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After you get rid of your belief, let me know what you think below.
Morty Lefkoe
thank you, for your program… it real helped to boost my self esteem & confidence.
Morty, you’re Natural Confidence program has been amazing.
I am forever grateful, for years I’ve been looking for an effective
method for eliminating negative beliefs, changing my self talk
and changing my self image without ridiculous amounts of
effort, mindfulness and self discipline… the results came
slowly and felt laboured!
With the Lefkoe process though I feel like I’ve changed my
whole perspective on life within just a couple of days. This is
by far the best $250 I’ve ever spent in my life, not just for
the fact that I’ve eliminated the beliefs, but also because
following along with your videos taught me the process itself
so when I identified a belief that wasn’t covered in the program,
specifically, “I’m not cool”, I was able to shatter that belief
that had stayed with me since I was 5 years old and got
bullied at my new school… and I was able to do so in just
minutes!
Thank you, thank you, thank you, what you’re doing is
truly amazing!
Dima
Sorry, this don’t works for me,it is just another, hopeless tentative.
Hi Joao,
Sorry our program didn’t work for you. It does work with about 90% of the population. Some day I might be able to create something that works for a larger percent. I wish you luck in finding something that gives you what you want..
Thank you for the revelation! What a powerful experience indeed! Life is never the same after the Lefkoe experience. The most interesting aspect of this inner adventure is that it feels like liberating an imprisoned part of yourself! In a way, it feels like it breaks free…Like creating its freedom by itself. Thank you so much for your inspired work!
Hi Rene,
Congratulations on your new-found freedom. Keep eliminating beliefs and the freedom will grow.
Regards, Morty
Hello Morty,
I just tried your free course and it really seems my negative feeling went out. Whenever it would try to come back, I always remember that we create our interpretations and that it’s even more enforced that there are many views to what happens.
I am really surprised and eager to try this technique at work!
Thanks a lot,
-K
Hi K,
Glad to hear you liked the free belief.
Let me know what you think after you eliminate all the beliefs hat cause specific problems and the problems disappear along with the beliefs.
Regards, Morty
extraordinary site. I have honestly appreciated it!
Hi,
Glad you found our free belief elimination site useful.
Regards, Morty
Hi,
I purchased the Undoityourself Public Speaking Fear DVD’s recently and completed them. Unfortunately, it did not seem to remove my fear of public speaking.
Hi Gary,
Sorry to hear that. The program works for most people most of the time.
Please call me so I can figure out what happened and help you get rid of your fear.
Call em at 415-884-0552.
Regards, Morty
OK, I’ve got to admit I’m hesitantly blown away by this belief-eliminating stuff. I think I eliminated a couple beliefs (or are they just sleeping?). It hit me like a rock when it happened. A day after I did it I was able to speak in public settings in ways I’ve never been able to. It’s weird. Was it coincidence? Is my self-doubt going to come back? I hope not. I ordered your book. I’m really intrigued about your ideas of reducing my emotional response to other peoples words & actions. I really pray this is for real. It’ll change my life if it is. I’ll owe you an enormous debt.
Hi Jon,
Thanks for sharing your success and your doubts.
The biggest problem we have is that people don’t believe they just did what they just did: permanently eliminate a belief.
I do want to emphasize that it is unlikely that you’ve resolved all your self-doubt by eliminating two or three beliefs. There probably are a bunch more. But when you eliminate all the relevant beliefs, the self-doubt will be gone.
Reading about the Lefkoe Belief Process is interesting, but it will not eliminate beliefs. You need to DO the Lefkoe Belief Process.
If you aren’t sure if this is for real, read the hundreds of comments on this blog. It is. It really is.
And you don’t owe me anything. It is what I live for.
Regards, Morty
Morty,
thanks for the quick reply. How best to do the Lefkoe process? Are the DVD’s enough? The phone sessions? The phone sessions seem pricey if they don’t work, but a bargain if they do. Are there practitioners in my area (baltimore-annapolis) who know how to do it?
I’m also wondering if repeated undoing of the same or similar beliefs–beliefs I don’t think I have anymore but can’t believe are really gone–will sort of wear out the magic and return me too my previous condition.
Jon
Hi Jon,
What program to get depends on what problems you want to get rid of.
This program is our most complete and will handle most of the most common problems. http://recreateyourlife.com/store/natural-confidence.php
The phone sessions enable us to specifically identify your specific problems, and then help you eliminate exactly the beliefs that cause them. But they are more expensive.
You might want to start with the Natural Confidence program that will handle a lot of issues and then see if you need one-on-one sessions. If you do, you will have already handled most of the negative self-esteem beliefs.
You might have to get rid of the belief: Change is difficult and takes a long time, before you will believe that the beliefs you worked on really are gone. That belief is part of the Natural Confidence program.
Regards, Morty
HI Morty<
Thanks very much for your free program. It has bbeen extremely useful as I carefully noted my reactions to my normal triggers and I am happy to tell that they are gone.I am goiing to do the elimination programs again< just to make sure that the last vestiges have gone . I shall be very happy to inform you of my progress.
