’d like more information about our phone sessions, please call us at 415-884-0552.
Regards, Morty
Thanks so much Morty.
I might well be interested in one on one sessions.
I am so close to reaching many of my goals, but I am certain there are still a couple of limiting beliefs holding me back.
Thanks again for all the help, your program is fantastic!
Hi Geri,
Call us if we can help. You also might want to check out the most complete package of beliefs and conditioning we have, Natural Confidence.
Regards, Morty
Morty, Sir Thank You So Much!!!!. I eliminated the ” I’m Not Good Enough” belief. I seriously have tried many different things and techniques to help me. But yours worked just as promised, and you gave it away free ?? Well that does not happen too often today. I thank God for your gift to me and others. I am feeling more happy than I have felt in years. My wife has noticed a difference. I also have purchased some more tools from you, and I will tell my family about you too. Thanks again
Hi Mark,
Thanks for taking the time to write and let me know that the free program made a difference for you.
Please let me know what results you get from the other program you purchased.
And thanks for telling others about our program so they can get the same benefits you got.
Regards, Morty
i want to say to rahul b , i like have correspondence with you
sincerely yours.sara
i have driving license and 2.5 years passed of it but i never drived. its hurt me,i should get teacher and practice driving from first.its caused depression for me, also in my work i should write mail,but im not well in grammar and its also hurt me,its gave me feeling that i could not using of my learened things.
My dear Mr. Lefko,
I wish to share with you and all who read your blog that your program is exceptional. I started with “I’m not good enough” and felt a bit better about myself. Since then I’ve noticed I’m talking to others in the household differently.
Before I say something discouraging to them, I stop and weigh the effect my words will have on that person. I also feel like I can actually begin creating a profitable home business.
I shall listen again and continue with the other free changes for now untill I get enough extra money to purchase your full program.
Thank you Mr. Lefko for the service you do for us.
Sincerely,
Izzy
Hi Izzy,
Thanks for letting me know how much of a difference the one free belief has meant to you. Getting rid of limiting beliefs truly does transform our lives. Please let me know what changes you notice after you get our full Natural Confidence program.
Regards, Morty
@: Hi Aishah,
Thanks for letting us know how much value you got from using our Natural Confidence program. That’s why we all come to work here every day.
Let me know how the program affects you after you eliminate the four conditionings and after a couple more weeks.
Regards, Morty
Hi I did the four step conditioning and I decided to wait a few days to see how I feel.I’m not sure if I did the step correctly as I was tired when I did it. I can’t believe it,can this amazing thing really happened to ME! My obsession to change me has stop,I spent the last few years trying to eliminate the me I dislike.I can’t rest either I am healing myself or searching for new things to try .I was so tired of trying and spending money I can’t afford to spend.
You kindly gave me something free to try and it works and I bought your Natural Confidence program and here I am no desire to do any changes to me,it almost as if I accepted who I am.I went out with some friends Friday night and I feel relax and confident being me in a crowd.Amazing!!
At work usually when people push my buttons I feel so angry I don’t know how to deal with it but today I feel a slight anger and I use your I have feelings but I am not my feelings….and it stop my anger and I am able to function normally and assert my self without losing my cool.I use it all the time now.I’ve changed in a good way,I’ve notice lots of little things in the last few days that gave me hope for the future.
Actually I am stun at how fast it work,after ten years of trying.Thank you so much.I sincerely hope more people will try this and see for themselves.
Blessings
Aishah
Hello I bought your natural confidence program yesterday and I did the 19 steps beliefs clearing and today I feel like a different person,there’s an inner calm and I am amaze at how quiet my mind is! Amazing,you know my mind use to drive me crazy,it won’t shut up,all negative stuff.
Today I Keep dancing and this joy I feel inside I can’t describe.Thank you so much,I am so grateful I found your work,it brings tears to my eyes.
I have spent ten years trying all sort of healing on me,and today I can honestly say the demon is almost gone.
I still have to do the 4 step conditioning.I can’t wait.I have to write and let you know how amazing this methods is.Thank you to Paul Scheele ,I ‘m his fan another great man.Mr Lefkoe I thank you and your wife for your great work.I’m of now to do the four step conditioning.
Blessings
Aishah
Hi Aishah,
I’m thrilled at the results you’ve achieved. In fact, would you be willing to send us a video in which you say essentially what you’ve written here? We could post it on You Tube and tell the world how much value you got from our program.
Congratulations.
Regards, Morty
Dear Mr. Lefkoe, i tried your tests and they are very helpful for many folks that just do not know where their beliefs come from. Most of my worries and doubts come from the fact that i was adopted, i heard about not being ” Like the rest of us ” soooo many times, that i have grown up with the belief that i do not belong anywhere!!!?? I an 62 yrs. old, it has been with me all my life. Thankyou for the free tests and i know that this is a very valueable coarse as i am a huge believer in Paul Sheele and Pete Bissonette, hang with them and you can not go wrong! God Bless, nancy f.
Hi Nancy,
Thanks for your note. Paul and Pete are good friends of mine and do great work.
If you eliminate the beliefs you formed as a child you can let the past be in the past and no longer be affected by what happened to you and what people said to you.
Regards, Morty
If events have no meaning, doesn’t that prove that nothing is important including me? I have never been normal. My mother said that she left me alone a lot when I was little. She said that she didn’t mean to, but she would get busy and forget about me. When she remembered me, she would find me just quietly playing by myself. My dad only wanted to have four kids and I am the fifth kid. He wasn’t a bad guy, but he grew up during the depression with ten brothers and sisters and he knew how difficult it was to support a large family. My former pastor says that single men like me are utterly useless to the church or society. My former boss told me that I was no good and was basicly a charity case. When I was forty-six, I was diagnosed with a mild form of autism. They say if this autism is recognized when a person is very young, it is possible to teach them social skills, but at my age it is hopeless. I have no social skills, no ability to connect with other people, no skills or abilities of any kind really, so I have no purpose. I am also emotionally deficient, mostly I don’t feel anything at all. It seems to me that existence is illogical (from my perspective anyway) so it seems the logical thing to do would be to quit existing. Seemingly, death does not accomplish this. Reincarnation would be a revolting development, and I don’t see the point of heaven or hell since seemingly nothing has any meaning. If there is a God, he has surrounded me with people and events that reinforce the idea that I am not important and my life has no purpose of meaning. Do you have anything that might prove me wrong? Something that would help me realize my purpose and accomplish it? Failure to respond will reinforce the belief that I am not important.
Hi Mark,
The fact that events have no inherent meaning says nothing about whether or not you are important. I have nothing to prove you wrong, other than the experience you have as the creator of your life that is experienced after people eliminate a belief. You will realize that you created all the beliefs that are determining how you experience your life. And by eliminating the negative beliefs, you can totally change your experience of life.
Thanks for taking the time to write.
Regards, Morty
Mark your post has made quite an impression on me. I know that you are very important. I am moved and compelled to respond. Please know that love is the only meaning anyone need to give to the beautiful gift of Life. Especially love for one’s True Self. Then this ever creative abundant and abiding love you’ll share with the entire universe. Please find it in your heart to love yourself. We can only experience true happiness when we are loving. Please know that you are always loved and that we are all One and together in this universal Love.
@: Diane, We give the meanings we do as a child because they make sense to a child. And luckily we can change them all when we grow up.
Regards, Morty
@: Sherrie,
Happy to hear our program has made such a difference in your life. And if you think getting rid of one belief was exciting, wait until you eliminate all the beliefs that are responsible for specific problems in your life. You will not believe the impact it will have.
Thanks for your post.
Regards, Morty
I felt true joy by the end of the lesson. I knew our beliefs were formed early and that they are what we use to make our relationship to the rest of the world. Good, bad or otherwise. Saying it out loud really made a difference. Not looking to get or give forgiveness, from any person, place or thing really released me from the old belief “I’m Not Good Enough”. I was laughing out loud at myself at how silly that belief had been and how I have used it to create a since of lack in a very abundant world.
Thank you so much for the freebie – It has helped to set me free.
Recently a process did not select me for a position everybody said i deserved to have– not only, i got to know that the process was biased, but also that one person choosed purposely for somebody else, and asked me to move on.
Obviously, major bad feeling came with that, like ” i am not good enough”, but much more ” people do not like me, or reject me”, “i am not likeable”
i see the “iam not good enough” program– do you others looking at fear of rejection” , not being loved” etc?
Hi John,
The events in our lives don’t cause us to feel bad about ourselves. The beliefs we form early in life cause the feelings today. Eliminate the early beliefs and events like not getting a jog you deserved will no longer make you feel bad about yourself.
Regards, Morty
Clearly mistakes and failures are sinful, and therefore evil. The Sacred Scriptures make that clear.
Where does it says that if we try someone with good intention and it doesn’t work out exactly as planned (we failed or made a mistake) that we have sinned?
Thanks for taking the time to write.
Regards, Morty
@: you have to click on the player button to get it going. I noticed mine was grey but clicked it anyway and it worked.
I tried to go through the “I’m not good enough” process and the second segment screen had no video or audio. I waited for it to load and it remained blank. I’m interested in seeing the demonstration and learning more about the process.
Hi Garry,
Sorry you are having a problem with our site. Please try rebooting your computer and trying again. That usually solves the problem.
Regards, Morty
Wow, why do we give parents such power to take over our little minds. What a shame to have to live with all that insanity for so long. Now I know why I’ve been a perfectionist all my life but yet not satisfied with my achievements.
Hi Diane,
We don’t “give them power.” We are just trying to make sense of our experiences and come up with what makes the most sense to an infant. The point is our parents have no power. The power is all ours. We gave their behavior meaning and we can eliminate that meaning (the beliefs ) at any time.
Regards, Morty
I’d be interested in your response to Rahul. #4 above.
Your method is less comprehensive but similar to one I have experienced. The core concept is the same, just a different process.
I’m glad you have put it out there for people to try.
@:
Hi Judi,
Did you see my reply to Rahul?
By the way, what is the other method you’ve tired that you think is more comprehensive than mine?
Regards, Morty
Dear Mr. Lefkoe,
As an intelligent human being I have intellectually been able to understand limiting beliefs from my parents however it wasn’t until today that saying it out loud and going through it caused me to release so much of the feeling of being limited.
thank you so much,
Elena
@: Hi Juan,
Thanks so much for helping others who cannot speak English use our process. At some point we will translate the entire program to Spanish, but we are not prepared to do that just yet. In the meantime people will have to rely on people like you who are committed to helping others.
Regards, Morty
Hi Mr. and Mrs. Lefkoe,
I just wanted to tell you that I’m a big fan of your method, and I’m trying to show it to the people I know and to everyone that could find this useful, but i’m having some trouble with the language. I can speak english properly, but not all the people here in Chile can, so meanwhile I’m translating the videos for them (like literally hearing in english, clcking the pause button, and translating into spanish) but I would be much better if the videos had subtitles (in Spanish and other languages) or something that could led them to understand it on their own. That would really help me and all the people around here. I know you might be pretty busy, so I wanted to thank and congratulate you for the excellent work you put up every week,
Juan
Morty,
I have completed the entire Natural Confidence program, and today when I went to my Toastmasters meeting I still felt fear while speaking in front of the group. I was hoping the fear would be gone after reading about the University of Arizona conducted research study, but alas it was not.
I’ve been interacting with the program heavily the entire way, and have been really taking the time necessary to make it clear in my mind that events that occur in reality are inherently meaningless. Prior to getting your program I was already familiar with this concept because I have studied a few other methods specializing in belief elimination.
I consider myself as someone who is in touch with his internal state, but I was having a problem “feeling” if a belief was true or not at the beginning of each module. Given this, I had no idea if it felt much different after the process was completed. Do you have any suggestions on what I can do to get a better understanding of if I have a belief or not? Should I just wait for some time and see if my behaviors change?
During the deconditionings “Fear associated with people putting their attention on me” and “Fear associated with rejection” I felt it was difficult to make the distinctions necessary, however your last step of the process “Visualize your parents reacting with love/never rejecting you” made perfect sense to me. When I saw future situations of rejection/people putting their attention on me, I felt no anxiety. However, today I think I felt anxiety associated with that at Toastmasters.
Your opinion would be greatly appreciated. Awesome program by the way. Thank you so much for creating it. You are a great man!
- Rahul
Hi Rahul,
Did our conversation help? Please let me know.
Regards, Morty
@: Hi Doug,
Positive comments like yours are what gets us going every day here at Lefkoe Institute. Results like yours are what we are committed to.
To find out about getting rid of more beliefs and specific problems in your life, go to: http://recreateyourlife.com/store.
Please stay in touch and let me know your experience after you eliminate more beliefs.
Regards, Morty
@: Hi Richard,
Thanks for taking the time to write. I’m thrilled you are finding such positive results from our program.
And if you think getting rid of one belief is exciting, wait until you eliminate a package of beliefs that cause a specific problem in your life.
To see what we have available, please go to: http://recreateyourlife.com/store.
Let me know your experience after getting rid of a bunch of beliefs.
Regards, Morty
I’m 56 years old and fully aware that my short comings were mostly of my own creation especially now having gone through the “I’m not good enough” program. As you described in your intro video, the path of excellence was always a struggle, always needing to do more and feeling empty after all of my efforts.
WOW! It’s feels like a permanent tape erase. I feel at ease and a sense of calm about my self knowing my intentions and efforts will come from a source of fulfillment rather than a desperate sense of having to prove myself.
YES!! I AM GOOD ENOUGH!! SAY IT ONE MORE TIME! OUT LOUD!
I would like to say a big thank for sharing with me this process. I have always asked myself why I behave the way I do when I clearly know how I want to behave.
I have so far removed a few believes and feel very positive that my life and feelings are on a different path; I am the creator!
What I need to do now is to reomove more of those believes and importantly, use the de-conditioning process for my my emotional reaction to other stimuli
For me, it felt like something shifted in as soon as I realised why I behaved the way I did.
Everything has a purpose; I have spent such a long time learning techniques help me cope when I could have created my life.
BRILLIANT!
@: Hi Barbara,
Thanks for your interest in our work and for your question.
We have worked with and helped many clients who have been sexually abused. The most common beliefs in those cases are not in any of the on-line programs (go to http://recreateyourlife.com/store), but we certainly could help you in a private phone session.
For more information please call us at 415-884-0552.
Regards, Morty
@: Hi Beth,
Thanks for your interest in our work. I’m thrilled you are getting such positive results.
The WAIR? Process is not about what you should feel. You feel whatever you feel. Most people experience in that state that anything is possible and that they have no limitations. That’s not what I’m telling them or that they should believe. It is just what most people experience.
I’m not claiming that we create every single thing in the world. Only that we create the beliefs that pretty much determines what we do and feel. They don’t necessarily determine everything that shows up in our lives.
Does this explanation help?
Also, I’m not sure what you mean by imposter syndrome. If you mean feeling like a fake or a fraud, the Natural Confidence program will help a lot, but there still might be a few additional beliefs that your friend would have to get rid of in a private session.
If you have any additional questions, please let us know.
And certainly let us know your experience when you complete the program.
Regards, Morty
Hi Morty,
I bought the Natural Confidence program and just eliminated my 10th belief. I am astonished at how well it is working! I’ve spent 20 years reading self-help books and trying various forms of therapy, including energy techniques such as EFT, and nothing worked as well as this. I do think EFT is great for eliminating the “charge” on traumatic events, but for me anyway, it did not eliminate the underlying belief that I formed from the event. I can’t wait to finish the program!
So far there is only one hitch: I am not getting any results from the “Who am I really” process. I find this odd, since your belief elimination system seems to be working so well for me. I’m not sure what’s going on, but I think it may have something to do with my philosophical struggles over the law of attraction. I can readily accept that we create our own experience in the limited sense that what we feel and do flows directly from our beliefs. I can even accept that what we feel and do, in turn, exerts a strong effect on what physically manifests in our reality. But I am struggling with the notion that I literally created everything in my reality down to the smallest detail (including war, poverty, my husband’s degenerative arthritis, my son’s behavioral problems, etc.). I think to myself, “If I am the creator, and anything is possible, then I should be able to create a world where my husband is healthy, my kids are always well behaved, I have no financial problems, and there is no war or poverty.” Well, so far I have not been able to do that. So maybe that is why the WAIR process doesn’t make me feel all-powerful. If you have any suggestions for how I could look at this differently, I would be thrilled to hear about them, for I would dearly love to experience the WAIR process the way you and most others do.
P.S. I have one more question. I have a friend who suffers from “impostor syndrome” and I wonder if the Natural Confidence program alone will deal with that, or if there are other beliefs that also need to be addressed.
Thanks so much!!!
Beth
I completed the Natural Confidence program about a week ago now. While going through all of the beliefs and conditions I could feel the momentum building in my confidence level. I knew I was undergoing some incredible changes. The day or so after I completed the program I knew I did not have the beliefs anymore and was a bit annoyed that there was nothing more to do. It was a strange feeling. It was as though I was missing the limiting beliefs or perhaps the process of removing them as that was such an awesome process. This phase has passed and I continue to listen to the Who Am I Really recording to reinforce that I truly am the creator of my life. I realize it has only been a week since I did the program, but my strong confidence levels are stable and expanding, as opposed to contracting which often happened with other programs I’ve tried. I will post again at a later time and update my experiences some more. Thank you Morty and Shelly!
I filled in the box about when my limiting belief was formed but the continue link does not work on that page, probably because I recently upgraded to Internet Explorere 7. Now I am deeply into the emotions about those early childhood years and unable to continue the process to eliminate the belief.
Please provide a way to continue the process.
@: Hi Maiweaue,
Sorry that our program didn’t work for you. But if you’ll notice there are almost 400 comments below, most of which describe the positive results people have gotten. Our program doesn’t work for everyone and I’m really sorry it didn’t work for you.
Regards, Morty
Morty,
I got back into the program last night and completed the work on “I am not good enough.” This morning I feel very peaceful and hopeful that “I am not good enough” may no longer be part of the way I view the world.
Is there a way to use that same process to work on events that happened with people other than parents? Last night, after working on the past with my parents, I began thinking about being raped when I was 14, by a boy who said he loved me. That boy would not speak to be after the rape. When he did finally speak to me again, ten years later, he told me he did not speak to me because it had been his first time and I cried, which ruined it for him. I not only cried, I begged him to stop. I fought him. I put my foot through the windshield of his car in the fight to keep my virinity that night. He never even appologized, even when we finally spoke about it 10 years later, when one would think he would have the good sense to realize what he had done.
This was a long time ago, when nice girls remained virgins until their wedding night, so I lost something very important that night. That event was a huge reinforcer for a belief that I was not good enough. I felt worthless for many years.
Is there a way to use your program to work with that memory and other memories that are not related to parents? I don’t see a way to sign up to use your system for other beliefs.
Barbara
I’m grateful that the sample was free because now I know it’s a waste of money: your program does NOT work, it is inherently flawed; you just say “can you see it, what color does it have?” These are nonsense questions that don’t relate to the belief! Your parents yelling at you & your conclusion “I’m not good enough” has EVERYTHING TO DO WITH HOW YOU WERE ABUSED when every single minute of your life you had to figure out how to survive those monsters that threatened to KILL YOU! So no, it has NOTHING TO DO WITH MY VIEWS or my decisions & EVERYTHING TO DO WITH THEIR ABUSIVE BEHAVIOR!!! The fact that the belief has no color is as relevant here as the fact that you wear glasses tells me you are 5’6″. AB-SO-LU-TE-LY-AB-SURD!!!! Then u go off on your happy tangent assuming we agreed with you. Sorry but fail! You need to perfect a system and make sure it makes sense before it can work & u commercialize it to the world. Keep trying & maybe u’ll get the missing pieces of the puzzle but you’re off on the wrong tangent there!
Change is difficult and takes a long time. I seem to be having trouble with this one. I had been doing your program on
http://www.recreateyourlife.com/intro.html
the first three recordings were good for me and i feel like i had released those beliefs. i just did them today so i am not positvely sure they are gone. the belief of change is difficult and takes a long time is a problem for me though. i have always had this belief for as long as i can remember. i am certain that this is probably the biggest hurdle in my life right now. i believe that if i believed that change could be easy then it could be easy but for some reason i am stuck on this one because all the people and endeavours that inspire me have always held the tenet that it takes hard work, practice, and dedication to get anywhere. i am going to try it again and see what happens but any advice or help would be greatly appreciated.
thanks!
@: Hi Patricia,
Just noticed this post from you from two weeks ago. Sorry it has taken me so long to answer. I get so many emails every day that sometimes some “get lost” and yet that is no excuse. So I apologize.
The belief you name is not that common and it does not underlie a lot of common problems, so we didn’t make an on-line version of it
However we work with people from all over the world on the phone (and Skype) and help them eliminate the specific beliefs they have that aren’t on the exiting programs.
If you’d like to find out more about our one-to-one sessions, please call us at 415-884-0552. We certainly could help you get rid of that belief and several more that are holding you back in some way.
Regards, Morty
Hi
I meditate daily and working on raising kundalini. Although raising the kundalini really does what your system does + connects you to “one with all” , your awesome system does takes me to higher levels that i couldnt even possible imagine that could go this quick. It takes a long time do achieve what your system does, by just meditating. It has boosted my progress TREMENDOUSLY! Why havent I found you earlier, damnit!!? I could be skipping years of effort, in what I just achieved with your simple program. I have been experimenting with alot of differnet “healing modules”, and all seems very “airy-fairy”. But your “healing” is as rational and logical as 2 + 2 = 4
Forever gratefull
Much love
Benjamin from Norway
Hey there,
I just finished this course (I’m a night owl) and I have to, again, admit that it was fantastic. Even better than I thought it would be.
One thing I think is interesting, and can’t recall if it’s mentioned during the course, is the duplicate benefits you can measure to see that it REALLY DOES WORK
1. The normal way, which happens more slowly or more quickly for some beliefs (probably different for most everyone), is how you feel when you think old thoughts or perform old actions. All those bad feelings are gone.
2. The complementary way (which I’ve experienced quite a lot of, within 4 days and while I was still taking the course) were you realize that, once you’ve eliminated – or are on your way to eliminating – all of your fears, other people start treating you differently. It’s a little harder to pick up, since you need to focus on yourself (What other people think of you, or what they do says nothing about YOU), but I’ve noticed significant changes in the behaviour of people around me. People who have no idea I’m doing this. Whiners have stopped whining to me. Angry, emotional vampires have stopped dropping by to dump their problems on me and sap my energy.
I loved this program, and the duplicate effect, because I feel fantastic (I thought I was relatively okay, but I needed to do every single belief and conditioning) and the people and situations that used to be attracted to me seem to be avoiding me now; as if they KNOW that I’m not the same guy any more.
Once again, thank you for creating this program. It cost me slightly more than one visit with a psychotherapist (which accomplished nothing and went on for years, with regards to social anxiety) and it’s made a tremendous, significant and measurable improvement in my life. I can’t prove it, but I don’t believe those old beliefs will ever come back again.
One last note is that I made sure to go above and beyond, talking out loud (which I ran by the family before I started so they wouldn’t think I was off my rocker) and interacting with the program. I also took copious notes and went back over my lists of experiences and applied different interpretations to them.
MOST IMPORTANTLY (I think
I watched every single second of every single lesson. I became a believer in the Lefkoe process after eliminating just one belief (which you can do for free online – not illegal, they’ve put it up for free). Even though some of it was repetitive, I have the sense that the repetition was an integral part of the program. I feel like I KNOW these concepts now, just like I KNOW my times tables. Some of the exercises were difficult to work on, but if you’re honest with yourself and fully commit, this program really works.
Cheers!
P.S. I may have made some typos above, but I’m not worried about it at all. That’s something for an English major and erstwhile perfectionist
I got the entire “Natural Confidence” package yesterday, and I did the first 5 beliefs last night. I felt amazing while I was working through them — I definitely got the sense that something had shifted.
The whole idea that we are each the creator of our experiences wasn’t new to me. I knew it intellectually (and I was always the one to give that advice to other people!), but I also knew that deep down, I didn’t believe it. I was always shadowed by this tension that I felt around other people — this sense of not being comfortable in my own skin.
Today, after having started the program last night, everything felt different. I felt relaxed and comfortable. At ease. What’s even more amazing is that others seem to have noticed the change, as well. Today my boss – who’s also a good friend of mine – told me I seemed “looser” and “cheekier.” Ha! I haven’t told her anything about the program, so I was really stunned when she said this.
I’ve tried everything, from self-help books rooted in conventional psychology to Theta healing. I’ve seen improvement with the various methods I’ve tried, but nothing has worked as quickly or as effectively as this. I feel as if I’ve been given a brand-new life. I couldn’t be more grateful, Morty, for the gift that you’ve provided.
I can’t wait to complete the program. I’m looking forward to even more profound changes.
@: Hi, Marty!
I probably don’t do justice to Sherman’s ideas…my only real purposes in posting you were to express appreciation for the substance of your online program and to suggest that you might find something deeply resonant and provocative in Sherman’s work.
My best to you!
John Erwin
@: Hi John,
Thanks for taking the time to popst a note. I’m not familiar with John Sherman, but I don’t se our beliefs as self-protection. We are born wanting to understand, to make connections, to answer the question, why? Our beliefs are our answers to that question.
Regards, Morty
This is terrific, specific, actionable.
Resonates deeply with the profound musings of John Sherman and the vichara conversation (at http://www.riverganga.org –nothing sold there),
John articulates the existential motive that drives Lefko’s “Creator-Consciousness” to adopt debilitating beliefs and strategies as reflexive self-protection in the moment that awareness itself burst forth from the cosmos as us.
Lefko’s excercise gets right at the practical business of eliminating false ideas of self, from which all self-inflicted suffering flows.
John Erwin
Wow!!! I’m floored by how great I feel know that I know that I AM good enough. I’ve spent my entire life getting really really good at things that my parents told me I’d never be any good at, but none of that success has ever done me any good with the cause.
I think it took me an hour to do the free release, but it was an hour well spent. And, if this belief has been wiped forever, I’d pay full price just for that. Excellent
This program is AMAZING!!!
, Mike
What else would I like to change about my life?
I’d like to have perfect radiant health!!
I’m interested in buying ALL of the products listed in the individual beliefs section of the “store”. How much to buy the whole nine yards?
Dear Dr.Lefkoe!
Thank you very much for your very interesting and useful lecture. I’ve got the link for this page quite by chance, from not remember exactly where and several days have passed before I could listen it from the beginning till the end (busy with telephone calls, office duties, etc).
It sounds very simple and easy to understand. As Russian writer Lev Tolstoy said: “The most important things are always simple”.
Thank you very much for it. I wish your to have a Happy and prosperous coming Year of Tiger! As it is traditionally said here in Vietnam on occasion of the Lunar New year celebration: Let’s ten thousands of your wishes will come true.
Hello Morty,
Thank you for as easy and effective system of releasing limiting beliefs as I’ve ever experienced.
I went through the 19 beliefs, 4 conditionings and dozens of “who am I really”. My results are improved profoundly. For that thank you.
However, a new condition as crept up and I now realize that it is at the core.
“If I don’t be, do or say what people want, I will get rejected.”
