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After you get rid of your belief, let me know what you think below.

Morty Lefkoe

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507 Responses to “Bust A Limiting Belief”

  1. Morty Lefkoe says:

    @: Hi Juan,

    Thanks so much for helping others who cannot speak English use our process. At some point we will translate the entire program to Spanish, but we are not prepared to do that just yet. In the meantime people will have to rely on people like you who are committed to helping others.

    Regards, Morty

  2. Juan Ortiz says:

    Hi Mr. and Mrs. Lefkoe,
    I just wanted to tell you that I’m a big fan of your method, and I’m trying to show it to the people I know and to everyone that could find this useful, but i’m having some trouble with the language. I can speak english properly, but not all the people here in Chile can, so meanwhile I’m translating the videos for them (like literally hearing in english, clcking the pause button, and translating into spanish) but I would be much better if the videos had subtitles (in Spanish and other languages) or something that could led them to understand it on their own. That would really help me and all the people around here. I know you might be pretty busy, so I wanted to thank and congratulate you for the excellent work you put up every week,

    Juan

  3. Rahul B. says:

    Morty,

    I have completed the entire Natural Confidence program, and today when I went to my Toastmasters meeting I still felt fear while speaking in front of the group. I was hoping the fear would be gone after reading about the University of Arizona conducted research study, but alas it was not.

    I’ve been interacting with the program heavily the entire way, and have been really taking the time necessary to make it clear in my mind that events that occur in reality are inherently meaningless. Prior to getting your program I was already familiar with this concept because I have studied a few other methods specializing in belief elimination.

    I consider myself as someone who is in touch with his internal state, but I was having a problem “feeling” if a belief was true or not at the beginning of each module. Given this, I had no idea if it felt much different after the process was completed. Do you have any suggestions on what I can do to get a better understanding of if I have a belief or not? Should I just wait for some time and see if my behaviors change?

    During the deconditionings “Fear associated with people putting their attention on me” and “Fear associated with rejection” I felt it was difficult to make the distinctions necessary, however your last step of the process “Visualize your parents reacting with love/never rejecting you” made perfect sense to me. When I saw future situations of rejection/people putting their attention on me, I felt no anxiety. However, today I think I felt anxiety associated with that at Toastmasters.

    Your opinion would be greatly appreciated. Awesome program by the way. Thank you so much for creating it. You are a great man!

    - Rahul

  4. Morty Lefkoe says:

    @: Hi Doug,

    Positive comments like yours are what gets us going every day here at Lefkoe Institute. Results like yours are what we are committed to.

    To find out about getting rid of more beliefs and specific problems in your life, go to: http://recreateyourlife.com/store.

    Please stay in touch and let me know your experience after you eliminate more beliefs.

    Regards, Morty

  5. Morty Lefkoe says:

    @: Hi Richard,

    Thanks for taking the time to write. I’m thrilled you are finding such positive results from our program.

    And if you think getting rid of one belief is exciting, wait until you eliminate a package of beliefs that cause a specific problem in your life.

    To see what we have available, please go to: http://recreateyourlife.com/store.

    Let me know your experience after getting rid of a bunch of beliefs.

    Regards, Morty

  6. Richard says:

    I’m 56 years old and fully aware that my short comings were mostly of my own creation especially now having gone through the “I’m not good enough” program. As you described in your intro video, the path of excellence was always a struggle, always needing to do more and feeling empty after all of my efforts.

    WOW! It’s feels like a permanent tape erase. I feel at ease and a sense of calm about my self knowing my intentions and efforts will come from a source of fulfillment rather than a desperate sense of having to prove myself.

    YES!! I AM GOOD ENOUGH!! SAY IT ONE MORE TIME! OUT LOUD!

  7. Doug says:

    I would like to say a big thank for sharing with me this process. I have always asked myself why I behave the way I do when I clearly know how I want to behave.

    I have so far removed a few believes and feel very positive that my life and feelings are on a different path; I am the creator!

    What I need to do now is to reomove more of those believes and importantly, use the de-conditioning process for my my emotional reaction to other stimuli

    For me, it felt like something shifted in as soon as I realised why I behaved the way I did.

    Everything has a purpose; I have spent such a long time learning techniques help me cope when I could have created my life.

    BRILLIANT!

  8. Morty Lefkoe says:

    @: Hi Barbara,

    Thanks for your interest in our work and for your question.

