Since offering people the opportunity to choose exactly which problem they’d like to have solved on my website
http://www.recreateyourlife.com/store
I’ve been wondering if there was something else I could offer that would let you live the life you’ve always wanted.
To find out I thought I’d just ask you the question and have you leave your answer on my blog:
“What else would you like to change about your life?”
And you know what, it can be anything at all. Just make sure it’s something you really want to change because I’m going to take your feedback and use it to create new programs in the future.
Examples could be fear of anger or confrontation, experiencing and expressing uncontrolled anger, and specific relationship issues.
You often do get what you wish for… so think BIG.
Just leave a comment below (to remain anonymous just give your name as “anonymous.”
What would help me is to identify which limiting belief limits me most. I mean, working in which direction would give me the best results. For instance, with your free ofer I tried to eliminate the “I’m not good enough”, but I’m not even sure I had that belief. Maybe my belief is “I’m really good, but I can’t do anything with my talent, I just can’t see how I could be useful”. So a tool to understand which is the real belief that is holding you back would be really useful for me. Thank you Morty.
Hopelessness, pessimism, fear of chaos and disaster — I would like to change these negative beliefs about the nature of the world, not just about myself (you already offer help with a sense of powerlessness and worthlessness, which are related problems for me). A difficult childhood with both physically and psychologically abusive parents left me with a very sad and fearful world view, an idea that bad things are constantly lurking. To paraphrase an old saying: “A pessismist dies a thousand deaths, an optimist dies but one.” I’d like to be the optimist and aim for the happy ending.
Hi, I have a problem of finance . I live in Ethiopa,Addis to get a job i mean appropriate job is diffcult right now
i am my way to achive my Accounting degree, but the job market is not that much demanded.Anyway,Now i am dependnt of
my family for my well being.If you have anything please help me i am frustrated with my life.I am 37,i don’t have my
own income i mean i have no job.i have no relationship.Please give some idea to be positive towards life. sometimes
i feel like a victum of my childhood.
Thank you.
I would like to eliminate my limiting beliefs about money. I seem to still think that making money is difficult and that making money requires doing something that I don’t enjoy. But I have a suspicion that if I am aligned with my true purpose and using my unique abilities to their full capacity, the opposite would be true.
Thank you
@: For me the biggest belief issues are with finances and money. Here are some:
“I don’t know how to stay out of debt”
“I can’t handle money well”
“I can’t have the things I desire”
“I can never be wealthy”
“I can never have financial freedom”
Thanks Morty for your website. You are adding to the evolutionary impulse of the universe.
I’d like to change the way how I feel about my looks. I think I have a major negative belief about this issue that keeps me from working towards improving myself in this area.
iam a very confused person.some times i feel yes this is right and the nxt moment i feel its not the correct thing.iam totally confused.i can’t take any decision easily.i always hit my head to find the right solution for the problem, but i couldn,t do it.what should i do.
Hello,
if you could cure my fear of approaching woman, that would be great.
Volker
I am interested in busting through the belief that I can’t make good income doing creative, fun artistic work or that the jobs that pay well are boring, restricive and unfulfilling.. I also want to bust the belief that financially successful people are different from me.
Thank you for all you do!!!