It’s similar to many, but somehow I can’t seem to get past this one. It’s embedded deeply from a very young age. Can you offer some suggestions or a belief eliminator that would best fit it?
Thank you,
Patricia
Some of these blog comments are so heartbreaking. I wish I could somehow reach out to each of those suffering people and encourage them to love themselves and yet at the same time I understand. I have many of the same feelings since childhood, and yet when I hear others say them I am shocked and sad. I feel like there is no possible way anyone else should feel so bad about themselves but it’s okay for me to feel that way about myself. Doesn’t make sense I guess. I hope everyone here finds what they need to heal. At least here, maybe there is a starting point for some~I sincerely hope so. It is nice to know there is someone out there like Morty who is trying to help people overcome these devasting beliefs that destroy lives. I wish everyone well.
Hi Morty!
I finished the Natural Confidence course in under a week. Every day I did a few belief busting sessions, and I cannot believe how much better I feel!
The job I have is phone sales, and it requires me to answer phones of inbound calls from customers wanting to buy computers. If it wasn’t for your work, I don’t think I would have been able to survive my first few days on the floor taking calls. I KNEW that I didn’t have it in me to perform the job I was tasked to do.
I also do stand-up comedy. This was far easier for me to do than talking one on one with a client on the phone! That is, until now. I also have renewed (found) confidence in myself and my ability to make other people laugh without getting overly concerned if I make EVERYONE in the room laugh or not.
From the bottom of my heart, Thank you so much for making this available. It’s like a shoe to my mental backside that needed the kick start!
Charlie
@: Hi Janet,
You certainly can link to our site from yours and you can become an affiliate if you’d like. Go to http://recreateyourlife.com/partnersignup.
Regards, Morty
It’s interesting how so many people refer to events past childhood that would be responsible for their belief systems. My husband blames his first father-in-law for his ‘not good enough’ belief. I know his parents and can look at them objectively. The interesting thing is that the Law of Attraction works from our belief system. We see so much evidence of how we attract people into our lives who display the same behavior patterns that we are used to or comfortable with. It is a human condition to find ways to justify our belief systems.
I am so glad I landed on your website Morty. I hope that I am allowed to link to you from mine. Your method really works if people are willing to let it.
I just left the this message on a website recommending your methods and programs: http://artofmanliness.com. Let me know if you get some increased responses from this:
There is this great guy named Morty Lefkoe who has a system for busting beliefs that hold you back. It is a process that amazingly works far better than anything I’ve ever come across. I highly recommend his method. It sounds to good to be true at first, but I’ve tested them and it works very well. It is right along the lines of this article and enhances the ability for success. You can buy one module at a time for a very reasonable price of like $19.95 to test, or a whole program for less than the cost of 1-2 sessions with a counselor. This stuff really works! Best results found in 50 + years!
Try one for free first and do what it he says to do!
http://recreateyourlife.com/a/BecomeCapable
http://recreateyourlife.com/store/
Hi Amanda,
Thanks for your interest in our work and for your note.
Your experience with the Lefkoe Belief Process is why we come to work each day. This is the type of difference in people’s lives that we are committed to making.
And if you think getting rid of a couple of beliefs produces miraculous results, wait until you eliminate a bunch of beliefs that cause specific problems (take a look at http://recreateyourlife.com/store).
Please stay in touch and let us know how you are doing.
Regards, Morty
I am in AWE!! From my childhood up I’ve hated myself. It resulted in several suicide attempts, staying in an abusive marriage and developing a deadly eating disorder. I had so many “Ah ha” moments during the video that I felt as if energy was exploding through my body. Wow… I gave meaning to all those events! The events meant nothing until I gave them meaning and decided I was not good enough; then, I carried them with me through life like a heavy burden! WOW….speechless. Now that I understand I am the creater I plan to give every event a positive meaning and look at each new day as a learning experience rather than something that defines the type of person I am. Even when the event is taken away, I am still the same person! THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!!
dammit, I meant “promote” not “appraise”…
Hi Morty,
in reply to your latest email, I just wanted to tell you that a german translation of your program would be really nice. While my understanding of the English language is near perfect a lot of germans still have great trouble with it and are thus unable to make use of your program to the fullest. If it was available in german I´d be the first to start appraising it as loudly as I could. After all, there are more than 80 Million people over here, who are still closer to the dark ages than the present, when it comes to the evolution of consciousness (measured against the american “standard” which can be roughly extrapolated from the very existence of such institutions as the TLC. Over here in good old germany nobody would ever take such an idea seriously, let alone make it a reality ).
Long story short: Germany could really use your stuff and if you can make use of a non-professional translator like me I´d love to be a part of the translation process.
Hi Morty
Please can you HELP.
As there is no other way to contact you i am writing to you on this forum.
I tried your “Im not good enough” session..thank you for giving that for free btw) and i had an amazing difference. It wa truly amazing. so much so that i instantly bought the procastination package. I was hoping that i could download the package as well as wait for the DVD which will arrive in 3 to 4 weeks as im in the UK but there was no option to do so. Im very surprised that i couldnt download the seperate sections
Now that i have had a closer look at the several packages that you offer i would like to change the package that i bought to the “Self Confidence” package as this not only gives me ALL of the seperate limiting beliefs but also allows me to go throguh them streaming online immedialtely !!! Please can you contact me to change this.
I look forward to your reply
i still have the belief i am not good enough listening to you made no difference in fact i became very depressed as nothing i do seems to help
Hi Morty,
I am deaf and I would prefer to read about your methods to remove beliefs, do you have a version of your program for people who prefer to read? Thank you.
Sincerly,
Maria
Does removing beliefs with the Lefkoe method work on adult children of alcoholics? My father was a raging alcoholic. I did not have self esteem until I had low self esteem.
Hi Morty,
Over the past couple of years I have given more attention to self development as I want to become a fitness trainer and want to learn about motivational techniques. I must say, by the time I had gone through the process of eliminating belief #1, I experienced something amazing. I was so relieved that I cried.
I am at belief #5, for now, I will stop and take the time to absorb what was said and reflect on it as much as I can. I feel so calm now…my head seems so clear and organized…I can’t wait to finish the program!
This is the first program I’ve gone through, never have I bought something like this from anyone – I don’t regret it. The only thing I regret if giving you a puny sum of under 300$ for your program, how can you let us rip you off like this, Morty?
Thank you very much for helping me.
Hi,
Is there a package that covers more than one belief or are they packaged separately?
Hi,
Is there a package that covers more than one belief or are they packaged separately?
Hi,
Is there a package that covers more than one belief or are they packaged separately?
Hi Morty!
Wow, I am blessed to have found you. THANK YOU!!! I eliminated “Mistakes and failure are bad.” yesterday and even the words and expressions I used are different. I started expressing the real me that I have been wanting to express for 20 years. Today I eliminated ” I’m not good enough.” I am excited to see how I will express more of my Real/Best Self today. I am grateful for you.
Sincerely,
Bodhi
Sorry ………. I have been failing to watch your video since everytime i accessed the link, can you perhaps save it as real player or windows media player, it is not opening ………. i cant comment anything or send it to my e-mail instead ……..
my problem is that v human being r very much dependent on luckm and fortune for succes in our life affairs.our strules goes failed n many cases its luck and fortune dat determine our lives and future not our eforts wat u say? plz convince me
Hi I was quite interested in reading what you had to say, except I don’t have any of the limiting beliefs you have listed to bust! Mine is regarding starting up a business and wanting and believing I can do better than the very well paid job I was in previously. Kind Rgds Fiona
You have inspired me to move forward to my goal and really ” to believe in oneself” is important even if everybody has a negative outlook at ones capability.
i like what i saw in the film. Thanks and God bless!
Your links don’t work. Could not enter your sample free program. Does it work? Still don’t know.
J
I chose I am not important.
After listening to you, I realize that the belief ‘I am not important’ is of my own creation. I am important to my family, to my close friends, and to myself. Now I can appreciate my presence, my accomplishments and my contributions to others.
I am important.
Thank you for changing my belief in a few minutes!
I feel great.
Nurhayati Siregar
I choose mistakes and failures are bad.
Actually i do not believe that.
I am the mistake. Being a calendaraccidentconception, surviving an abortionattempt, being cursed by my father, and later surviving abuse and murderattempts.
I’ll think about this. It might explain why i cannot live, believing being alive is my mistake, my guilt, believing my parents truth that i had no right of existence. Believing noone would ever love me.
Gertrude I hope you read this. I noticed in your message that you don’t believe that mistakes and failures are bad. Ha! I think it’s a miracle that you are here taking this program.
Your parents probably had trouble loving themselves and each other. Break the chain of self-sabotage and reclaim your life! Every child is a wonderful gift. It doesn’t mean that they belong to their parents. Parents are just stewards or guardians for their kids. I’m sorry that you had bad stewards… I think the free programs I’m not Important and I’m not good enough could really help you! It helped me, even though I was an only child and spoiled at that!
Wow!!.. understanding why i have felt a failure and beat myself up, sometimes literally for making mistakes is like ive been reborn, it has also given me more perception on my subconcious thoughts and reaction to peoples innocent actions towards me.
Thank you very much..
Dave
Thank you for your program.I truly felt how beliefs are illusions,nonetheless,very convincing ones.I am facing the most difficult challenge of my life and felt very inadequate for a whole year.
Now,I am free to accept my true capability and even allow it to function for me.It is a remarkable victory to distinguish one self from a problem and
feel bigger than it by not living within its limits.I can say that I AM many things and that I CAN anything and that I no longer feel shame for my
current situation,as I can transform it to my advantage
Best Wishes
rosaria
I don’t feel I’ve eliminated the belief. I chose “I’m not good enough,” and I have always felt that way. But I agree with the first poster who said they saw an overemphasis on parental influences in childhood, when other influences could be just as powerful. I majored in psychology so I know this to be true. It’s NOT just parents alone who determine early beliefs. I too had an older sister who dominated me throughout life. I only just got over the domination a few years ago. And I was made fun of at every school I attended. In the past 4 years, I’ve been fired from more jobs that I’ve kept. All because I was not good enough.
Rather hard to get rid of that. I can’t say I felt any shift. Sorry.
Hi Ana,
Thanks for your interest in our work and for your comment.
After working with over 13,000 clients in one-on-one sessions, we have discovered that with very few exceptions, self-esteem-type belief are formed in the first 5-6 years of life in interactions with our parents. This isn’t my theory; this is what happened when we looked for the the source of their actual beliefs.
This is not to say that siblings or others can’t be a major influence in other beliefs; they are. But I haven’t found an instance of I’m not good enough coming from interactions with parents yet. Once you have formed the belief, then you have evidence that it is true for the rest of your life. But those later situations aren’t causing the belief; they are the result of having the belief.
If you try to do the Lefkoe Belief Process and don’t have the correct source of the belief, the belief will not be eliminated. So if you were convinced the source was not your parents, that’s probably why the belief was not eliminated.
For more information on this topic see my blog post: http://www.mortylefkoe.com/092209/
Regards, Morty
This is weird for me. Is it normal, not to remember the name of the program I completed? If I try to consciously think about it, I just can’t form the words in my head. No. Still can’t remember it, so I looked it up(again). I completed the ‘I’m not good enough” program. Powerful stuff.
This was the experience I have been looking for. The “I am not good enough” ghost has been haunting for as long as I can remember and Morty has been able to design a video that powerfully all its foundations.
Morty, thanks for this. I think that I can finally be master of myself and unleash my potential.
There are many people out there that need to see this and I will do my share of marketing effort to promote your work.
Thanks again,
G
Thank you so much. Your way of overcoming beliefs is wonderful, logical and clear. I think that you are making a very good contribution to humanity. Continue your good work and may God bless and prosper you always.
Anthony.
Morty,
O.k. Nothing really big happened. I mean, no super ‘a-ha!’, fireworks or epiphany. But my limiting belief DID disappear, instantly. It was so easy and so quick, like you said, I thought, ‘there’s no way this could be this easy.’ But, it was. Hard to believe, but it did work. Powerful and fast.
I’ve never seen anything that worked this powerfully. And I’ve looked for YEARS and tried many, many techniques, mantras, prayers and other systems. But nothing like this. I am, was, shocked.
Here’s what I got. Meanings create beliefs. They support and are the life blood of beliefs. When the meaning is correctly and objectively viewed, then, the belief is destroyed. This is huge!
Thanks Morty! I’ve got several very limiting beliefs to work on. I went from a very high six figure income, two years ago, hundreds of thousands of dollars (cash) in the bank, to almost being homeless (right now). In the past year, I’ve lost nearly everything. Money, houses, cars, marriage. I think that in finding you, I’ve found a key to my future. You’re a Godsend.
In deep gratitude,
Michael Murphy
Hello Morty,
I followed a link on Saturday that lead me to your site. It amazes me how much information is out there to help people get through their stuff. However, Recreate your life has given me something very tangible.
My work situation as a cab driver recently became overwhelming to me and I stopped working. Over the holidays I became very depressed and distant. I have kept myself away from people almost exclusively for the last 2 weeks.
Saturday I eliminated the belief that I’m not important. I can’t say that I am completely out of the woods but I can’t even make myself feel bad anymore. I am still staying to myself but I feel okay. Your program really worked for me so far. Thank you very much.
As soon as I am financially able I will be ordering the next step in your program. Thank you again.
Harold
Hi Morty,
On the having people think well of me makes me feel good and important. A side to that is I was treated better overall, and that reinforced the idea I was good enough and important. In fact, I was pointed to as an example. This also occurs in the work place I please people I get benefit like promotions, extra considerations etc.
So how do I now go about eliminating this belief. I actually saw consequences of not meeting expectations and experienced the benefits of meeting expecatations.
Morty,
I followed a link from Steve Pavlina’s site about eliminating a limiting belief.
Your walkthrough is the most effective and comprehensive “freebie” I have ever received.
I have “rational” beliefs that are very high in esteem but the subconscious or knee-jerk beliefs are quite the opposite. It’s not as easy as being logical. Your program solved that gap and allowed the knee-jerk beliefs to evaporate.
I look forward to letting my daughters take part in it. It’s so incredibly obvious to me that I am passing down and recreating what I experienced as a child.
Thank you so much for putting the time and effort into this program and then allowing us to benefit from it for free.
Hi Morty,
I really enjoyed your program. I have done the “I’m Not Good Enough” program which has helped eliminate this belief, and it was one I really had felt for a long time and really held me back.
Just thought I would give some feedback however and get your thoughts on something — as I felt that even though the point of the story is to teach us that in general it’s not our beliefs but the feeling we attach to an otherwise meaningless situation – I felt that the emphasis on “parents” and what they did to us in our childhood might have been a bit strong, as in my particular case, being the youngest of two children, I grew my belief from my older, competitive and unsupportive sibling who would often exclude me, be the “boss” and often cut me down in front of other people and make me feel unwanted and “not good enough”.
All of the “events” in my childhood that brought me to this belief were things that she said or did and how she made me feel about myself, and nothing really to do with my parents telling me off or the examples in the video.
I believe the process did work but personally I felt it was hard to concentrate on the video being that instead of a straight “Yes.” to the questions I kept thinking “mm yes, but it wasn’t my parents”.. “mmm not really, not my parents” etc.. Nevertheless the process has worked, and I feel much better about myself but just thought I would pass on incase you may need feedback.
I thought perhaps unless the research shows that it is indeed parents – that maybe it might be an idea to say “was there ‘someone in your life’ that did this… did they say this and make you feel this..??” etc as it may be easier for those of us who did not have parents that caused the belief, to relate a bit better.
Just a suggestion – I’d be interested to hear your views as to whether this would have the same effect. Thank you for your efforts in this program, and wishing you and your family the best for 2010.
Regards, Sarah
Hi Sarah,
In your case the source of your beliefs might have been a sibling. But our experience with thousands of people indicate that the primary source of self-esteem-type beliefs is our parents — even when clients at first think otherwise.
See my blog post where I discuss this in more detail. http://www.mortylefkoe.com/how-to-find-the-source-of-beliefs/
Thanks for your response.
Regards, Morty
Hi Monty
The idea that we are something else, not our beliefs is great and helped, however although i can understand the childhood experiences are where the beliefs are formed, in my experience it is adult experiences or life which has caused the problem. I had some terrible, tragic and unfortunate experiences over a long period of time, and ended up losing everything. I don’t see how to change to believing life can work out, when i have no contrary experience to draw on and currently can’t see a way out of a serious finanical mess with no work experience or qualifications to facilitate it. How do you change the beliefs about life and what life brings? Thanks!
Hi Georgina,
If in fact your beliefs about life were formed recently as an adult (which is very unlikely), you would eliminate them the same way you eliminate beliefs formed in childhood. You recognize that there are alternative interpretations for the events that led to the belief, you realize that you never saw the belief in the world, you realize that the events have no inherent meaning. After doing all of that, the belief will dissolve.
You don’t need contrary evidence to realize that your belief is a generalization. You can truthfully say: So far this has happened. You can’t say as a fact that it will always happen.
Regards, Morty
This was great to view the circumstance as an opportunity to heal my own thoughts and feelings into the situations, that I thought and felt not important.
I can now see how much I have used this as a crutch.
Thank you
Mari-Lyn
Shit, this really works.
The belief “I’m not good enough” is totally gone.
I now KNOW that I’m good enough to get what I want or I learn to become good enough.
Thanks a lot.
And thanks a lot for the aching smiling muscles I walk around now
Karl
I feel like I am not capable becuase I have these memories that happened 20 years ago and has little to do with my parents. These memories make me feel stuck guilty and shameful. So I am curious how earlier memories of my parents will take out that belief if it has nothing to do with my parents. I think its more ptsd from something else s well
just testing the system to see if it works
I just completed the program. I found it very eye opening as well as healing and I feel much better about myself. Although I may need to work on the rejection anxiety conditioning a little more. That one is being stubborn. I had a really scary childhood so I’m having some difficulty imagining what it would have been like to always feel unconditionally loved by my parents and therefore not experience rejection anxiety. At any rate things are clear for me now and I am deeply grateful for having come across this program. I needed it badly. Thanks a million!
I want to send you my gratitude. I am so thankful for what you have done for me.
However it works, whatever the method, the fact is I no longer have the feeling that I am not good enough.
Even typing it now it seems like such an empty statement and meaningless.
That feeling was so much a part of me for so long, it affected everything I did and said and ultimately the results I have produced in my life, from career to relationships. I fought the feeling most of the time and at others I gave into it and sunk into very low moods and depressions. I felt like one foot was on the accelerator and the other on the brake – that is how I have lived my life so far.
I am now looking forward to eliminating more limiting beliefs and to finally begin to live to my full potential. The feeling of freedom and possibility is immense.
Thank you and Steve Pavlina for directing me here in the first place.
With love
Rachel
I have to admit I was very skeptical at first. I have been on a mission, for quite some time, to eliminate some very limiting beliefs. Your method of eliminating them is refreshingly simple, and you explain it in a way I had not thought of. Thank You
For a while I’ve been sensing underlying beliefs which are in conflict with my intellectual reasoning interfering with my success. Although I know they’re there I didn’t really know how to uncover them let alone eliminate them which has been a bit frustrating. Then I happened upon an advertisement for your program. I must say I was completely sold after going through the intro sample belief “I’m not good enough” and I didn’t hesitate to purchase the program. I’ve only gone through 5 beliefs but I am feeling unbelievably refreshed. I wonder what I’ll feel like after completing the program.
i have almost no memories of my childhood and don’t remember how they treated me so how do I bust these beliefs?
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Hi
I just finished belief #16 doing things perfectly makes me good enough or important. This was a biggie for me! In fact I was doubting myself along the way thinking I am probably not doing it right and any improvements were so subtle at first it was hard to know for sure if it was working. I just kept moving through the beliefs. Well I am finally noticing improvements in my life. Now, I know without a doubt this is working for me! It is so cool how each day things are just a little better and it grows momentum. I am so excited about my possibilities now. It’s only been a week and my relationship with my teen daughter is much better (was very angry and feeling powerless) and I seem to suddenly have Good Luck in business. All kinds of opportunities opening up. If anyone is doubting, just get all the way through it before giving up…IT WORKS! I am almost 50yrs and have spent thousands on self help and it seem like my life is spent trying to “get better”. I am so excited to start living and enjoying life! I will keep you posted on my progress. Thanks Morty and Shelly.
Thank you for this generous gift. I really feel thi was time well spent, what a wonderful gift to share! May you receive blessings in return a thousandfold.
Kindly,
Lauren
How very disappointing! Neither, the link, nor the alternative link for the free – getting rid of you limiting belief worked. I only hope to visit the site to try again. Good idea to give away free samples, but it is important to make sure that it works and work out the problems before you launch such a thing.
Morty,
I was the victim of molestation by a family member and, when my parents were informed, they blamed ME!
At the same time, my father was suffering from an undiagnosed brain tomer which essentially caused him to gradually lose his mind from the time I was 8 until he died when I was 18. And, not understanding what was going on with his brain, he openly blamed his depression, etc., on me, saying to me that they should never have had another child when their then youngest was 6. That child was me!
I wish I could get back all of the $ I’ve spent in therapy. I’d be a wealthy woman now!
My message to you is that you can’t apply one blanket method to heal all of life’s wounds. My wounds are controlled, but still present, and I don’t think that those wounds will ever completely heal.
Sincerely,
Gloria
Morty,
Thank you Thank you Thank you!
I have been practicing the natural confidence belief busters and at first was not seeing many ‘big’ shifts. I knew it was working…I only skipped one belief.
On the audios you kept mentioning we probably had seen some changes by now…I really didn’t but I was going through the program pretty fast and just had faith. (Thanks for the price you charged – if I paid less I might have stopped!)
Anyway, when I got to the last belief ‘it’s dangerous to have people put attention on me’ it was HUGE. I felt so many things just click in place and i KNOW that things are different now. I had a huge celebration!!!
The conditioning work at the end is fabulous – I feel so much love and peace just imagining how I wanted my parents to react at those times. One last one to go this morning and I will be complete. I look forward to sharing concrete examples of the difference this has made in my life. God bless you and your wife and the work you do!
Cheri
p.s. I used Shelly’s suggestion of saying what is ‘true’ and feeling how that feels and then what is false and doing the same. REALLY helpful for me!
p.p.s. Two of the statements at the end didn’t quite hit me just right. I had to do some work to get them to ‘unravel’ things – but I got there!
I have a terrible memory. I am in college learning to be a computer support tech. My inability to remember is causing me problems with testing, comprehending what I read, etc. I also have a limited attention span. My mind wanders during class. I also must mention ringing in my ears. I hear loud ringing in my ears 24/7 for days at a time. There have been times when I haven’t slept for three days because of the constant ringing. When I am busy, the loudness lessens. When I am relaxed it intensifies. I am 60 years old, but I don’t buy the cliche that it is all a part of growing old. Can you help me?
Dear Mike,
I am not a doctor but it sounds like to me you have tinititis. A constant ringing in the ear caused by damage inside your ear. This is a medical problem which may or may not be treatable. I believe that having this condition would be causing you a considerable amount of stress and anxiey and I think this would be attributing to your inability to remember things because it is something that you are focussing on (it would be very distracting). I think that if you get your ear problem fixed, you will find a lot of your problems will just disappear and instead of using all your energy to try to block out the constant ringing, then you can be using your energy to help you to achieve your goal. 60 is not old. You have a wealth of knowledge stored up in you and it is all still there. I think that you will be fine and things will be more peaceful internally.
I don’t know who you are or where you live, but, I hope that I have helped you.
warmest wishes
Sandy
Sandy,
You are misinformed. Tinnitus MAY be caused by ear damage, but the vast majority of tinnitus cases are not caused by any physical problem. In fact, depression has been diagnosed in a large number of tinnitus cases. I am one such person. I found this site looking to see of Morty has a program (DVD or otherwise) for depression. I’m dissappointed he does not.
Randy
Hi
Yesterday I did change is difficult and takes a long time. I kept falling asleep and felt very confused. Almost like my brain didn’t want to make any changes and wouldn’t cooperate. I had to keep rewinding the video because I would doze a little or just not paying attention. I decided to do it again today and I used the words.. I can’t be fixed instead. I felt more alert and clear while going through it but at the end I got real tired again?? Like I could take a nap right now! What does this mean? When I say I can’t be fixed, it seems a little ridiculous…and I think ..you’re not broken. If I say change is difficult…I still have a little doubt. Was my choice of words to far off? Thanks
Hi Sparkly1,
I have also found that I can’t stay awake during some of these beliefs! I don’t have a reason to be tired and it’s not right after a big meal so it seems very odd. I try to push through the session then go take a 30 minute nap and I completely zonk out. Makes me wonder if my subconscious is trying to protect me from eliminating the belief.
kt
I have emailed you on this twice, but never received an answer. I listened to your program on dealing with children to find afterwards that is was not for teenagers. I have asked you if you have a program for dealing with teenagers?
Hi Morty,
I got your system and am working my way through the beliefs – I’m on #13 this morning. Just took your latest email with the ‘free’ connection in it and shared with my 3 closest. I hope they try it out too. Thank you for sharing your insights free of charge – I think that’s terrific.
Gail.
THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! IT’S AMAZING, IT REALLY DOES WORK!!!!
I find this helpful. But I think often we emulate our parents and that leads to some of the problems we have. Sometimes they’re bad models for us. It’s not just what they say, it’s what they do and what they say along with it. My parents had a bad relationship, got divorced, and then had more bad relationships. They did say things that told me relationships were not good things, but I think what they DID and what I SAW had more of an impact on me. I don’t think words alone cause all the damage. So maybe I have the belief relationships don’t work. But if my parents had had a wonderful marriage but said some negative things about relationships at times, I doubt I’d have that belief.
“What parenting school did your parents go to?”
OK based upon the answer of most likely .none.
What would you see as the answer to “What did you learn in parenting school?”
using the information and understanding the needs of children to get the best guidance and upbringing to not have to deal with the false beliefs that we are all in need of breaking!
Hi,
this is really powerfull. I will have to wait a bit to see if it really freed me from undesired consequences of the belief I felt I got rid of, anyways I ordered your book. This thing was impressive enough to look into it deeper.
Btw. I found examples of my parent putting me on the spot (I had to play music in front of strangers a lot) and I always felt like everybody else was making fun of me – and like I was not good enough!
I never concluded this from the reaction of others. Somehow I always assumed they were not kicking me out of musicschool out of pity and those kind of things. So I found some instances where I unarguably failed in a performance and where my mom really pushed me to go out even though I plain and simply SUCKED – and she was proud but I am sure everybody else was really suffering from my performance on the violincello.
So my point here is that through your exercise I found that the belief ‘I am not good enough’ must have benn formed by self criticism rather than by external criticism. Triggered by not being able to perform up to the standards of my mom who seemed the only one not being aware of that. Weird, isn’t it?
Thank you for that method in any case it was a very intense experience.
@: It would be my pleasure. Do I need a phone to do this?