I do find myself at a point where I want to choose a new life, one that fulfills my deeper desires and I am confident that I will be able to create this very soon.
Your contribution to society is enormous and I feel like a lucky chosen one to have the opportunity to rid myself of unconscious and limiting beliefs which go on repeating the patterns of the past endlessly.
I am done with that
I do look forward to your free program as presently I am not able to buy the consolidated programs.
Thanks for your help and I am very grateful.
God bless you
Kiran
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Hi Kiran,
Thanks for sharing your experience with our free programs. Hopefully you will be able to get some additional beliefs in the near future, so that you can further expand your sense of freedom.
Regards, Morty
Hi Morty,
This seems to be the only way to contact you, as have raised a support ticket over 3 days ago and no reponse.
I purchased Natural Confidence, and have a query. On some of the beliefs, i really dont recall anything damaging, hurtfull etc with parents, yet definitely recall incidents with school friends that has negative connotations (e.g. bullying etc) and left me upset at the time (and leaves deep seated feelings). Is it probable that beliefs can be caused by these events, in which case can I replace the events with parents with that of friends/school mates?
Hi Robin,
Sorry you didn’t get an answer sooner.
Don’t look for “terrible” incidents with your parents. Parents get frustrated and annoyed (or angry) when their children don’t do what they want, when they want and the way they want. It happens many times each day. That annoyance leads a child to conclude: Mistakes are bad, I’m not good enough, I’m not capable, etc.
See my blog post for more details. http://www.mortylefkoe.com/092209/
Very, very rarely is the source of self-esteem beliefs incidents later in life with others, although new beliefs can certainly be created in such situations.
Regards, Morty
hi Morty,
Thanks for free video. Intellectually excellent, but as Rox says, if you somehow got the impression that just being female was an unforgiveable sin, and that God had created you seriously flawed and with the expectation that you would spend the rest of your life trying to
behave well and sacrifice yourself to make up for it….well as you can see , the adults in my life were NOT well- meaning. They were wounded and so fearful of their wounds they transferred the pain to us.
There is pain to be felt and worked through. Your programme seems to
infer this is not so. Any programme that” airbrushes out ” the necessity to reexperience repressed emotional pain is only addressing the mental part of the belief. Love and gratitude Anna
Hi Anna,
I don’t “infer” that you don’t need to feel and “work through” old pain. I state it explicitly.
There is nothing wrong with feeling pain. And if you feel pain, you shouldn’t repress it.
But all feelings are ultimately caused by the meaning you give meaningless events (and sometimes conditioning). So dissolving old meanings (eliminating beliefs) will change our feelings and you do not have to re-experience repressed emotional pain to get rid of it.
This isn’t a theory, it is my experience with thousands of clients, including my personal experience in my own life. You might believe that you need to re-experience old pain, but that isn’t necessarily the truth — just your belief. 🙂
Thanks for joining the conversation.
Regards, Morty
Morty,
Thanks for making this program available. I am working my way through the Natural Confidence videos and they are helping. I especially want to note the “Who Am I Really” video, its a life changer!!! all on its own.
I am struggling with the web of 40 years of events that have been confirming my beliefs, the last 20 years especially.
I understand the concept of where the beliefs start. The challenge is when I go to answer out loud I keep “yeah butting”
because of all present day confirmations I have about each belief.
>>>>>>> How can I get my big buts out of the way? <<<<<<<<<<
I just finished belief four, so I have a ways to go. I will keep on, keepin on.
Julia
Hi Julia,
In doing the process for each belief ignore current situations. They are not the source of the belief; they are the consequence of the belief that had been formed earlier in life.
Just do each step of the process and ignore current reality. You are looking for the early childhood source of the belief, alternative interpretations, did you “see” the belief as a child, did the events have inherent meaning, and can you see that the feeling you had as a child was caused by the meaning you gave the events — not the events themselves.
Nowhere in the process is there a question about current or recent events.
Let me know how you are doing with the rest of the program.
Regards, Morty
Thank you very much! I was thinking in the past and when i remaind a specific memory (i tried all my best to make a joy to my mother but i didn’t succeded just because lack of know how) i started to cry and i feelt release… This is amazing for me. Thank you. God bless you.
Hi Violeta,
Yeah for you. Congratulations on the release of a belief that’s been a barrier for you since you were a little girl.
Thanks for writing.
Regards, Morty
Hi Morty
Tried your FREE eliminate the your not good enough programme yesterday and all i can say is WOW the penny dropped and i opened my eyes!! ever since a quite a sad negletfull abusive childhood i had had councelling and felt i had moved on in many way’s but still alway’s felt not good enough. every time something in my life went wrong… you guessed it i was not good enough!! Now i feel so unburderned i spent all last night smiling at the realisation that it was in fact my mother who was not good enough to be my parent!! i feel light, happy and at peace with myself and so much more confident overnight!!!!
