Bust A Limiting Belief

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Here’s the link to my program to bust a limiting belief that 90% of people have.  When you break through this inner barrier you’ll find yourself more able to achieve things you’ve been unable to achieve for years.

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After you get rid of your belief, let me know what you think below.

Morty Lefkoe

1,535 thoughts on “Bust A Limiting Belief

  1. I wonder if I have already done this work in another form? I think that I am good enough. “I’m not good enough” only kicks in when I have had a big failure, or when am about to try something different from what I have done before in a challenging way. Then, there are things that I am actually not good at. These are typically things that do not interest me very much. I could practice and improve, but I prefer to spend my time on things that interest me…things I am good at, or want to become good at, which I enjoy. Should I pat myself on the back and go home?

  2. Jesse Bostick says:

    Every belief I eliminate my life rapidly becomes lighter, clearer, and I feel a lot more confident. Never thought getting rid of anxiety and old feelings I’ve had towards certain subjects could be this easy and effective. Life just keeps getting better and better! Thanks!

  3. Margaret Baker says:

    I loved the course. I finished it in two days. I was really getting the hang of seeing new interpretations although the event really had no meaning. 😉 I wish you had a video where we can fill in the beliefs and interpretations ourselves so I could rid myself of other beliefs not in the program.
    I’m excited to see the effects this will bring into my life long term. Right now I just feel really good.
    Thank you for this amazing program. I recognized some of the stuff from A Course in Miracles. This was a structured application of ‘forgiveness’

  4. Petrina Heward says:

    I have just completed the banishment of the belief “I am not good enough” and By God something that has been part of my personality for more years than I care to remember has Gone, Disappeared never ever to rear its unwanted head again. Quite amazing. Thank you very much.

  5. I’m 99% through the confidence program and I can honestly say it was the best money I ever spent. I tried and read lots of books on self improvement but nothing made the changes that this material did. I did some eft in the past, which helped but I felt the results were temporary, but after this course I can honestly put my hand up and say I’m not the person I was before it. Thank.

    1. shellylefkoe says:

      Thanks Barry,
      That’s why we’re in business so I thrilled that this had such an impact in your life.

      We’d love a video testimonial with some specifics if you would be willing. Thanks for taking the time to write.

      Warmly, Shelly

  6. I swear I’ve done all three of these before. I must have done it somewhat rote, or simply intellectually agreed without getting the feeling. I don’t know. Anyhow, the difference is subtle but real. “I’m not good enough” is just a thing, not a problem. Like the difference between a barb wire fence and a slap in the face.

    I think my problem is too much toughening? If I detox, emotionally, I can spend hours thinking about a problem and feeling fine. Eventually, my emotions will build up to it. It makes it hard to answer the questions without confabulation. Confabulation – in this case, where the intellect guesses what the emotions have to say – is going to completely derail this process. It would be like marital counseling where the husband makes up all the answers. Even if he’s right, unless she hears the session, it won’t have any direct effect on her.

  7. In all of my sessions I have done I don’t see the belief I feel it. But when I say it out load both times there is a sense of a change but my mind questions when you say if you feel it even alittle bit then you still have the belief. However, I am noticing a change in my confidence so it must be working???

    1. Same for me. I don’t think my parents caused ‘mistakes and failures are bad’. I think repeatedly being embarrassed for not saying the right answer in school and watching the reaction of my peers and teachers made me not want to make mistakes. It made me feel ashamed and stupid.

  8. Sarah-Jane says:

    It wasn’t my parents that started the ‘I’m not good enough’ belief as they were very loving and supportive, though obviously not perfect! What started it was being born very sensitive, then being picked on at school from the age of five.

    1. That’s how it was for me. My belief came from the bullying in school, not my parents (My dad w

    2. That’s how it was for me. The belief came from the bullying, not my parents. I also have a big problem with a lack of motivation, does he ever mention anything about that?

  9. Lois Fedorczyk says:

    I busted the 3 free beliefs and was so amazed at the results that I went on to purchase Natural Confidence and Abundance. I have noticed huge differences in myself so far: I no longer have nightmares, I feel more centered, calm, and happy. I’m overjoyed that I am living more as my “authentic self” rather than being a puppet on the strings of my emotional baggage. What a relief!