Louise Howell
WOW! I BELIEVE I GOT IT, IT,S ME I AM THE SOLUTION THANKYOU,THANKYOU,THANKYOU
I eliminated the belief “I am not Important”. For the first time I know what forgiveness feels like. I have been so amazed at how many areas of my life this belief was affecting. From parenting my own daughter, to being a wife, friend and employee. It has opened me up to believing in myself and feeling more confident. I look forward to releasing more of my limiting beliefs.
thanks things seam clear now & thanks to joe also garry in ozz
@: Dear Morty,
Thank you for your generous information on your website, I am truly grateful. May I ask a couple of questions? Firstly how is it possible for me to become a facilitator of your work, as I believe it will go hand in hand with my current occupation.
Secondly, I am sure you get this question,
what about if the beliefs are past life and we are carrying them through? I am aware you only work with present life, however how do you answer these enquiries?
Looking forward to your response,
Warmly,
Melody Bass
Hi Morty,
Your program has really helped me a great deal – thanks. The process is really amazing.
I’m running through the beliefs again and I’m getting stuck on “mistakes and failure are bad.” How can some mistakes possibly NOT be bad? For example, I’ve made many mistakes that have hurt people, caused a loss of money, made circumstances worse, etc. My friend’s younger sister lost control of her car by driving too fast, crashed, and her passenger was killed. We are currently in a war in Iraq based on lies – many people have died! How are mistakes like this not ‘bad’? Where’s the line – childhood? I did some damage then, too (broke stuff, hurt myself, etc). How can I learn and avoid mistakes if I don’t believe they’re bad?
Thanks,
Kay
Morty,
I sent for the first free limiting belief info and never received it.
The issue was “I’m not good enough”. I’d like to have that.
Hi Morty ~
Just wanted to say Thank You for this information. For it has been very rewarding, I went through the material whether it was yours or the groups combination, but I feel wonderful. I could literally feel the blockages being removed from my body. This is soooo amazing, I have taken workshops and coures covering these subjects however this must be MY Time for healing cause I could and can literally feel them being ripped from within and I am ecstactic. Thank you once again.
Rachael
Hi there. Please may I have a transcript of your videos. I’m having a problem with the sound on my PC. Thanks so much, Sister Song.
Hi there!
I remember Joe from the secret that lead me to “ask and it is given”/Abraham/esther hicks. This is where I got excited. That excitement has lead me to ask for the universe to deliver to me the help I need in clearing in beliefs that limit me in any way. When I find a job, this is something I will re-visit. It sounds interesting. Sometimes….it is the beliefs you hold, that hold you.
Louise H. Nashville, Tn.
We are on the same page. I have been practicing and teaching a similar principle for YEARS called NO OUT THERE! I’d LOVE It if you’d be my guest on an upcoming segment of the No Out There Talkshow on BlogTalk Radio. The show is LIVE Wednesdays at 9pm CST. I look forward to receiving your reply via e-mail. YEAH!
Hey Morty,
So far I have seen certian changes is my life that I never though that would happen! I thank you for creating this method, I just reffered your program to some family and friends of mine.
Thanks,
Kenneth
I was surprised that my feelings did change after a short video. Very interesting and convincing!
Hi!My name is Yuki Morita.
Could I buy your product such as DVD even thogh I live in Japan?
Please send email back.
If I can,I am going to get that as soon as possible.
Morty,
I was thinking I would really love to be trained to do this with others. This is great stuff you are doing. I feel like a major shift has happened since doing ” I am not good enough.”
I do wish you would add a program for ” I am not wanted” and/or ” I am not loved/loveable”. I could use it and I am sure many others could also.
Thanks for your work.
@: I agree — it’s been buffering for maybe 5-6 minutes for me, and now I’m set in “mistakes and failure are bad.” Not what I needed today!
Morty,
Can you tell me exactly how you figured out what the limiting beliefs were? And even more importantly, do they really exist in a verbal form? Although I may sometimes feel “I’m not important,” etc., those are just words that represent feelings but are different than feelings themselves. How can these beliefs be solved totally verbally? I know psychologists think that talking about problems brings them out of the unconscious but I don’t think there’s any evidence of that and I haven’t been helped by therapy other than just being glad someone is there to talk to–but never felt a psychic shift and it is operating somewhat on the same assumptions about beliefs existing verbally. I think shifting a negative belief is different than shifting a sentence with “not” into one without “not.” Can you talk about this a little? Thanks.
Hello,
The video has been buffering for ten minutes. I am giving up!
Hello,
I am a licensed mental health therapist. I am interested in receiving training to utilize this method in practice. Please forward me information. I also attempted to share three e-mail addresses of friends who may find this interesting. However, a script kept stating that the entered e-mails were invalid. I checked them and tried re-entering them. I was not able to input them.
Thank You,
April
It’s realy great how it worked even english is not my mother laguage.
Is theír any translation into german? I have same friends, they don’t understand enough english.
Love
Marion
Hi Mona,
I can’t stop crying after reading your post. Thank you for allowing us to make such a profound contribution to you. Thanks for being so open to it. Thanks for making your life work. Thanks for being who you are.
My life is about helping people to make the changes you’ve made in your life. To get free. To create new possibilities for their lives. I am so moved by what you’ve achieved.
Part of the reason for my strong reaction to your post is your age. You got free at an early age. Most people have to wait until a large part of their lives are over. You’re just starting.
Love, Morty
I bought the Natural Confidence program. My main goal was to get rid of procastrination and social fear. I did the whole program during the weekend and then it was Monday and I went to school and I didn’t think more about it. Later I noticed how I coudln’t seem to get hurt by anything that anyone said. I used to have a glass wall in front of me when it came to speaking my mind to others, but now there’s a constant stream of crazy nonsense coming out of me that I didn’t dare to share with others before. Maybe not so fun for everyone else… but definatley fun for me!!! =D
What I wasn’t able to get completley rid of at first though, was my procastrination. I belived for a whole week that it was gone, because I’ve always belived in that change happens easily (that and the powerless belief were the only beliefs that I didn’t have of the 19 beliefs on the list). Tonight I went back and redid “What makes me good or important is doing things perfectly”. I had a bit of trouble with that one since I couldn’t remember doing thigns perfectly and getting praised for it by my parents, but it helped when I made up those events having happened to me. Redoing that belief seem to have been the final negative bird that left my mind. I could literally feel that belief dissolving. I don’t feel like hiding from my school assignments anymore. I feel like I could do anything. I’m turing 19 soon… maybe I’ll even invite some friends over and show them this. They’ll think I’m a weirdo, but it doesn’t matter because this weirdo has no social fear anymore.
Lots of love and lots of thanks
Hi Morty,
I am interested in trying one of your programs. Specifically either Natural Confidence or End Procrastination. The descriptions of each product lead me to believe that they cover many of the same limiting beliefs.
So, my big question is, what makes the programs different? How does the focus change if the content is the same, or very similar?
Thanks for your time,
Jason
Sincere thanks Morty – for making change easy!
Its a ‘wow’ from me! In such a short space of time – I’ve busted the “mistakes and failure are bad” limiting belief and have been blessed with a new awareness of not passing on the same beliefs to my own children (A-ha moment for me). I have been searching for some kind of breakthrough for me and know in my heart that this is it. A lesson I learned through Bob Proctor’s six minutes program is: “When the student is ready, the teacher will appear” and so am grateful for Marci’s email that led me here… I am ready to recreate my life….. So exciting!
God bless!
Christina
Hi Morty,
I have been doing “change and difficult and takes a long time” for more then three times and it is does not work.
Perry
I just watched the free “I’m not good enough” video. I enjoyed it very much, but there was WAY too much emphasis on parents. I was a straight-A student who did what my parents wanted, and I was their pride and joy. It wasn’t until I married (at 22), in fact not until I was about 27, that I started feeling “not good enough”. The source was my spouse, not my parents. People who knew me through college would never have believed that I could have low self esteem. Once my (now ex) husband cornered me in a room and refused to let me by until I said the words, “You are the better parent.” My older son, who was about 7 at the time, came in afterwards and hugged me and told me he thought I was a good mother. It almost makes me cry to think about it. Now I’m 57 and the truth about who is and is not a good parent is known to all in our family. I AM good enough. But throughout your program, the constant reference to PARENTS and what your PARENTS said and did was jarring. I think you should acknowledge other possible sources of the “I’m not good enough” belief.
Hi Nigel,
You get a belief without charge. And then that belief is gone. You don’t have to do anything about that specific belief again.
But any given problem in your life has several beliefs causing it. Like procrastination that has 16 or fear of rejection that has 9. When you eliminate all the beliefs that cause a given problem, the problem disappears.
For more information, look at http://recreateyourlife.com/store.
Contact me if you still have any questions.
Regards, Morty
Something is happening to myself, to my brain, my body and to my mind. My body keep shaking like a little kids everytime I use Morty’s voice as I can not controle it! I am like hynotized. I feel weird as I am crazy, maybe I am but deep inside of me I am know that I am ok ?!
Hi there,
how does this work… you buy the programme, do it once and clear your limiting beliefs, then thats it… dont need to do it again?
Hi,
Sorry we had so much traffic that we ran out of bandwidth. We had so many people watching so many videos on all our web sites that we needed to increase the amount of bandwidth we purchased monthly. The program is now working.
Regards, Morty
I get the same error message too. I hope its fixed soon!
ditto the other comments – all I got was a promotion to spend $$ upgrading to a faster internet speed. Disappointing.
Hi
I tried to get rid of a limiting belief but the video didn’t play. All I got was a message that says:
The video hosting bandwidth allowance for this account has been exceeded.
Please click here to upgrade your account to a plan offering more bandwidth
Please could you fix this so that I can get rid of a limiting belief.
Hello Marty,
Your process is very valuable. Unfortunately after I wrote “I’m not good enough” and clicked CONTINUE the next screen was blank and nothing appeared or was heard. I tried the process a second time and experienced the same glitch. Any support available for moving through the screens would be appreciated.
Thank you
This is mindblowing!
I´m not sure whether or not it will last, but I could actually feel the belief being “drained dry”.
It was as if the force it represented just “bled out” from my veins.
The comfort and joy this provides is almost frighteningly large.
Thanks for this method, it´s truly powerful an effective.
Morty, I hope you’re reading these
comments from latest date to earliest
date. It’ll save you some time with my
comments. Several quick points. Some
might interest a few other people.
1. No need to further answer my
comments unless you see a reason to.
I’ve gone ahead and purchased the
product. I bought Natural Self-Confidence,
because I understood that eliminating
all of those related beliefs would
also eliminate all beliefs that have
supported my procrastination and
perfectionism behavior patterns.
2. I wrote the comments under a pen
name. My name is Phil, not Jay.
3. My main reservations about your
program was what seemed liked boring
repetition. So far I’ve eliminated the
first four beliefs and have enjoyed
the process. The programs are not as
repetitive as I’d thought they’d be.
4. I’m now seeing that the repetition
that does exist in eliminating the
first four beliefs is important. After
a few repetitions of some items, the
“light bulb clicks on.” It’s as if I
didn’t really understand the first few
times.
I finally bought the program because
it seemed like a “no-brainer” to me.
Even if the program were as boring as
I thought it would be, I’d gladly go
through that to eliminate thinking,
feeling, and behavior patterns that
have sabotaged my life over much of
the past 60 years. No question about
that.
Since the program has a 100%
money-back guarantee, there was no risk
to me. And so far, I’m very happy with
the program and my progress.
Thanks, Morty.
Phil
I was very sceptical at first as I felt saying “I am not good enough” would reinforce the belief and was scared to try the system. I received an email from Marci Shimoff and thought I had to give it a try and I am still quite shocked. I instantly feel happier and empowered to just go out, get what I want and say what I mean. I would like to thank you for allowing me to trial this for FREE. It is an amazing experience and I am very grateful for the opportunity to get rid of this niggling feeling. Thank you and I look forward to receiving your newsletter.
Hi,
I liked the concept and I’ve been using NLP for a few years and all this makes perfect sense.
Though I find limitations in the process. Here is an example
About the belief “Mistakes and failure are bad”
I think our brain is not that stupid to form false belief randomly. Beliefs serves us.
Believing that bad driving on the highway could cause your death is useful because it keeps you alive.
I think the real problem is to accurately assess how useful a certain belief is in a given situation.
When I do programming, I always do mistakes and I learn from it because of the debugger function… I’m not afraid to do mistakes and I think it’s good because it makes me progress.
But when I apply for a new job in my dream company, I may find myself thinking “If I screw up the interview it’s over, they won’t hire me ever…”
My point is : Between dying in a car crash because of a mistake or dying in a video game because of a mistake, there is a lot of things happening in the middle and it’s hard for us to evaluate what a mistake could cost us.
So I think it would be a good thing to have a method to determine what are the best beliefs to have in every given situation of our lives in order to accomplish what we want. But not just about how to get rid of beliefs…
But I completely agree that controlling our beliefs is the key to success in life and therefore your method can help people who find themselves with limiting, exacerbated or inappropriate beliefs.
Regards
After the shaking and baking the talking white screen put me through, i feel gloriously warm and a bit dizzy….ouf. Ok i have not been placed in an oven but just feel as if i had been. Now, somewhat stunned by my reactions i must somehow doubt, Your approach is boggling my mind, wetting my cheeks and pecking at my wallet. Amazing i can’t believe it…omg i can’t believe it!!!!!!!! Is it a capital offence to pun?
i’m terribly sorry if it seems mean or offensive…its just a reflex that when someone says it is all quite simple and easy well ‘the eyes roll to the ceiling’. Like, reading the time from a watch is easy, but omg do you see what goes on with the gears and springs, or pulsed quartz signals etc.
Thank you very much for the free belief busting and all that hard work in formulating these sessions.. this is probably a very good system. I think it worked, the sculptor image was pretty and it sure was easier to say at the end. However, the glib must out, is there a package for ‘is this going to rip me off anxiety’? Sure i’d love to know how one makes money, If i had it i’d be merrily blabbering to little white box, since then the pecking wouldn’t be causing any black holes in the wallet-conscience galaxy… oh well maybe i just need ‘a 52 steps to putting thoughts in order package’
deep thanks
Andy
Morty,
Regarding your note in an email…and maybe on your website…about my having said that (i) it seems that my belief that “mistakes and failure are bad” came from the almost omni-present church experiences and (ii) going through the exercise seemed extremely boring.
You have experience with thousands of people and your system. My only experience is with myself. Perhaps the belief “mistakes and failure are bad” did come primarily from my parents. It doesn’t resonate, so I’ll do the exercise again and substitute the preachers for my parents. And I’ll report back.
I’ll use that opportunity to re-evaluate my thoughts about the “boring” nature of the exercises. I used Alfred Ellis’ REBT “disputing” techniques during different periods. Including a few sessions with Al before he died. The main problem I had with sticking with those exercises was that they were so repetitive that I cognitively knew the answer and soon as I thought of the question. So it was very difficult motivating myself to keep practicing the technique…over and over again.
I notice what seem like two differences between your system and Al’s. First, each of your exercises takes far longer than any of Al’s “disputing” exercises. That struck me as a negative when I went through the second exercise. (Also, I did not experience a change in feeling when I worked with the second exercise, while I did with the first.0
Second, I understand that I’d only need to go through each of the 16 or 18 or so exercises only once to permanently remove my procrastination behavior pattern. Please correct me if I’m wrong.
So…given the tremendous cost that I have paid in my life because of procrastination…I’d be willing to go through 16 or 18, etc. number of exercises once if that would permanently remove my procrastination behavior pattern.
Thanks, Morty.
Jay
Hi Morty,
Thanks for your answers to my two questions.
Your point that I can’t use my daily experiences to tell me whether I’ve gotten rid of one belief makes sense. I understand that I’d need to remove all the supporting beliefs that play into my relevant behaviors.
I’m sure that you are accurate and I incorrectly remembered the part of the videos that talked about possibilities without limiting beliefs.
I appreciate the time you took to answer my questions.
Jay
Hi Alicia,
Thanks for taking the time to write.
I am truly sorry that our belief-elimination process didn’t work for you.
We make it available because literally tens of thousands of people have told us it does work for them, and every once in a while someone is disappointed. I’m sorry you are one of those people. I’m not sure why it doesn’t seem to work for some people. Hopefully we’ll figure it out some day and make the process even more effective.
Regards, Morty
Hi Jay,
Thanks for your interest in our work and for taking the time to write.
Here is my response to your two questions:
Just like you can know that you have a belief when you say the words at the beginning of the process, without having to “live your life,” so you can know that the belief is gone as soon as the process is over. The words will sound meaningless, with no energy or negative feelings — almost the opposite of how they felt at the start of the program. One additional way to know that a lot of beliefs are gone is when the problem that they cause is gone. But getting rid of one belief will not necessarily produce an specific change in behavior or feelings. SO you can’t look to your daily experience to confirm that a belief really is gone. See my blog post last week (102009) (http://mortylefkoe.com) for more details on this subject.
Asking you what’s possible is not a logical or illogical jump. I’m not telling you anything. I’m only asking and telling you what people answer after they’ve shifted their identity form the creation to the creator the creation. In that state, people report that it feels as if anything is possible. I’m not saying it is or isn’t.
Regards, Morty
Morty, I think your program is great. However, I tried to use your “support” section of your web page and couldn’t get it to work. It wouldn’t let me put anything in the “dept” section and nothing after that would work. Also, I would like to be an AFFILIATE with you. Thanks, Bill
Hi Tori,
Thanks for your interest in our work and for taking the time to write.
You can call the alternative meanings “lies” if you want to, but that is saying that you were “wrong” when you were a child. If virtually all children reach the same conclusion with similar circumstances as a child, then their belief is one possible interpretation. And there are many others that we don’t think of as children.
Why would the one we come up with as a child be “a lie” and all the other ones “a truth”? There are all interpretations that could explain all the events.
Regards, Morty
I find this amazing and simple. Wow! I’m analitical so I am tempted to go into how this actually works and will try not to and allow it to just happen. Amazing because other similar thoughts have popped into my mind a day later and have been eliminated and there is a sense of Peace. I have researched many systems and the Key is finding something that is quick and immediate. So how is this different from EFT, EMDR, Silva, The American Monk,Sedona, The Work, Reikie, Ho’opono Hawaiian, Regular Therapy, Hypnosis, Acupuncture, Retreat Therapy, Survivor Therapy, 12 step support group, Sunday Church, etc??? I thought I was done working on childhood issues trying to focus on the present and here I am again doing some healing work again on similar issues and beliefs which I can apply to current situations. I’m guessing that this is where I need to be at the moment and the timing seems right.
I am writing a book specifically on the “concept” of Christ healing and why Jesus was able to heal people instantly. As a healer myself…. there is a great fear and temptation but I wont get into that.
I wish to submit to “the Universe” and ask if someone would be so kind to purchase this program for me as a Gift. Currently I cannot afford to purchase these programs and would love to have the complete set. I am asking with humility and kindness.
Thank you in advance.
John
@: Pilar,
I wanted to congratulate you on your post Pilar! I am an ESL teacher and this is a HUGE problem for my students and many people learning new languages. They fear making mistakes. They have learned that making mistakes is wrong and should be avoided at all costs. This is very limiting for learning a language because you need to use the language in order to improve. This will lead to mistakes, but who cares!! -Actually many people care-
Your post really hit home and I want to recommend this program to all my students. Morty’s programs are amazing. I just did the “Mistakes and failure are bad” and I experienced everything that everyone else mentioned.
As a birthday present to myself I am going to get the stress reduction course. It is very large with over 23 sections but I think that I am worth it. What better way to celebrate my birthday than with a way to reduce stress and enjoy life more.
Thank you so much Morty.
I’d love to promote your courses on my site and possibly do an email interview with you. How can I contact you? I’ve included my email with this post so maybe you could contact me via email.
Thank you so much for providing such a wonderful resource to so many people.
All the best,
Diana Tower
http://www.helping-you-learn-english.com
PS: Here is your post edited Pilar:
Hi Morty,
Thank you for your free programs. I have done the(REMOVE) three of them in(ON) three different days. I’m not sure if the belieFS have been eliminated, but I’ll tell you what I have felt. First I did “I’m not good enough”. I was in a bad mood before doing it because I had had an argument with somebody. After the program my mood had(REMOVE) changed completely and during(FOR) the rest of the day and the next day I felt really happy.
I then did “I’m not important”. I also felt a change on(IN) my mood, although not so dramatic as in(REMOVE) the first time. What I have(REMOVE)liked more(THE MOST ABOUT) of(REMOVE) your programs, and I feel is the key for me, is the moment when you show (US) that what we see HAS NO real meaning and that the meaning we believe things have is the meaning we attribute to them. It seems to me that understanding this is great wisdom. I useD to meditate, observing my thoughts and trying to not follow them, not believe them while I see them. When I realize I am thinking and not being aware of my breathing, I say “thinking”. I have the sense that what you ARE proposING is like OR SIMILAR TO retrospective meditation.
I have just done the third program. I HAD some difficulty WITH THIS ONE, BECAUSE this belief was very closely associated to another belief that was reinforcing it. I realized that this associated belief was (I want to say was) “Life punishes you when you make a mistakes or a failure”, and that there was fear linked to this belief. I have also tried to give ADDITIONAL interpretationS to the facts that created this belief, while I was following your program.
As I said I’m not sure if I have eliminated these three believes, but AS you CAN see, I’m writing here in a language that is not my mother TOUNGE, probably MAKING lots of mistakes, and now I don’t have the feeling that ANYTHING serious is going to happen BECAUSE OF that. The fear OF MAKING mistakes IS NOTt preventING me from writing here. If somebody sees a mistake in my writing and wants to correct it, I WOULD be grateful. So thanks for this and very good luck!
Pilar
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Great work…and congratulations!
Hi Morty,
Thank you for your free programs. I have done the three of them in three different days. I’am not sure if the believes have been eliminated, but I’ll tell you what I have felt. First I did “I’am not good enough”. I was in a bad mood before doing it because I had had an argument with somebody. After the program my mood had changed completely and during the rest of the day and the next day I felt really happy.
I did then “I’m not important”. I also felt a change on my mood, although not so dramatic as in the first time. What I have liked more of your programs, and I feel is the key for me, is the moment when you show that what we see have not a real meaning and that the meaning we believe things have is the meaning we attibute to them. It seems to me that understanding this is great wisdom. I use to meditate, observing my thoughts and trying to not follow them nor believe them while I see them. When I realize I am thinking and not being aware of my breathing, I say “thinking”. I have the sense that what you propose is like a restrospective meditation.
I have just done the third program. I have felt some kind of difficulty while I have done it, as if this belief was very closely associated to another belief that was reinforcing it. I had realized that this associated belief was (I want to say was) “Life punishes you when you make a mistakes or a failure”, and that there was fear linked to this belief. I have tried also to give another interpretation to the facts that created this belief, while I was following your program.
As I said I’m not sure if I have eliminated these three believes, but you see, I’m writing here in a language that is not my mother lenguage, probably doing lots of mistakes, and now I don’t have the feeling that nothing serious is going to happen for that. And the fear to make mistakes have not prevented me from writing here. If somebody sees a mistake in my writing and wants to correct it, I will be grateful. So thanks for this and very good luck!
Pilar
Hi Morty
I have tried the ‘I am not good enough’ comment and found that it does work and thank you very much for your free help to those of us who are bound by something that others have forced into our belief system. In my case my parents and teachers just did not ever tell me that I was doing well so I strove to do better and achieve more which I did. I succeeded in always being at the top of the class, to be the best at sports at debating and anything I could achieve, I did achieve. However, I still never received a word of approval from anyone. I then married a man who could not say anything good to me either and now am with a partner who is the same. I now see that my belief system was incorrect in that no one actually needs to tell me that I am good enough, I need to see it myself and that is what I am doing now. Luckily I did my utmost to encourage my children by always telling them that they were clever enough even when teachers told them (or their father) that they were not. The result has been that all five of them have attended university and
have been highly successful in their after school achievements (they were average in school)and in their chosen careers. I have been moderately successful only in the last four years but felt that I was held back from achieving greatness by ‘something’ and found that with your help, I have overcome this feeling of not being good enough. Thank you again for your input into my life.
Morty,
I just went through the second belief: “Mistakes and failures are bad.” The result was very different from what I experienced when I worked on this other belief earlier this evening: “I am not good enough.” It’s possible that the limitations of the technology made a difference.
The video talked about how I saw and listened to what my parents did and then I concluded “Mistakes and failure are bad.” But I don’t think that’s where my belief came from. And at the end of the exercise, saying “Mistakes and failures are bad” felt like it did at the beginning. No change.
From the time I was two weeks old, I was raised in an environment in which preachers spouted “hellfire and brimstone” sermons almost every night. I heard many thousands of sermons between age two weeks and age 11. Most of them were of this type.
And the preachers said unless a person is “holy”, God will punish that person forever in hell. I think that’s where I got my belief of “Mistakes and failures are bad.” After all, those were the types of “mistakes and failures” I heard preached almost every night.
Since the video kept referring to actions of parents, it did not resonate with me in terms of where I got my belief.
Although I intellectually dropped the belief about hell, etc. when I was a teenager, I’m 60 years old now and am realizing how much I’ve been limited by my belief that “mistakes and failure are bad.”
I’d be interested in your program, but I have a serious reservation. The two free programs were so similar that I can’t imagine being able to use the same structure to eliminate 12 or 15 (or whatever number) of beliefs. I find the repetitiveness extremely boring and have bad “vibes” about going through that structure over and over with different beliefs.
I’m not writing for the purpose of criticizing. I’m writing to give you honest feedback. I’d love to eliminate the beliefs that have led to my extreme procrastination and failure to use many talents that I have. It’s hard for me to believe that the answer is here.
Thank you.
Morty, thanks for sharing your information and expertise. I chose the belief “I’m not good enough.” Two main thoughts, which I hope you’ll take constructively:
1. I’m not sure that the belief is gone. Because, as I believe you said early in this program, we can’t see our beliefs. Rather, we observe our behaviors and feelings and then infer that one or more certain beliefs exist. (Maybe I didn’t say this exactly right, although I tried.) I haven’t had a chance to observe my actions in situations after doing the exercise, so I don’t know to what extent the belief is gone. Make sense?
2. The logic of going from “I create my beliefs” to “My possibilities are endless” seems like an illogical jump. One of the problems I’ve had in my business life is that I’ve believed I could do anything…and did not pay nearly enough attention to the skills and types of roles that I am weakest at. Consequently, I’ve failed to use my strengths rather than try to fix my weaknesses. I believe that each of us does have strengths and that knowing these and focusing on using them and getting other people to do the kinds of business/job roles that I’m not strongest at can make me more effective. So I don’t agree that getting rid of negative beliefs makes my possibilities endless. Unless you’re saying there are endless ways to use the strengths I have so long as I eliminate key beliefs that have limited me.
I’ll appreciate your feedback when you have a chance.
Hi Morty,
Firstly it is great to see someone really give something away for free on the internet I think it will really boost sales of the programme.
Secondly The I’m not good enough worked a treat, I spent the rest of the day with a great big smile on my face, cant wait to do the other two.
Lastly I know probably loads of people have asked you this do you run an affilate programme, I would love to sign up please mail me and let me know, would love to push this in the UK for you.
Cheers
David
Ummm… The store is not working.. I was all ready to go buy a belief or two, and now I can’t!
OK, thanks, if you say it has to be done that way, then I believe you. I do like it better than CBT, which seems to tell the patient he or she is wrong.