Cant thank you enough Morty xx
Hi Kell,
Thanks so much for sharing your experience with me and the others who read this blog. I am so excited for you.
And if you think that getting rid of one belief is exciting, wait until you eliminate all the beliefs that cause a specific problem and you watch all the beliefs and the problem disappear.
Please keep me informed about results in your life as you keep eliminating the beliefs that have kept you from feeling the total bliss that is your birthright.
Regards, Morty
Morty,
You are doing so much to help people. I feel so thankful to be a part of this group and your Wonderful energy! Thank you!
I have a perspective I would like you to keep in mind and only use if it seems right for you. I have noticed that you are compiling more and more limiting beliefs to choose from and eradicate. I think that is awesome and also I notice inside myself that the ever increasing selection brings about some uneasiness and lack of action to move ahead. Questions like, “What if this new eliminating belief isn’t the one that effects me the most?”, “How many specific beliefs do I need to get rid of?”. “Is there ONE belief that would take care of all the beliefs simultaneously?”
I think the choices are great! If I had a specific belief that I knew of and I saw it on your list I would jump in and listen to the eliminator for it. I am also seeing that when it was simpler I acted on your program without much hesitation.
Thank you, Morty and keep doing what you are doing. You can’t please everyone and to the people who are using your program with no qualms, you are a God send. You and your work are needed just as you are! Keep doing what you are doing no matter what people say!
Becky
Hi Becky,
I’m a little confused by your post. We haven’t added any beliefs since we put up the store about a year ago. We have the 19 beliefs and four conditionings available separately only for people who know they have a specific belief and want to get rid of it.
We try to make it clear on the store that getting rid of one belief will not eliminate a problem in most cases. You need to eliminate all the beliefs that cause a specific problem, and we’ve put all the needed beliefs into packages for specific problems.
For that reason, very few people buy individual beliefs, but we want to make them available to people who want them.
Oh, we also created a package of money beliefs we were offering for a while, but that are now not available.
Please clarify.
Thanks, Morty
Morty,
Wow is all I can say. The change was immediate for me, it feels like I broke through a wall, it has affected my every moment.I feel so much better about the world and myself. Thank you for this amazing and simple technique!
Regards, Vicki
Hi Vicki,
You are welcome. Keep eliminating beliefs and you will find your world changes totally. If you eliminate all the beliefs that cause a specific problem, such as worrying what people think of you, the problem will disappear when all the beliefs are eliminated.
Thanks for sharing your experience.
Regards, Morty
Morty,
I worked through all the beliefs except one, “What I have to say isn’t important.” There were a couple I didn’t know I had until I repeated the belief and discovered a “down feeling” and when I worked through them, the beliefs were gone. Going through the beliefs was like being on a roller coaster as far as my emotions until the end when the belief was gone. The most difficult, emotionally, for me was “If I make a mistake or fail, I’ll be rejected.” And getting rid of the “What makes me good enough or important is doing things perfectly.” I’ve struggled with these two beliefs my whole life and has crippled me as far as accomplishing anything in the world or expressing my creative talent in writing. Another side note, is that I view my parents with compassion now and not bitterness and blame. I am more patient and when my husband says anything that I used to respond to with hurt feelings, I felt that distance you reiterated in the program. I’ve mentioned before about an experience I had years ago; it happened on our family’s beach. When I finished “I’m powerless” I paused for a few seconds as I realized something personally important to me, “I’m back to the beach!” I’m reminded of a family portrait taken when I was two years old. I sat on my eldest sister’s lap with a happy, natural, excited smile on my face. I feel I’ve regained that excitement and eagerness now at the age of 53. This truly needs to go out into the world. And the four conditionings were like “mind cleansers” especially the one about imagining my life from 1-7 with unconditional love and the same until age 21. I felt like I was bathing myself in the power of my own unconditional love. I will continue visiting this blog as well as post something on your Facebook pages to share my experience with other people. Love and Light
Hi Lauren,
Yeah!!! I’m thrilled to hear about the incredible results you’ve experienced from the Natural Confidence program.
Thanks for taking the time to share your experience. I will read what you wrote at our next staff meeting at Lefkoe Institute to remind people why we go to work each day.
Thanks for sharing your experience with others. We still want to reach five million in 2 1/2 years.
Regards, Morty
I tried to access the free belief eliminator and it took me to a page that said “bookmark this page” but there was not any other info on the page? Thanks.
Hi Cheri,
Please try again. The program is working. I think there is a link somewhere on that page.
Start off at http://recreateyourlife.com.
Let me know if you are still having a problem.
Regards, Morty
I’m currently working through the ReCreate Your Life program and have seen amazing instant results in my life. The “Who am I really” section helped me see that I’m not my beliefs but instead the creator of them. It all sounds like common sense, but in reality this was not a belief I truly believed in. Now I know that I can do anything I want to. Thanks for all of your wonderful work Morty! It’s helped me believe in myself and strive to enjoy a more meaningful life!
