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Here’s the link to my program to bust a limiting belief that 90% of people have.  When you break through this inner barrier you’ll find yourself more able to achieve things you’ve been unable to achieve for years.

Click here to get rid of a limiting belief for good

After you get rid of your belief, let me know what you think below.

Morty Lefkoe

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477 Responses to “Bust A Limiting Belief”

  1. Charlie says:

    Hi Morty!

    I finished the Natural Confidence course in under a week. Every day I did a few belief busting sessions, and I cannot believe how much better I feel!

    The job I have is phone sales, and it requires me to answer phones of inbound calls from customers wanting to buy computers. If it wasn’t for your work, I don’t think I would have been able to survive my first few days on the floor taking calls. I KNEW that I didn’t have it in me to perform the job I was tasked to do.

    I also do stand-up comedy. This was far easier for me to do than talking one on one with a client on the phone! That is, until now. I also have renewed (found) confidence in myself and my ability to make other people laugh without getting overly concerned if I make EVERYONE in the room laugh or not.

    From the bottom of my heart, Thank you so much for making this available. It’s like a shoe to my mental backside that needed the kick start!

    Charlie

  2. mortylefkoe says:

    @: Hi Janet,

    You certainly can link to our site from yours and you can become an affiliate if you’d like. Go to http://recreateyourlife.com/partnersignup.

    Regards, Morty

  3. It’s interesting how so many people refer to events past childhood that would be responsible for their belief systems. My husband blames his first father-in-law for his ‘not good enough’ belief. I know his parents and can look at them objectively. The interesting thing is that the Law of Attraction works from our belief system. We see so much evidence of how we attract people into our lives who display the same behavior patterns that we are used to or comfortable with. It is a human condition to find ways to justify our belief systems.
    I am so glad I landed on your website Morty. I hope that I am allowed to link to you from mine. Your method really works if people are willing to let it.

  4. Dennis McVey says:

    I just left the this message on a website recommending your methods and programs: http://artofmanliness.com. Let me know if you get some increased responses from this:

    There is this great guy named Morty Lefkoe who has a system for busting beliefs that hold you back. It is a process that amazingly works far better than anything I’ve ever come across. I highly recommend his method. It sounds to good to be true at first, but I’ve tested them and it works very well. It is right along the lines of this article and enhances the ability for success. You can buy one module at a time for a very reasonable price of like $19.95 to test, or a whole program for less than the cost of 1-2 sessions with a counselor. This stuff really works! Best results found in 50 + years!
    Try one for free first and do what it he says to do!
    http://recreateyourlife.com/a/BecomeCapable
    http://recreateyourlife.com/store/

  5. Morty Lefkoe says:

    Hi Amanda,

    Thanks for your interest in our work and for your note.

    Your experience with the Lefkoe Belief Process is why we come to work each day. This is the type of difference in people’s lives that we are committed to making.

    And if you think getting rid of a couple of beliefs produces miraculous results, wait until you eliminate a bunch of beliefs that cause specific problems (take a look at http://recreateyourlife.com/store).

    Please stay in touch and let us know how you are doing.

    Regards, Morty

  6. Amanda says:

    I am in AWE!! From my childhood up I’ve hated myself. It resulted in several suicide attempts, staying in an abusive marriage and developing a deadly eating disorder. I had so many “Ah ha” moments during the video that I felt as if energy was exploding through my body. Wow… I gave meaning to all those events! The events meant nothing until I gave them meaning and decided I was not good enough; then, I carried them with me through life like a heavy burden! WOW….speechless. Now that I understand I am the creater I plan to give every event a positive meaning and look at each new day as a learning experience rather than something that defines the type of person I am. Even when the event is taken away, I am still the same person! THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!!