One thing I want to mention: You say the negative beliefs are not “THE truth” but “A truth.” A belief such as “I’m not good enough” is not “a truth,” it’s a misinterpretation made by a child. Calling the beliefs “truth” is confusing to the listener, whose goal is to stop believing anything about the belief. The alternative explanations given are each “a truth.” The negative beliefs are lies.
Hi Tori,
Sorry you found the material boring.
Although the process is slightly different for “survival strategy” beliefs and there is a totally different process to eliminate conditionings, the process is essentially the same to eliminate most beliefs. The source is different, the alternative interpretations are different, but the steps of the process to get rid of the beliefs is essentially the same.
But If you have 16 beliefs causing procrastination or 13 beliefs causing you to worry about what people think of you, you will not be able to get rid of the problem until you get rid of each of the beliefs. And knowing that you never “saw” any belief in the world and that none of the events in your childhood really had any meaning won’t make all the other beliefs go away just because you eliminated one or two.
So, boring or not, to get rid of specific problems or issues in your life you have to eliminate all the beliefs that cause them.
If you have any more questions, please let us know.
Regards, Morty
I found the first free video very helpful. The second one was helpful too but I noticed that the words and images were nearly the same as the first. By the third one I was totally bored and my attention wandered. The images of the lemon, the rain, the being pregnant or not.. it’s all repeated. I was thinking of ordering Natural Confidence but I could not sit through 23 versions of the same thing with only the beliefs being changed. Nor would I pay someone to say the script which after a while feels meaningless. I think the law of diminishing returns is at work here–give someone too much chocolate cake and they no longer enjoy or crave it. Anyone could tape one video and look at the list of beliefs on your site and plug them all in, so why buy the programs? Are the modules really all this similar? Is that really the most effective way to do this? Btw I’m listening the third free one now and couldn’t get through it.
Dear Mr. Lesko:
Brilliant!! I just tried “I’m not good enough.” Loved it, very helpful, but while it did make inroads into the belief – the belief has been in me for so long (I am in my 60′s) and has taken my life in less than desired direction (to this moment), there is now a curiosity about what will happen when I get up from this seat and go on with my day. I am interested to see how this new information impacts this ‘creation’s’ immediate future behavior and output (I am an artist and writer). Will keep you posted if you like. Thank you so much for bringing this new tool to us – and thanks to Steve Pavlina for bringing you to our attention. I am looking forward to what changes may come.
Peace,
Lalo
Interesting. I’m guessing that you did not respond when asked to or repeat the sentences when asked to. I suggest to try it again but this time using and focusing on the phrase “”YOU” made me feel worse”. @:
I just did the “eliminate I’m not good enough” – and you made me feel even worse. The belief is reinforced. I did the whole program, looking for something to destroy the belief – and found nothing. ALL YOU DID WAS REINFORCE MY BELIEF.
Just gobbledygook, semantics, and completely ignoring the point that I had good parents who told me what the world was like – and still is – and that I am not good enough. I bought the reality – still do: the world is not kind or accepting of people who are not ‘standard’. I am not good enough – I fail to meet reasonable expectations in lots of ways.
I survive IN SPITE of my reasonable belief that I’m not good enough. I don’t like the way things are, but that’s the way they ARE. The world has standards for acceptance – and I don’t meet them. Didn’t as a child, don’t now. I do care – I would rather meet some of those expectations – but I’m not good enough to do so, PhD notwithstanding.
If I was good enough, I wouldn’t have to keep trotting out all my good points to remind myself I’m okay and surviving even though I’m not good enough.
Try harder – that didn’t work.
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Great article you got here. It would be great to read a bit more about that topic.
I had a tough time choosing between your three sample believes, so I choose “I’m not important”. While I was answering to the questions, I realised I clearly didn’t have that belief. My limiting belief is: “I know that I’m important, but other people don’t know it, so they treat me as unimportant.”
Hi,
It worked wonders with the Im not good enough process.
So simple, it blows my mind.
Can’t wait to get to the real world tomorrow morning without that feeling!
Thank you for your work.
I watched “Mistakes and failures are bad”. Didn’t feel much of a difference but later today when I went outside, I made a new friend! =D It was as if it had opened up some new channel within me. Thank you.
Hi NJ,
Sorry you had a problem with the Who Am I Really? Process.
If you purchase any of our packages, you get that process both in a video and audio format that you can download and use whenever you’d like.
Glad you found the rest of the material useful.
Regards, Morty
What an engaging and thoughtful person-centered program! So much personal development material is conceptual, and although intelligent with the potential to change lives, it fails to actively engage the person reading the book or watching the video. I sincerely appreciated the interaction required – the having to answer out loud.
I really did get rid of the limiting belief. It is surprising how quickly and easily such a humongous personal block can be eliminated. This definitely makes me question another belief – that change is really hard and takes time.
One note, though, is that the very end of the program, the section on creator and interpretor was quite fast. It requires more digestion to understand what exactly you mean, and more having to answer out loud to feel engaged in this discovery. I found myself becoming frustrated and discouraged when the assumption that i had understood came on. Perhaps other beliefs are holding me back, and perhaps a little tweaking would make a big difference.
Thanks! And WOW!
This is probably good for most people, but I just found myself getting pissed off. I tried the free “I’m not good enough” video and was really annoyed by your Freudian “the parents did it!” overtone.
My belief comes from a lack of personally achieved results, not what someone else said about it. I really couldn’t care less what others think about how I did. I am annoyed with myself. When this is the root cause, suggesting that the event is meaningless only creates the annoyance I feel.
Do you have any products designed to counter such issues?
Hello,
Your products seems great, but I live in France and don’t understand why you propose the videos in DVD format and do not just let us download them.
Why would I want a piece of plastic to be shipped halfway around the world and back again (DVD-plant -> Morty Lefkoe, USA -> France) when you could offer it as a download instead? I still need to use it in my computer so the DVD doesn’t add any value for anyone (more costly for all parts). That is a lot of harm to the environment transport something that was digital from the beginning.
Do you plan to propose your product in entirely numerical format ?
Yes, we do have an affiliate program. Please contact us at info@recreateyourlife.com and we will be happy to provide details.
Regards,Morty
Hi, I just did the “failure and mistakes are bad” one.
that’s very interesting, thanks for putting it out there for free.
Do you have an affiliate program for this website? I saw that the questions was asked in one of the first coments but I didn’t see an answer
Thanks in advance
Regards
Guillaume
Hi, so far I have used the I’m not good enough, I’m not important, and I’m not capable scripts. I have to say that I noticed the change in a very profound way last night when a conversation with my grown daughter did not effect me with the usual anxiety and emotional upset that usually happens with our conversations. I was able to remain calm despite what normally would have me feeling so inadequate and guilty that I would want to jump out of my skin. I was amazed that I was processing the fact that I’m not good enough was just simply not a true statement. The “feelings” tried to creep in. I could feel it in the pit of my stomach but my mind and the logic of the truth took over and I did not allow the emotion to effect me. I was able to let my daughter talk out her feelings and talk about my own stuff without there being any blame, accusation, or anger between us. It was so wonderful to be in that zone again!! Thank you very much for developing this program. I intend to buy the Confidence Program as soon as I can afford it. Please develop something for eliminating the beleif that I don’t deserve to be prosperous. That is really holding me back right now…….Thanks!!
@: Sometimes feelings will come up (feeling more sad) because you didn’t complete the process, you can get stuck in intense emotions and not follow the videos to the end and really pause long enought to let yourself recognize that you never saw the beleif in the world, it was a meaning you gave to what your parents said or did. I think you are saying -your parents said you were not important because you were a kid- your blog wasn’t clear. @:
In that case if you go through the program again and when you are investigating alternative interpretations, it is possible one interpretation could be “your parents said you were not important as a kid and they were wrong because all kids are important, OR to your parents you were not important because you were a kid (they never took a parenting class to know better) but that doesn’t mean that they were right about you or all kids in general. Also a critical point is the recognize you never saw the beleif in the world as The TRUTH, if we interviewed 10 other psychotherapists that watched the vidoe of your life and even heard what your parents said to you, would they have alternative interpretations of what they heard and saw, would they say that the only interpretation was that “you are not improtant”, or would one say “wow those parents needed a parenting class, they don’t know that they are wrong and telling their child something that is not true and hurtful”, or would one say ” well, to her parents she is not important but that doesn’t mean that she is not important in general”, etc, there could be many other interpretations so the belief “I’m not improtant” is not the only interpretation it is not and never was The Truth, it was a interpretation you gave to what they said or did, and of course you made that interpretaton most children your age in the same ciecumstances would have done the same. The point is, if it was never The Truth, it was one interpretation, if it was never out in the world that you could see (what color was it, what size, what shape)where was the belief all these years. Yep, it was in your mind, you created it as The Truth and through all your life you thought it was The Truth. The good thing is you created it, you are not your thoughts-you are the creator of your thoughts and now you know it is not The Truth- you are free from that old belief and the meaning you gave to those circumstances. You are in a very powerful important liberated position as the co-creator of your life. Do the program again and pause long enough at each point where you are told to pause and say everything out loud as directed. This stuff works, it is so liberrating. It is also possible that your mind quickly came up with other beleifs that were attached to the one you were working on (I’m not important) and so capture any that come up and do the same process on those. Also just one session with Shelly Lefkoe or anyone trained and proficient with Lefkoe Method could clear out a bunch in one session and help you understand better how this works and you will feel great!
I was very sceptical to try this free program. I have willingly believed in many magic pill solutions before, only to be sorely disappointed. I have this belief that change requires time and effort, so I understand why I felt this way.
I did both the I´m not good enough and I´m not important programs, and I wanted to do more when I finished. My emotional ressonance seemed to have banished when I completed the programs, but I felt anger rise up when realizing that I sabotaged myself by choosing those belief unconsciously.
The biggest lesson is in realizing that I am the creator. In a sense, I felt angry because I realized that I had chosen to adopt my limiting beliefs. At the same time, I felt powerful because I can create my experiences by choosing which meaning I want to adhere to events.
I found myself asking these questions whenever I had a couple of confrontations with my brother. Whatever way he reacted, it had nothing to do with me. There was no meaning to his reactions, other than what they were. Absolutely fascinating.
Ok, I just passed “I`m not good enough” and find it briiliant. I`m russian, can understand but barely speak English. It`s worked, however. Thank you, Morty!!!
Actually, I’m really angry now wow. I know I got some bad memories from my childhood, but never thought they were this bad. I feel like I could have punched my dad’s face in. Hmm, scary. But no worries, I’m a self-disciplined guy
Just needed to share it with someone.
I tried the “I’m not important” and sadly it has only had a negative effect so far. One thing you’re not touching on at all is if, as a child, I were told that I were and kid and therefore not important. Seeing your videos only made me more and more upset.
I have worked a lot on my self esteem and confidence the last year, but I fear that all the changes I have made is on a superficial level. If you can think of anything that can help, then please tell me!
Antti
I found the “I’m Not Good Enough” program very useful and well-structured.
The question remains: Why did we all as children interpret the disapproval of our parents as the belief “I’m Not Good Enough”?
Surely the answer is, that at that early age, our parents were like gods to us, so anything which incurred their displeasure must imply something “bad” or ‘wrong” in us, since they were “perfect” in our eyes.
Is this a relevant point to be made in the program?
I’d like to buy the program – End procrastination. I see that the list of beliefs and conditionings be removed under the Natural Confidence program are the same as that for End Procrastination, plus a few more. Would it make sense to buy Natural Confidence and use it to ‘end procrastination’ and also later on to boost self confidence? I understand that all issues are ultimately linked. Or is the program for End procrastination slightly different from that of Natural Confidence.
I look forward to your reply. Much Thanks!
Yuanting
I’ve completed the first 11 beliefs, but I noticed that I’m not accessing the program very often … it is true that I’m busy but there is more to it than that. It has taken me many months to get halfway through. I’m wondering why it is hard for me to engage with the process.
I think that:
1) it is hard for me to remember what my parents actually said to me when I was a child. I can remember certain traumatic incidents and some general feelings, but actual words or facial expressions are just not coming up.
2) also, I think that more than criticisms, my parents were generally just neglectful of me (and my siblings). They were so wrapped up in their own neuroses that they just did not give me a whole of attention, even though I was a good kid and did well in school and never really gave them any trouble. I think that I grew up feeling worthless and unlovable and unimportant simply because I was not on their radar screen. They were too busy fighting, drinking, being depressed, etc. to pay much attention to me. This was far more damaging than anything they said.
Because the program does not address this (parental neglect) but focuses exclusively on criticisms, anger and judgment, I think it can be hard for me to relate.
Hi Christine,
Happy to hear the free belief worked so well for you. Wait till you see the impact on you of an entire program!
And if you are now more aware of how you talk to your daughter, that really makes our work worthwhile. We need to make sure the next generation is more conscious than the current one.
Regards, Morty
I did the ‘ i am not good enough” belief buster video. I got alot from this. saying out loud, i can see why that is important, it feels like i am interacting. and when i had to write, what my parents would have said to me as a child. I experienced the emotion, i was taken back to being the child. Then i did see how the words parents used,were just that, words and all form their own experience but this was not me and did not mean I was not good enough. It actually meant that they were not good enough ( meaning capable of the type of understanding necessary) to know how to handle the situation correctly so all persons concerned, parent and child can come out of it with smiles of communication and understanding. ALSO, I sure am thinking about how i use my words with my teen daughter. thanks i will explore more videos.
Hi Mark,
Thanks for your interest in our work and I’m thrilled you are getting so much from our programs.
To answer your question, it is unlikely that there is only one belief. There probably are several. And I don’t have enough information to be able to guess at what they are. You almost certainly have one something like: I can’t survive on my own.
We do private one-on-one phone sessions with people and if you are interested, we could help you find and then eliminate whatever beliefs are in the way. Please call us for more information at 415-884-0552.
Regards, Morty
Hi Morty,
Well, what can I say ? You explained in 30 mins what I couldn’t get in 3 days at Landmark. Awesome stuff. I must say the hardest part seems to be working out what your limiting belief is in the first place. In the past 3 years I have come out of a 10 year marriage, and more recently a 2 year relationship. At the end of both I have had massive anxiety attacks as I am so alone, and on my own. I feel as if my very life is under threat and its completely debilitating. Which belief do you think that is please ?
Thanks ijn advance
Mark
I am *delighted* that you’ve shared this program with us here. I would love to share it with children … The thought of having an uncle like you be there to help with our thoughts and beliefs growing up felt so comforting and encouraging. I can’t tell you how grateful I am to have discovered you. Thank you!
Hi Linda,
We are thrilled that you have gotten so much value from our program. Thanks for letting us know.
How old is the child? We have had success in private sessions with children as young as 13-14. We do the same process, we just try to use a language that is easier for younger children. If kids are 15 or older, have them try the video program. The worst that can happen is that it won’t work.
Regards, Morty
Hi Morty, I love this program. Once I had tried a couple of the videos I was hooked and I used every spare minute to finish the rest. I think there were probably only 2 beliefs out of the 19 that I didn’t have. It surprised me a lot because, as you mention on the videos, intellectually I knew these things weren’t true. But I still held the beliefs and they affected the way I behaved towards others. This has changed my marriage, my career, my parenting skills and my ability to make friends. Amazing! Thank you.
I wish there was something like this for children… you don’t happen to know of anything do you?
Regards
Linda
I’m amazed. I can’t get enough of this program. Every belief I tackle feels like a huge weight off my shoulders. I’m feeling reborn!
Morty,
Thank you for a detailed speedy reply. I’m thinking of getting the self confidence package to try it out. Another dilemma I’m facing is this:
Don’t you think we will create a problem by looking into something we might or might not have? In other words, is it safe or not safe to assume that ALL those 19 beliefs listed(which are a part of two of the available packages)are causing problems? How would I know that one or some of those 19 beliefs may not be an issue at all? @:
Maybe I take them one by one and read them loud and observe my body feelings? If there’s no internal resistance then maybe that belief is not an issue. Please do comment about this.
I know that tryiing to find a belief is like trying to catch the dog by trying to get hold of its tail…in otherwords if I closely follow my inner chatter, I could really discover those that are busy in my life. Maybe you can come up with a series of self-questions in your blog for us to ask to discover actual beliefs and their sources.
The only proof that a limiting belief or a set of those, that were eradicated/eliminated from one’s personality is by looking into future results related to my goals……am not sure whether that’s the right way to approach this.
I intend to make a decision regarding one of the packages or your seminar within the next few days but maybe you can make it easier for me to decide. Is there anyway I can contact you directly(email)and send a short email? With your experience of dealing with more than 37,000 people it might turn out to be a no brainer and you might come back to me and say, ‘just go for this package’ or ‘you might have to seriously consider coming to our seminar’.
You can contact me at lineupenergy@yahoo.com
Warm Regards Morty,
Thank you once again
Shreenath
Hi Shreenath,
It is difficult to explain in a blog what we spend hours teaching in a workshop. Finding the relevant beliefs for specific problems is one of the most difficult parts of the Lefkoe Belief Process. Other than the tips I provided in my blog post on August 8, 2009, I don’t have much more to say.
To clarify one of the things you said: There generally is not one or two or three events that led to a belief being formed. It was a pattern of behavior on the part of your parents that was repeated over and over.
I also sent out a few emails to our entire list explaining how to know that a belief is gone. In case you missed it, here’s what I said.
Here’s how to know if it worked for you:
Remember when you said the words of a belief like
I’m not good enough, I’m not important, or Mistakes
and failure are bad at the beginning of the program?
They felt like the truth.
There was some level of discomfort in saying those
words. There might have been some resistance in saying
them.
You felt a connection with the words. Right?
Say the words of the belief right now.
Really, take just a couple of seconds and say them out loud.
I’m not good enough.
I’m not important.
Mistakes and failure are bad.
Do they still feel like the truth? Like that’s just the way
it is?
Or is the charge the words used to have gone?
Is it easier to say the words? Doesn’t it feel as if
the phrase has no meaning? That the words are empty?
That’s how you know the belief is gone.
The only way to get a total change in your behavior or
emotions though is to eliminate all the beliefs
that cause a specific problem.
For example when you get rid of all the beliefs that
cause you to procrastinate, then your procrastination
stops. And when you get rid of all the beliefs that
cause you to criticize yourself, that critical little
voice in your head disappears.
When all the beliefs that cause problems like these
are eliminated, then the problem stops … totally and
forever. Then you know beyond a shadow of a doubt that
your beliefs have been eliminated.
I’ll be writing a blog post in the next couple of weeks devoted to finding the source of a belief.
My best suggestion for you is to be trained in using The Lefkoe Method. If you are interested, send me your contact information and we will let you know when the next training is. It usually takes three three-day weekends. We are trying to find a way to do it on the Internet so people don;t have to travel to San Francisco.
Regards, Morty
Morty,
I went through the belief eliminating process online – I took the I’m not good enough(I picked it to try help me for a specific area in my life since most areas are going well) module. One good thing I noticed is that, three or four incidents that PROBABLY triggered the limiting belief back when I was a kid came to my mind and I used them as a source to go along and complete the program. While I don’t know whether I eliminated the belief completely, I can tell that there’s some relief.
HOw do I know that the source of a belief that originated years ago is true? Is trying to eliminate it andnot finding that it’s gone the only way to find out that the source of a belief is wrong?
While I know that some of the results I expect in my life aren’t showing up and that its probably due to some past limiting beliefs, how do I go about finding them? I read an article on your blog regarding discovering my beliefs, it didn’t really make any difference to me.
To sum up the big problem I have had for years is to discover the source of my belief and actual belief itself. I feel I can eliminate them quickly once I discover them…
I want to find a way…..
Thanks
Shreenath
Hi Pamela,
I’m not sure what the problem is on your computer. You might try turning off your computer and turning it back on again. I do know that other people are using all of our programs successfully.
Thanks for your interest in our work.
Regards, Morty
Hi Morty !
Thank you for your programms ,I just wonder though ? I tried twice to finish to the end ,but after I wrote the sentence went to the second part and stayed there for more then an hour buffering ,I had refreshed the page and nothing different happens ,do you know what could this be ?
Thank you for your help
Pamela
Thanks all for posting to my blog. I’ve read every single one of the posts and I’m inspired by many of them. But I haven’t answered all of them. So from now on every Friday I will read all the posts from the prior 7 days and respond to all that have questions.
I look forward to hearing about how your life has taken off since eliminating beliefs and conditionings on one of our program and about problems you still have that you would like some help with. For answers to the most common questions please take a look at my personal blog where I post weekly about how beliefs affect our lives: http://mortylefkoe.com.
To recreating your life and living as the unlimited possibility you are,
Morty
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Hi,
I watched the video and came up with a conflict in that in the past I would always question whether I was capable by asking myself `Can I`? While this seems very positive and it was to some extent, yet the `I`m not sure` underlying the `Can I` seems to have stuck with me. I find this unsureness not readily compatible with `I`m not capable`, this is because saying `I`m not capable brings out the opposite , `I am capable` and back comes in this unsureness again. This mindset of mine seems to cause me to be hesitant and timid. It feelslike I am piggy in the middle, hovering between the two opposite poles, a very grey are indeed.
Best regards, and thank you for the videos.
had recently herpes virus found in my blood. what I haveto do??? I’m in panic…
Dear Morty,
can you please advise on how i can overcome the thoughts, feelings and emotions experienced during a birth trauma (Erbs Palsy). I grew up in a abusive household, born out of wed-lock, and told this is a punishment from god. I have been told for many years how slow i am, and that i have a bad arm (Erbs Palsy-Left arm). I was bullied at home by my older brothers and at school. My teenage and adult life has been one roller coaster ride after another. I feel as though my life has grind to a holt, and i am struggling in my daily life. James aged 40.
Thank you.
I finished the process today, and I think the most powerful tool in the whole program was the 4 De-Conditioning in the end. I dont know why the belief elimiation process wasn’t so much effective for me as people here describe, but the de-conditioning worked amazingly ^_^
Thank you very much for the service.
Dear Morty,
You are an amazing person you have helped me do something that no one program or book has been able to do for me! A couple weeks ago, I had a private session with you regarding my phobia of dogs and you and I went through the Lefkoe Belief Process together and I am happy and relieved to say that my fear of dogs is completely gone. I actually enjoy seeing them out and about in my neighbor and it’s all thanks to you and your process.
In addition, I purchased your “19 beliefs and 4 conditionings” program and after going through the entire program, my failing business (financial business) has turned around, even though this is a tough time for this industry, and in my spare time, I now have the courage and calm confidence to pursue my other passions in life, music and writing. NONE of this would be possible without you, Morty, and I can’t thank you enough. If anyone has any doubts or questions regarding the Lefkoe Belief Process, please feel free to email me to ask me any other personal questions regarding my experience. Thanks again Morty!!!
Hi Carol,
Everything you describe is the result of beliefs.
I lived with deep depression for many years until I got out of it by eliminating enough beliefs.
None of the packages is designed to deal with depression because that is unique for each person. But you probably have most of the beliefs in the lack of confidence package (http://recreateyourlife.com/store. If you got rid of all of them you would see some improvement. The only way to identify and get rid of all the beliefs causing your unhappy feelings is to have private sessions after you eliminate the core beliefs that you would have to do with a facilitator anyway.
I’m sorry you are feeling so badly and if you have nay additional questions, please let me know.
Regards, Morty
Hi Rob,
I can’t tell you what will change in your life if you eliminate your crippling beliefs. But I will promise that the way to deal with your circumstances will be totally different. And negative limiting beliefs might well be having an impact on what is possible for you. At the very least you’d be happier.
You don’t have to be Jack Canfield to get a book published. In fact, Jack Canfield was not known when he got the first Chicken Soup book published. And he was turned down by 25 or so publishers. The difference between the two of you when before he got famous is not your circumstances, but your beliefs about yourselves.
If you feel that life is hopeless, that you are powerless, that things will never turn out for you, that you will never get what you want, etc. — those feelings, which significantly affect what you do and don’t do, are the result of your beliefs.
When you do the process at the end of the free beliefs and that exists as a stand alone when you buy a package (Who am I really?), you will experience that anything is possible and that you have no limitations. Try it.
Regards, Morty
Morty,
I’m desperate. I’m hanging, just above the bottom of a black hole, again. I’ve lived most of my life fully believing I don’t deserve to “belong,” to “participate,” to live a life like others do. Rationally, I know I’m intelligent, educated and experienced in many aspects of life, living and working. But, every time something “good” happens in my life, it’s immediately followed by something “bad.” In my childhood I was imprinted with the belief that all the problems in the family were my fault. I was also imprinted with highly negative beliefs about myself, and my place in this world. Now, at the age of 51, I have been trying to convince myself that I don’t want, need or deserve happiness, companionship, love or respect. All so I can quell the conflict within that “hears” your voice, and Joe’s voice telling me otherwise. When I “try” (we all know what “try” really means) to overcome the negatives, there is no real belief or passion in my attempts. What if it really is true, that I am fated/destined to remain a powerless, faceless nobody for this session on Earth? How can I find that out, so the depression and conflict will fade?
For me, the categories provided in this email are ALL appropriate, but none really describe the total emptiness and lack of self-belief that I have. Any thoughts?
I am 71 years old and have done everything I can. What would eliminating my beliefs now do anything for me?
My pension has been cut and I’m wanting to eliminate my beliefs about money. Go back to work? Do internet work?
Not likely. So what’s next? Or, what’s left for me to do? I want to publish my book but I’m unknown not a Jack Canfield. I published a poetry book and it’s not going anywhere.
I just don’t know what to do with the rest of my life.
Hi Linda,
Glad to hear you are doing so well with our program.
It doesn’t matter how many beliefs you eliminate at one sitting, as long as it doesn’t become rote. Make sure you really answer the question instead of answering what you know you should answer.
Most of the time the belief should go away the first time if you are really focused on the questions and answering out loud.
Regards, Morty
Hi again!
Morty, I really think this is a first-rate product. I’m still not sure which programs are best for me, but I do very much enjoy working with the one I have, the money-belief buster, as well as the freebie ones I did before!
It is interesting to me that some beliefs do dissolve right away! “I’m not good enough” was especially like an on/off switch! Before I started, it was on. When I finished, it was off–in fact, I had to laugh out loud that I would even consider holding that belief!
Strangly enough, I’m going to have to do “I’m not deserving” over again. That surprises me, because it seems so similar to “I’m not good enough.” Strange again, but I’m almost reassured that every belief isn’t busted immediatly. Maybe one of my self-limiting beliefs is that “if it’s easy, it isn’t effective!”
I’ve started taking a minute before I begin the course, to set an intention that I will dissolve this belief, easily and gladly. And that I will replace it with a postive belief that serves me well.
I see some posts of folks that have trouble with the process. I’ve been doing self-work for a looonnnnggggg time in my life, off & on. This is the most direct and effective self-work for beliefs that I’ve encountered. It’s great because it keeps me focused on MYSELF, and doesn’t call for confronting, or re-hashing, or trying to change relationships with my family. It doesn’t blame or dwell on interactions. It looks at the facts and keeps moving!
I know that the beliefs I don’t bust right away will get busted soon. I might just have to process some of the thoughts and memories in my other-than-conscious mind for a little while. There might be some personal memories or “garbage” that needs a little sorting out first. I’ll do the process again in a few days for those.