Hi Jennifer,
Congratulations on the results you are getting. And thanks for taking the time to share your results with us. You can inspire others to take control of their own lives.
Tell your friends, your Facebook buddies, your Twitter followers, etc.
Let’s help everyone”believe in myself and strive to enjoy a more meaningful life.”
Regards, Morty
hi morty,
thank you for your free trial and i find it amazing. i choose mistakes and failure are bad but stopped t after i broke the belief. you see, my negative belief was really not about this but the challenges/obstacles i face whenever i try to forge ahead with my business. so i have to remove the belief that response is slow or non-existent. that people do not value my product. they are always excited in the beginning but this fades soon after.
thanks a mil for sharing your technique. i find you an incredibly sensitive and caring person for setting up the video the way you did, with the space for writing etc. you are literally spoon feeding us!
Hi Karen,
I’m glad you have gotten so much value from eliminating one free beleif. And as you can read from the other comments here, wait until you eliminate all the beliefs that cause specific problems in your life. The results will be spectacular.
Please write again and let me know about your life when you eliminate more beliefs.
Regards, Morty
Morty, if you REALLY want to get this message out there, I would recommend that you consider contacting guys that go by the name of Eben Pagan and Frank Kern.
If they can’t hep you, no one can 😉
Hi Arto,
Thanks for the suggestion. We are working with a bunch of great Internet marketers who are mailing for us and giving us advice.
I know about the two people you mention and will look into contacting them.
Regards, Morty
Morty,
I have eliminated 6 beliefs so far from using the Natural Confidence program and it’s been an amazing ride! During the “I’m not good enough” and “I’m not important” belief sessions, I actually cried. I realized I was grieving and I allowed myself to grieve until I worked through the alternative interpretations. By the time I finished, I felt lighter and happier and more confident. The difference between this and all the other ways I tried to “be better” and “feel better” about myself and my place in the world always felt like they were missing something. The missing something was realizing there is nothing missing where it really counts: My Self. I’ve also left comments on the Facebook sites. Thank you so much for teaching me to help myself! I’ll continue to leave my comments as I continue forward. Love and Light!
Lauren,
I’m so glad the program is working for you. I totally understand what you are going through. I wish you the best of luck completing all of the belief sessions!
– Jennifer
Hi Lauren,
Thanks for sharing your experience of using the Natural Confidence Program. Please make sure you write again after you complete the program.
Results like yours inspire us at Lefkoe Institute to do what we do every day.
Regards, Morty
Morty,
just paid for your full program yesterday on http://www.recreateyourlife.com, but I haven’t received any link there I can see the streaming video. Under my login page – no information – only proposal for some additional subscription for 249$. Have sent 2 requests to your support – no reply. What’s this? How is it all supposed to work?
Thanks for your soonest reply.
Hi Igor,
You should have been sent an email (check your spam folder) with a link and a password.
I’ll have our support people check and get in touch with you right away.
Sorry for the problem.
Regards, Morty
Hi Morty,
I like the look of your program and want to get started.
BUT ..your customer support is terrible and this really concerns me.
I raised a support ticket in order to clarify if the single $14.95 videos were download or DVD, as it doesn’t say and it was adding $13 int’l shipping at checkout.
No answer!
I’m ready to spend $100’s, if you’re stuff works, but now very hesitant as support/customer service seems to be AWOL.
Hi Robin,
First, I apologize for the lack of a response. There is never a good excuse for poor customer service and I will talk to the appropriate people Tuesday (holiday here in the U.S. on Monday).
Second, the single beliefs are available in CD-ROMs only. It is technically impossible for us to sell individual beliefs by streaming video.
Third, we had a sale two weeks ago that led to literally hundreds of service tickets and emails at the same time that our email system failed and we literally didn’t get many emails for a week before we noticed it. I thought that had been fixed and that we were up to date by the close of business yesterday, but obviously we missed at least one support ticket (yours).
Fourth, if you just want to see if our belief-elimination process works, you can eliminate three of the most common beliefs without charge at http://recreateyourlife.com.
If there is anything else we can do for you or if you have any further questions, please let me know.
Have a great weekend, regards, Morty
Hi Morty, I am doing the natural confidence program and it is working!!!! I do have one question about a belief I have and wanted to know if it is some how covered in this program. When people are rude to me or snap at me I feel disrespected and it makes me angry. Do you have any advice on this one…it is really painful.
Jen
Hi Jen,
There are several beliefs that cause anger and fear of someone else’s anger that are not on the Natural Confidence program. They can be handled, however, in one or two one-on-one phone or Skype sessions.
For more information please call us at 415-884-0552.
Regards, Morty
Morty, quite simply, Natural Confidence is awesome!
I have a suggestion for you, though… Could you make a kind of like “blank” video series, where one could choose whatever belief they want to eliminate, and they would be guided through the same process ?