Hi there i keep getting whats left
Over no one ever puts me first and the work that i do have done is never right there is always flaws in everything people do for me so i end up with not being able to move on say i have a little bit of money i ask someone to do something to help my career and they always mess it up or its incomplete not to mention my marriage which i have felt second or third in and my parents who always put me less than first my dad even said once that if there was a fire i would have saved my mum first because they could always have more kids so no wonder i never get put first after this and i cant seem to move on at 50 poor and stuck and terrified
I also noticed the relationship issues people brought up. I’m wondering if these beliefs may resonate with people:
“I’m afraid that my partner will cheat on me”
“I can’t trust anyone”
“People disappoint me”
“People hurt me”
Ooh, I like the first responder’s answer – jealousy. I forgot about that one. (How cool to forget, means progress, right? 😉
A lot of people are mentioning money beliefs, I noticed. Here are a few:
– “I’m not good with money”
– “I struggle financially”
– “Wealthy people are different than me”
– “I could never have those things”
– “I will never get to where I want to be financially”
Great question, thank you for asking it! 🙂
my jealousy? … i dunno but in this relationship i am in i feel jealous about my girl friend alot.. when any guy walks towards her i start to feel annoyed, i dunno how to describe how i feel inside, but i definitely wanna reduce that
I would like to change the patterns I have had in relationships whereby the relationship degenerates into something which is power based and all the men I have been with in one way or another have undermined me and have had anger issues. I have been way too passive and have stayed in situations that were of no real benefit to me. I also haven’t reached a deep connectedness with a partner and wonder if I have issues with intimacy and vulnerability. Often in relationships I fear that my mate will loose interest in me and this has played itself out.
I think a lot of people share some common limiting beliefs surround money and wealth.
Morty
I dont want to change anything you see I came here to experience so many particular things and thats just what I am doing…yes I had probs as a child …but hey I chose my parents to be exactly who I am. My life is perfect just the way it is.
I m so grateful for all I am learning… I am so grateful for all that I have
I give thanks every day for my life …cant wait for my next adventure
love Karyn
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Hi Sanjay,
Thanks for taking the time to post on our blog.
We have a program that we guarantee will significantly increase your confidence and ability to express yourself.
For details go to http://recreateyourlife.com/store/natural-confidence.php
If you have any questions, please let me know. Feel free to call me if you’d like: 415-884-0552.
Regards, Morty
I am in a situation that I have been trying to resolve for a long time. A friend introduced me to Mike a few years ago. We became friends and did things together but I wouldn’t consider it “dating”. Mike has been a kind friend to me and helped me out a lot. He is, however,in love with me and I do not feel the same about him. I have explained this to him repeatedly yet he insists on calling me his girlfriend and tells me he loves me even though I do not respond with the same to him. He is happy staying in one place with his life and it feels like I have a huge rock hanging around my neck where he is concerned. I do not want to hurt him so the situation isn’t changing but it sure needs to change. When I told him I didn’t feel the same way he does, he said “that’s ok”. I need help in getting him on the right track so he isn’t inhibiting me so much. How can I compassionately tell him to move on?
Hi Katrine,
We already have a program that we guarantee will stop you from worrying about what others think of you.
Glad to hear that our work has been making a difference in your life.
Regards, Morty
Stop worrying what other people might think about you. Stop limiting beliefs. These are unfortunately big issues for me, but hopefully the Lefkoe method can help me in the future with the above. It already has ; )
Hi Rod,
I’m thrilled that eliminating only one belief made such a difference for you and your daughter.
I don’t mean this to be a sales pitch, but most of what you’re talking about could be relieved, if not totally eliminated, by our Natural Confidence program that helps you eliminate 23 basic beliefs and conditionings.
We have been offering a Money Package but although the five beliefs are eliminated if you do this program, there don’t appear to be enough of a change in attitude about money to keep it on the market. We probably will revise it at some point and bring it back.
Thanks for your interest in our work.
Regards,Morty
Thank you for your work so far! Not only did I experience a great and sudden change from your “I’m not good enough” program but I also asked my 11 yr old daughter to try the “Mistakes are Bad” session. She’s a new person…confident, decisive…it worked like a charm. Again, my most sincere thanks.
After reading the above posts, I share a few of the issues presented, specifically regarding money consciousness… I have struggled with it for years, read books, attended seminars, used affirmations, self-hypnosis, re-birthing, you name it I’ve tried it…still seem stuck somehow. So that would be a good topic to create a specific product for.