    As a happy customer, I plan to spread the word about your programs to those close to me. As an affiliate, I will make an effort to let others I don’t know very well become aware of the program too!

    Since Shelly asked for ideas on how to get this info into the hands of as many people as possible, you might want to consider adding an additional tier or two to the affiliate program… i.e., sub-affiliates. I believe many people would actively make your business their business on a regular basis if this were the case. Just a thought.

    Thanks so much for this program. Happy 2016!

  10. I did your first limiting belief, of I’m not good enough, which I felt strongly linked to “fear”. I followed the steps and wasn’t sure I felt anything afterwards. Not sure what I was expecting to feel. I had to make a few calls, which I sometimes get anxiety because I’m currently barking on something new and unsure of myself. Anyhow, I no longer felt the anxiety with making the call, or in the meeting. I felt nothing. I believe this is what I’m suppose to feel is neutral. Just do it!

  11. You don’t know fuck all about sexual abuse survivors your 4 friends thing was a load of bullshit – market your so called services in a different way, because you have done more harm than good!

    Waste of my fucking time!

    1. I am so sorry that you felt this way. The truth is I have been working with survivors of sexual abuse for years and it is actually my favorite population of people to work with because we produce the best results in helping them get free. Maybe a private session is the way to go.
      Whatever you decided I wish you freedom from your suffering.
      Warmly, Shelly

  12. teodoramarie says:

    I watches the videos for “I am not capable”, but I can not say I completely eliminated the belief, though I feel some change happened. The problem is that my father told me repeatedly that I am not capable of doing anything. Any advice on how to overcame the belief in this case?

  13. Ashit Raja says:

    Hi I am really grateful for this wonderful journey. I have been reading about law of attraction, new age thought etc for last five years and trying to improvise my life but today after this program i feel relieved and transformed. its been completely amazing experience and i feel all must do it. i am really impressed with the simple and effective method of dissolving an u. Thank you so much. I dont have enough words to express my gratitude for this.

  14. The third video for eliminating the belief “I am not good enough” shows about 4 friends telling about alternative interpretations of the events related to my parents. I can imagine what would’ve happened in my case. 3 out of 4 of my friends would agree with my parents and tell me flat-faced that “Your parents are right, you really aren’t good enough.” The other guy would say, “Yes, everyone’s parents treat them this way. Why are you upset? You are no different.” The last remark was a bit different, maybe sound a little positive, but it’s not strong enough to make me feel better to disbelieve “I am not good enough.” So how can I make myself feel better enough to eliminate this belief?

  15. I did this years ago and didn’t really believe it. I’ve spent years doing personal development and follow Abraham-Hicks, Eckhart Tolle to name a few. I like the Sedona Method of not resisting, Today I re-did Lefkoe’s limiting belief session. I did the first part twice, the second part…Woow! I’ve never truly experienced that feeling of being the Creator before, I am NOT my beliefs.. Now this is empowering, limitless, I definitely feel changed. I’m going to do Who am i Really every week. I’m blown away…Thank You.

  16. Wow – I have recently completed the programme to eliminate the whole 19 beliefs and I feel like a brand new person. It took about 4 beliefs before I really grasped the concept and then when I realised that I was now understanding the “seeing” rather than the “feeling” I went back and re-did the first few beliefs. I honestly cannot thank you enough. I have been in counselling and have tried “CBT” for my social anxiety but have NEVER had a break through like this where I actually feel totally different from the inside out. I finally understand that all of my negative feelings were coming from these programmed beliefs that I didn’t realise I had. The simplicity makes it almost unbelievable. The world of anxiety that I have lived in for 35 years has just dissolved. There are no words!!!! Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart.

  17. Great exercise, very helpful & rejuvenating. Thank you very much for putting in work & coming up with this technique, definetly helps in understanding more of how mind works!

    1. Rodney, Director of Training, Lefkoe Institute says:

      Lilly,

      I noticed you said the video was sort of helpful to you. I’d like to know what benefits you gained.

      Also, you mentioned that you’ve been a poor creator because you’ve formed unhelpful beliefs. I think we may not have made it totally clear in the video that you formed beliefs that anyone would have formed who had the same experiences you had.