I mean, I’ve started to discover some of my limiting beliefs and I would love to keep using the Lefkoe method for eliminating them.
Thanks again and all the best !
Hi Arto,
If I could, I would.
Most beliefs have different sources in childhood (and many non-self-esteem beliefs are not formed in childhood and could come from many different types of situations).
ALso, the alternative interpretations can be very different depending on the belief and source.
That’s why we’ve created videos for the most common 19 beliefs and four conditionings (which help to create many of our negative emotions). You can purchase each of them individually or as part of a package to eliminate all the beliefs that cause specific problems.
Finally, getting rid of beliefs is a means to the end, not an end in itself You want to find and eliminate all the beliefs and conditionings that cause a given problem so you can eliminate the problem. And finding all the relevant beliefs can sometimes be tricky (it take us almost an entire weekend to train people to be able to do that).
Regards, Morty
Oh yea I forgot to mention that one belief that I have that pretty much holds me back from anything is that “This thing or that thing won’t work for me”.. maybe that has something to do with the free trial not working
Hey Morty I just did the free belief elimantor thing for I’m Not Good Enough and when I say that out loud I still kind of feel it. Does that mean that your method doesn’t work for me or what? I’ve read nothing but good things about your method and this kind of worries me that maybe your method doesn’t work for me. I really hope thats not the case becuase I have a ton of beliefs that I would like to be done with once and for all.
Hi Tanner,
Our belief-elimination process works for about 90% of people. I’m not sure why it isn’t working for you.
You need to make sure you have the right source of the belief (childhood experiences with your parents).
And as you mention in your second post, the belief could have gone away and your other beliefs keep you from acknowledging that it is gone. The other beliefs won’t keep the process from eliminating a belief, but they could keep you from acknowledging that the belief is gone.
And finally some people have a hard time with the on-line process and need one-to-one work with a live facilitator on the phone or Skype.
Try one of the other two beliefs and let me know what happens.
Regards, Morty
Morty,
I don’t know if this is the right place, but I just wanted to let you know that since I went through four of the limiting belief busters, I find myself craving vegetables more and actually losing weight as a side benefit. I’ve been interested in nutrition and health since my father had his heart attack when I was ten years old, but there was always something holding me back from actually doing any of the healthy things. In the nineties, I discovered Blood Type Diet and I figured this was great. In practice, I’ve struggled with implementing it. Now, I’m naturally drawn to the food that is good for my body and am doing tai-chi and walking for exercise and strength. I intend to buy the Natural Confidence program and my two sons(both in their 20s) and I are going to work our way through all the belief eliminating processes. Thank you so much for this; it is the first time a program got down to the nitty-gritty and the core of things. By the way, I’m a Teacher Genotype(acc’d to Dr. D’Adamo’s latest Blood Type book) and one of the characteristics of this genotype is wanting to get to the heart of problems. You’ve certainly done that with this program and I feel my heart opening up and actually “returning” to who I was before I allowed beliefs to damage my self-esteem. Love and Light
Hi Lauren,
Thanks for taking the time for a detailed comment. I love the way to described your experience; feeling your heart opening up and returning to who you really are.
We love hearing reports like this as it inspires us daily to keep making this work available to people like you who can use it.
After you and your two sons complete the Natural Confidence program please let me know what you all think.
Regards, Morty
I would like to get information on how to order some of your materials.
Hi Sharon,
Thanks for your interest in our work.
You can get information about all our products at: http://recreateyourlife.com/store.
If you have any questions after checking out that page, please let me know.
Regards, Morty
This is interesting. I believe EVERYONE could use this program.
Hi Clare,
Glad you are finding the Lefkoe Belief process so interesting. I agree, everyone could use this program.
And we are working every day to figure out how to give it to them.
Thanks for taking the time to comment.
Regards, Morty
It’s like peeling an onion. Do this NOW!
Hey Morty
I signed up for your trial and was doing pretty well considering. Last night they charged my credit card as agreed (after ten days) but now I cannot login at all. Says I have to order the product again to get access.
I emailed support but no response. Is ther a phone number I can call to sort it out?
Any help is appreciated.
Thanks
Hi Rox,
I’ve asked Karen to get right back to you. Sorry about your difficulties in accessing the program.
Regards, Morty
Morty,
Any idea when the Lefkoe Occurring Process will become available? Is it true that this will have the same overall effect as eliminating beliefs?
J.C.
Hi JC,
The Occurring workshop will be announced in the next week or so.
No, it is not the same ting as eliminating beliefs. Please read this week’s
blog post at http://mortylefkoe.com in which I explain the difference.
If you still have questions, please call our office at 4145-456-3700.
Regards, Morty
Very good work
Beliefs change
Feel good about what you want
Feel good about yourself
Hi Elizabeth,
Thanks for taking the time to comment.
Regards, Morty
Hi
Was wondering if there are going to be any more beliefs available soon, such as the ones discussed recently in ur blog i.e. fear of confrontation, anger etc
Would be nice to eliminate those.