This next one is not as easily identified or verbalized… as far back as I can remember I have felt as if there was a membrane enveloping me, keeping me just out of reach with my goals. I work hard, get results, then things fall apart (self-sabotage, I’m sure) but why? A suppressed guilt, feelings of unworthiness, perhaps (but I really do feel I’m good enough now)– it’s simply maddening that I see other people go from poverty mindset and change their mindset to one that allows them to overcome all obstacles, yet try as I might that same process seems to elude me. I need to break through whatever the ‘membrane’ is, so I can set an example for my children rather than feeling as if I’m always the one who needs to ask favors or borrow money from others. I’m way too capable to be in this hand-to-mouth state…and it causes me to feel ashamed of my current situation. I need to celebrate my victories, not feel ‘less than’.
I hope that makes some sense to you. As I said, it is very hard to verbalize exactly.
Thanks again for all you’re ding to make this world a better place one person at a time.
First ofall thank u very much for running such a good programme.I have a problem of self expressing. I also lack in cofidence building.
Thanks once again,
Sanjay Negi
Dear Morty,
I had already asked for a program
about my need:
I critisize everything around me, both positively or negatively. In the later I get angry when others opinion does not meet mine.
So far no reponse from you. Have you?
Truly Joee
I have a fear of regret. That I must be very careful of what I do and the decisions that I make or I will grow to regret my life and dispise myself. There is no basis for this fear because I have not regretted even my most horrible mistakes because they brought me to this point, but I still fear it.
I would like to change the faulty programming that caused me to lose two of my children and continue to have failure with the legal system working to irradiate prejudice against me and financial complications that keep me from pursuing this venture . I am compelled to change the AZ laws against Child protective services. I need to have them changed to bring my now adoptive children home. More than twenty regulations that CPS were to follow were not met or were falsely reported by CPS. I am dealing with legal ramifications due to all of this. I need assistance both monetarily and legally to continue my plight. I know this is mine to take responsibility for, but it was not mine as to why it happened to me.Any assistance will be greatly appreciated. Thank You in advance. I love you and peace be with you.
I need to grow the balls to leave my girlfriend of 15 years; she doesn’t understand money and refuses to even confront the issue. I’ve tied speaking to her, but her respnse is that my blood sugar is low, or i’m just being mean. The problem is she’s so not in touch, she’ll be homeless within weeks and my natural compassion is making me feel guilt.
Dear Morty,
I tried to stop 2 of the offered beliefs: “mistakes … are bad”, and “I am not important” – just to understand your method, but these were not really my beliefs.
It will help if you can offer overcoming my really disturbing belief that:
I criticize every body and anything but myself, both positively and negatively, because I am confident about my views and ideas, which proved correct most of the times. Therefore I get angry and quarrel with people having different ideas. Therefore I have not many friends, and cannot find my matching woman, even tried many.
I hope you will find this as an issue for a specific program, for which I could not find an offer in your lists.
Thank you,
Joee
financial fears
There are so many beliefs one has and 23 on offer is just the tip of the ice burg. I noticed that each belief program follows a very similar structure.
Now this would enable a template approach where one is asked specific questions, types the answers and the result is a personalised belief buster type application. The financial model would be intresting – maybe own the application like any other where updates were sold, or one payed and used it online or even a SAAS model.
Also for your technique to really get globle attention it needs to be able to be accessed by the masses. What would be great would be a steped process one goes through with ones self, an online question answer process or even a directed process with the aid of a companion to be able to identify ones belief structure. I know you often say it takes a trained fascilitator to do this, but a DVD or book if structured in the right way could surely deliver a positive result. Even if the answer is : Most likely negative beliefs.
Another possible way of packaging your beliefs is under Mental Illness. Ie Anxiety – social, performance, general, panic etc. Everybody in this world gets labeled at one point and so is looking for answers under these labels – this would also be a great way to direct more traffic to your site as people who are seeking answers and help if asociate themselves with a mental illness are much more likely to purchase.
P.S I think this internet prospective client interaction model is very powerful – find out what people want and give it to them – simple yet very clever.
Hi Andrew,
Thanks for taking the time to write your suggestions.
We are looking for ways to offer on-line programs to help people with any type of problem. At the moment, we can only do this with problems where the beliefs are pretty much the same with everyone. There are many problems where the beleifs are too different for a generic program, in which case we offer private phone or Skype sessions where we can help clients identify their specific beliefs, and then help them eliminate those beliefs.