One question: is it best to do several beliefs in one session, while your mind is focused? Or should they be spaced out, so the mind can clear up and start fresh with the next one?
This is great work you are doing for humanity. Thank you so much.
Warm wishes to all, Linda
Hi Morty–
I’m confused by your offerings. I just purchased the “Busting limiting money beliefs” special for $67.50, then when it started playing it told me that I should have done Natural Confidence first.
I wish I had known that before I purchased this one. I feel un-served about this.
Why can’t I look at all your programs in one spot, to compare and choose the one that best fits my needs? It also seems like a lot of them overlap. Is there something being hidden?
I’m 92% confident that these offerings are sincere, and that lapses and discrepancies are due to the fact that you’re getting this thing up and running.
But a lot of that confidence comes from Paul Scheele’s testimonial. If I didn’t have that testimonial buoying your products up, I would be very suspicious that I can’t view and compare all your programs. And then being told after I purchase one program, that it won’t work best unless I pay for another program also, would start the red lights and sirens: “scam! bait & switch!”
I hope this feedback helps you to improve the presntation and saleability of your product. Be transparent. No one –well, most folks–don’t want to buy a pig in a poke. –Warm wishes to all, Linda
Dear Morty,
I have a question. As I was listening to your video’s on my free belief busting offer, it would only let me get halfway through or not even that far and it would quit playing…any suggestions?
I beleive this will help me a great deal, i need to get rid of negativity, and Im rateful for your help.Thank You Morty.
What a great, simple way to teach people all the learning and more that I’ve spent a lifetime (47 years) obtaining. It left me with a wonderful feeling and personal power that I love. It is so great to remember all of this and to see you using it to help people become free, grow and obtain more joy in their lives. Kudos!
Shirley
Dear Morty,
Thank you so much for sharing something so amazing and profound with the rest of us. I feel like I’ve just made a new, fabulous friend by clicking on your videos. I am so glad I watched your videos, wish everybody could hear them.
Absolutely amazing, I sooo needed to hear this!
Thank you again and please keep up the great work!:)
Unable to play video – all I got was a black screen. Please advise.
One thing I don’t quite understand: why would I, as a very young child, ingrain “I’m not good enough” based on my parents’ behaviors towards me? In my case my mother was constantly angry with someone – so I could just as well have adopted the alternative ‘oh, she’s just mad again, this has nothing to do with me,’ right? So must there not be some other (deeper?) cause behind deciding to internalize “I’m not good enough?”
Morty thank you so much for your generosity in sharing this freely with all of us. Just a quick question. Do you think it is more difficult to get rid of the beliefs if you were severely physically or sexually abused by your parents or is it the same process used to get rid of the beliefs ? When I asked my self some of the questions I still had that ‘contracted’ feeling inside my body. Just a penny for your thots…
This was exactly what I had been looking for. After divorcing several years ago, I keep running more and more into the idea that I didn’t matter. It became almost a theme in my life and affected all of my relationships. After watching your “I’m not important” video, something clicked inside of me. I no longer hear the voice in my head that would say, ” See, they don’t care!” It’s like a huge burden has been lifted. Thanks so much!! I look forward to the next program.
I was never able to get the actual video to open and play.
Hi Morty,
It is interesting to read all of the comments. For me, however, the realization was PROFOUND. It was my missing link so to speak as I have been through many programs. Most were always good and all taught me something. What I needed was something more on a personal level. Something was missing. I think that it was just my ego mind getting in the way of progress. It wouldn’t let me dig deeper. It can be a very powerful block for me. Your program allowed me to understand in a more personal way. Thank you for making this available to the public and for free. You are to be commended.
Kathy
Your program isn’t good enough
This is probably fine for people who are not survivors of emotional and physical abuse…or are not highly sensitive, and can pick up and absorb others feelings. (And when you can pick up and absorb others feelings, that can make you very, very, very susceptible to abuse.) Because these people are like sponges, others will sense that and release their bad feelings onto them…it leaves the abuser’s psyche and gets soaked up by the person without the intuitive boundaries, if that makes sense. But, even on that level, that does not mean I’m not good enough…I lack the psychic boundaries that others have. Almost like a birth defect! Seriously. Like being born without psychic skin. I wonder where this begins? This birth defect? In the womb? By not enough hugs and attention as a baby, left too much to one’s own devices so that you learn to draw conclusions from anyone and everyone as a survival mechanism?
So, I guess this has nothing to do with me being not good enough. Just a powerful empath. I would love to attract the love and good from people more and more and more as opposed to the sadness and ugliness. As I have aged, this has happened though. Getting less and less and less ugliness hitting me, this I can see. Am in a peaceful little home with my dog and me. Hmmm. Thanks for helping me see this in a totally new way!
Hi There…
got all the way to 4.39 mins and it stops? tried again and again but it stops in the same place everytime. can you help?
I live in the country, so I don’t have high speed internet access, I have dial-up. So, I was unable to view the presentation. Besides that, I don’t have a sound card in my computer. So, what I got from this was, Nada. Zilch. Nothing.
Thanks for giving me the opportunity to give it a try, though.
Thank you Morty for fixing the problem I alluded to below. I was cut out of the program by a computer glitch and you have fixed it for me. I guess you were “hit” by your own success. I am not sure I would have written the email in quite the way I did if I had not almost completed your course. I have been freed from worrying about what others think, thanks to your course. Thank you again for an excellent course. I am a satisfied customer and my apologies for hitting out so hard.
Hi Collette,
We don’t have an on-line program for phobias because the source of each is so different, but we can help people get rid of them in our one-on-one phone sessions. It usually takes only one or at most two sessions. Call us at 415-884-0552 for more information.
Regards, Morty
Thank you “Uncle Morty” for your fast, easy and effective program. I just graduated with a bachelors degree in psychology and felt like I should have been able to do this for myself-but never mind that. Your step-by-step process was structured in such a way that I didn’t have to feel like I was feeding myself a load of malarky. Everything you said made solid and absolute sense, so much so that I felt it to be true on a profound and lasting level. This is one of the best uses of the internet! You don’t offer a program for phobia’s do you? Thank you again, you have my sincere gratitude!
In my childhood I was never told I was pretty, was never kissed or hugged, was sexually molested and the perpetrator was never procecuted and he repeated it. Always dreamed my father will come to rescue me. My grandmother was abusive physically,I was ridiculized by my uncle, so your video did not match my reality.
Hey I just recently came across your website and viewed the “Im not good enough” seminar and I really liked it and it has helped me in my general life, but I am having problems with the sports aspect. I’ve been told many times that what Im doing isn’t good enough I am a track and field athlete and my coaches are the national record holders for Canada and they have high expectations for me I have been unable to meet them, there is also a younger athlete coming up who is having much success and I am happy for him but I feel that I have taken the back seat. He is a new coach for me this year. Any advice you would have to help me focus and allow things to get to my head would be very much appriciated. Thanks
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Hi, Morty and everyone;
I’m really happy about the instant results I’ve gotten releasing the three free beliefs.
It feels SO GOOD, I just feel like giggling several times a day, especially when I recognize something that would have evoked an old belief, and NOTHING HAPPENS. Nothing feels really good!
Thanks Morty! I’m very grateful to you for your clean, crisp, cut through the baloney method.
Absolutely AWESOME! I did the whole PAID porgram in 2 days. I finished it today a copule of hours before the biggest gig I’ve ever had as a solo musician (it wasn’t that much really 70 or so patrons). I usually would have been terrified before I perform and it takes me quite a while to warm up. But not this time I got straight into it. I played for 2 1/2 hrs straight and I can’t even remember if the thought of being afraid to make a mistake entered my mind. Wow! I can’t begin to tell you what this is going to do for my music career and life in general. I just feel so much more powerful now that I’m not concerned about what others think of me and my music. THANK YOU SOOOOOOO MUCH
peace and blessings to us all
Kepa
Hi Erika,
The feeling you are talking about comes from the WAIR? Process at the end the belief-elimination process. Sometimes people don’t get it the first time, but usually do after doing the process a couple more times. Try some more beliefs. Also, on the paid programs you get the Who am I Really? Program as a separate program so you can do it without having to go through the entire belief-elimination process.
Regards, Morty
Hello, I tried the free program but at the end I did not feel the complete whole feeling that you said other people usually feel at that time. I just felt like my normal self. Although I did understand the material. Can you explain anything about this?
Hi Morty,
I am at belief 16. But I have a question. It seems like as kids we were very sophisticated to be able to give meaning to all these events. How is it that a kid could actually think that he is not good enough or smart enough, or that he must do things perfectly to be a worthy human being.If the event is meaningless, then why even bother to assign it a name or belief. Could help me with this?
Thanks for your quick answer!!! I’ve never seen that way!! I’ll maditate on whay you say. Thanks a lot!!!
Erik!
Hi Erik,
You heard your mother say it, you didn’t hear that it was true. One meaning of her comment is that what she said was true. Another interpretation is that it is not true. You can’t see that what6 your mother said is true. You can only see that she said it.
Regards, Morty
Ok, thanks for the free videos.
But mi question is what about is your parents (mother in my case) said you, literally, “your are not good enough”? And she said a lot of horrible things!
I didn’t talk anybody this. When I was about 8, my mother come to punish me. I was so afraid that I was thinking in jump from the third floor and commit suicide. The neighbour accidentally felt downt to the third floor a he survived, so I dissmised that idea. Many of my bad belief come from her.
Sorry my English!
Thanks!!!
Ok, thanks for the free videos.
But mi question is what about is your parents (mother in my case) said you, literally, “your are not good enough”? And she said a lot of horrible things!
Thannks!!!
Hi Morty,
Thankyou so much for making this programme available.
Regards and love
Donna
Hi there, I emailed you earlier this week, saying my system had stopped/disconnected during the downloading of a belief (number 11) and subsequently my system stayed stuck at that place. . .talk about beliefs! It was as though the system had decided that was all needed so that’s all I’d get.
I asked you to clear it for me so I could continue.
Now, whether or not my system cleared itself, I am writing to thank you if it was you who enabled me to keep on eliminating beliefs. It’s great and I’m delighted to be able to continue.
I’m now confident I can continue with the remainder of your program.
Have a great week.
Yours sincerely,
Judith Tuckwell, New Zealand
Hi Morty. I have done all 19 beliefs and 4 conditionings. I found most of the beliefs did something for me, a couple did not.
2 of the conditionings did nothing for me. You could see how they were associated with the beliefs I had no reaction to.
After concluding the whole program I found many of the (negative)little voices at the back of my mind had been silenced.
I enjoyed it so much that I’m about to do your 5 money beliefs. I am going to take part in the “ReCreate Your Life Research Study”.
Keep up the good work, and, thank you. Jim
Hai Morty, I have to admit you truely are amazing at helping people realise that they can achieve anything and their only limitation is in their minds. I feel amazing and I know I’m good enough I can do anything, the events that go on around me and that I think effect me truely don’t because they really have no meaning unless I give them one and allow them to effect me. I am the creator and no longer the creation. Thank you very much and I look forward to recreating my life. Again Thank you very much XD
Ryuku
Hi Morty,
just started the recreateyourlife program. I have completed belief #5. The thing is that I don’t know, or I am not sophisticated enough, to understand the concept. My childhood was mostly memories with my Mom because my Dad spent years in a mental institution, where he eventually died. I have no idea what this did to me.
My problem with the beliefs is that I don’t whether they are there or whether they have been eliminated. If it were something like havinh a sharp pain in your side and then getting rid of the belief stops the pain. Pretty simple. This mental thing I am having trouble with. Maybe I am expecting too much. Any advice??
Hello Morty,
I must say I am amazed by the results I received with the “Making Mistakes is Bad” belief buster video. All I can say is “wow!” Initially, I was a little skeptical but I thought to myself, “what the heck, it can’t hurt, and it’s not like I don’t have the time.” I’ve noticed I’m much more willing to try new things and I also solved a dilemma which had been puzzling me for a while. Today, when trying to solve the problem, I had the novel idea to ask a different question and received the answer I needed to move forward in my life. Thanks for sharing this treasure with all of us.
be well and be blessed,
Mo
I have tried three times now (two different beliefs) but I just can’t SEE my beliefs – at which point the program stops feeling relevant. Am I trying to get rid of beliefs I don’t hold? I’m pretty sure I’m not – it’s about the only thing I AM sure of!
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Response from Morty:
Hi Meryll,
Most people are visual, so it appears that they can “see” their belief as a child. Many people, however, are more emotional-kinethestic, so they “feel” the belief instead of see it. That is handled in the very last part of the process. Just ignore the question: Did you see it? and go on to the next part of the process: Can you get that the events have no meaning? and then complete the process. And the belief will then be gone.
Regards, Morty
I want to sign up for the course but the page will not allow it due to the fact that I live in canada and will not process because I will not choose a state. please help
Dear Mortie,
Just doing who am I really again and the fear has gone. Why has the fear gone, well the fear has gone because I know i can eliminate and eradicate limiting self beliefs and what is left is still me ! It’s still me and one not hold back by limiting self beliefs which I created just as anyone could have created them by putting meaning to a series of events. Not that those events did not matter just that they had no meaning until I attributed meaning to those events. I now do get this on a profound level. Can’t wait to eradicate the rest of the limiting self beliefs and negative conditioning and create the next part of my life what I want to happen, brilliant and thanks, Nic Eatch
Dear Mortie,
I am just about to eliminate belief 11. I paused to write down the old limiting beliefs I have eradicated and came across change is difficult and takes a long time. I know now I don’t hold this belief – my belief is change is easy and can be done in an instant , positive and long lasting – change is a doddle. However I cannot remember how I created this new belief or how I eradicated the old limiting one ? Does this matter? ….if I am left with a really positive new belief does it matter how I formed it? cheers Nic.
This is a very thought provoking programme. At sometimes it is hilarious as it makes you realise just how daft some beliefs sound when you challenge them. At other times it is scarey as I am thinking that I generally really like myself so why do I want to eradicate some of the beliefs that I have derived due to the meaning I gave to the sequence of events that I kept seeing (or thought I SAW !!!) in the World. I realise now there was a whole host of other meanings that I could have applied – question I have at this time is where does feeling and intuition come into it. I am only on eliminating limiting belief number 5 – I am sure all will be revealed.
Hello Morty and team, i just saw the latest video.
and it was exactly what i needed at this time.
I’ve actually been through a 5+ yr intensive of the Course in Miracles and other studies
where I was learning how to practice and teach from the Course, but ended up leaving it for a while.
And this seemed to be lessons from the Course knocking at my door once again.
you’ve captured the essence and usefulness
of these type of studies quite well.
It really is all about a mental paradigm shift and liberation.
But i actually do have one question for you…
I haven’t quite yet figured out what to do about
this almost culture shock like feeling going from the highs
of realizing our own creativeness,
to the locked in paradigms most people have, especially when these
impressions, opinions, judgements, and chit chat of others can affect
our own state, work, and relationships.
on the one hand i don’t know if there’s much one can do
about other peoples opinions and beliefs, and people always say,
don’t let the opinions of others affect you.
but on the other hand, because I know it’s just their impressions,
I feel like I should at least address things and see what I can do
to change these impressions or at least figure out how to make my best impressions.
but I would like to hear yours and other peoples
views and perspectives about all this.
Look forward to it.
~ Peace ~
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Morty,
I just eliminated belief #14 (I’ll never get what I want). When the belief first popped up on the screen, I felt an immediate and visceral connection to it. When I eliminated it, I felt a little let down. I felt as if someone took away something that was very important to me. What was that?
Thank you, Morty.
I’ve always been shy, and afraid to speak in a group.
Last week, I did just the 1st 4 beliefs, and then went to a seminar over the weekend, where
I spoke comfortably in front of a group of 100, with a microphone, 3 times!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You couldn’t have paid me big bucks to do that before I worked the 1st 4 beliefs of your program.
I’m really looking forward to working with the rest.
Also, “Who Are You Really?” is quite eye-opening.
I’ve done alot of “stuff” over the years, this is definitely the best.
Thank you.
Gratefully yours, Barbara
You know morty that is what I thought out too but I didn’t really stop there I kept on gowing and if we tell the truth we really make all beliefs up. The first thing we overlooked at birth is that it may not even be real. ow wh
I am having a problem with I’m not competent. I do not remember feeling that way with my parents but instead with teachers. I am trying to change the sinerio using my teachers but it is difficult when the program is so strong. What can I do? The other beliefs so far are helping me clear and I am just stuck on this one so far.Can you help me?
Thanks,
Clara
wow your fantastic thanks for letting me know that i am the creator of my creations POWERFUL yeah!
also i ride the bus and sometime i want like minded people to sit beside me or if i see someone i prefer
how do i go about that? instead of just any one flopping down next to me.
Marty,
I did your program and I do feel extremely lighter and happier through out the day. I also noticed that I have been able to release other beliefs as they come while doing other things (like working out). I noticed that you mentioned the law of attraction and had Jack Canfield on board.
What I was wondering is what kind of feedback from people that believe and use the law of attraction?
The reason that I ask because (I’m 28 years old) I opened a restaurant (believed and used law of attraction material – A LOT)and I can see now that the reason that it came to an end (failed) was that I had a lot of beliefs that were sabotaging me. I wasn’t aware of how much I could release.
Hey Morty,
Just went through the first 11 beliefs last night. I was pretty tired afterwards so I couldn’t feel the whole effect. However, this morning as I was waking up I realized something amazing. Before I was even conscious, I started noticing there was something missing. it was like someone that I had woken up with my entire life (not someone I liked very much) just wasn’t there. As I came to I realized that it was the negative voices that accompanied me into every day up to this one. Still got 8 more beliefs and 4 conditioned responses to go. I’ll let you know how it goes.
Phil
Hi Morty
This video started out as “Nothing I do is good enough” and in the middle it switches to “I’m not capable”. Is that correct?
Thanks
Jacki
Hi Morty,
I wish you have included child abuse in your video. YOu know how you talk about “looking” at the event (what they said, did, etc…) and examining what you saw in it (e.g., I am not important). How do you do that in the event of physical abuse? Physical abuse is something that is “felt” by the person as pain and as an unfair forceful invasion of their boundaries…So my question is how can your program be helpful to someone who was physically (and mentally) abused.
I would appreciate your reply, thank you, Mini
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Reply from Morty
Hi Mini,
Physical abuse is real and is terrible. But there is still no meaning in physical abuse, by which I mean, you can’t draw any conclusions about yourself, people or life. If you conclude: I’m bad and deserved it, that’s in your mind. If you conclude, people can’t be trusted, that’s in your mind. If you conclude Life is dangerous, that’s in your mind. At the moment of the physical abuse, it is horrible. The next moment the physical abuse is gone; what you take with you and affects you later in life is not the prior physical abuse, but the meaning you gave it at the time.
Regards, Morty
Hi Morty,
I am experiencing real relief from those limiting beliefs! It’s much easier to maintain a positive attitude than it was before I started the course, which I know attracts more positive things into my life. I’m also happier and more able to be my humorous, loving, playful self. It’s amazing that it’s so easy too! Thank you for your wonderful work.
If you would like even greater notoriety, send me some parenting quotes from your course. I am doing a volunteer project for “10,000 Clicks for Peace,” collecting helpful and inspiring parenting quotes for them to post on their website. They can only be 135 characters long, including your full name, quote marks and spaces. If you need more information about the project, I will send it.
Also, do you still train and certify people to use your method with clients? I know you have the computer program now, but some people might still prefer to work one-on-one.
Thanks again!
Elena Michaelson
elenamichaelson@gmail.com
Thank you Morty,
Such depth from something so simple and elegant.
Slightly concerned to see the content from the box appear in the title box. I don’t mind sharing them but would rather know.
Thanks again for sharing this material. It has really helped.
Hello,
I am pleasnantly surprised that this could help after literally, a few minutes, when I have been affected by my feelings for almost an entire lifetime. I listened twice , the second time worked for me, I think I was too skeptical the first time throguh. Am still digesting my thoughts.
Blessings to Eric, comment 31, perhaps if you took a few deep breathes and tried again…. with an open mind?
I can feel the difference on feelings about the statement of the belief at the end of the session but I still think isn’t it true that we also do things by habit? many times not really thinking of what we are doing?. How my attitud of event interpretation will change differently from what I am used to think (give meaning)to new things or events?
No one who knows me would ever have suspected how little self confidence I have dealt with most of my life.
Perhaps as a very young child they might have and yet I doubt it.
As a leader in my community I always portrayed confidence. Underneath I felt like a faker.
I have cried through 2 beliefs and had an epiphany in a third.
I’ve only got to belief 9!
Thanks
Hi Morty,
Thanks so much. I did ‘I’m not good enough’ and find myself rid of any work related trepidation. I now see that the people who seriously said that about me were doubting themselves, and have proven themselves inferior. Perhaps I should send them your program.
Great stuff! However, toward the end of the ‘Eliminate I’m Not Capable’ session we are invited to click on ‘Who Am I Really?’ I could not find that anywhere on the page. Can you help please?
Hi
This is some refreshing new stuff! I have done all 4 exercises and I feel so much better, more happy and light. I would love to share this program with my friends, but somehow the system will not accept the email-addresses. Any help?
Daniela
Italy
Very helpful in underestanding the formation of a Belief and how to eliminate it while creating life with an opposite Belief that is empowering.
Hi Morty,
I wanted to let you know my feedback from the removal of “I’m not capable”, which I did Friday afternoon before leaving the office. When I awoke Saturday morning, I realized I “forgot” to put on my wrist braces Friday evening and my wrists didn’t hurt! When I awoke this morning (Monday), I again awoke without my wrist supports on, and my wrists feel fine (and I seem to have regained muscle/strength in my fingers since I did the “I’m not good enough” the previous week).
The reason this is memorable is I was diagnosed with what my Dr called “early carpal tunnel syndrome” in March 2006 — before that and since, my wrists were in pain and I got relief from wearing wrist braces while sleeping — if I didn’t wear the braces while sleeping, I would awake many times in the night in agony from wrist pain, and my wrists would twinge during the day. For some reason, I did not want to even think of having the surgery at the time of diagnosis.
This is so totally cool! Thank you for your work! I’m definitely going to go for the 19 beliefs removal and will take you up on the money beliefs removal, too.
thanks for the great experience – i need to do some more work on lots of limiting beliefs – and go thru the process again. It is very helpful. thanks!
Thanks Morty,you’re method of releasing disempowering beliefs really does the trick.Hope to learn more. Thanks again
Hi Monty, I have done the second belif tonight about I’m not important. It has opened up another world for me now and it seems I really got even more how I create my life. I feel calmer since my 1st belief is gone (yesterday) and just basically feel good. Thank you again very much.
Morty:
Your program is phenomenal. I now get the difference between being a creator and being the creation! Amazing how quickly I picked up on it and how I now see my life in a totally different way. The power and joy that comes with being a creator without giving meaning is life-changing.
Thank you so much. Looking forward to receiving the full program of eliminating all limiting beliefs.
Stefan
I couldn’t vote above because I don’t believe any of those things. I did’t really believe I’m no good when I did your first program. The experience was valuable to me, because it put me more deeply in touch with a couple of good parts of myself that showed up when I was remembering my parents.
I felt I was no good when I did things that hurt my Dad, and that part of me, that I call Golden Mocassins because she was born with the Golden Rule in her heart and tries to walk in the mocassins of others, is good! All my parts, even the one who thinks she’s the center of the universe, are good.
I still have beliefs that limit me, and am working on them. Whether I would pay you to help me work on them is still a question.
Thank you so much. Great information. Took me far back to where I didn’t even acknoledge I could remember. Seems so logical. Today I’m amazed. Lets see if tomorrow I see any difference in my actions. Thanks again for sharing this. It has definately made a difference in how I percieve things.
you do not positivly reinforce the corrected released diminsihing belief so i feel you method is incomplete and needs work
I cannot believe the impact of this video. I have spent weekend seminars to acheive the feeling of everything is possible and to remember who I am really. I am profoundly grateful for this enormous generosity from your part and wish this education would be in lives of all people from day 1.
Thank you very very much.
Thank you, Morty, for sharing this approach.
Sergiu
I just finished all the videos I’ve been sent and I had to write again. This site is amazing. Not only are you giving life defining guidance and distinctions that change us in minutes, you are doing so at no cost. How incredibly giving and blessed you are, and we as well. I have to say I cannot get them fast enough. I have heard these distinctions before, the process of eliminating them has been varied… some taking long periods of time to achieve. It is not that I don’t know this information so much as that it is a powerful reminder with a strategy that is unique, permanently changing and instantaneous. I want them all yesterday… can’t get enough and can’t wait to feel what I will feel after the final one. Time has a way of making you forget some of these understandings but the strategy to eliminate the beliefs will never leave my memory again. Thank you so much for reminding me of who I am and how resourceful I am unto myself.
I am interest in the $199 ”ReCreate Your Life” but I would have to know what the 19 beliefs are that are eliminated before I pay. I need to know if the 19 beliefs are applicable to me before I pay the $199 fee.
Thank you,
James Hanratty
Good ol Morty! Genius.. xj.
I have being doing all what you say, but it doesn’t show on the “screen below” the possibility to “click continue”.
Thanking in advance for any help.
Gratitude
I thought this was great. I didn’t believe it could possibly work but it did. I had never really looked at my early childhood, assuming that what’s past is done and overwith. I had no idea that things that happened were holding me back today. I instantly saw how ridiculous my parents’ attitudes and behavior was back then, looking at it from an adult perspective.
I do have a question. Is it not possible that the belief was created by an experience, usually in the first seven years? And from that moment on, I continually re-create similar experiences, if, for no other reason than to tell me I have a belief that needs to be healed? To me it’s like a thunderstorm popping up! When the right energy and elements (warm front, cold front, moisture) are present, there’s almost no way it cannot happen. Yet it’s completely outside my awareness, leaving me with this “how in the world did that happen? mentality. I would think the ultimate reason for healing these beliefs is that the false beliefs we created seem to separate us from our real nature, an amazing inner concern capable of just about anything. By healing the belief, we heal the confusion, which like a fog, lifts off so we can see our direction more clearly. I hope that makes sense, because it sure does to me. Thanks again!
Hi Morty,
When I started the “I’m not good enough” process, thinking about the events that I gave meaning to, I was in tears. Now I now that the events had no meaning except what I gave them. I realize that I determine my beliefs, not the events. I have studied other programs, but this 30-minute process did more than the others put together. It is so simple yet to profound.
Thanks!
Beautifully done Morty – I was actually surprised by what showed up for me and feel very clear since having gone through your process. You helped to add another level of understanding to the whole reason we are born into the world of ‘relationships’! Especially the relationship with ourselves.
Thanks,
~Schelli
Morty,
I’m speechless, which is highly unusual for me. I’ve been involved in personal development and self-understanding for 37 years. In 1985 I had a profound experience where a simple thought came to my mind from a source beyond myself, “your experiences confirm your beliefs.” As the creator of my beliefs, I create my experiences. This technique and concept are so simple, yet so powerful.