Thanks
Hi Terry,
At present there are no immediate plans to add more beliefs that would be available on-line or on DVDs. At some point I’m sure we will.
People who have a few beliefs they would like to eliminate can always can us for a one-to-one session that we can do on the phone or on Skype.
Regards, Morty
I am very much interested in this program “Natural Confidence”.
But wanted to ask you if this is what I need take. I have identified and listed the below problems I am facing currently.
Please let me know if this is the course I need to take.
1) Very bad Public speaking fear: This is the top most fear I am in utmost need to get rid of today. Though I have the right talents I am unable to progress in career and even thinking of quitting due to the pain inflicted in mind several times.
2) Low self confidence
3) Procrastination
4) Fear of criticism and confrontation
5) Need approval of others and Self criticising most of the times
Also, is there any discounts on this package? Currently I am finding it difficult to spend this much amount.
I truly appreciate your help to the living creatures on earth. Thank you once again!
Hi Vidy,
The Natural Confidence package is perfect for the issues you mention. It should handle all of them.
There are no discounts available but you can put only $75 a month for three months.
Please let me know how the program helps you with all of your problems.
Regards, Morty
I am very much interested in this program “Natural Confidence”.
But wanted to ask you if this is what I need take. I have identified and listed the below acute problems I am facing currently.
Please let me know if this is the course I need to take.
1) Very bad Public speaking fear: This is the top most fear I am in utmost need to get rid of today. This has caused me to not progress in my career though I have the talents and knowledge and now I have quit my job also, unable to bear the pain for long!!! 🙁
2) Low self confidence
3) Procrastination
4) Fear of criticism and confrontation
5) Need approval of others and Self criticising most of the times
Also, is there any discounts on this package? Currently I am finding it difficult to spend this much amount. I need your help please.
I truly appreciate your help to the living creatures on earth. Thank you once again!
I am curious about the beliefs that revolve around being fearful that your spouse or significant other might cheat on you. I think there might be something about not feeling important possibly. Could these beliefs that create this fear have been formed from childhood..I mean we are not in romantic relationships as children..do you have any thoughts on this? This has to be a very common thing for most people.
Jen
Hi Jen,
Sorry it’s taken so long to reply.
Jealously can be the result of several beliefs, usually from childhood. It is a feeling of powerlessness to keep something from being taken from you. The beliefs aren’t necessarily about romantic relationships, although they could be and they could be adult beliefs and conditionings also.
I don’t know what beliefs it might be for you until we had a chance to talk.
Hi Morty
You mentioned that a belief about powerlessness could be a contributing factor to these jealousy type feelings. I think that could be a lot of whats going on with me. I bought the Natural Confidence program and am working my way through it….powerlessness is one of them so I am hoping it helps!
Thank you so much!!!!!
I have a severe hearing loss. I can understand most of what is on the samaple, not everything. If I purchase a package, is it mostly a dvd or mostly cd’s? Any chance that there are transcripts available? Would I do better to buy the book? Thanks.
Hi Mary,
Sorry about your hearing loss. Unfortunately the program is designed to be listened to. The packages are DVD-ROMs but you need to be able to hear my voice for them to work.
There are no transcripts available at this point.
You might enjoy reading my book, but it will not enable you to eliminate any beliefs.
Regards, Morty
Wow. That strikes me as a very discouraging response to Mary’s question. Particularly:
“You might enjoy reading my book, but it will not enable you to eliminate any beliefs.”
Sure, Marty can’t ‘guarantee’ any results from reading the book as he does for his audio program — and it’s important for him to be clear about what he can promise, but…
Mary, I feel I must ‘whisper the truth in your ear’ to offset his response…just as the Marty cartoon in the sample video does to keep the children from internalizing the wrong messages.
No one can tell you what resources will enable you to eliminate a belief or heal or find peace.
Consider this:
Marty figured out this method he is selling all on his own during a five hour plane ride, and he used it on himself to eliminate beliefs with success – and yet here he’s telling you that you will not eliminate ‘any ‘ beliefs even after reading his book? Only through his audio program?
If only his audio program, and not his book, will enable someone to drop a belief, then how back in the day did Marty figure out this system on his own? Did a Marty from the Future appear in the seat next to him on that plane, and convince him not to buy the book, but to purchase the multi-media program? And smartly, Marty coughed up the cash for the multi-media?
I suspect the response left by Marty serves to discourage Mary…for the sake of communicating to other potential program customers that a person WILL NOT eliminate ANY beliefs using the (less expensive) book, and therefore MUST purchase the (more expensive) audio program to do so. Otherwise, why the added insult of stating so directly that his book might be enjoyable, but WON’T help you.
I would imagine that whatever’s in Marty’s book would provide some information and key concepts that could be useful for Mary to go ahead and create her own plan for eliminating a belief. If not, I can’t imagine what’s in the book.