  7. Andreas says:

    dammit, I meant “promote” not “appraise”…

  8. Andreas says:

    Hi Morty,

    in reply to your latest email, I just wanted to tell you that a german translation of your program would be really nice. While my understanding of the English language is near perfect a lot of germans still have great trouble with it and are thus unable to make use of your program to the fullest. If it was available in german I´d be the first to start appraising it as loudly as I could. After all, there are more than 80 Million people over here, who are still closer to the dark ages than the present, when it comes to the evolution of consciousness (measured against the american “standard” which can be roughly extrapolated from the very existence of such institutions as the TLC. Over here in good old germany nobody would ever take such an idea seriously, let alone make it a reality ).

    Long story short: Germany could really use your stuff and if you can make use of a non-professional translator like me I´d love to be a part of the translation process.

  9. Sonny says:

    Hi Morty

    Please can you HELP.

    As there is no other way to contact you i am writing to you on this forum.

    I tried your “Im not good enough” session..thank you for giving that for free btw) and i had an amazing difference. It wa truly amazing. so much so that i instantly bought the procastination package. I was hoping that i could download the package as well as wait for the DVD which will arrive in 3 to 4 weeks as im in the UK but there was no option to do so. Im very surprised that i couldnt download the seperate sections :-(

    Now that i have had a closer look at the several packages that you offer i would like to change the package that i bought to the “Self Confidence” package as this not only gives me ALL of the seperate limiting beliefs but also allows me to go throguh them streaming online immedialtely !!! Please can you contact me to change this.

    I look forward to your reply

  10. jennifer says:

    i still have the belief i am not good enough listening to you made no difference in fact i became very depressed as nothing i do seems to help

  11. Maria says:

    Hi Morty,
    I am deaf and I would prefer to read about your methods to remove beliefs, do you have a version of your program for people who prefer to read? Thank you.
    Sincerly,
    Maria

  12. michael says:

    Does removing beliefs with the Lefkoe method work on adult children of alcoholics? My father was a raging alcoholic. I did not have self esteem until I had low self esteem.

  13. Eric says:

    Hi Morty,

    Over the past couple of years I have given more attention to self development as I want to become a fitness trainer and want to learn about motivational techniques. I must say, by the time I had gone through the process of eliminating belief #1, I experienced something amazing. I was so relieved that I cried.

    I am at belief #5, for now, I will stop and take the time to absorb what was said and reflect on it as much as I can. I feel so calm now…my head seems so clear and organized…I can’t wait to finish the program!

    This is the first program I’ve gone through, never have I bought something like this from anyone – I don’t regret it. The only thing I regret if giving you a puny sum of under 300$ for your program, how can you let us rip you off like this, Morty? ;)

    Thank you very much for helping me.

  14. gwen says:

    Hi,
    Is there a package that covers more than one belief or are they packaged separately?

  15. gwen says:

    Hi,
    Is there a package that covers more than one belief or are they packaged separately?

  16. gwen says:

    Hi,
    Is there a package that covers more than one belief or are they packaged separately?

  17. Bodhi says:

    Hi Morty!
    Wow, I am blessed to have found you. THANK YOU!!! I eliminated “Mistakes and failure are bad.” yesterday and even the words and expressions I used are different. I started expressing the real me that I have been wanting to express for 20 years. Today I eliminated ” I’m not good enough.” I am excited to see how I will express more of my Real/Best Self today. I am grateful for you.
    Sincerely,
    Bodhi

  18. Isaac says:

    Sorry ………. I have been failing to watch your video since everytime i accessed the link, can you perhaps save it as real player or windows media player, it is not opening ………. i cant comment anything or send it to my e-mail instead ……..

  19. karim khan says:

    my problem is that v human being r very much dependent on luckm and fortune for succes in our life affairs.our strules goes failed n many cases its luck and fortune dat determine our lives and future not our eforts wat u say? plz convince me

  20. Fiona Rossi-Mel says:

    Hi I was quite interested in reading what you had to say, except I don’t have any of the limiting beliefs you have listed to bust! Mine is regarding starting up a business and wanting and believing I can do better than the very well paid job I was in previously. Kind Rgds Fiona

  21. visitacion leticia s. de alban says:

    You have inspired me to move forward to my goal and really ” to believe in oneself” is important even if everybody has a negative outlook at ones capability.
    i like what i saw in the film. Thanks and God bless!