Thank you for sharing. I sincerely appreciate the help you’ve offered. I see so many experiences differently. I went back to a troubling moment and used the technique of offering an alternative view to the energy stuck in a belief and literally healed myself of some powerful anger…that I barely knew I had. That same belief was my excuse for leaving an important job I had in my younger days. Finally I understand. Thanks again! This is Awesome with a capital A. I am recommending you to others who share similar interests. I feel much lighter, happier and joyful. I get a key word for the day everyday. My key word for today was transformation! I had no idea I’d find this tonight! Thanks Marci Shimoff! Awesome!
Will Hamilton
Hi Morty and Shelly,
Greetings from San Rafael. I’m on the third of the free programs (I’m not capable) and think they’re great, but I have a question: how often is a limiting belief the result of an experience or experiences in early childhood that don’t necessarily involve the parents? I say this because I can dredge up plenty of formative “negative” experiences from early childhood, but at best 50% of them involve my parents and in the case of “I’m not capable”, everything I can think of involves another adult authority figure other than them or experiences with other kids when Mom and Dad weren’t around. I have pulled up a few with my parents that seem like they should be significant, but they just don’t have any emotional charge to them.
Thanks,
Ben
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Reply from Morty
Hi Ben,
Our experience with thousands of clients eliminating tens of thousands of beliefs is that self-esteem beliefs are almost always the result of interactions with our parents and others who might be primary caretakers if both parents work. Obviously there can be exceptions, but rarely.
You say that the events involving your parents don’t have an emotional charge. That’s fine; they don’t have to. What’s important is that you have the clear sense that the events (not one, but a pattern of events) are the source of the belief.
Events involving others are usually later in life (after ages 5-6) after the beliefs already were formed at home with parents.
Regards, Morty
Your program really helps. Do you have a program for getting rid of anger issues?
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Reply from Morty
Hi Arbie,
There is no computer program that gets rid of anger issues but we have helped many clients get rid of their anger problems in phone sessions.
If you would like to find out more about them, please call us at 415-884-0552.
Regards, Morty
Hi Morty,
Thanks for the above belief programmes, I’ve found them to be
inspiring but not 100% sure if they’ve worked on me.
What I really want to know is if you use the same method
for adults who have had childhood abuse wether sexual & physical?
Reason being is that the section where it refers to a “meaning” of
a belief I’m finding difficult to grasp due of the nature of my childhood.
Many Thanks,
Marcia
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Hi Marcia,
Yes, we have used The Lefkoe Method with many people who have had sexual and other physical abuse as a child. And what does that “mean” about you? You’re bad? Worthless? No good? Those are all meanings you are giving to events.
Moreover, you never “saw” anything about “people” or “life.” You only saw a few people do something to you at a particular time in your life when you had no ability to defend yourself. Any conclusion you reach about all people, or all men, or about life in general is meaning you are adding tot he situation.
I don’t mean to make light of the horrible experiences you had, but the meanings are still yours and can be eliminated just like any meaning that was based on any experience.
Regards, Morty
Thanks, Morty! I can feel the change at the cellular level and it’s amazing!!!! Who knew that it would be that easy to correct the programming of my youth? My parents tried their best, but could only do as well as they could, given that their parents were no great shakes either-they eliminated a lot of the baggage and didn’t inflict it on our childhood, so we got off fairly lucky. Can’t expect them to get rid of it all without any training. In response to the comment from the person who felt they had to shut this down as it was too long-holy cow!!! It corrects in less than an hour and you feel that’s too long?!?!?! Try a psychiatrists’ couch for a few years! I’ve heard of instant gratification, but man! This is ridiculous!!!! Do you only microwave your food as you can’t wait for it to cook?!?! You didn’t even give it a fair shake…why are you so resistant to it?
after listening to this person drone on and on for about 20 minutes about nothing i turned off this ridiculous program. FOR CHRISSAKE JUST SAY WHAT IT IS YOU WANT TO SAY!!! yes everybody knows that as kids we took at face value a lot of comments our parents said…do you need to spend
20 minutes to say what I said in one sentence!!!
I now realize that my parents, because they didn’t realize what they were doing, helped me to believe that I wasn’t capable. I know now that I am and will become more capable as my belief in myself grows.
Hi Morty. Just finished going through “I’m not capable.” Going back to childhood, and manipulation by an alcoholic father who kept saying things like “You’re useless, no good, never amount to anything….” made me realise that he was projecting how he was actually feeling onto me. Being a kid, however, I took his criticisms as ‘gospel’, and thus these comments became self-fulfilling. I felt I had to work harder than anyone else, but had to settle for less, because I was ‘worth’ less. Now, after half a century, I am feeling free from the conviction that I am not capable – as much because I was doing my father’s work (farmer) when I was 12 because he was not capable. I am actually more capable than most people! Now I can do the things that I was afraid were beyond me. Thank you very much.
Technical question! I am trying to play the ‘I’m not capable’ vid and it just says ‘buffering’ but nothing else, how can I access the program?
Thanks very much
Bev
Loved the video on eliminating beliefs and distinguishing the creator from the interpretation. Where is the video that addresses what to do with other’s disapproval or when they ignore you (mirror mom’s silent disapproval). My real message is I don’t matter. I keep creating people not responding to me AND when I do dare to share what I really think without censoring – I really get slammed or interpret that I got slammed and the ensuing feelings overwhelm me. I imagine that I’m “supposed” to cooperate by finding ways to say what I want while taking into account another’s feelings. I want the freedom to say what I feel and not get punished or rejected for it. To matter enough to be responded to but not in the form of being rejected or ignored.
How do I create the outcome I want and still say what I want uncensored? Do I have a responsibility to HOW I say what I want tho’ uncensored. When I’ve really expressed my feelings and thoughts without concern, I get slammed one way or another and pay many prices.
Hi, I found it very helpful although I could not actually find any words that I could recall my parents saying anything that I read as being “Im not capable” I was able to visual various scenes that popped up that gave me an uncomfortable feelings. Telling myself out loud that “I was not capable” actually I then saw as my interpretation of what my parents either said or did to me. The feeling totally disappeared and I feel very capable because that is my belief system now. many thanks for your input
I am having difficulty shifting anything of real concern to my parents although as a parent I can see where I have done this to my kids.
Every time the question is asked the repeated reference to my parents is off-putting.I think that I formed a lot of my opinions by not achieving as well as others in school, sport, church or family. I also feel that this limiting factor could stem from the first belief I set out to eliminate.
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Hi Ron,
Our experience with literally thousands of clients, who have eliminated tens of thousands of beliefs, is that the source of our self-esteem-type beliefs is our interactions with our parents in the first six years of life. If you have working parents and full-time caregivers (like grandparents), then clearly some of your beliefs would come from your interactions with them. But we almost always have formed our basic conclusions about ourselves and life by the time we get to school at 5 years old.
Regards, Morty
This was great. I am always searching for ways to release negative programming. How do I access who am I really?
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Reply from Morty
Hi Brenda,
We’ll be giving you information about the Who am I really? program in the couple of days.
Regards, Morty
Incredible! Mort! What an awsome feeling! it works! but how do i maintain this feeling of creator? i must know!
the problem i had was that when i read the other comments on the vote thing i felt like somthing was trying to pull
me out of the creator feeling. does that mean i have to do the course for every different beleif or is there a technique to take them all away? PLEASE RESPOND I LOVE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!! XD
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Reply from Morty
Hi Kerry,
First, there is a special program that will help you enter the creator space any time you want. You will get information about that in a couple of days.
Second, yes, you have to eliminate each belief, one at a time. I’ve eliminated a couple of hundred. I don’t know a way to eliminate them all at the same time.
Regards, Morty
Hi Morty, just shows how good your programs are, I used your recreate your life program, and having done that and bust your money beliefs, which you kindly sent me as well, the results are amazing and since doing those programs I feel totally different. I know beacuse all these beliefs loisted above have no negative effect since doing those programs. Plus I am no longer afraid of flying or spiders, my confidence is amazing, please use this as a testimonial from a very satisfied customer, who will be back for more stuff later in the year. I have been trying to send you a testimonial thanking you for a while. So here it is at last.
Many thanks
Phil Watson
St Ives
Cornwall
UK
Ps I have recommended you to many others, and everyone that has used your program rates it as highly as I do. If people want to email me for confirmation, they are welcome to do so, my email is:- philipwatson170@btinternet.com.
Hi,
I went through the first 5 and I think I will go through them again as I am unsure whether I have received the full benefit;
however, I think I feel anxiety when I am unsure whether or not people I don’t know will accept me.
This often results in me not behaving the way I do when I am around people I do know. It’s more a fear of rejection, and due to what I anticipate will happen instead of what actually does happen.
It is very clear to me this is ridiculous however I still have the physiological effects.
What belief causes this?
Thanks
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Reply from Morty
Hi Jim,
I’d need more information to know for sure, but it seems like the belief is What makes me good enough or important is having people think well of me. It also could be some conditioning: fear associated with being rejected. Both of them are easy to eliminate using a program we’ll be tell you about in a couple of days.
Regards, Morty
This is AMAZING!
You kinda throw off your older body and the new shining one appears from inside — the CREATOR that has no fear and is calm and happy.
THANKS and many blessings to you, Morty
Thank you!
As a therapist I found a new way to experience the witness and creator in me, and the more I practice and own it, I will be able to use it as a tool with my patients, and continue my own work!
Morty
This program is great. Any one can use it and see who they really are instead of just identifying with their thoughts.
Thank you
Love jacki
This was very enlightening but what are our feeling for if they are going to lead us to make incorrect assumptions that can ruin our lives
Bing! The light went on!
Thank you
Dear Morty,
Thank you for this opportunity to experience positive growth. I still have a long way to go but with help of good people like you, I keep moving forward.
Bless you!
Dear Morty
Thank you very much for helping me eliminate the belief that “mistakes and failures are bad”. In my career life, I had these happening more often and I attracted this belief and it cost me my job. Thank you very much.
That was so easy. I’ve been struggling for years to do what took you 30 minutes? I look forward to learning more. Thank you for the opportunity to experience your method. I’m curious to see my life tomorrow – and the day after that – and the day ….
Wow! Some great analogies, especially that sculptor and sculpture bit. This was great..an amazing addition to the arsenal in eliminating beliefs. I have broken through a barrier today. Normally I do the meditation and void the belief and replace with another. This process works much deeper. Thank you
This helped me to see how my interpretation of the behaviour of my parents when I made a mistake or did something they said was wrong was just that. I am able to see that it was their opinion only. Thank you
Dear Morty, I have been working on trying to reach a spritual clarity..as I have desires of being a healer. I have learned we all have this capability ..but up till now I have had problems connecting. I had the feeling that I had some sort of blockage. When I followed your audio I realized that I was the creator of my blockage.By my own beliefs. Now I now feel I can be the creator of my success.
Excellent material, almost unvelievable that those things he is saying are from this world!
He seems like a magic man
The things I’ve heard made my head pop, I would never see the world as the same again!
Thank you for sharing this with us and allow us to be better
I understand that my beliefs shape my life, however beliefs are hard to eliminate. I find myself over reacting to things and then realise my behaviour is wrong. How can I change this? How can we find all of our beliefs so we can change them?
Daniela
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Reply from Morty
Hi Daniella,
It’s relatively easy to help people eliminate a belief in an interactive web-based program. I really need to talk to specific individuals to help them identify the specific beliefs that are causing specific problems. I haven’t figured out how to automate that yet.
Regards, Morty
Dear Morty
I have to admit that, as you had mentioned in the video, I was slightly sceptical about if this would actually work.
I really was blown-away by the simplicity of this exercise and the profound change that I felt afterwards.
I have often had tightness in the pit of my stomach due to anxiety and have been through many years of therapy (a behaviour therapy group for childhood trauma), and at one point I also had been diagnosed with OCD apparently directly due to my childhood experiences and obviously my beliefs as well.
So when you started talking about the subject of parents and their impact on my thoughts, well, the tightness came in leaps and bounds. But as I kept going through your exercise, I found that the ‘tightness’ seemed to lessen. It did keep trying to stick around so to speak, but by the end of your exercise, I felt very minimal tension in my stomach.
I thank you so much for being able to have the opportunity to access this amazing technique, I feel incredibly grateful for this.
Monique
This is great, it was the quickiest method of total release that I have ever experienced. I can’t wait to tell my friends about this.
I have worked with self improvement programs for years. Yours is the fastest to the goal of any I have experienced.
Thanks
Are you God?
First off I do have a website. I just started it so all you will find is my book of poetry. I would like you to buy it for me. No one has yet. It is very unique and was translated to me from God. It is titled, Yesterday’s News. I am a very spiritual person. I now know I am my own creator. I am happy, healthy and blessed. I am excited.
Sad for what I did create before. I have amazing powers. I must never create anything negative again. I know God is talking to me and does all the time.
I do not know if this is happening to others and I wish it would happen to my husband and family too! I do not know why I am so lucky.
I am going to create a kingdom of heaven on earth.
Thank you Morty for the amazing insights and for your wonderful spirit of giving….I know you will be rewarded as you selflessly help others….Dom
Thanks Morty for that free lesson, the only problem, even though I can see that I am the creator, is that I have grown into the habit of accepting my creation at the age of 60 find it hard to believe that I can change things at such a later stage of life
I would love to have the same reaction that some of the others have posted on your blog, but I think I need a little brainwashing too 
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Reply from Morty:
Hi Eileen,
I suggest you get rid of the belief, Change is difficult. It is never too late to change.
We have successfully worked with people in their 80s who have eliminated beliefs and made major changes in their lives.
Regards, Morty
It is so refreshing to be offered an opportunity to learn about cause and effect. We are the producers of our lives, and you my friend have really hammered this point home. It feels wonderful to know that Me and only Me can write my own life script and succeed without needing the approval of others. Thanks Morty for your amazing insights into the human condition…Dom
Wow, I was blown away at the simplicity and power of the program. There was a point in the material when I felt a tingle and clarity and felt almost serene at the same time. It’s hard to explain but I feel like something just opened up and made me see the light. I know it sounds weird but it was amazing. Thank you for your program. You are a great uncle!
What an amazing program!!! How I would have benefitted if I had an “uncle morty” living acroos the street as a child. lol! You and your teachings are a gift from source and the world will be a better place as more people hear this pwerful message. Thank you for offering this program for free. These are tough economic times but ironically this is also the time when limiting beliefs need to be banished, the most. Be blessed in every way Morty and keep sharing your truth!!!
Velvet
Morty, this process is amazing and a blessing to the world. You are amazing and a blessing to the world, as well. Thank you, so much for sharing your creation with all of us. I have sent the link on to many and will continue to share it daily. It is wonderful to feel that I am really “good enough”. Thank you, again. Sharon from Ageless-sages.com.
Hi,
You know, I started working on myself about 3 years ago. Took a course called go into action to better your life. Following that, I tried several beleif busting methods. I did the Sedona method for a while with some successes but I could not apply it to every thing. Read choose to beleive by Alan Tutt, great book, but some of the beleifs I was not even aware of. I even got a beleif buster meditation and it’s a great tool, you just have to figure out what beleif you want to change and into what. Now I don’t feel I have to change any beleif since, with your program, I can just get rid of them, quickly and easily.
Thanks so much for sharing that with the world. I will be forever grateful to you for the help.
Bless you, yours and every single person you help,
Martyne
Hi Morty,
What a liberating, ‘I’ opening experience. I felt and still feel the shift and can’t believe that it happened within a space of 30 min. even some of the twists in my neck and back have disappated. what a relief. Bless you Morty. Can’t wait to share with my daughters and friends. kindest regards, tons of blessings. Merle. Paarl, South Africa
WOW!! I’ve tried reframing many incidents from my childhood and did not have much, any, success. How you helped me get to this new wonderful feeling of me is awesome. I’ve hidden me fro myself for so long, I didn’t realize what I was doing anymore. It was so easy and so lightening! I am so blessed to find you. Thanks. DK
Morty: Thank you for sharing enough of your program to really make a difference in peoples’ lives (at no cost), instead of presenting just a teaser with an advertisement. In doing so, you’ve made many people want to share this with others and you will get great word-of-mouth advertising, for sure! I have one concern about sharing… I have a few friends who were severely neglected and repeatedly abused sexually and/or physically when they were very young. I wonder if it is wise to pass this on to them? Should they only try to bring up such horrible memories in professional counseling? Also, a personal question… I have physical limitations and chronic pain (two disabiling conditions), which came to mind when you asked if I felt any limitations. How do I get over that? Thank you and God Bless! You are not good enough–you are just plain AWESOME!!! Kathryn
I did the excercise and I felt like it worked -the first half- as I did the second half I felt sort of like other limiting beliefs were bubbling up and messing with the process: as if I have a limiting belief that I can get rid of limiting beliefs which got me a little upset. What can I do??
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hi Jamie,
You might well have the belief Change is difficult. And you probably have a bunch of other beliefs that came up for you. Over the years I’ve eliminated a couple of hundred, although I started seeing major changes in my life after only about 20.
Regards, Morty
As a child I as was told at least 5 to 10 times a day “your not good enough. You are useless and worthless” in a very angry way by a stepfather I desperately wanted to love me, even though he acted like he hated me. I thought if I agreed with him he might love me. He never showed me love. He showed he hated me. I took on these beliefs. I did not need to interpret anything. They were very clear statements. He also beat me. After doing your process I still feel I’m not good enough. I wonder if you can help me?
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Hi Lawrence,
Even if someone says “You’re not good enough; you’re worthless,” you are still forming an interpretation because one interpretation is my stepfather is right, the other is my stepfather is wrong. The other is my stepfather is an angry bitter man who doesn’t really mean what he says. No matter what you see and hear, meanings are always in our minds.
You probably still have the belief because you still think you could “see” I’m not good enough. You can’t see that, even if you see someone saying it. As soon as you get that you didn’t see it, and that your stepfather’s comments and behavior have no inherent meaning, the belief will be gone.
Regards, Morty
I had been exposed to this information before but the way it was presented here moved it from the brain to the heart. Very effective. You are a wonderful teacher.
I tried working with the closest belief that resonated: Mistakes and failure are bad. But while doing the exercise I realized that was not my belief at all. My belief was (is) that making mistakes or failing will get me in trouble. And that belief was based not on meaning I gave to my parents’ behavior but on the fact it was true – making mistakes got me in trouble. It wasn’t a belief, it was reality. I was punished, or yelled at, or laughed at, or isolated, or faced other unpleasnt consequences. School and the work world operated often enough on the same principle. It’s not that making mistakes is BAD (whatever that means) but that making mistakes will result in unpleasant consequences. Even as a small child, I recognized I had done nothing more than make a mistake and that my parents’ or teachers’ response was often inappropriate. But I suffered nonetheless. Your approach doesn’t seem to address issues at this level.
I have intellectually understood this before today, but the way that Morty takes us through the reality of the “I am” who still remains in spite of a busted belief really allowed the distinction to free me (Interpreter) from me (Interpretation). Thank you for such a life changing illumination. Eureka!
Hi Morty
None of the 3 questions you asked me to choose from were my beliefs, so I chose the one which was least untrue. I’ve been working on remaking myself in my own image for a long time and know my own true worth.
I’m still left with believing – and telling others – that the reason I’m not getting where I want to go, commercially and financially, is that I’m not a good marketer. What I do (I’m an author, public speaker and educator) is wonderful, useful, and constantly praised by others, once they’re exposed to it. But of course if I’m not ‘out there’ people don’t know.
I’m not sure if it’s really that I feel I shouldn’t have to market myself. I certainly would prefer to spend all my time doing what I do so well.
So, do you have a way around this. Is it just that I don’t want to
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Hi Beryl,
It’s hard to tell from your post what beliefs you might have that are in the way. You may believe that business/making money is dirty or not spiritual. You may have the most common belief, I’m not good enough, even though intellectually you know you are. The problem could be traced to any number of beliefs, and there probably are more than one.
Regards, Morty
Almost 60, and I now know,as a man thinketh in his heart so is he.Creator to Creator,thank you.
I know now after 59 years of living,what God meant when He said “As a man thinketh in his heart so is he” A revelation, I thank you as a creator.
Thank you, You are sincere in helping others to overcome their belief problems.
I have search all through the nets, most of them are money making.
I appreciate your help. Through the sincerity of your work you are helping the world too.
Now I realised the impact of my belief system. Thank you for removing me out from my cocoon.
May the Almighty Creator blessed you and family for sharing this knowledge with us.
Morty,
It is amazing!… I had tried the three videos. When I practiced the “I am not important”, I was crying and my heart feel burned. After that process, I feel very very happy. I can smile and laugh deep from my heart. It is difficult to do before. Two days later, when I experience a moment that usually made me angry, I was not angry!.. I feel balance and peace. I am also getting more convidence. My problem before are feeling fear to do something, feeling that people didn’t want to hear my explanation, feeling my ‘small child’ couldn’t getting mature. Now, I am very surprised that the prosess is very simple and fast. You are right, now I can look many perspective and opportunities that I can not see before. The important thing for me is I am the way I am. So, I feel the world is peaceful!
Thank you so much Morty!… I have send the video to my friends.
A splendid easy way to improve one’s life. I have gone through three Avatar courses which have helped immensely, but this is very simple and fast and effective.
video stopped after 22 minutes and wouldnt play….
I do wish I had Uncle Morty living next door to me as well when i was younger!
What a difference It would have made to me in my life…
Glad to make your aquaintance now, You’ve helped me feel from guilt-ridden to guilt-free!
Thanks again, your program is enlightening and much more!!!!!
Clare
Morty, I did your process for ‘mistakes and failure are bad’. While I was not able to get clear pictures and words for those events in my past which contributed to my belief (above) I do feel lighter and more expanded in my options. I’m going to chat with a friend who has purchased one of the your CD products some years back. Thanks for offering a substanitive exercise/process for free!! Jeff
Wow, I wish you had been my Uncle Morty living across the street when I was a child, how different my life would look today. Thanks so much for sharing this and I will definitely be looking for more and will share with family and friends. Although your concepts were already known to me, you took it from the intellectual level and allowed me to have that aha moment. I feel like a blockage has been removed. Brilliant!
Paula
That was brilliant…I continually work on my self limiting beliefs, but this has brought a deeper understanding to how we give power to our limiting beliefs. Thanks so much.
Mary
Thank you Morty… Having spent thousands of Euro’s in trainngs such as NLP, I feel impressed with your method. I do experience a change in my beliefsystem. I truely like eto help you spead your work; luck is multiplied by sharing it.
With an attitude of grattitude,
Edward (Holland)
Hi Edward,
Thanks for your offer to get our work out into the world. Our goal is to have at least one million people eliminate at least one belief and experience themselves as the creator of their lives. Any suggestions are welcome.
Regards, Morty
Hi,
I really enjoyed getting rid of “i’m not good enough”.
I forwarded the link to 5 paople to get the free E book. When I tried to download it, the file said it was corrupted and could not be repaired.
I would still like the free E book. Please forward it to the above e-mail address.
Thanks
Hi Scott,
Sorry you had a problem. Thanks so much for telling your friends about our site where they can eliminate a crippling belief for free. We’ve just you a sent a link to the free copy of my book.
Regards, Morty
I don’t know how you did it. I know all of this stuff, yet maybe for the first time I really GOT IT. I really see that I am the creator in a much more profound way than I achieved after spending 2300 dollars for nine days of the Avatar course, which is about this same kind of thing.
I read your story and got to try out your free limiting belief. I did “I’m not good enough.” The question I have is that because of my short term memory from a car accident, I don’t remember when I was young. I can kind of remember how I’m treated now since my accident. Which the phrase fits. So I was going by now instead of when I was young. Does that make a difference? Even though my family makes me feel like that, I truly tell myself they are not going to put me down. I have come too far from where I was and where I am today!! Yes, it hurts, but I have to keep trying to go on with my head high. Thank you for your story to keep me going. Anna
Hi Anna,
The process will work even if you can’t remember exactly what happened when you were a child if you have a sense of what happened, based on knowing how your parents are today, or the way they treated siblings, or what people tell you about your childhood.
If you still feel not good enough around your family it is only because you still have the belief. When the belief is eliminated, you will no longer feel that way around your family.
Regards, Morty
Thank you for sharing your program. It is good to find right help. Keep up the good work and thank you for helping to understand it.
Love & Peace
Ewa
Poland
thanks is the first time im processing in my mind the information but realy is a pure reasoning is like mathematics reasoning cause and effect thanks feel and think
Morty,
Your process has changed my life. Completely. I went from unconsciously isolating myself to a more relaxed and outgoing individual. I never would have thought that these negative beliefs could have had such an effect on me. The past year I have used this process to transform my life. I used to describe my face as feeling frozen. I thought that since I didn’t talk a lot, the feeling was due to a lack of use. As I have eliminated beliefs and become more in touch with my present self, I have unthawed to a sensation I have not felt in years. The process allowed me to see that I AM the creator of my life, and with that the possibilities are endless. Life is so much more enjoyable.
Thank you,
Erik Hyland
Hello Morty,
Thank you for sharing this process. It is refreshing to find valuable help that is totally free to use and not just a teaser.
There seems to be great emphasis on generating wealth in the culture of your country and many others and it seems to me that people are often judged by their material possessions. I still find it rather sad that many “spiritual teachers” who are in a position to uplift humanity do so only at a price.
Perhaps the current financial stress the world is facing is a result of the belief system that our worth is tied up to what we have accumulated rather than what we have offered in service to others and our growth as spiritual beings?
Keep up the good work and thank you for helping me to release my issues with self worth. Perhaps now I have found a tool to help me become all that I can be.
Mary
Many thanks for your program on releasing limiting beliefs. I tried the “I’m not good enough” program – I recognized my belief came from my childhood but it’s based not only on my granny’s behaviour (my mother and father rejected me when I was born) – she was constantly humiliating me before others as if I was not worthy of anything and so on… but she actually told me they didn’t want me to be born!! she actually told me that even a few months ago, a few days before she died. What I understood from your program is that it’s not my fault being born and I know I am doing and I have always done many great and good things helping animals and people as much as I could. So I now understand that I must simply recognize my parents’ and grandparents’ incapability of loving me as their own mistake and fault. I’m not responsible at all and I just have to learn completely to let that feeling of wanting my granny’s love go forever.
THANX!….went from a loud, angry “i’m not good enough!” voice to a soft, gentle whisper…..
Morty, I had to run through the belief section one more time, to ‘feel’ that it is gone. I’ve done quite a bit of work in recognizing myself as Creator of my life, and this somehow accentuated it. The sense and feeling of not being good enough has haunted me all my life, now it’s gone. How light I am feeling now! Great stuff! Thank you.
I have been hitting the self help books, tapes, internet, etc., again for about 2 weeks. They all make sense, but I am still searching for the one that will make me go ahead and be successful like I know I could. Something always tells me to wait, not ready yet, will get critisism, will fail after starting,I’ll really start tomorow, etc. Thirty minutes with you made me feel like I am allowed to be number one like I always knew I could be. Thank you.
Thank you! I’ve read and considered the concept of creating my own world many many times but this is the first time I’ve actually experienced and felt it at my core. As you point out, it is one thing to know something intellectually and another to actually feel it and fully believe it. Thank you so much. This was truly a positive life changing experience. I will pass it on to all of my friends. I wish you every happiness and continued success.