Love, Morty
One of my friends is constantly saying, “It might work for you, but nothing works for me.” Do you have something that deals with victim consciousness?
First of all, thank you so much, Morty for your amazing program. I cannot recall when somebody made such profound impact on the way I look at life and myself.
I’ve read the other answers and if I may say, I think all of us here need to hear more of the “I’m not good enough” podcast. I personally think all of my problems originate from that single belief. Just like Mr. Lefkoe, I didn’t know what was standing in my way of true freedom and success. I think he finally revealed it to me.
There is no silver bullet for our problems, in my case, I need to let certain truths sink in, meditate about the ways I went about life.
I thought of beliefs that I would like to eliminate and so many things came to my mind ( fear, anxiety, useless perfectionism, to name a few) but I’ve realized all of them come from one single belief that I’m not good enough. I can’t believe how repressed that belief was and how well hidden it’s been all these years. I would lie if I said that belief is gone overnight but just knowing what’s been standing in my way for so long is half way there:)
Good luck to all of you and thank you again from the bottom of my heart, M.L.!
i would like to sell my artwork. I love doing it but very difficult to find market. My work I would catogorize as “Slow Art”. In this fast world the problem is slowing people down long enough to expirience thae value of the work. in fact I beleive the value of slow art is that it does slow you down in the right way. How to market this. The making and selling of art seem opposite.
Feeling that my best years are behind me — and they weren’t even that good! Fear that other people’s age discrimination will prevent me from getting what I want in job and relationships, and I can’t control other people so why bother?
I would really like some help with procrastination.The feeling like the task at hand might be overwhelming so you do Nothing at all. Need more motivation. I want to be excited and eager to get things done, instead I do nothing and then fear peoples judgement about not getting anything done.—–Also have LOTS of limiting beliefs about money—and last have lots of fears about being judged by people—it’s almost like I’ve become a recluse because I feel like if people knew the real me they wouldn’t like me and really I know thats silly, but it true for me. I feel like I’m different even tho I know I’m not
Thank you very much for offering help to people which I hope will help me too.
My biggest problem is that whenever I feel happy because something (be it romantic relationships or money)is going smoothly in my life all of a sudden I am confronted with a blockage and things seem to go downwards. Can it be because I do not feel lovable and have a fear of rejection? Is there any hope for me to reverse this situation? I should reall be very happy if you would help me.
Hi Morty,
Thank you for all your help. Like Vikki’s comment above, I am plagued by the addiction of bulimia. I have been sober for 28 years and can’t seem to keep abstinent of overeating and vomiting. Is there something we can do?
Hi Margie,
Thanks for your interest in our work.
We have been able to help people with bulimia and other eating disorders.
Please call us at 415-884-0552 for more information or to make an appointment for a private phone or Skype session.
Love, Morty
What would you like to change about your life? Great question. Much more challenging to answer. I believe that I what I would like to change most in my life to have more confidence, faith, belief, trust when attempting to manifest and attract what I desire into my life. To be able to quiet my negative doubts and quit making excuses about why my life isn’t working and celebrate the reasons is a miracle.
I need HELP with substance abuse….I suffer with the dis-ease of addiction…smoking, gambling, drugs, drinking,it’s always one of the above at any given time…please advise
Thanks….Vikki
Hi Vicki,
We can help with addictions, but not with a DVD program. You would need private sessions on the phone or Skype to help you identify the specific beleifs and conditionings that are causing your addictions. When they are eliminated, the addictions will be too.
Call us if you have any additional questions at 415-884-0552.
Love, Morty
how to access unconscious beliefs
Morty fear of rejection is the big one I find for several groups 1. Sales. 2. Dating. 3. Socially in general.Your Thoughts?
Hi Rome,
Thanks fo ryour interest in our work.
Our Natural Confidence program will help you get rid of a concern with the opinion of others and doing things to get their approval.
