Since offering people the opportunity to choose exactly which problem they’d like to have solved on my website
http://www.recreateyourlife.com/store
I’ve been wondering if there was something else I could offer that would let you live the life you’ve always wanted.
To find out I thought I’d just ask you the question and have you leave your answer on my blog:
“What else would you like to change about your life?”
And you know what, it can be anything at all. Just make sure it’s something you really want to change because I’m going to take your feedback and use it to create new programs in the future.
Examples could be fear of anger or confrontation, experiencing and expressing uncontrolled anger, and specific relationship issues.
You often do get what you wish for… so think BIG.
Just leave a comment below (to remain anonymous just give your name as “anonymous.”
I don’t know if this is something I would like to change about my life, I would just like it to come at me in a different way.
I have many interests. I pick up new skills easily, and my life grows more interesting as each piece finds its place in the master jigsaw puzzle. I believe my value grows as I add more tools and am able not only to select the right one for the job at hand, but to understand their inter-relationship and interaction.
My skills are, however, 1 inch deep and a thousand miles wide. I know quite a little about quite a lot. And as you might expect, push one more thing in my head and something else will fall out.
My life is a banquet, a buffet if you will.
It would be much better if it were served in courses — to temp, savor, consume and digest before being presented with the next one.
to be able to live the truth from GOD
TO BE A FAITHFUL SERVANT OF THE MOST HIGH GOD
THERE IS POWER IN GODS WORD.
KEN THANKS.
I am a bit shy when in a social situation where I don’t know anyone so I do go to social funtions by myself, how can I get rid of that fear.
My misperceptions about the situations and the people. Silence the trials, the interpretations. Learn to wait for act when the mind is clear.
Do not experience the anguish or anxiety.
My misperceptions about the situations and the people. Silence the trials, the interpretations. Learn to wait for act when the mind is clear.
Don’t experience the anguish or anxiety.
I would like to stop worrying about my financial future. I would also like to get rid of the fear of failure that prevents me from actioning new money-making ventures.
I would like to get rid of the habit of worrying. It would seem my ego needs something to worry about so I tend to attract more things to worry about. I know I can do EFT to control this but I would like a more permanent shift in my subconscious mind to eliminate this need. I would also like to be able to control my body’s fight or flight response. It is overactive in my body to the point where I will turn red very easily when I talk to some people or if I bump into someone I know when out and about or if attention is on me. It is very embarrassing because I can’t hide it. The fact that I know it happens a lot just makes it worse so it happens even more. My body also goes into little panic attacks sometimes, which is probably linked to the oversensitive fight or flight or freeze response. Any help would be appreciated.
i want to Make millions money ,I love to be successfull and Being make me happy, i want to change my beliefs
I would like to stop procrastinating.
There are a few things I would like to change in my life.To be the person I know I am inside.( strong,outgoing,friendly supportive and alive) Give my family the life they deserve. Have a supportive and loving husband. I know these are all things I can change but right now I am lost in so many ways.
I need to work on being afraid of getting close to people. I have a mate I am close to, but rarely want to let others into my world.
Morty,
The following isn’t a specific comment, but more of a laundry list. Your program on self confidence would seem to cover a great deal of the areas I’d like to change or improve upon, but after doing the complimentary trial of the Lefkoe method, I’m still not convinced I got any results. It’s very difficult to measure such changes.
One of the biggest obstacles for me in utilizing your program is a seeming inability to recall much in the way of detailed conversations with my parents that would qualify as instances where I got the impression of being told I’m incompetent, or whatever. So when asked in the free trial to say can’t you see this event happening, I can say yes and pretend to go along with it, but I really didn’t.
I’m very happy your method seems to work for some folks, and I honestly wish I were one of them. If I thought I would get different results with your self confidence program than I did with the complimentary trial I wouldn’t hesitate to order it. I think part of me doesn’t want to order the program because I’m afraid it won’t work for me and I like to maintain this fantasy that somewhere out there a program like this does exist that would really aid me.
Morty, based on what I’ve read about your method and comments I’ve seen I really think your heart is in the right place and your method really seems to work for some folks, so these comments aren’t directed at your sincerity. I don’t think you could get a much better endorsement than the one from Steve Pavlina. For me I think this may fall into the same category as hypnosis; I know it works very well for some people, and I wish I could and have tried to be hypnotized, but my brain doesn’t seem to work that way.
Morty, thanks for creating and bringing this method to the world. Godspeed.
Hi Jeff,
Thanks for your interest in our work and for your note.
A couple of comments.
First, take a look at my blog post that helps people realize that a belief really is gone when you aren’t sure. http://www.mortylefkoe.com/110309/
Second, if you are kinesthetic, you might not have “seen” the belief, you might have “felt” it. If you completed the process, you would have eliminated the belief using the part of the process specifically for people who feel rather than see their beliefs.