It’s weirdly negative. It’s like if someone had a self-help program in Russian, and said to an English speaker who was seeking help, “we don’t have any translations in English for my success program and so let me assure you, You Will Not be Able to Succeed in Life using my program. I have a book about it in English which you can read for leisure, but it will not enable you to succeed in any way.”
THIS is a limiting belief Marty’s imposing, which serves to disempower people into believing that their only hope is in his particular audio program.
Any wisdom or system that’s actually worth anything tends to run deep enough that it is available in various forms, from different teachers, and didn’t only ‘manifest’ in one salesman. Great teachers, including those who charge for their products and services, do not insist that theirs is the only path to peace. I promise you there are many sources of literature that can show you how to accomplish what he promises.
Keep looking, Mary. Don’t be discouraged. Check out Louise Hay, Caroline Myss, Tony Robbins, Napolean Hill. A lot of the classic and absolute best books to help you address bad beliefs about yourself are in the Public Domain…free! (Napolean Hill, Florence Scovel Shinn to name a few) You can find them on gutenberg or other sites that list ‘self help in the public domain’ or ‘self-help classics.’
Best Wishes.
Hi Jacqueline,
It saddens me to think that someone thinks I give advice based on how much money I will make. But I guess if that’s how you see me, I have to accept that.
If someone asked me if they would find my book interesting and useful, my answer would be yes. That;’s why I wrote it.
But reading about how beliefs are formed and eliminated rarely eliminates beliefs. And you need to eliminate beliefs to make a change in your life. Every once in a while someone tells me that they are able to eliminate beliefs after reading my book, but most people cannot do that. So I would be misleading someone to tell them to get my book in order to eliminate their beliefs when I know that most people won’t be able to do it.
In fact most people who eliminate a few beliefs on our free site still need help in eliminating additional beliefs, and that’s after going through the process a few times. And every once in a while someone says they figured out how to use the process on themselves after using the free process.
I’ve never said that my process is the only way to get rid of beliefs or to have you life be all that it can be. It is one very effective way (as thousands of people have testified) and many are just as satisfied with other systems.
Sorry that you seem to be so negative about our work. Did you personally have a bad experience or not get what you were hoping to get? If you purchased a program and are not happy, we will be happy to give you a full refund.
Regards, Morty
I actually support your work, and that’s why I was so taken aback by this one response. The program resonated with Mary enough for her to reach out despite hearing loss being an obvious impediment to her using the program, and so it bothered me that the response didn’t offer an alternate suggestion or sentiment of encouragement.
Feel free to remove my long comment from this post.
Dear Morty,
I just wanted to respond to you regarding Jacqueline’s post. I personally found your answer to Mary’s question and post a very honest one. It did not come across at all to me that you were trying to make a bigger sale.
It was a very direct, clear, and honest answer to Mary’s question.
Regards,
Mary Ann
Hi Mary Ann,
Thanks for reading all the comments and for your own response.
Have a great day.
Regards, Morty
I am stuck on a few exercises.
See my father wasn’t just unrealistic or unaware about his child rearing techniques – he was openly and intentional and personally abusive. And I know you handle the problem of a parent looking at a kid and say “you are stupid” due to behavior which probably sums up most people’s experience. My father doubled his abuse when we actually did something wrong or not to his liking – and I am sure your program would be effective with those.
My trouble is that in addition to those there is a whole set of messages he sent specifically and directly to his three daughters every day at dinner table – that said we were inferior and stupid and idiots BECAUSE WE WERE FEMALE because females are inherently inferior. He said it in so many words every day.
I haven’t had much luck with “I’m stupid” or “I’m not capable” because although I do the exercises – the reasoning exercise doesn’t have anything to allow me to offload – “inferior” because a innate quality about myself I can never change. It is hard for a child to ignore a direct message like that. In most of your exercises the parents don’t mean to send the message and there is great effort not to blame them. No I cannot see “I am stupid” but I can see my gender. So in the case the abuse is about a personal physical quality or trait about the child – the program seems too mild.
So my suggestion to you – maybe consider having a module with these same topics for people who’s parents are not well meaning, for parents whose behavior cannot be excused with “well they didn’t know”. Parents who beat, sexually abused neglected or verbally abused in a personal way may all need this. There has to be some acknowledgment of the mean spirit and some effort to deal with parents who just were not that kind. We need a stronger acknowledgment of what it is like to be raised by truly dysfunctional (crazy) people
I do find benefit from imagining a resource when I was a kid that would sooth me or interpret my parents behavior – it is just the other interpretations in the program where the friends come over an offer other different interpretations of the same events and don’t fit the only possible excuses for their behavior >they weren’t sane.
Thanks
Hi Rox,
We tried to give the most common sources of beliefs knowing that there are always people whose beliefs came from different sources.
Try going through the process and filling in what your father said to you as the source of the beliefs. And after seeing a few other alternative interpretations, get that you never saw in the world that you are inferior or stupid because you are female.