Check it out at http://recreateyourlife.com/naturalconfidence.
Let me know what you think after you try it.
Love, Morty
experiencing and expressing uncontrolled anger
and specific relationship issues such as lack of hope in improvement (fear of owning and being in one’s own power)
fear of violent / non violent confrontation,
You have done an excellent job of recreating a piece of the Forum in an amazingly succinct manner.I “got it” in a way I never did originally. I forgot all about it and still need to brush off the cobwebs from the 80’s. I don’t think I ever worked on it with beliefs and specific problems but rather from specific events. In any case, I am looking for some real results which I have not been able to create up to now and I think your program might be the next piece of the puzzle for me. Once I get a little money together, I will purchase your program. The question is “Will I need to do your program in order to “get a little money together?”
Hi Pushti,
Glad you found our material useful.
You can pay for the Natural Confidence program over a three month period if that will help.
Love, Morty
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Thank you so very much for helping me get rid of a limiting belief. There are no words to descibe this.
My desire is for a program to help me with money beliefs. I don’t know that would be the answer to end all my problems…but I do struggle with money. I have read alot of different books and yes, even gotten programs all supposed to help me. I am fairly intelligent and yet there is never enough money to go around. I am now seeing an abundance of money from expected and unexpected places, showing up…yet, I am still stuck. I have plans for an internet biz but don’t do anything…or it is too hard and will take too long(I think) Yet, I am stuck. WHAT should I work on first?
Hi ,
We have a program where you can eliminate five of the most common limiting money beliefs, but you really need to eliminate your limiting self-esteem beleifs first.
If you want to access the money beliefs, go to: http://receateyourlife.com/moneybeliefs.
Love, Morty
Firstly, I would like to thank you for producing and sharing a fabulous programme that is not only fascinating and powerful, but free. I am in the depths of very debilitating debt, and am living on a prayer at the moment. So thank you so much.
For myself, a future programme on the fear of letting people get close to you. The fear of letting yourself go to the experiance and trusting that it will be OK. The fear of being loved. Another programme would be on not allowing the thoughts of others to stunt your choices and your brilliance. Jealousy is a cunning constraint on our pysche.
Thank you 🙂
Hi Juliet,
Thanks for your interest in our work.
Our Natural Confidence program will allow you to eliminate many of the beleifs that cause much of what you want to change. Check it out at http://recreateyourlife.com/naturalconfidence.
Let me know how this program changes your life.
Love, Morty
I tied one of your 3: not good enough, in the late evening. Early morning had a sort of waking-dream where I watched an animated drawing of a little girl striding along confidently in a pretty dress with a sash. I noticed a number of traits about her, all seemed OK; I thought, there’s nothing wrong with this kid, she’s been fixed. Because she was an animated drawing, yet “me”, and the “fixed” characteristics were in printed sucinct phrases, I recognized this as reflecting your mini-program.
Very interesting!
I would suggest a fear to fix as a new program: the fear of annihilation. Sound extreme? I live in an old house in eastern France, a region that was occupied during the war. A few years ago a geo-biologist as they are called here, helped some of the stuck “ghosts” to become free of this fear and and the house feels entirely different since, and I am more at ease.
This is the fear that came to mind when you asked. Jews, even though French citizens, had to hide, if they could, in order not to be annihilated, and as no one knew for sure who was a colaborator, just carrying on with business-as-usual was uncertain for ordinary villagers too….the Colective Subconscious has a lot of that left I think.
I also notice in myself that when I experience anger directed towards me from someone I can’t escape(father, husband) I feel it in an exaggerated way: as an annihilation intention that (normally) won’t be carried out. When in middle school Latin class we learned that in ancient Rome the father, Pater Familias, had the legal, religious & cultural right of life & death over his children. I immediately thought “how lucky not to be living with my father then, I’d have to be so carefull because I’d risk a lot more than a spanking!
So your innocent little program has brought up a lot of insights on what to clear! It gives me leads that I can follow through on with TAT & EFT also. Very compatible techniques with your process.