Third, here is a blog post that might help you find the source of your beliefs: http://www.mortylefkoe.com/092209/ See also the help video for people who have had difficult finding the source of a belief. I don’t remember much of my childhood and I’ve been able to eliminate hundreds of beliefs using the techniques described in the help video.
Finally, you have nothing to lose by trying the Natural Confidence program of 19 beliefs and four conditionings. If you don’t think it worked for you, you have a lifetime guarantee and can get all your money back at any time. Try and and return it if you aren’t convinced it worked for you.
Let me know what happens.
Regards, Morty
I think there are some very good suggestions above.
I’d like to get rid of negative beliefs related to money, for example: “rich people are greedy and selfish”, “it’s noble to be poor and to struggle” (my parents were catholics!) and “I don’t deserve to have money.”
Thanks.
Fear of confrontation is a good one. Also I’d like to be able to articulate my thoughts and opinions more clearly to people. I’d like to be able to stand up for my beliefs and explain them to people in a non-confrontational way.
i want to be a successful person in every aspect of my life.
Hi Morty
I would like to adapt to life here in Canada.I often feel depressed and overwhelmed with the lifestyle here. It would be a good idea if you could come up with a program that would address the issue of “culture shock” experienced by most new immigrants to countries like the US, Canada and elsewhere.
Mr. and Mrs. Lefkoe,
If I could choose an area of my life to improve, that would be my relationships with womens that I find attractive. Wich I know It might be related to a lack of confidence or maybe a fear of rejection, but I also think that the fact that both of my parents haved always been arguing, discussing and not really getting along may have lead, as welll, to me forming another beliefs related to these kind of relationships.
By the way, I live in a spanish-speaking country (Chile), so it would be great if at some point you could do the same programs in multiple languages, so more people could benefit.
Thanks for your discoveries and your work, I really appreciate it.
Morty,
There is 1 desire and it’s a BIG one.
I left corporate world and am becoming a professional adventurer. As stated in my blog, the world inside my head and how I see myself is grand and brilliant. I love my ideas and enjoy creating them and I love adding adventure into the lives of others.
However, when I present these ideas to anyone other than myself whether in written form on my blog or site or in person (to anyone, family or stranger) my beliefs fall apart. It’s as if I suddenly don’t believe in myself at all. That great self confidence just evaporates.
I want the true belief (what I know to be true) to be resilient and strong regardless of who I’m sharing my ideas with. I want confidence and belief in myself no matter what obstacle or bad words are said about them.
Cheers and thanks again!
Hi Morty,
Mine would be to know exactly what my goals are – to know what I really want in life. I don’t want to drift through life, not being aware, and then to come up with the answer on my death bed! What a waste!
Thanks
Hilary
Hi Morty,
I think I have uncovered a belief that I have yet to dispel: That I must suffer to improve – or something like that. I think that when I was punished as a child, I felt not only that I deserved to feel bad, but that feeling bad was a necessary step in improving my behavior or whatever. Consciously I find this silly, but again and again I find myself feeling bad and thinking that when I feel bad enough I will do something about whatever is bothering me, as if feeling bad (or really terrible) is somehow a catalyst for making improvements in myself or in my life.
Hope this helps,
Denise
Hi Denise,
Thanks for your interest in our work and for your note.
Sounds like you have identified a belief you need to get rid of. Because this is not that common, it is not one of the beliefs we have available on-line. We probably could help you get rid of it and any related beliefs in a single one-on-one phone session.
If you have any questions about getting rid of “I have to suffer to improve (or get what I want) please call us at 415-884-0552.
Regards, Morty
Morty
To let you know I am interested.. There seems to me to be so many mentors and help programs out there which one do you go with. Information comes at you on the internet at lightning speed and there are numerous people that send you there help program obviously you can’t do them all. I am in a position right now where I don’t really know where I should be going or doing in a business, job or what?? If you can help me with this it would be great as I know that I have many gifts and abilities in business but am not sure how to get from where I am right now to where I should be. If you can help that would be awesome!!
Thank you for what you have done and getting in touch with me as I appreciate it.
Hope you had an awesome Christmas and I wish you incredible success in the New Year!!
Thank you,
Mark
Hi Mark,
I’m sure we could help if you set up a phone session with us. Please call us at 415-884-0552.
Regards, Morty
Dear Morty,
well I must admit, this is one of the nicest favours anyone has ever asked of me and an opportunity the like of which I´ve rarely seen, so a big thanks in andvance.
Here goes:
Plain and simple I´d like to be less lazy. A lot less lazy to be honest.
And while I love being active and productive, there´s always this “hurdle” of lazyness I´ve got to overcome before being able to do something soundly and properly.