  22. Jerry says:

    Your links don’t work. Could not enter your sample free program. Does it work? Still don’t know.
    J

  23. Nurhayati Sireagr says:

    I chose I am not important.
    After listening to you, I realize that the belief ‘I am not important’ is of my own creation. I am important to my family, to my close friends, and to myself. Now I can appreciate my presence, my accomplishments and my contributions to others.
    I am important.
    Thank you for changing my belief in a few minutes!
    I feel great.
    Nurhayati Siregar

  24. gertrude says:

    I choose mistakes and failures are bad.
    Actually i do not believe that.

    I am the mistake. Being a calendaraccidentconception, surviving an abortionattempt, being cursed by my father, and later surviving abuse and murderattempts.
    I’ll think about this. It might explain why i cannot live, believing being alive is my mistake, my guilt, believing my parents truth that i had no right of existence. Believing noone would ever love me.

    • chin-chin says:

      Gertrude I hope you read this. I noticed in your message that you don’t believe that mistakes and failures are bad. Ha! I think it’s a miracle that you are here taking this program.

      Your parents probably had trouble loving themselves and each other. Break the chain of self-sabotage and reclaim your life! Every child is a wonderful gift. It doesn’t mean that they belong to their parents. Parents are just stewards or guardians for their kids. I’m sorry that you had bad stewards… I think the free programs I’m not Important and I’m not good enough could really help you! It helped me, even though I was an only child and spoiled at that!

  25. Dave says:

    Wow!!.. understanding why i have felt a failure and beat myself up, sometimes literally for making mistakes is like ive been reborn, it has also given me more perception on my subconcious thoughts and reaction to peoples innocent actions towards me.

    Thank you very much..

    Dave

  26. rosaria says:

    Thank you for your program.I truly felt how beliefs are illusions,nonetheless,very convincing ones.I am facing the most difficult challenge of my life and felt very inadequate for a whole year.
    Now,I am free to accept my true capability and even allow it to function for me.It is a remarkable victory to distinguish one self from a problem and
    feel bigger than it by not living within its limits.I can say that I AM many things and that I CAN anything and that I no longer feel shame for my
    current situation,as I can transform it to my advantage
    Best Wishes
    rosaria

  27. Ana says:

    I don’t feel I’ve eliminated the belief. I chose “I’m not good enough,” and I have always felt that way. But I agree with the first poster who said they saw an overemphasis on parental influences in childhood, when other influences could be just as powerful. I majored in psychology so I know this to be true. It’s NOT just parents alone who determine early beliefs. I too had an older sister who dominated me throughout life. I only just got over the domination a few years ago. And I was made fun of at every school I attended. In the past 4 years, I’ve been fired from more jobs that I’ve kept. All because I was not good enough.

    Rather hard to get rid of that. I can’t say I felt any shift. Sorry.

    • Morty Lefkoe says:

      Hi Ana,

      Thanks for your interest in our work and for your comment.

      After working with over 13,000 clients in one-on-one sessions, we have discovered that with very few exceptions, self-esteem-type belief are formed in the first 5-6 years of life in interactions with our parents. This isn’t my theory; this is what happened when we looked for the the source of their actual beliefs.

      This is not to say that siblings or others can’t be a major influence in other beliefs; they are. But I haven’t found an instance of I’m not good enough coming from interactions with parents yet. Once you have formed the belief, then you have evidence that it is true for the rest of your life. But those later situations aren’t causing the belief; they are the result of having the belief.

      If you try to do the Lefkoe Belief Process and don’t have the correct source of the belief, the belief will not be eliminated. So if you were convinced the source was not your parents, that’s probably why the belief was not eliminated.

      For more information on this topic see my blog post: http://www.mortylefkoe.com/092209/

      Regards, Morty

  28. Andrea says:

    This is weird for me. Is it normal, not to remember the name of the program I completed? If I try to consciously think about it, I just can’t form the words in my head. No. Still can’t remember it, so I looked it up(again). I completed the ‘I’m not good enough” program. Powerful stuff.