    We have worked with and helped many clients who have been sexually abused. The most common beliefs in those cases are not in any of the on-line programs (go to http://recreateyourlife.com/store), but we certainly could help you in a private phone session.

    For more information please call us at 415-456-7300.

    Regards, Morty

  9. Morty Lefkoe says:

    @: Hi Beth,

    Thanks for your interest in our work. I’m thrilled you are getting such positive results.

    The WAIR? Process is not about what you should feel. You feel whatever you feel. Most people experience in that state that anything is possible and that they have no limitations. That’s not what I’m telling them or that they should believe. It is just what most people experience.

    I’m not claiming that we create every single thing in the world. Only that we create the beliefs that pretty much determines what we do and feel. They don’t necessarily determine everything that shows up in our lives.

    Does this explanation help?

    Also, I’m not sure what you mean by imposter syndrome. If you mean feeling like a fake or a fraud, the Natural Confidence program will help a lot, but there still might be a few additional beliefs that your friend would have to get rid of in a private session.

    If you have any additional questions, please let us know.

    And certainly let us know your experience when you complete the program.

    Regards, Morty

  10. Beth says:

    Hi Morty,
    I bought the Natural Confidence program and just eliminated my 10th belief. I am astonished at how well it is working! I’ve spent 20 years reading self-help books and trying various forms of therapy, including energy techniques such as EFT, and nothing worked as well as this. I do think EFT is great for eliminating the “charge” on traumatic events, but for me anyway, it did not eliminate the underlying belief that I formed from the event. I can’t wait to finish the program!

    So far there is only one hitch: I am not getting any results from the “Who am I really” process. I find this odd, since your belief elimination system seems to be working so well for me. I’m not sure what’s going on, but I think it may have something to do with my philosophical struggles over the law of attraction. I can readily accept that we create our own experience in the limited sense that what we feel and do flows directly from our beliefs. I can even accept that what we feel and do, in turn, exerts a strong effect on what physically manifests in our reality. But I am struggling with the notion that I literally created everything in my reality down to the smallest detail (including war, poverty, my husband’s degenerative arthritis, my son’s behavioral problems, etc.). I think to myself, “If I am the creator, and anything is possible, then I should be able to create a world where my husband is healthy, my kids are always well behaved, I have no financial problems, and there is no war or poverty.” Well, so far I have not been able to do that. So maybe that is why the WAIR process doesn’t make me feel all-powerful. If you have any suggestions for how I could look at this differently, I would be thrilled to hear about them, for I would dearly love to experience the WAIR process the way you and most others do.

    P.S. I have one more question. I have a friend who suffers from “impostor syndrome” and I wonder if the Natural Confidence program alone will deal with that, or if there are other beliefs that also need to be addressed.

    Thanks so much!!!
    Beth

  11. Mark says:

    I completed the Natural Confidence program about a week ago now. While going through all of the beliefs and conditions I could feel the momentum building in my confidence level. I knew I was undergoing some incredible changes. The day or so after I completed the program I knew I did not have the beliefs anymore and was a bit annoyed that there was nothing more to do. It was a strange feeling. It was as though I was missing the limiting beliefs or perhaps the process of removing them as that was such an awesome process. This phase has passed and I continue to listen to the Who Am I Really recording to reinforce that I truly am the creator of my life. I realize it has only been a week since I did the program, but my strong confidence levels are stable and expanding, as opposed to contracting which often happened with other programs I’ve tried. I will post again at a later time and update my experiences some more. Thank you Morty and Shelly!

  12. Barbara says:

    I filled in the box about when my limiting belief was formed but the continue link does not work on that page, probably because I recently upgraded to Internet Explorere 7. Now I am deeply into the emotions about those early childhood years and unable to continue the process to eliminate the belief.

    Please provide a way to continue the process.

  13. Morty Lefkoe says:

    @: Hi Maiweaue,

    Sorry that our program didn’t work for you. But if you’ll notice there are almost 400 comments below, most of which describe the positive results people have gotten. Our program doesn’t work for everyone and I’m really sorry it didn’t work for you.

    Regards, Morty

    • Barbara says:

      Morty,

      I got back into the program last night and completed the work on “I am not good enough.” This morning I feel very peaceful and hopeful that “I am not good enough” may no longer be part of the way I view the world.