More often than not the hurdle wins and I end up doing things half-heartedly and with a result that is mediocre while it could have been a lot better.
I´d like that obliterated for good!
Thanks again, and as we germans say:
Einen guten Rutsch ins neue Jahr.
Andreas
Hi Andreas,
As is the cause with almost every problem in life, the source of your laziness is beliefs and conditionings. You should be able to identify and eliminate them in a few one-on-one phone (or Skype) sessions.
If you’d like more information about these sessions and what we could do for you, please call us at 415-884-0552.
Regards, Morty
Hi Morty
I ‘d like to ask how to stop seeking approval and permission from others . Ie breaking away from the need to be dependent.
I guess its a fear behaviour., Not really sure.
thanks,
Ann
Hi Morty,
i’d like to turn my life coaching business into a multi-million dollar successful business that has people flocking to my motivational workshops and seminars and become New Zealand’s most sought after motivational speaker of all time!
Hi Chris,
I can’t guarantee that you’ll create a multi-million dollar business if you eliminate your limiting beliefs, but you’ll have a hard time doing it if you have limiting beliefs.
So I suggest you take a look at see what you believe about yourself, live, people, and having a successful business that might be getting in the way of you having what you want. And then get rid of those beliefs.
If you need some help in doing that, we’d be happy to help. Call us at 415-884-0552 for more information.
Regards, Morty
If U can offer any type of course where we can learn & then teach to other people any crash course. Thanks Salim
Hi Salim,
We intend to offer an on-line training course early next year. We’ll let everyone on our mailing list know when it is ready.
Regards, Morty
Thanks Morty!
I’d like to stop procrastinating, get done what needs doing in my life, accomplish the goals I want.
Hi Bill.
Not all the questions on this blog are as easy to answer as yours.
We have a program specifically designed to get rid of procrastination. In fact, we offer an unconditional lifetime guarantee that it will go away and never come back.
For more information please go to: http://recreateyourlife.com/store/procrastination-ed.php
Regards, Morty
There are no limits to what you may achieve except those you yourself believe and impose. If you are able to think it you are able to create it. Thank you universe.
Hi Lory,
Thanks for taking the time to write.
I agree, our biggest limitations are the ones we impose on ourselves.
Regards, Morty
I like to learn to let go and be patient to see things happen as it supposed to happen.
Hi Nikki,
Usually what keeps us from letting go are two things:
A bunch of negative self-esteem-type beliefs.
The sense that we are this body, this creation. Using the Who Am I Really? Process enables you to experience that you are creator the the creation, not merely the creation. In that space letter go is a lot easier.
Regards, Morty
I would like to create funding to provide an environmental information and comment web page to inform we the people of current choice technologies that restore both elements of life.
We can not continue burying waste in landfill sites that pollute our natural resources without the benefits of certified re mediation technology, We have been destroying both elements of life for decades, it’s time we either start to clean up the mess we have created and replace our current methods of disposing waste too methods that restore clean water and air.
To be pain-free so that I can enjoy life.
I would like to change the way I react to upsetting or stressful situations. I can be in the best mood and something unsettling can totally spin me out. I don’t want bad events to have control over my mood. Thanks for your help
Fix whatever keeps money and prosperity away from me. I’ve tried soooooo many modalities, it’s not funny any more 🙁
Love,
Ed
I’ve been depressed (on & off) my whole life. THe earliest depressive memory was when I was 2 yrs old. Depression effects people mentally, emotionally, spiritually & physically. I want to know how to beat this once and for all, so I can live life.
xoxo
Good morning, and thank you for everything you do 🙂 I am just starting to finally tell people what I think, but I wish I wasn’t so afraid of confrontation all of the time. For years, I kept my mouth shut when people would say or do something that would hurt my feelings, and in finding myself and gaining a bit of courage, I am finally standing up for myself. My problem is that I can’t talk to them face to face and say the things I want to say, so instead I write a letter. I feel the need to get everything off my chest but I dont like arguing, so I do it the ‘chicken out’ way. I wish I was able to just say what I felt at the time I felt it, and I’m working on it. I hope you all have a great day!
i would love to get rid of my insecure and gealous feelings i have and have had in all my relationships. The pattern needs to go that i have as i cannot enjoy and relax in my relationship. I am fixated that my partner always fancies other women whether its someone he has just met or his female friends. When im not with him im always thinking hes flirting with women and looking at other women and doesnt care too much for me.
Morty,
Is there any way for you to put your method on CDs? You could also put it on I-Tunes as well.
Hi Morty,
in the past I have purchased several “self-help” programs and I noticed myself either not using them or if I used them, they did not do anything for me.
The reason why I didn´t use some of them is a belief “this will not work” and this belief was also active when I used a system — so no wonder that I didn´t change.