  29. Guy says:

    This was the experience I have been looking for. The “I am not good enough” ghost has been haunting for as long as I can remember and Morty has been able to design a video that powerfully all its foundations.
    Morty, thanks for this. I think that I can finally be master of myself and unleash my potential.
    There are many people out there that need to see this and I will do my share of marketing effort to promote your work.

    Thanks again,
    G

  30. Anthony says:

    Thank you so much. Your way of overcoming beliefs is wonderful, logical and clear. I think that you are making a very good contribution to humanity. Continue your good work and may God bless and prosper you always.
    Anthony.

  31. Morty,

    O.k. Nothing really big happened. I mean, no super ‘a-ha!’, fireworks or epiphany. But my limiting belief DID disappear, instantly. It was so easy and so quick, like you said, I thought, ‘there’s no way this could be this easy.’ But, it was. Hard to believe, but it did work. Powerful and fast.

    I’ve never seen anything that worked this powerfully. And I’ve looked for YEARS and tried many, many techniques, mantras, prayers and other systems. But nothing like this. I am, was, shocked.

    Here’s what I got. Meanings create beliefs. They support and are the life blood of beliefs. When the meaning is correctly and objectively viewed, then, the belief is destroyed. This is huge!

    Thanks Morty! I’ve got several very limiting beliefs to work on. I went from a very high six figure income, two years ago, hundreds of thousands of dollars (cash) in the bank, to almost being homeless (right now). In the past year, I’ve lost nearly everything. Money, houses, cars, marriage. I think that in finding you, I’ve found a key to my future. You’re a Godsend.

    In deep gratitude,
    Michael Murphy

  32. Harold says:

    Hello Morty,

    I followed a link on Saturday that lead me to your site. It amazes me how much information is out there to help people get through their stuff. However, Recreate your life has given me something very tangible.

    My work situation as a cab driver recently became overwhelming to me and I stopped working. Over the holidays I became very depressed and distant. I have kept myself away from people almost exclusively for the last 2 weeks.

    Saturday I eliminated the belief that I’m not important. I can’t say that I am completely out of the woods but I can’t even make myself feel bad anymore. I am still staying to myself but I feel okay. Your program really worked for me so far. Thank you very much.

    As soon as I am financially able I will be ordering the next step in your program. Thank you again.

    Harold

  33. Alex says:

    Hi Morty,

    On the having people think well of me makes me feel good and important. A side to that is I was treated better overall, and that reinforced the idea I was good enough and important. In fact, I was pointed to as an example. This also occurs in the work place I please people I get benefit like promotions, extra considerations etc.

    So how do I now go about eliminating this belief. I actually saw consequences of not meeting expectations and experienced the benefits of meeting expecatations.

  34. sherryayn says:

    Morty,
    I followed a link from Steve Pavlina’s site about eliminating a limiting belief.

    Your walkthrough is the most effective and comprehensive “freebie” I have ever received.

    I have “rational” beliefs that are very high in esteem but the subconscious or knee-jerk beliefs are quite the opposite. It’s not as easy as being logical. Your program solved that gap and allowed the knee-jerk beliefs to evaporate.

    I look forward to letting my daughters take part in it. It’s so incredibly obvious to me that I am passing down and recreating what I experienced as a child.

    Thank you so much for putting the time and effort into this program and then allowing us to benefit from it for free.