      You were not aware you were creating limiting beliefs when you were creating them. You are fortunate now to discover that you did create in the past, so you can create what you want in the present.

      I’d like to ask, did your belief go away? If it did not, the part about being the creator of your life might not have been real. I suggest trying to unlearn another belief and seeing if it makes more sense after that.

      1. I can’t (and didn’t) “see” the belief. I feel (and felt) it. Maybe heard it, but didn’t see it.
        I get the idea that there is more than one interpretation of what happened (such as my mother’s choice not to take care of me in various ways), but it still seems as though she really didn’t care deeply about how I was, and thus others also wouldn’t, and thus I really am not safe, supported, cared about, important, etc.

        1. Im the same way I Strongly feel many beliefs sometimes rember hearing them but I dont see mental pictures
          in general Im a kinestetic learner

  18. I found this helpful sort of! thanks, but the end just sent me in circles ….I follow that my beliefs are just interpretations/creations, and that I am the creator of my beliefs (and so the creator of my life). BUT but I dont find that reassuring in any way as so far in life ‘I” have been a very poor creator, managing to conjure up lots of unhelpful beliefs – and “I” dont actually have the skills or confidence to be a ‘creator’. Are you saying that all “I” need to do is just announce out loud to myself that “I” am important, etc and that is it? thank you

    1. Lilly, in your comment you are saying you hAve been a poor creator, and you don’t have skills & confidence, those are limiting beliefs, don’t talk your self into it, you are perfectly capable of being a creator, I had to pause and think thru the things he was saying to get an understanding, he takes you through a thought process, where it’s easy to get rid of your limiting believes, we act according to what we believe is true, it’s basic law of mind, so we gotta stop believing in the limiting beliefs or assigning meanings to meaningless events and interpret things differently than we are used to in a negative way.

  19. Kent Holley says:

    Saying that the child never really saw evidence that “failure and mistakes are bad” just doesn’t make any sense nor does it lead to any instantaneous healing.It was not what you saw so much as what you felt.If your parents or teachers were angry or even violent towards you because you made a mistake or failed at something then you not only felt it but you knew it and fearfully that mistakes and failure were bad,bad in that you knew from experience you’d certainly get attacked and/or abused the next time you failed or made a mistake.After you were grown you knew that failure and mistakes would lose the game,get you fined or get you demoted or fired from a job, so you know that it’s real and not some momentary “misinterpretation” that quickly disappears because you intellectualize it away! This method is of no help whatsoever!

    1. I think it is just saying that making mistakes is not inherently bad. And this is still true for mistakes made as an adult which can get you fired – you get fired because that particular mistake was not accepted in that particular job and company- it doesnt mean it was inherently bad to have made a mistake. I agree though that knowing that fact is not particularly healing on its own, particularly if making mistakes was accompanied by being terrified (as we used to be at school!!).

  20. i was not able to access the video, all i see on the blue screen is a small blank white box that says continue, when i click continue the same box reappears with option to continue or repeat, but there is nothing to be repeated, no link no video, nothing, when i hit repeat i get Get Every Life-Changing Message We Send Out and it asks for my name and email 🙁

  21. Rodney or Lefkoe Staff,

    What do you do if another limiting belief pops up while clearing one specific belief. For example, I am working on “I am not capable.” However, when I go back to my childhood events and try to look at it from a new truth or different perspective, I then focused on a traumatic memory where I got really emotional. The feelings were related to another belief besides the first one I was working on. This seems to happen to me often. How do you handle these types of situations? And what do you do when you become overwhelmed with emotions?

    Has anyone else experienced this?

  22. the limiting belief for i am not important is not opening at the start …what happened there ?only 2nd and 3rd part is opening …

  23. I had this question recently in therapy. Then who am I? I laughed bc it was so cliche. Like who am I with all my “stories”. How do you we go about discovering that?

    1. Rodney, Director of Training, Lefkoe Institute says:

      Karen,

      The way we address the “Who am I?” question is with the last steps of our belief process in which we address that question directly. Try the program for free at http://www.recreateyourlife.com/free and you’ll get your own very personal answer to that question after you unlearn a belief.

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