I would love if you could adress this belief “this will not work (either)” or “nothing will work”.
It feels to me that “I know better”, I simply know that things will not work and it is not worth trying them, I´ll waste my time on them. I feel so strong that I am right about it that it´s almost impossible to give anything a fair chance to change/help me.
Hmm… I guess if anything would suceed in changing me that would mean I would have been wrong in the first place (with the belief that “this will not work) and this I can not allow to happen because I am the one who is right!! 😉
Morty it seems that there is more than just one belief here, maybe a whole identity which needs to be changed.
Thanks for your comment on it.
I would like to change the way I react to upsetting or stressful situations. I can be in the best mood and something unsettling can totally spin me out. I don’t want bad events to have control over my mood. Thanks for your help
I would like to change my derfault mode of making others wrong when something does not go as I would like it to.
I guess, the thing I’d like to get rid of, is something like procrastination, but nor quite : it’s a real difficulty to go and do concrete things for myself. I’m able to do them for others, and I do not procrastinate (or maybe not as much?) when things are less real, less concrete. I mostly don’t do what I want to do when my action will bring a very concrete real consequence in my life (well or not, but since I don’t do, I don’t know).
It’s like I’m afraid of success instead of failure.
Thank you for creating your program and sharing it with us and the world.
I’d like to see something which would propel people–myself included–past the negative effects of bullying. With workplace bullying a pervasive problem and the economy working against those who try to escape, and given the refusal of schoolteachers to act against school bullying but penalizing those who defend themselves, this should sell. A high school boy just killed himself here from the effects of bullying. Can you help?
I would like to learn how to remove conditionings. Your book explains how to remove known limiting beliefs, and I’ve used this to huge effect, but I still don’t know how to remove conditionings beyond the four in the Natural Confidence course.
I have a severe eating disorder and I would love to eradicate it from life along with other addicitons. I want to stop having to eat ALL the time for reasons including: anger, upset, fear, anxiety, exhaustion and to avoid intimacy. I am bulimic with compulsive over eating tendencies.
I am so anxious all the time around food, I can’t stand food preparation and my life literally revolves around food obsessions. I am obsessed with weight trying to lose weight and the incredibly rigid beliefs that I can’t do anything while Im fat. IE. No one dates a fat person, fat people can’t have fun. No one likes fat people. I know how ridiculous it is but its wrecking my life! I have tried for years to get over my eating disorder, medication, gyms, trainers, dietician, psychologists but i keep eating when i get stressed and hiding food “in case Im starved”. (There is no physical threat of starvation either).
Any thing you could develop to help this problem would be great. Alot of people seem compulisivley over eat. Thank you.
I just want a job in shanghai.
It is so difficult for me to get a good job.
I am blue these days
I can’t find a purpose to my life that resonates with me. Nothing seems to excite me and call me for action. That’s what I want to change in my life.
Hi, Morty!
I have a sales job and I really suck at it. I seem to be a bit of a pushover sometimes. When some potential customers offer up their initial “not interested”, I say “OK!” and I zoom out the door.
The biggest change I’d like to make in my life right now is I’d like to be able to be just assertive enough to push beyond those initial reflex responses/objections from potential customers, but not so much as to come off as a jerk.
I am almost afraid of seeming pushy, and one thing I’ve noticed about me is that I like to be liked by others, and I don’t like confrontation or antagonism between me and others. I hope that helps you get some ideas for future programs 🙂
What I would like to change the most is how to communicate my knowledge to others in a meaningful and helpful way…in particular my children. I usually feel anxious and do not know what to say… Often I cannot read them…what they need or what they’re looking for when they come to me for help.
Thank you
Jacqueline
Hi Morty,
I’m working through Natural Confidence right now with great enthusiasm and encouraging results.
Having read your October post on food issues, I know that I should get some improvement in that area from Natural Confidence. But I’d love a whole program or maybe multiple programs that address certain dimensions on making unhealthy food choices and eating when you’re not hungry. In addition to beliefs you mentioned, I’m grappling with things like:
* I prefer the taste of junk food (high fat / salt / sugar) to fresh fruits and vegetables
* Healthy food doesn’t taste good
* I’ll never succeed in changing how I eat
I recognize that food is a complicated area as you discussed, but I think the potential for a product that works is huge and the positive benefit you would have in the world would be amazing.
More general and probably related to food as well as other areas:
* If I express emotions I will be rejected
* It is weak to have emotions
* It is a waste of time to think about your emotions
* Asking for help is a sign of weakness
…and finally I agree with others who are stuck on money and career
* I can’t make much money doing what I love
* Work has to be unpleasant. They call it “work” for a reason.
* I’m only as worthwhile as the money I earn (hoping to get some progress on that one via Natural Confidence)
Thanks, Morty! Great stuff.
Inspired,
Caryn