Hello Morty,
Thanks! But I tried to send you 3 names and addresses
and got the message back that the email addresses are
not valid. Yes they are. I double checked. Don’t know
how to get past the pop-up to continue.
Pleasse check out what I sent and let me know.Thanks!
I am almost stunned about this experience; having been through years of therapy, and spiritual studies, even knowing that I am the creator of my beliefs…nothing has ever made me “feel” it and “know” it so fully… my mind was able to release an old pattern and replace it with truth so gracefully. Your work is truly amazing. You are a blessed teacher; thank you for providing this gift. Diana
Wow! I helped me greatly!
I thought i would get stuck in my failures for life! I now understand how I got into this by understanding what caused it. I will keep on thinking this way because it makes me feel really good! And being a mother of 4, this will help me explain to my children and sharing them as well how to become the best you want to be, by creating your own life in consciousness.
Thanks Morty and More power!
Jo
I started listening to the lesson with the “belief” that this is another pep talk. In reality, I found the lesson insightful and pivotal to my to personal freedom. Freedom from my old beliefs.
many Thanks
Cyrus
Thanks Morty (and Scott for linking it up)for the limit-busting ideas. I am excited to have this resource for personal growth. Who knows? With the limiting beliefs gone, ANYthing is possible. I am ready to use this method on other areas of my life where I have been “stuck”.
Morty – my own story felt similar to your own. Wow a real light bulb moment.
“I am a problem solver”
so what do I have in my life?
O lordy! And of course as I get better and more skillful at solving problems – the problems in my life just get bigger!
I’ve started your book – but right now it seems that I have knocked out a negative belief…so what’s left behind? Do I need to go through a belief installation now?
Anyhow…THANK YOU!
Alex
Hello Sir.
I am not sure if this is right place to ask my questions, but will sure try anyways. Smile
I am quite interested in learning more about what you are teaching and helping others with here..i noticed you have alot of video’s and audios to listen too.. that is great for others. As for me.I am Deaf, and will not benefit at all with those. Do you have any kind transcripts or something else i can learn from just as effectively? I appreciate
your readings.. want to learn more. Thank you very much. Have a good day.
Look forward to your response.
Sincerely,
Linda
Hi Morty,
Great stuff, I just clicked on this from the Finer Mind’s newsletter. It makes perfect sense and your analogies are excellent to demonstrate what you are trying to say. I am no where near eliminating a belief in 30 mins., but you did give me some tools to start looking at why I formed my beliefs in the first place, which will be extremely helpful. I have read many times you must change your beliefs but not been given the tools to do so…imagining all other possible interpretations of an event I gave a negative meaning to is a great place to start. I am making a list to explore to start trying to change my beliefs as I have suffered from depression for a number of years. I am constantly assigning negative meaning to the behaviors of others. For example, when my husband constantly comes home late, I view it as he just doesn’t care enough to bother being on time not that he is being buried at work constantly. Last year I discovered he had an affair. As hard as that was to learn, it had a devastating affect on my own self worth. I am so unhappy due to my own self inflicted punishment because I feel no worth most of the time. I hope I can utilize this method to discover why I feel this way and if successful perhaps I will proceed with some of your other offerings. I commend you for offering this free of charge, I have spent so much money on counselors, LOA stuff,meditation gurus, channelers, psychiatrists and medications and in most people’s eyes I have no reason to be unhappy. I am so blessed to have 2 beautiful healthy children, and not to be hungry, have shelter, pets, a car to drive, and an education. None of which I feel worthy of having, especially my two sons. I am so lucky (although I did work hard for my degree, although it barely provides a living). So many others have nothing and have so much happiness, I want so much to enjoy what life I have left, especially if I can be a positive influence on my own children. I love the parenting messages in this free method you have offered here…I am going to remind my children anytime they get into trouble not to read anything more into it than for what it is. They already have my unquestionable affection and love but they still get into trouble. Anyway, thanks for listening and asking for feedback, I will let you know further developments if I manage to make some progress with your methods. With having our own free will it is a wonder why we would invite such negative meanings into our lives to define us. That’s just crazy. Yet here we are.
Thanks, Morty! I experienced a shift both times, for 2 separate beliefs. This could change our whole world! I’m eager to find out how I can help you make this difference. I’ve already sent the link to many of my friends. Thanks for sharing your wisdom.
Elena Michaelson
Thank you so much for this information. I now have the belief that anything is possible for me.
Morty,
This was sent to me by another old friend (I’ve known her since 1962), Donna Steinhorn. Beautifully done. I’m glad to see you’re still around and kicking, as sharp and clear as ever, and still contributing to people. If you get some time, please get in touch with me. I’ve made some amazing breakthroughs in understanding how the brain works and have found that understanding to hold tremendous value in many areas that can and will make big contributions to the quality of life for people.
Best Regards,
Gene Dolgoff
Marty, I just completed the I am not good enough program and I have to say that I feel amazing. I feel empowered, peaceful and free, what a great feeling. That you so much for sharing your program with the rest of us. I am excited to receive more information from you and hopefully clear many more beliefs that I hold that no longer serve me. Once again Thank you.
Sandy
I feel diferent already. although I didn’t manage to do all the steps aloud as I got company half way through .I feel the need of going through the all process again to ensure total sucess.
thank you ever so much
Dear Morty!
Thank you so very much!
Everything you sad feels and is very very true and I really want to know more about my self…
I am very greatful for your generosity…
Love, light & Peace
Thank You Uncle Morty!
I have known most of my life that what I felt was empowered by my own mind but I was not sure how to go about re-programming my thoughts. I cannot thank you enough for this experience. I will be sharing this with others!
I have worked with eliminating limiting beliefs before, but never this effectively and this fast! This method is the most efficient and sure way to eliminate crippling beliefs on one’s own. I’m looking forward to working with it more, but best of all, I recognize that I’m the creator, and not to attach meaning to the actions of others. I hope that many more people will have the opportunity to experience this.
This has given me a wonderful sense of certitude and a newfound sense of gratitude.
!!
It is indeed an awakening. Thank you so much
Not being around was not the issue. Try being beaten with a red plastic belt on a back which was so sunburned that it had 3 huge blisters covering the lot, after being sent off at 5 years age for 6 weeks with people who had a record of pinching pieces of flesh out of my arms and legs. At 4 years of age I wished truly to kill myself as I could not take it but did not want to hurt my parents and make them sad.
What about being told I was mad—IQ 200 –and being the child at the meal table every meal who was ridiculed, and ridiculed in front of others and boyfriend at 18, and friends as a rake thin teenager . Kids had a new term for me, match stick legs, or match sticks. Even as an adult successful, beautiful, bringing the surgeon I was going to marry home to meet them all, they behaved that I was unworthy, sister groped him, and overall put me down in front of him. I DID not make this up. He was appalled, he did not like them, and said we could not marry. They said he would never have married me anyway, I was not good looking, clever or wealthy enough. All of those things were in fact absolutely wrong. I have their pictures NOT your words to deal with. The issue is pictures more than words mate.
That was awesome. Thanks for sharing w/us. I didn’t even relaize I had such a negative belief about myself that was slowing me down, but you got right to the bottom of it and now its gone. thank you!
Around the 28 minute mark I paused the video and sat with a feeling of stillness and expansion. I hope the feeling lasts.
Well Morty, I never thought that today I would sitting here and feel like this life was a really and truly brand new day. Just the awareness that I was living as my creation has transformed my whole thinking process. When I heard the first revelation you had on your plane trip to CA, it just resonated and clung to my own cells. Yes my very cellular structure heard that and the old belief disconnected immediately from me and absolutely slipped away, it just slipped away!!!!!
I had the same “I’ll never give up” attitude. Yes I identify with you, yes I see myself as entrapped in the struggle to prove to everyone how strong and determined I was. I struggled, as a form of badge. Listen to my past tense …. can you believe it? Ofcourse you can! This is amazing stuff. I am important enough to myself to change every limiting belief about importance, finances and relationships. Wow!
Thank you Morty for your amazing insight and your generosity to share it with me.
It would be useful to know what the time investment would be prior to completing this exercise.
Thank you! It’s like a heavy weight has been lifted off my shoulder’s. I can breathe easy now. Such relief!
I was blown away! It was as if a great burden had been removed from me. All of these years…and it took about 40 minutes to get rid of, “I’m not important!” It’s amazing! The next day at work, I was walking with a new walk; there was something bold and commanding in my speech. You have got to try this!
Thank you Morty,
My first contact with your method makes me feel good, Yes I am the creator of my beliefs, good or bad. Actually I would like to learn how to eliminate completely my bad beliefs and create and dwell on the good one. In one word how can I constantly focus on what I want instead of the lack of what I want.
Jean
I am a 4th grade teacher and would like to help some of my students using your methods. Do you think there is a way for me to adapt
your methods to help improve the attitudes of my class?
Well, I started this after referral from my business coach and as a former therapist – 25 years worth – and many years of working on ‘myself’ I am in awe of this process and can only say I am truly grateful for this experience. What immediate and remarkable this process is!!! THANK YOU for sharing it with me and others. I AM NOT THE SUM TOTAL OF MY THOUGHTS, BELIEFS, FEELINGS or ACTIONS. Yippee do dah! Have a wonderful day and life!
I have been through the fist 5 elimination of beliefs and I am doing so at the 2 a day pace. Is there any advantage to going at a faster pace??
Thank you – Nick
Morty, never mind, I saw in one of the other comments that I can use the events I think are the source and it should work. Thanks for all you do!
Hi Morty,
I’ve gotten stuck on “I’ll never get what I want.” I know I have this belief, but I can’t remember any times in childhood that fit the belief. I can remember times from my teenage years that would fit. Would these work?
I am skeptical though I sense there is a germ of utility here, especially re-framing childhood beliefs by noticing
“alternate explanations” of events. In any event, a thorough reading of Albert Ellis and/or Maxie Maultsby will produce the same results at a far more affordable price. I respect your attempts to monetize your “method” but being realistic
is also an important component of being “rational”. Thanks.
Tabitha, When the program helps people find the source of a belief, I assume “the best” circumstances. Obviously in many cases there is abuse of various types. You don’t have to imagine parental love. But there are still a lot of other interpretations other than I’m not good enough or I’m not loveable (and other possible beliefs that could come from abuse) … such as My parents didn’t think I was good enough, but they were wrong. Maybe my parents didn’t love me, that doesn’t mean I’m not loveable. It even could mean that on some level they did love you and their beliefs led them to act the way they did. Regardless of how badly your parents treated you, there is still no inherent meaning in their behavior. You still don’t know anything for sure about who you really are based on how your parents treated you.
I am going through the program Morty and one of the things you often say is, “Your parents loved you.” What about people who have been physically, emotionally or sexually abused, would the process work as well for them? I couldn’t see them thinking that their parents loved them at all. I can see that we interpret our situation and getting through that part, but the parents loving you aspect would really be something that would not congruent for them, I would think. I have a lot of emotional abuse and am having trouble with believing parental love, I cannot even imagine the other factors being dealt with.
Just some thoughts.
I went through one of the processes of TLM and was a little let down because I didn’t feel to much of a shift. But I tried another one and that was what I needed. It blew me away!! I have used EFT for a while and read as much as I could on LOA. Both have helped but since my mind-chatter was always in evidence I always got in my own way. The freebie erased a lot of doubts.
I thought that I should wait until I have the money to pay for the program then thought, well if I got rid of some of my doubts maybe I would see myself out of my current situation instead of relying on my old habitual thoughts. A couple of years or more worth of therapy knocked out in an afternoon? I am for it.
Morty I love you! Thank you so much for this program it feels like I finally got the answer to a long awaited prayer.
Just this morning before finding out about your program I was crying and down because I just couldn’t get past behaviours and beliefs that have been holding me back for YEARS no matter how I tried. Within a matter of hours I was led to this page through a series of links and after working through only two of the limiting beliefs and the who are you really program, I can already feel a major shift in what I feel is possible in my life. I am very interested and excited to know how my life will change once I’ve completed the entire program.
Since doing the Natural Confidence program late last year i have been amazed at how much more easily – even effortlessly – i am attracting opportunities and good things into my life. Thank you Morty also for making the Bust Your Money Beliefs available – I look forward to seeing how this program enhances the transformation already begun. Thank you for all your wonderful work.
I was getting very frustated,i have a good understanding about beliefs,i have read many books,and articles
still couldnt manage to shift my beliefs, this program..i could actually feel the changes deep within
and when i look at my dad at a specific memory….instead of feeling…im not good enough…im laughing…
At last..Morty im thanking spirit who have led me to your site…Thanks so much …keep up the good work
Morty,
I have to tell you that you really broke something open for me
when you shared your story about creating obstacles for yourself,
because you thought your value was in how hard you could work to
overcome those obstacles. Listening to you was a major “Aha!” moment
for me – I realized I had been doing the same thing!
I’ve experience enormous and recurring relief, knowing that I don’t ever
have to struggle again, and I’m perfectly worthwhile. Opportunities that
I have been wanting for a long time have come pouring through the door
since
that “Aha!” moment…so thank you for putting your material out into
the world!
Best to you,
Carey
Dear Morty,
This was truly an amazing experience. I have limiting beliefs about money in my life so I sustituted that belief in the I’m not good enough program. I truly feel a sense of relief and empowerment and know that my father’s reactions concerning money had nothing to do with me. thank you, thank you, thank you.
Natalie
Morty! Thank you so much! I did the “mistakes and failure are bad” and was shocked at first with how much emotion it brought up and then again at the release of the same. I’ve tried lots of positive motivational stuff over the years but your techniques seem to get at the root causes… Can’t wait to get into the money bits.. but already feel “enlightened” to move forward on taking some actions that will help overcome some money issues.
can’t thank you enough.. and Alex M. for referring me
Thanks,
serd
Fantastic, Morty,
After a couple of releasing sessions (reality checks), I feel myself beginning to shake off this albatross of a life I have falsely created and lived for 60 years.
Now I can accomplish a totally fulfilling creation of loving and appreciating my family, friends and surroundings while touching others’ lives with your wisdom.
I can’t thank you and your brainstorming associates enough!
May God continue to bless your efforts,
GGHart
It’s funny, you can read about this stuff all day long. “Seven Habits of Highly Effective People”, “Who Moved My Cheese” and other self-improvement books can tell you about it, but this is the first time I’ve ever experienced something powerful and life changing. Isn’t is strange how the smallest ideas can be so profound. It’s our perception of things that limit what we achieve. Great insight. Thank you.
Morty!
You are right on the money! I’ve been using this in my own life for about 16 years, and it certainly does work! Now I’m using it with my clients. They are amazed at the results! Thank you for taking the time to create a specific process.
thank you morty! it feels good to know something that i didn’t know was limiting my capacity to do greater things. i feel that i now possess a powerful tool to help others like me who dont know that they have limiting beliefs. i feel and know now that its not enough to teach people to know and understand that they have limiting beliefs but, it helps that they experience it just like i did with your video tutorial… and let them decide for themselves.
thank you again for sharing this with me. and kudos to mr. alex mandossian for bringing me to your website!
Great stuff, achieved a strong shift and more empowered from the creator distinct from creation that is meaning given to meaningless events argument. working as a hypnotherapist and nlp practitioner feel that these methods have tremendous potential to create positive change and healing. thank you.
Hi Petra, Virtually any child with your childhood experiences would have come up with the same belief, I'm not good enough. In fact, most people in the world have come up with that belief as a result of having similar childhood experiences. I'm not good enough is a perfectly valid interpretation of your childhood. Glad you found the program useful. Regards, Morty
Thank you for this amazing program. I am now torn between "I am good enough" and "I must be a pretty lousy creator of my life if I created a profound belief like 'I'm not good enough' for myself." I'm curious about how these feelings will evolve over the next couple of days.
The video definitely had immediate impact on my life. I am the creator of my life. I do believe in me. The video helped me to understand that the believe was lingering around. I was not depresed but highly disappointed and could get motivated or focus again. It definitiely renewed my energy and aloow me to take a look at myself differently. Do let the situation(s) define you.
when you don't believe in yourself,disappointed,with no friends,totally isolated,well,it is like to make an eternal…pit-stop,while the others go and you are frustrated,…no job and,well..i don't know the effects of the video on my life,but i am the..creator of my life,this is sure.thanks for now,from Italy,dear old Europe.
yes it was amazing….i can feel the shift happening…already……not the sculpture but the Sculptor………thank you……thank you for making it so lucid……
I am crying as this SHIFT takes over me. Thank you.
I see how I am the interpreter.
Note: to the :widow"- you believe that because you are a widow you cannot afford this but, if you changed the belief to "I can afford this program saving up and even selling something." You will be able to save and buy this program.
God bless.
Wow I had never thought of Never Giving Up…and Over Comming Obstcales was giving me just what I was asking for???!!!!I I am exicited for the whats next to shift my pardigm..and move past my old limiting Belief which I had told me was one of my strengths…No wonder I am getting so exhausted …..
Dear morty,
when coming to eliminate the 5th belief i found 2 things i think are worthy of improvement as i didn't feel succesful in eliminating this belif as i did in the previous first 4. You should specify if the negative feelings and positive dids i did which my parents liked should be of the same topic, i got that impression in the second part of the program. When you start the second phase, saying :" look at the events you had written down" it would help to direct us specifically on the positive events as i understood only later in the process and was quite confused in the begining, trying to think of the events that made me feel the negative feelings.
Possibiity number 2 isn't 100% true for me. Although it's logical, for me even if a stranger or someone i don't like think well of me it would mean something, possibly not as strong as if it would come from someone close but still it would definitly have meaning for me and effect me.
Thanks again,
Achihood
P.S
When are you putting online a program for eliminating money beliefs?
One of the free exercises brought tears. What profound relief! Thank you, Morty. This entire subject of beliefs seems enormous to me. Clearly, it's quite important to question and be aware of what it is one actually believes! Further, if a belief isn't constructive, or doesn't help me or others, what on earth is the point of hanging onto it? Not long ago, I watched Ralph Nader give a talk broadcast on C-Span in which he said that, as a young boy when he'd come home from school, his father would ask him, "Did they teach you to think, or believe?" I've pondered that quite a bit since… My guess is that many people have been as unaware of the power of beliefs as I've been and. Morty, if that guess has any accuracy in it, to answer your question about spreading the word to a larger audience with the intention of elevating awareness, I'd suggest taking the whole subject of the power of beliefs to the Oprah Winfrey tv show. That would be a tv show I'd love to see.
Hi Shelly, Hi Morty, Hi all,
Since I have very little return from just saying the belief and then listen to any gut feeling I use muscel testing. It's a technique that some people will know and that allows one to check if some statement is congruent with our unconscient database. If the statement is congruent than a pressure exerted on a muscle (often the shoulder muscle when someone presses on the stretched out arm) will not make it weaken. If the muscle reacts by a strong reaction (no weakening) the statement can be considered as true for the system (mind-body). If you say the statement and it does not correspond to any recorded belief in the subconscient then this will generate a stress reaction in the body and in particular in the tested muscle that will cause it to have a weak reaction (the tester can press down the arm of the tested).
I suspect your "say-out-loud"-technique can have different results : normally if the belief (even a negative one) is coherent with the recorded beliefs in the subconscient there should be no stress reaction in the muscles, because the statement is true for the mind-body system. I guess that's why I rarely feel anything when I say the belief out loud. No subtle stress in the body, because the statement is coherent with my beliefs. And when I muscle test it I get strong reactions, which means true. I think there may be a confusion then for people at the end of the process, because when they have eliminated the belief and they say it out loud, it no longer is coherent with their belief database, which can then cause some stress and weakening in the body. What may cause people to think the process didn't work for them and they still hold the belief, while actually this stress and weakening is the proof the belief is eliminated.
Ouf course sometimes a phrase can touch us at another emotional level and we may start to cry right on, than it is very obvious of course, but as many people don't realize they have these negative beliefs I suspect they will seldom have very clear emotional answers.
For those who might be interested in muscle testing as a way to get clearer feedback before and after the Lefkoe process, know that it is possible to learn to muscle test oneself (there even exists a quite cheap device to muscle test oneself : http://www.myodynometer.com/)
Note also that there exists a simple technique to integrate desired beliefs in the mind : http://www.psych-k.com/
I now use the Lefkoe process to eliminate the negative beliefs, which I can verify through muscle testing as efficient. I noticed on the other hand that eliminating the negative belief, does not mean that the possitive version of it (I'm not good enough-I'm good enough) will automatically test strong. The negative is gone and there seems to be a white page for the creator in us to choose our own new beliefs. If we don't we just have an absence of negative but isn't our role and power as creator to be clear about our creation ? So I then use the Psych-k technique to download or integrate the new beliefs that I choose.
I am curious about your feedback on these thoughts.
Gaëtan
Hi Morti,
what is the source of "i'm not a responsible person"?
is it because i belive that mistakes and failure is bad or i'm not good enough?
or any other limiting belief?
and how can i eliminate this one?
thanks,
very best regards
Evgeny
Not sure the source. Possibly your parents telling you that or asking you why you never do the things you say you're going to do. The source is not another belief, but meaningless events you gave that meaning to. You might have those other beliefs. The belief, I'm not a responsible person is not on any of the on-line programs, but we could help you get rid of it easily in a phone session. Call us at 415-884-0552 to find out more. Regards, Morty
Hey morty, Inlight of your last email. Ineed i wanted to tell you that just yesterday i reffered a friend from switzerland to your site (I'm from Israel), and also used your technique to help my mother who came home "deflated" from all of the shouting of her new boss that made her feel she's nothing and worthless. I managed to relief her pain by making her acknoledge where the feeling was coming from and minimize the effect this new boss had on her. She now feels much better. Thank you so much for allowing to make a change in my life and in other people's lives.
Your work is sacred. Keep it going.
Achihood
I really loved your program as I went through everything, very diligently. I felt really great for about a month. Unfortunately, the high did not last, as with so many other things I have tried..It feels as if I am pretty much back where I started but it is kind of hard to know for sure. I will give it some more time. I may try going through it all again when I have the time and see if that makes a difference.
Hi Ken, One of the side benefits of using The Lefkoe Method is that we understand that our parents do what they do because of their beliefs, which leads most of us to having compassion for our parents and forgiving them for their behavior (it was the best they could do given their beliefs). Regards, Morty
Morty, I just finished belief number 17. When you say that the belief is something that I had already attributed to an event I wonder at what point did I first do that. At what age do we start to draw these conclusions?
I'm not sure at what age we first form beliefs, but you can see significant differences in children's personalities and behavior at the age of two, so I suspect we have formed beleifs before that time. I suspect we give meaning to events even before language, in some emotional form. Then when we get language we put words on our feelings.
Hi. I've just worked through the first five beliefs of the program and got half way through the Who am I really? procedure. The thought that's going through my head right now is, "Is it REALLY possible to have everything I want?" and "Is it really possible to believe everything I need to believe in order to create everything I want?" Right now it seems like a huge task to do away with all the old beliefs and not a little bit scary. I think i've got a lot of resistance to the idea that anything is possible. The power of it scares me too!!!
The "creation" called Steve has a lot of resistance, the creator of that creation has no resistance. In other words, the resistance is nothing more than beliefs. Get rid of the limiting beliefs and the resistance will disappear. And …. it's OK to be scared.
Hi. I've just worked through the first five beliefs of the program and got half way through the Who am I really? procedure. The thought that's going through my head right now is, "Is it REALLY possible to have everything I want?" and "Is it really possible to believe everything I need to believe in order to create everything I want?" Right now it seems like a huge task to do away with all the old beliefs and not a little bit scary. I think i've got a lot of resistance to the idea that anything is possible. The power of it scares me too!!!
Thanks, Morty, Yesterday,I busted the belief that has weighed me down all of my life, that I am unworthy. I actually feel different. Like, I don't have to deal with that one anymore. Today, I was at 6:04 on the last page of "mistakes and failure are bad" and the site stopped going…..help.
If someone enters a room and purposely dosen't speak to me–>he wanted to offend me by talking
to everyone else but me. Dosen't it mean that there is an inherent meaning to his behaviour ?
Yes he's ignorant and probably trying to be machiavellian (which works until people know what it is)
Hi Mussa, In the first place, if someone doesn't talk to you that doesn't necessarily men you were purposefully ignored. That is already an interpretation. Secondly, even if you were purposefully ignored, that behavior could have many different interpretations, such as: he doesn't like you, he was upset and didn't want to talk to anyone at that moment, he thought you didn't like him and didn't want to be yelled at. Being ignored doesn't not inherently mean someone wanted to offend you, even though that might be the meaning a lot of people would give that behavior.
Hi Jo, I'm thrilled you found our program life changing. That was our intention. We don't yet have an on-line program dealing with money beliefs, but we'd be happy to work with you in one-on-one sessions where we can help you find your specific limiting money beliefs, and then get rid of them. The price is $200 per hour. Call us at 415-884-0552 to make an appointment or to get any specific questions answered. Regards, Morty
Hi Morty, thanks for making a program that works so effectively and quickly. I just finished the Natural Confidence program and by far it was the most life changing program I have done and I have done many over the last 20 years. I am interested and ready now to use this method to work on my money problems , will you give me more specifics on how I get started and of course the money end of it. Thanks again for helping me change my beliefs. : )
Interesting and very helpful to those who need the program and can afford it.
I do not speak English and it`s looks very interesting. If you will do a blog like this in Hebrew I will be happy (: -thanks!
I think that listening to your program is the best thing that happened to me . I suddenly realized that I am important and first time in my life understood I understand inside me not to believe in my interprations. Your way of explaining is wonderful, and I wish I would have come accross it earlier in my life
Wow! I just had an "aha moment" after years of self-help programs and therapy I just realized why my dad behaved the way he did and it had nothing to do with me. How empowering – I feel free! And I feel for my dad having to live with his limiting belief for his entire life. Thanks.
I liked the idea of being a conciousness (a creator) on which the beliefs, thoughts and feelings show up. The association I had is watching the incidents in my life as if I am watching T.V. When watching T.V. we are fully absorbed in what is going on on the screen, but once the program ends , we return to"reality". I can distinguish between the "false" reality on T.V. and the "true" reality of my life. And actually what you suggest is distiguishing between the "false" reality that we created with our beliefs, thoughts, feelings and actions and the "true" nature of who we really are.__Now the popular expression " You create your own reality" makes much more sense to me. Thanks __Clara
Dear Morty, Thank you so much for the free taste. I know how valuable this information is. I really stuck with I am the consciousness that holds the thoughts, beliefs, ego, etc. I am working with I am not what I do to shift that limiting belief. This is so valuable, especially in these challenging times of change.
Hi Ralf, I know about Sedona but not enough to know how it is similar and different. It seems like it does something different, but I'm not really sure. Regarding your comment, getting rid of one belief might produce a "euphoric daze for about an hour." Getting rid of a bunch of beliefs and conditionings will produce a permanent change in behavior and feelings. Regards, Morty
I tried the freebie course and thought it was wonderful. I really did feel a million times better, a sort of euphoric daze for around an hour.
I wanted to ask Morty if he considers the Sedona Method a worthy companion to this technique or if maybe they are pushing against each other
Hi, this was sort of my own question as well. It really felt like a challenge to really eliminate my belief that I'm not important. Even while taking a break and repeating the last part, I still felt so much anger and I realized how important this belief (and especially the anger!) has been my whole life influencing my self-destructive behaviour (like smoking). It felt like my emotions stopped me from really listening to your words, but I just went on and on pausing and repeating till I felt something somehow HAD changed.