  35. Sarah says:

    Hi Morty,
    I really enjoyed your program. I have done the “I’m Not Good Enough” program which has helped eliminate this belief, and it was one I really had felt for a long time and really held me back.
    Just thought I would give some feedback however and get your thoughts on something — as I felt that even though the point of the story is to teach us that in general it’s not our beliefs but the feeling we attach to an otherwise meaningless situation – I felt that the emphasis on “parents” and what they did to us in our childhood might have been a bit strong, as in my particular case, being the youngest of two children, I grew my belief from my older, competitive and unsupportive sibling who would often exclude me, be the “boss” and often cut me down in front of other people and make me feel unwanted and “not good enough”.
    All of the “events” in my childhood that brought me to this belief were things that she said or did and how she made me feel about myself, and nothing really to do with my parents telling me off or the examples in the video.
    I believe the process did work but personally I felt it was hard to concentrate on the video being that instead of a straight “Yes.” to the questions I kept thinking “mm yes, but it wasn’t my parents”.. “mmm not really, not my parents” etc.. Nevertheless the process has worked, and I feel much better about myself but just thought I would pass on incase you may need feedback.
    I thought perhaps unless the research shows that it is indeed parents – that maybe it might be an idea to say “was there ’someone in your life’ that did this… did they say this and make you feel this..??” etc as it may be easier for those of us who did not have parents that caused the belief, to relate a bit better.

    Just a suggestion – I’d be interested to hear your views as to whether this would have the same effect. Thank you for your efforts in this program, and wishing you and your family the best for 2010.
    Regards, Sarah

  36. Georgina says:

    Hi Monty
    The idea that we are something else, not our beliefs is great and helped, however although i can understand the childhood experiences are where the beliefs are formed, in my experience it is adult experiences or life which has caused the problem. I had some terrible, tragic and unfortunate experiences over a long period of time, and ended up losing everything. I don’t see how to change to believing life can work out, when i have no contrary experience to draw on and currently can’t see a way out of a serious finanical mess with no work experience or qualifications to facilitate it. How do you change the beliefs about life and what life brings? Thanks!

    • Morty Lefkoe says:

      Hi Georgina,

      If in fact your beliefs about life were formed recently as an adult (which is very unlikely), you would eliminate them the same way you eliminate beliefs formed in childhood. You recognize that there are alternative interpretations for the events that led to the belief, you realize that you never saw the belief in the world, you realize that the events have no inherent meaning. After doing all of that, the belief will dissolve.

      You don’t need contrary evidence to realize that your belief is a generalization. You can truthfully say: So far this has happened. You can’t say as a fact that it will always happen.

      Regards, Morty

  37. Mari-Lyn says:

    This was great to view the circumstance as an opportunity to heal my own thoughts and feelings into the situations, that I thought and felt not important.

    I can now see how much I have used this as a crutch.
    Thank you
    Mari-Lyn

  38. Shit, this really works.

    The belief “I’m not good enough” is totally gone.

    I now KNOW that I’m good enough to get what I want or I learn to become good enough.

    Thanks a lot.

    And thanks a lot for the aching smiling muscles I walk around now ;-)

    Karl

  39. jack says:

    I feel like I am not capable becuase I have these memories that happened 20 years ago and has little to do with my parents. These memories make me feel stuck guilty and shameful. So I am curious how earlier memories of my parents will take out that belief if it has nothing to do with my parents. I think its more ptsd from something else s well

  40. testing system says:

    just testing the system to see if it works

  41. jacnor says:

    I just completed the program. I found it very eye opening as well as healing and I feel much better about myself. Although I may need to work on the rejection anxiety conditioning a little more. That one is being stubborn. I had a really scary childhood so I’m having some difficulty imagining what it would have been like to always feel unconditionally loved by my parents and therefore not experience rejection anxiety. At any rate things are clear for me now and I am deeply grateful for having come across this program. I needed it badly. Thanks a million!

  42. Rachel says:

    I want to send you my gratitude. I am so thankful for what you have done for me.

    However it works, whatever the method, the fact is I no longer have the feeling that I am not good enough.

    Even typing it now it seems like such an empty statement and meaningless.

    That feeling was so much a part of me for so long, it affected everything I did and said and ultimately the results I have produced in my life, from career to relationships. I fought the feeling most of the time and at others I gave into it and sunk into very low moods and depressions. I felt like one foot was on the accelerator and the other on the brake – that is how I have lived my life so far.

    I am now looking forward to eliminating more limiting beliefs and to finally begin to live to my full potential. The feeling of freedom and possibility is immense.

    Thank you and Steve Pavlina for directing me here in the first place.

    With love

    Rachel

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