      Is there a way to use that same process to work on events that happened with people other than parents? Last night, after working on the past with my parents, I began thinking about being raped when I was 14, by a boy who said he loved me. That boy would not speak to be after the rape. When he did finally speak to me again, ten years later, he told me he did not speak to me because it had been his first time and I cried, which ruined it for him. I not only cried, I begged him to stop. I fought him. I put my foot through the windshield of his car in the fight to keep my virinity that night. He never even appologized, even when we finally spoke about it 10 years later, when one would think he would have the good sense to realize what he had done.

      This was a long time ago, when nice girls remained virgins until their wedding night, so I lost something very important that night. That event was a huge reinforcer for a belief that I was not good enough. I felt worthless for many years.

      Is there a way to use your program to work with that memory and other memories that are not related to parents? I don’t see a way to sign up to use your system for other beliefs.

      Barbara

  14. Maiweaue says:

    I’m grateful that the sample was free because now I know it’s a waste of money: your program does NOT work, it is inherently flawed; you just say “can you see it, what color does it have?” These are nonsense questions that don’t relate to the belief! Your parents yelling at you & your conclusion “I’m not good enough” has EVERYTHING TO DO WITH HOW YOU WERE ABUSED when every single minute of your life you had to figure out how to survive those monsters that threatened to KILL YOU! So no, it has NOTHING TO DO WITH MY VIEWS or my decisions & EVERYTHING TO DO WITH THEIR ABUSIVE BEHAVIOR!!! The fact that the belief has no color is as relevant here as the fact that you wear glasses tells me you are 5′6″. AB-SO-LU-TE-LY-AB-SURD!!!! Then u go off on your happy tangent assuming we agreed with you. Sorry but fail! You need to perfect a system and make sure it makes sense before it can work & u commercialize it to the world. Keep trying & maybe u’ll get the missing pieces of the puzzle but you’re off on the wrong tangent there!

  15. eric says:

    Change is difficult and takes a long time. I seem to be having trouble with this one. I had been doing your program on

    http://www.recreateyourlife.com/intro.html

    the first three recordings were good for me and i feel like i had released those beliefs. i just did them today so i am not positvely sure they are gone. the belief of change is difficult and takes a long time is a problem for me though. i have always had this belief for as long as i can remember. i am certain that this is probably the biggest hurdle in my life right now. i believe that if i believed that change could be easy then it could be easy but for some reason i am stuck on this one because all the people and endeavours that inspire me have always held the tenet that it takes hard work, practice, and dedication to get anywhere. i am going to try it again and see what happens but any advice or help would be greatly appreciated.
    thanks!

  16. Morty Lefkoe says:

    @: Hi Patricia,

    Just noticed this post from you from two weeks ago. Sorry it has taken me so long to answer. I get so many emails every day that sometimes some “get lost” and yet that is no excuse. So I apologize.

    The belief you name is not that common and it does not underlie a lot of common problems, so we didn’t make an on-line version of it

    However we work with people from all over the world on the phone (and Skype) and help them eliminate the specific beliefs they have that aren’t on the exiting programs.

    If you’d like to find out more about our one-to-one sessions, please call us at 415-456-7300. We certainly could help you get rid of that belief and several more that are holding you back in some way.

    Regards, Morty

  17. Benjamin says:

    Hi

    I meditate daily and working on raising kundalini. Although raising the kundalini really does what your system does + connects you to “one with all” , your awesome system does takes me to higher levels that i couldnt even possible imagine that could go this quick. It takes a long time do achieve what your system does, by just meditating. It has boosted my progress TREMENDOUSLY! Why havent I found you earlier, damnit!!? I could be skipping years of effort, in what I just achieved with your simple program. I have been experimenting with alot of differnet “healing modules”, and all seems very “airy-fairy”. But your “healing” is as rational and logical as 2 + 2 = 4 :)

    Forever gratefull
    Much love
    Benjamin from Norway

  18. Hey there,

    I just finished this course (I’m a night owl) and I have to, again, admit that it was fantastic. Even better than I thought it would be.

    One thing I think is interesting, and can’t recall if it’s mentioned during the course, is the duplicate benefits you can measure to see that it REALLY DOES WORK :)

    1. The normal way, which happens more slowly or more quickly for some beliefs (probably different for most everyone), is how you feel when you think old thoughts or perform old actions. All those bad feelings are gone.