You saw your father say it, but you never saw it was true. It is just as reasonable that he was wrong in what he said as he was right. That he said it has no meaning, in other words, you don’t know anything about women in general or you as a woman based on what one person (your father) said when you were a child.
The only place it is true that women are stupid is in your mind.
Regards, Morty
I’m wondering: I know I can buy the packages and get DVD’s, but are the individual belief programs streaming, like the free ones are?
Hi Chris,
The individual beliefs are only available on CD-ROMs for technical reasons.
Hope that works for you.
Regards, Morty
I am also not sure if this is the best place to send an email concerning a question, but here goes:
So many beliefs are located in the primative brain and based upon “survival”. I always knew that my parents were “wrong”, but it still has effected me for a lifetime of emotional distress and living life in a survival mode.
How does one eliminate the belief that they’re “cursed” because NOTHING ever works out well, and anything good that happens doesn’t last. Your program might be suitable for superficial beliefs, but how dos it work on mor complicated ones like what I’ve described.
Hi Lee,
Based on our experience with over 13,000 clients in about 50 countries, the Lefkoe Belief Process works with “complicated” beliefs like the ones you named. In fact in our one-on-one phone and Skype sessions we have helped people get rid of those specific beliefs.
Thanks for the questions.
Regards, Morty
I have had crippling social anxiety for quite sometime now and even had to quite my job because the social stress made me very ill and I couldnt be around hardly anyone including family and my boyfriend with out some sort of painful anxious discomfort…I just started the Natural Confidence Program and have only done the first 5 beliefs and have noticed some real improvement. I was out riding on my bike and ran into a group of people that I often see out there..usually I would be really nervous and just want to get the heck out of there..but today something was very different…I stood there in front of those people and talked to them and was totally calm and there was no panic…there was no voice in my mind telling me to run or get away or that something bad might happen…I actually WANTED to stay and chat and that just blew me away. I don’t know if it is this program doing it but something is different. I think it would be nice to find someone else that is also doing this program to share stories and ideas with..I think that might really help me. My email address is mountainbikingrulz@yahoo.com if anyone is interested.
Hi Jennifer,
I’m thrilled to hear about your progress. Thanks for sharing it. You will see even bigger changes when you complete the program.
I suggest you join http://facebook.com/recreateyourlife which is a site we created for people to ask questions, answer questions, and share and be supported.
I look forward to seeing you there.
Regards, Morty
Hello,
How do I eliminate a belief that has actually proven to be real?
“If I make a mistake or fail, I’ll be rejected.” My failure caused my wife and friend to reject and discard me.
Hi David,
Beliefs are never true because they are always generalizations.
even if they said it was. Because if they were to change some of their beliefs, they might not reject you even if you failed. And they might not have rejected you for a different type of failure.
Moreover, maybe two people rejected you. The belief says you will be rejected by anyone for any failure. You have no way of knowing if 6 billion people will reject you for any failure.
What we do is give meaning (frequently a broad generalization) to events that have no inherent meaning.
Thanks for the question.
Regards, Morty
I’m not sure this is the place to leave a question, but I can’t find the regular email. My question is: What if you can’t remember when you aquired a belief? On some of the beliefs, I cannot recall the event or time. I am 76 years old and sometimes finding the origin of a belief is tough! Will the belief go away anyway? Thank you.
Hi Amy,
There usually is not a single day when the belief was formed. It is a pattern of events, such as mom and dad usually yelled at me when I didn’t do what they wanted me to.
Also, you can extrapolate backward from your parent’s behavior at some later time to figure out how they must have acted when you were younger, which is what I’ve had to do.
But you do need to have some sense of the source for the Lefkoe Belief Process to work.
See my blog post on 9/22/09 for more details on that issue. http:/mortylefkoe.com
Regards, Morty
Regards, Morty
Hi, I don’t know ……i don’t think this is working “I am not important” my mother left me and 3 other siblings when I was 2 from there on life was ruff my dad said i was not his child so i did not have a father or a mother. (other kids spend time with him) I was abuse in every single way you can think of, grandparent, children homes, faster parents that did not care. My believe is if your MUM dont want you or you not important to her then how the heck can you be important to anyone or thing in the world. I found my mum when i was in my 20 and she was still not intrested in me, she got married when she left us and had a life with no children -no one knew she had 5 children till 18 years later that i pop in to her life. Your program can work for those that and a OK life with parents but you tell me how do you not believe you not important, you are loved. when you were abandoned by your mother, were abuse by people that said they care about you!!! not possible pal!!!
Hi JJ,
There is a difference between consequences and meaning. The consequences of how you were treated by your mom and foster parents were terrible. I don’t mean to minimize them at all. But they had no meaning, in other words, how people treated you says nothing about who you really are as a person.
If you go though the I’m not important process on the free belief-elimination site, your belief will go away and you will discover that it really isn’t true. Try it at http://recreateyourlife.com and let me know what you think.
Regards, Morty