I just finished now, and I hope it works out the way it was meant to, I can't imagine, but I have a profound trust in this method so I'll just wait and see…
I found your words very helpful, thank you.
I am going to try the entire program, in just a few days.
Thanks again,
Mussa.
Or, in response if I may, I know a couple of people with physical disabilities/limitations and while they may be unable(physically) to carry out some tasks that a fully able-bodied person may, they are beautiful worthwhile people who are good enough as people and know it – they have a sense of their own worth, confidence, and can even achieve physical tasks most 'regular' people can't, and certainly people don't see their disability, but the person(ality) they are and have created. I also know a few people with physically alternative abilities that grumble, are cynical, defeatist, frightened, abrupt, and complain endlessly – and since the both kinds are physically 'disabled' it seems to me that there's a choice in how we deal with physical facts. I was diagnosed with severe dyslexia when I was young and there are certainly still some 'quirks' to my mental processing – I'll never be a rocket scientist or an astrophysicist and probably never be a quantum physicist or medical doctor and a few other things I'd like to achieve if I can, but that doesn't mean I'm any less good enough a person, less worthwhile or meaningful and valued than my doctor, journalist, opera singer, nurse, writer, banker, administrator, musician, friends. & colleagues. What's better – a physical limitation, or a mental/emotional one? Does one mean you are morally corrupt, spiritually contaminated, less good than the other? Aren't these all just concepts(beliefs) & labels we've chosen for ourselves? Ways we 'see' ourselves – even if we've been 'helped' to believe certain things about ourselves, that still doesn't make it any more true than if we'd picked it out of a hat. I don't know what your physical limitation(s) is, and I certainly don't want to be offensive, but the choice is yours.
With respect, were you not listening? 'God' didn't tell you anything of the sort – your concept of 'god' did. The concept you may have been helped to create. Having a 'feeling' about something is not proof of fact – otherwise we'd be living in a world populated by every monster under the bed or closet that anyone's ever been frightened of – and clearly since this is not true for me, it is not THE truth, but one you can choose if you want. Thanks Morty, the busting a limiting belief process was something I kind of knew somewhere deep inside, but needed to hear it and hear the logic confirmed step-by-step. Superb.
I actually do want to use the word "meaning.'' Events in the world have no inherent meaning, as I explain in the process itself. The emotion you feel following an event is a function of the meaning you have given the event. Change the meaning and the emotion changes.
You can eliminate beliefs even if you care what people think of you. Except some of your feelings might not change. My comment on someone else's blog post might be helpful to you:
The belief goes away in almost every case when you go through the entire process. The way to know the belief is gone is if the words have no emotion attached when you say them out loud after the process, if they sound sort of flat. Checking your feelings is not a way to see if the belief is gone. Because you might have other beliefs worth eliminating, such as I'm not capable, Nothing I do is good enough, etc., you still might not feel good about yourself. When those other beliefs are eliminated too, your sense of yourself, your feelings about yourself, will change drastically. All that always happens when a single belief is eliminated is that it is gone. And the way to check that is to only see if the words of the belief feel true.
You probably have a belief like, What makes me good enough or important is having people think well of me. That belief causes one to be concerned about what others think. That is one of the beliefs you will eliminate on the Natural Confidence course. Having that belief will affect your feelings; it will not keep other beliefs from being eliminated.
I'm not sure what you mean. The belief goes away in almost every case when you go through the entire process. The way to know the belief is gone is if the words have no emotion attached when you say them out loud after the process, if they sound sort of flat. Checking your feelings is not a way to see if the belief is gone. Because you might have other beliefs worth eliminating, such as I'm not capable, Nothing I do is good enough, etc., you still might not feel good about yourself. When those other beliefs are eliminated too, your sense of yourself, your feelings about yourself, will change drastically. All that always happens when a single belief is eliminated is that it is gone. And the way to check that is to only see if the words of the belief feel true.
i still have that belief, because i'm not good enough for your method, i think
I really want to try the whole program, but i couldn't totally eliminate the two trial beliefs. I always end up agreeing with you without really feeling that the statements are true. I understand that many interpretation can explain a situation ,but it doesn't change the feeling that is produced from what others think about me.For instance, if my father always ask me how my friends did in an exam that I failed , he thinks that I am not good enough, now i could imagine the scene again and say that he is plainly wrong, but it still feels bad that he thinks that way. Maybe I really care about what other think about me, and I cant eliminate other limiting beliefs as long as I care for what people think about me.
I agree completely. As a widow on a very limited pension That is a lot of money. Although that is how you are making a successful business.
Very powerful material! As I am sure my financial situation will change soon, I look forward to doing more of your course.
First I would like to complement the process which I just undertook and acknowledge the profound calming effect which it has had upon my psyche.
Next I would like to query whether "meaning," is quite the right word to define the exact concept you are communicating. One man can impart implicit meaning to another in a buisiness meeting for example. However the "emotion" of "not good enough to fulfill anothers wishes" seems more appropriate. Essentially I am suggesting that "emotion" is a better linguistical term than "meaning".
Sorry that you found it too wordy. This may not be the best way for you. And I have a question: Have any of the other courses, workshops, sessions, etc. ever guaranteed that you could eliminate a limiting belief permanently after a wordy 30 minute video? We have helped people who came to us after 20 years of personal growth work and therapy of various types and then told us after a few sessions that nothing they had done in 20 years had made such a profound difference in their lives. And I'm sorry it doesn't work for you.
It was very helpful that you gave us a free belief elimination experience. I'm read a lot of books at the last years , so it was easy for me to understand the deep meaning of " I creating my life" , so it was easy for me to do the program and to really belive that the program is work. But , when I sugget to use the progran ,for experience, to pepole I Know, part of them das'nt want because it is in english. I think that if the program is successful with people who know english , so it will success in Israel if it will be in Hebrew.
Morty:
Thank you so much for putting up this website and offering this process for free. It is very revealing. As an artist I thoroughly understood the sculptor versus the sculpture comparison. Also, I was amazed at listening to your story; like you, I have created obstacles to overcome to experience my worth. Unbelievable how easy you made this. This is an incredible blessing. I, personally, have been working on my survival strategies and self-esteem issues (for a while now) and you (for free) have given me a methodology that is highly effective. I experienced the *SHIFT* almost immediately. As in I am the interpreter, not the interpretation.
I cannot tell you how very happy I am to have discovered this method. I have already recommended your site to my daughter and I hope she follows through with it.
Thank you – and many blessings to you and yours.
Laurie J. Brenner
thank you very much Morty, it feels much lighter and free. genious!
Beth,
Getting rid of the belief that mistakes and failures are bad doesn't mean that no mistake or failure has bad consequences. It just means that mistakes and failures are not inherently bad. Most don't have terrible consequences such as your brother's which is horribly unfortunate. You can learn and grow from most mistakes.
Dear Morty. Thank you for engaging into the belief systems. I look forward to eliminating hindering beliefs and to learn from you!
Hi Mussa, From your description it seems as if the belief actually was eliminated. People respond to the process in different ways. Some people have a big "Ahh" after the process, others feel nothing. Some people have a difficult time with the process, some have an easy time. All that matters is that the words of the belief feel neutral. They feel flat. No emotion connected with the belief. When that happens, the belief is gone. How did it feel when you eliminated the second belief? Regards, Morty
thank you very much for your kindness and for your gifts. i will be happy to get rid off ' i will never be rich" belife if you have such my english is not so good so i may have troble explaine my self but as you told me o am shur i can express my self good inugu so you understand. regards
I dont feel the urge of doing it again, for I feel my life did change in a way. After writing the commet, i went to work , and surprisingly enough, I didn't feel as "not important" in situations that would make me feel that at work. In addition, in the training I waited in line, and reached the instrument last, but i didn't feel as "I am not important" because of it. I felt calm and in control all day. But when I do the process I tend to get confused, and emotional, sometimes I dont know what I feel.
Is it supposed to be simple and easy ? Does it mean I eliminated the belief, even though I feel stress in my chest after doing the process. ?
Thanks in advance.
I agree that there are a lot of other very useful techniques out there. I don't know any however that have produced such consistent results that they are willing to offer a life-time money-back guarantee that the problem caused by the beliefs will be TOTALLY gone and doesn't return. Maybe other methods offer that too, in which case there are a bunch of effective methods for you to choose from. I'm not claiming uniqueness, only effectiveness. Regards, Morty
Hi Mussa, Sorry you are having a problem eliminating a belief. Rarely is a belief formed from one incident only. Look for a pattern of events that led to the belief, such as mom and dad not being around a lot of the time and/or not being able to get their attention when they were around. Then do the process with that as the source.
Hi Yair, Try the tips I give in the process to handle not remembering details of your childhood. I don't either and I've been able to eliminate hundreds of beliefs. I tell you how to deal with this issue in the process. Regards, Morty
Hi Beth, You figured out what I was going to say. Certain mistakes can lead to disasterous consequences, but that doesn't necessarily mean that (all) mistakes and failure are bad. What we do it take one incident and generalize it into an all-encompassing belief. Then the belief affects the rest of our lives. People with this belief become afraid to try something new, because they really believe: Mistakes and failure are bad. So that belief is not true and never was, and the process will help get rid of the belief. As another example, I am not capable of performing brain surgery, but I experience myself as a capable person.
I've come to learn there are only gifts in life – no lessons. Thank goodness! Take the "lesson cops" out of business! Stop judging and expect the gift. The Law of Polarity works everytime! BTW the only way to achievement is through failure – makes sense because we're not perfect and not meant to be.
Way too wordy audio – I have to confess I've done a lot of personal work – I wouldn't benefit from this approach.
Hi Beth, I love that. And maybe to add, illness, while not a mistake, may be the same idea. The ill person has a soul agreement and I definitely believe that there is a reason for illness. Some lesson. Although, for me, I don't know what it is yet.
Sue
Hi Katherine, Thanks for the compliment. And thanks for being open to our offer of a free belief. Regards, Morty
Thank you Morty. What you can do is keep being one more flicker to create the fire of change.
Hi Morty,
I love what you've done here. But I have to say that I likely would have never tried it without the video of you speaking that ran before the exercise. So many new thought teachers still seem to be "smoking their own crack", for lack of a better expression; their demeanor gives away that they are "half pregnant" when it comes to confidence in their own ideas. But your demeanor and groundedness spoke volumns to a kinesthetic learner such as myself. You are your own best advertisement!
Hi Daniel, Thank you for your comment. It made the past two years of work worthwhile. Regards, Morty
Hi Georgia, I'm truly sorry if $199 in three payments is more than you can handle right now. I've been bankrupt in my time so I know what it is like to be without money. We invested almost two years and a $75,000 investment in creating this site. We charge people $200 a hour to work with us on the phone. This is an immense breakthrough for us to be able to offer what would probably take 7-8 hours in private phone sessions for only $199. We are offering two beliefs from the program for free so that people can decide if the process works for them before they choose to purchase the full program. Regards, Morty
Hi Miki,
Sorry, but that belief is not on the Natural Confidence program. That program helps you eliminate the beliefs UNDERNEATH the money belief, beliefs like I'll never get what I want and I'm powerless. Someday we may do another program that includes specific money beliefs. Regards, Morty
amen sister! i would like to see much of this information out there at a VERY reduced price!! after all……….. the goal is to change the world, one person at a time. at least that is my take on it! my son is in a similar situation. why not offer downloads for $5 and then if they find that helpful, they can download the next step.
the people that can afford these programs, at least have SOME degree of success or they wouldn't have the money to buy them…..
A changing of world conciousness is the goal!!!
Hi Laurie,
I visited your site and read your story. I cried for you and I signed your petition. I am so sorry about your situation. I wish there was something more I could do. Regards, Morty
Hi Gaya, There is no "real" belief. Most of us have many, many limiting beliefs. I've gotten rid of several hundred over the years myself. So you can get rid of Mistakes and failure are bad even if you still have the belief, I am wrong. That specific belief is not in the Natural Confidence program, but I'm not worthy is. And we could help you eliminate that one belief and a couple more in a single phone session.
I'm not sure if it will work if you have to keep stopping to check the definition of a word. It seems like it worked for you. Only you can know if the belief is gone. If the words sound flat and without emotion when you say the words of the belief, it is gone. Yes, we will consider doing it in Hebrew, but we need to find ways to market it in Israel. We'd have to be sure of selling about 2,000 before we could undertake the massive job it would take to do the entire 10 hours or so of video material, cartoons, etc. in Hebrew.
Dear Morty, it sounds great, but we have severe financial problems. My husband had no income since four years ago and I am self employed and my income is just nothing. We are about to lose our house at the beginning of December 2008. I love to pay you $200., but I cannot. Is there any way that I provide you with a signed contract to pay you a little amount at the beginning and send you the rest later. I am serious and I need your help and I am sorry for stating the above. My husband is very stressed and even depressed and as a result I have to deal with it as well. We are very desperate. He has big dreams, but it seems so far away. Regards, grace
Thank you for this profound access to the creativity we all exercise for good and for suffering, too. Talk about taking actions…It's one thing to complain about limiting beliefs and another to watch one just dissolve, with the others lining up for similar "ghost busting." I love the format, too–once I got past feeling silly talking to my computer.
Wow. Amazing. You feel the difference immediately. I have no fear now to pick up the phone for cold-calling. Thanks Morty.
Please take the time to read my story and check my site out
I am a mother with disabilities dealing with child protection services. Here is my story and petitions, http://www.tinyurl.com/66vo2
hi i was very interested and i followed the program for "mistakes and failures are bad" but i must say it didnt really work because my real belief that inhibits me is :i am wrong! thats what i interpreted into the behaviour of my parents. can you help me? gaya, gayasky@gmail.com
hi. I am from israel. Thank you for your belief-eliminating program free. I used it and i think that it is great. but , as you probably noticed , i am not good in english . 1). Do you think that when i stop evry time and look at the dictionary to understand a word , it's cause a failure . 2) Do you consider to do it in hebrew ?
I have no idea why this is on living the field web site.When it has nothing to do with the field as I perceive it.Oh well I quess our ego gets the best of us sometimes.
I am one of those people that was told my job will be eliminated as of Jan. 1, 2009. Makes sense to me for those that cannot pay up front. Thank you Jenny for suggesting such.
Hi again – I posted last night to say that the video didn't work for me bc my brother's mistake (in the car, leading to someone's death) was definitely 'bad'. But I did some EFT tapping on it and came up with the following modification:
*some mistakes and failures are necessary in order to learn and grow..
and some mistakes and failures lead to big pain and hurt, but none of the big mistakes ever occur without the soul agreement of everyone involved, and even these big 'mistakes' eventually lead to growth*
Just posting this in case it helps someone out there, or helps as feedback.
cheers, Beth
hi
i couldnt open your blog
so i voted for the believe i would like to get off me
thanks for the aportunity for another one
That certainly is possible in any given case, but our experience is that in 99%+ of the cases, the belief was initially formed in interactions with our parents, as we explain in detail in the process itself. If you are convinced that the belief was formed from other experiences, just go through the process and use the experiences you think formed the belief and the process should work for you.
Thank you for your free "I'm not good enough" deleted program.
As for myself- It was never about my parents, It was more out there in the world- School, grades etc.
so for me personaly- It is a bit difficult to relate and work with the process you offer,
Hi Morty, your interactive video is just great, thank you for this free trial of it. I choose the belief of not being good enoug…Well,
I think I have to repeat this "test" because I am not shure if really it works. I admit that I believe, like others, that EFT is faster in its showing results, lasting results, by the way. I would like to get your programm, but first I want to give it another try and will let you know if there is a shift to the positive. Thank you again for this real good "stuff".
Nartural Confidence has many more beliefs and conditionings. The best way to know is if you've done the public speaking course and still have a lack of self-confidence and a concern with the opinions of others, you would get value from Natural Confidence. It is possible to get rid of the fear of public speaking and still have a lack of confidence in life in general.
Morty, would you recommend your Natural Confidence course for people that have already taken your Public Speaking course?
Hi, I tried your 'mistakes and failures are bad' video, but it didn't work for me because one of my key memories is that my brother made a mistake when driving his car and killed someone.. Whereas your video seems to assume that mistakes and failures are harmless and just irritating. Sometimes mistakes and failures can have huge and painful impacts. I find EFT works much faster, and can accomodate all these variations far more effectively.
Hi Morty!
I listened the "My Mistake" video and it's really worked like a magic.
Coz It's a lot about getting deep through the source of the problem .. analyze it and then just .. make it dissapear.
Thank you very much about giving us an amazing gift!
Yes, you can.
I would like to get rid of a " I cant make a lot of money " or " i dont know how to make a lot of money Or I wont make a lot of money – belief
Thank for the favor morty… appreciate it a lot.
I have problem to "see" the beliefs… tried several way but becaus I dont remmember spesific eventof my early and not so early life I fond the beliefs hard to be seen…
WOW! I mean, I didn't even know that it was my belief telling me mistakes and failure are bad. Now I am not making my choices based on minimising the risk of failure but on whether it is what I relly want to do, reagrdless. It is great that you share this for free. Where can I see the full list of beliefs that are busted in your programme please?
There is a subtle difference but the reason we offer both is that some people form one belief and some the other, and some actually hold both and both need to be eliminated. We find that after one belief is gone, clients say the words to the other and the statement still feels true.
I voted for "I am not capable". I first looked in the dictionary for the difference in "I am not capable " and " I am not competent " but i really didn't see a vast difference between them. I chose it because one of my strong bad beliefs is "I am not talented " even thought I intellectually know it is not true. So "I am not capable" is the closest to "I am not talented".
Definately feel lighter and have now an incklinging of what letting go really is
Thanks Morty You da Bomb !
Go to: http://www.lefkoeinstitute.com and click on the link: book: Recreate Your Life.
At some point we would like to translate the program to many different languages. First we want to spread it throughout the English-speaking world. Also we would need people in different countries who would help us inform people in those countries that the program exists in their language.
Beliefs about money, relationships, or anything else can be eliminated as easily as the three you were given. The first interactive web-based program we created helps people eliminate all the beliefs that cause a lack of self-confidence and a concern with the opinions of others. At some point we will create other sites that deal with other issues, such as money. In the meantime, we do work with people throughout the world over the phone on the issues they choose to deal with. Contact us for more information: support@recreateyourlife.com
I'm very sorry about your physical disability. I'm sure it isn't pleasant. And, nothing, including physical disability, has any inherent meaning. There are people with all types of physical disabilities who have been very successful and made real contributions to the world. A physical disability doesn't NOT mean you are not good enough as a person. It might mean: I am not good enough to do something specific, such as run the 100 yard dash (although people without legs have been fitted with artificial limbs and run almost as fast as the fastest people with normal legs. I'm not good enough is an appraisal placed upon oneself as a person, not an evaluation of specific talents. And from our experience, it is the meaning we give to events. The events don't "cause" the evaluation.
Thank you morty, it is realy good to know that we are good at what we are doing iven if we make mistakes. and i sugest that it will be transladet in to hebrew. it will help
I wasn't able to eliminate the belief of "i am not good enough " because i have a physical disablity. You assume that "i am not good enough " is generated only by actions that we took as kids, what about REAL things such as disablity that make one feel "not good enough" in a world that worships perfection?
nope. this video didn't change my feeling….
Where do we get the book!!
Add EFT to your system, and some meditation, physical exercise, rinse and repeat –heal the planet!
Amazing!! You must do it in hebrew and Arabic!!!
It will change the condition in all the middle east
Hi Morty!
What a great programme you have!!! I did your online programme yesterday and I really think I got rid of a belief, I feel very empowered! I think every parent would be helped by seeing your explanation of this whole process. I'm blogging about parenting because I think parenting is very very important and today I wrote it about your programme, it's written in Dutch , but if you want me to translate it for you let me know. (link:http://www.ellensblog.nl/index.php?option=com_con…Wishing you lots of success with your work! And thank you for sharing your insights with us! Very grateful for that!
Warmly , Ellen
Thank you Morty, for making it so clear that we are the creators of our world.
M.
I like the clear way in which you explain how to do your process. However, your approach draws strongly from existing therapeutic approaches, so isn't so new. For example, the logical reasoning you employ is part of Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, and the visualising technique is a core part of Neuro Linguistic Programming. For those struggling with the emotional distress about the events from the past that have formed their beliefs, I'd suggest looking at Emotional Freedom Techniques. The founder of EFT, Gary Craig, offers a free self help manual. In my experience, EFT is even quicker at elimating self limiting beliefs than 30 minutes.
How can this work for me when I do not have any specific childhood memories; I have blanked them out cos my father died when I was 3 and I was sent to boarding school at 5 and went to relatives in the vacations. If your method depended on childhood memories it cannot work for me. Please advise a solution
I tried the "I am not important" program. I really dont know if it succeeded or not. when I say to myself "I am not important" nothing happens except for a faint stress in my stomach, i repeated the program twice, recalling a childhood memory I remmembered as being treated as not important. And i understood the part in which "I" made the thought of "I am not important" , but the feeling is still there.
I didn't experience any extraordinary sensation in the "I am a creator" program as I should have, following the list of feeling you described. It might be because i already know it.
Have you tried the process yet? I don't remember most of my childhood and I found a way to make the process work for me. We have a lot of helpful hints on how to make the process work even when you can't remember details of your childhood. Try one of the free beliefs and see if it works for you. It probably will.
The beliefs that get in the way of being successfully financially include many of the ones in our Natural Confidence program. But this program doesn't have any of the specifically money beliefs, such as: Money is hard to get. I don't deserve to have a lot of money. Making money and spirituality are incompatible. We have private sessions with people from all over the world over the phone (and on Skype) and help them eliminate the specific beliefs that cause their own unique problems.
Many of the beliefs are the same. There are more beliefs and more conditionings in the Natural Confidence program. Every problem has different beliefs that cause it and while there is always some overlap, some beliefs and conditionings always are different.
It is a handling charge for paying out over three months and us having to charge you two more times. Usually when you pay for things over a period of time it costs slightly more than if you pay the entire amount up front. Basically there is a $26 discount if you pay in full at the start.
how do I improve my wealth believe?
Morty,
I have your Public Speaking course and really loved it. I believe that some of the limiting beliefs you work with in that course would be the same in your new course Natural Confidence. Can you specfically confirm how much overlap there is between the two courses (i.e. what number of limiting beliefs appear on both courses)?
Warm Regards,
Adam
Page 10 indicates price of program at $199.00. Page 12 indicates down payment of $75.00 plus TWO monthly installments of $75.00 each. $75.00 x 3 = $225.00. Why the $26.00 difference???
thank you so much. this work reached different mental and emotional layers where i was previously unaware that this belief was hiding. i love it!
I took a look at the new web site today, and I eliminated my belief that mistakes and failing are bad. What a great tool! I am eager to learn more about it since it's so apparent to me that everyone can benefit from your process! I want it to spread like wildfire, so I'm sending a message with the link to all of my contacts today. I will admit, In the beginning I was skeptical. I found it hard to believe that I would see actual changes in my behavior and feelings right away, but was surprised when I found myself opening up in moments that I normally would have been quiet 5 minutes after eliminating the belief. Thank you Morty!
Wow. This program is amazing. I have done so many of these programs over the years with limited success. I would say I felt changed instantly – immediately – my fear was gone and I felt whole, clear and peaceful.
Thanks.
I listened to most of the free video process on "I'm not important." But Monty, you are far too long-winded. I got bored and frustrated wishing (and saying out loud!) "Just get to the point, for Gods sake!". If you could come up with a sharper more focused course I might be interested. But so far, based on what I've heard, I'll pass.
By the way, google John Wheeler as an example of "non-dualism", which looks into the whole basis of the "I" who wants to change. You seem to be unaware of some pretty basic information concerning the very deep experience of "I".
Hi Lori, no, the information is not written down and cannot be. It is an interactive process that won't work very well if you just read that I say in the program. Maybe you can use someone else's computer who does have sound. Or borrow someone's speakers so you can listen on your own computer. Sorry.
Wow! This works so well my head is spinning! Morty, I’d love to talk to you about possible permission to share this with my conscious healing circle. This is exactly what they need to even begin to understand in order to let go of false beliefs about their healings, whether physical, emotional, financial…etc. Please contact me at joyofconsciousness@yahoo.com !
In Love!
Joy Ayscue
I wept. I thank you greatly for this free taste of your program.
I am currently unemployed, can’t make my house payment, have been looking for a job for months. I want to be successful in my own business, in creating art and writing. I would love to try your program but I can’t afford the expense, not even the $75. I’ve tried all kinds of self-help things, and here I am out of work with no income. None of them have worked. I’m having a hard time justifying paying $200 or even $75 for yet another program that might not work. If you belive so much in your program, why not guarantee it by NOT requiring payment up front?! Why not offer it at a truly reduced price like $20 and then allow those who experience positive results pay for in full – WHEN they have succeeded?
Jenny. Do an amazon search for a book called "Feelings Buried alive never die" By Karol Truman. I have no doubt you will find it to be life changing. Also seek out one called Transurfing by V Zealand (russian Author) . Individually they will change your world. If you cant find the motiivation to help your self with a simple book, then ya just gotta take what life throws at you….living at Effect as opposed to being at Cause. Good luck.
Great! Perfect, looking at a wonderful smile without video
))) brings a lot of different thoughts 
And why, dear Sir, shouild I trust you rather than my feelings? Specially, what you say about 'knowing by distiction' is very flawed. By using this process you can proof anything. And furthermore, when it is God who says that I am not good enough all your arguments dissolve in thin air.
Thoroughly enjoyed your taster course for changing "Mistakes & failures are bad", it's good you made it free. It's left me realising I am and can be more positive, ambitious and optomistic, so thank you again.
I don't have audio on my computer so can't hear it, is the information written anywhere so I might read it?
Thank you
Joy, please feel free to send anyone you think might benefit to the free site: http://www.recreateyourlife.com. And if you think this is good, wait till you eliminate 19 beliefs and 4 conditionings and discover a whole new level of self-confidence and the total elimination of one's worry about pleasing others and having them think well of us.
Thank You very much, Morty!
It’s really very strong!
Do you have an affiliate program?
Vicka.
Hi Morty,
Can the Lefkoe method be tailored to get rid of shy bladder syndrome?
Thanks,
Jon
its anazing how it works.and how far it took me..my thoughts.
i wrote a booke for kids on the idea of the “secret” and wrote a show ,and as you say how our life could look if we knew all that when we were kids,i realy do think we should better start to teach them how to do that and help to creat a diffrent genaration.i would be happy to share my ideas with you. all the best.
shoshani
Hi Magaly,
Thanks for taking the time to post. Have a great day.
Regards, Morty
Not sure of the connection with our belief-elimination program, but thanks for taking the time to write.
Regards, Morty
Hi Ariel,
Glad you liked it and took the time to write.
Regards, Morty
Hi Bernard,
Glad you found the free belief-elimination process useful.
To find out more about how beliefs are formed and how to get rid of them, please check out my blog: http://mortylefkoe.com
Thanks for taking the time to write.
Regards, Morty
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