    2. The complementary way (which I’ve experienced quite a lot of, within 4 days and while I was still taking the course) were you realize that, once you’ve eliminated – or are on your way to eliminating – all of your fears, other people start treating you differently. It’s a little harder to pick up, since you need to focus on yourself (What other people think of you, or what they do says nothing about YOU), but I’ve noticed significant changes in the behaviour of people around me. People who have no idea I’m doing this. Whiners have stopped whining to me. Angry, emotional vampires have stopped dropping by to dump their problems on me and sap my energy.

    I loved this program, and the duplicate effect, because I feel fantastic (I thought I was relatively okay, but I needed to do every single belief and conditioning) and the people and situations that used to be attracted to me seem to be avoiding me now; as if they KNOW that I’m not the same guy any more.

    Once again, thank you for creating this program. It cost me slightly more than one visit with a psychotherapist (which accomplished nothing and went on for years, with regards to social anxiety) and it’s made a tremendous, significant and measurable improvement in my life. I can’t prove it, but I don’t believe those old beliefs will ever come back again.

    One last note is that I made sure to go above and beyond, talking out loud (which I ran by the family before I started so they wouldn’t think I was off my rocker) and interacting with the program. I also took copious notes and went back over my lists of experiences and applied different interpretations to them.

    MOST IMPORTANTLY (I think :) I watched every single second of every single lesson. I became a believer in the Lefkoe process after eliminating just one belief (which you can do for free online – not illegal, they’ve put it up for free). Even though some of it was repetitive, I have the sense that the repetition was an integral part of the program. I feel like I KNOW these concepts now, just like I KNOW my times tables. Some of the exercises were difficult to work on, but if you’re honest with yourself and fully commit, this program really works.

    Cheers!

    P.S. I may have made some typos above, but I’m not worried about it at all. That’s something for an English major and erstwhile perfectionist ;)

  19. Warren says:

    I got the entire “Natural Confidence” package yesterday, and I did the first 5 beliefs last night. I felt amazing while I was working through them — I definitely got the sense that something had shifted.

    The whole idea that we are each the creator of our experiences wasn’t new to me. I knew it intellectually (and I was always the one to give that advice to other people!), but I also knew that deep down, I didn’t believe it. I was always shadowed by this tension that I felt around other people — this sense of not being comfortable in my own skin.

    Today, after having started the program last night, everything felt different. I felt relaxed and comfortable. At ease. What’s even more amazing is that others seem to have noticed the change, as well. Today my boss – who’s also a good friend of mine – told me I seemed “looser” and “cheekier.” Ha! I haven’t told her anything about the program, so I was really stunned when she said this.

    I’ve tried everything, from self-help books rooted in conventional psychology to Theta healing. I’ve seen improvement with the various methods I’ve tried, but nothing has worked as quickly or as effectively as this. I feel as if I’ve been given a brand-new life. I couldn’t be more grateful, Morty, for the gift that you’ve provided.

    I can’t wait to complete the program. I’m looking forward to even more profound changes.

  20. John Erwin says:

    @: Hi, Marty!

    I probably don’t do justice to Sherman’s ideas…my only real purposes in posting you were to express appreciation for the substance of your online program and to suggest that you might find something deeply resonant and provocative in Sherman’s work.

    My best to you!
    John Erwin

  21. Morty Lefkoe says:

    @: Hi John,

    Thanks for taking the time to popst a note. I’m not familiar with John Sherman, but I don’t se our beliefs as self-protection. We are born wanting to understand, to make connections, to answer the question, why? Our beliefs are our answers to that question.

    Regards, Morty

  22. John Erwin says:

    This is terrific, specific, actionable.

    Resonates deeply with the profound musings of John Sherman and the vichara conversation (at http://www.riverganga.org –nothing sold there),

    John articulates the existential motive that drives Lefko’s “Creator-Consciousness” to adopt debilitating beliefs and strategies as reflexive self-protection in the moment that awareness itself burst forth from the cosmos as us.

    Lefko’s excercise gets right at the practical business of eliminating false ideas of self, from which all self-inflicted suffering flows.

    John Erwin

  23. Wow!!! I’m floored by how great I feel know that I know that I AM good enough. I’ve spent my entire life getting really really good at things that my parents told me I’d never be any good at, but none of that success has ever done me any good with the cause.

    I think it took me an hour to do the free release, but it was an hour well spent. And, if this belief has been wiped forever, I’d pay full price just for that. Excellent :)

    This program is AMAZING!!!

    , Mike

  24. jennifer says:

    What else would I like to change about my life?

    I’d like to have perfect radiant health!!

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