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Morty Lefkoe
Morty,
I have completed all the beliefs and conditioning. I feel more confidant than before now but really wonder if the deconditioning has succeeded. What do you suggest if I don’t feel I have been properly deconditioned? A
Thanks,
Bindu
Hi Bindu,
Why do you think the process didn’t work?
When the stimulus appears, e.g., rejection or criticism, do you feel fear?
Love, Morty
Hey Morty,
Yes I am feeling fear an anxiety. And suddenly powerless as well. I have done the “I am Powerless” belief and felt great for a while. But some how when I try to decondition, I am either not understanding the concept or am not gettig it. I have joined a new company and suddenly certain situations are making me feel powerless. What do you suggest?
Thanks,
Bindu
Hi Bindu,
There are so many possible answers it is hard to know from your note.
It could be that the belief isn’t really gone so you should go back and work on I’m powerless again.
Also, there could be other related beliefs that are not on the NC program that are getting in your way. The beliefs and conditionings on NC are some of the most common, but there are many others not on that program that might be causing you problems.
The only way to identify and eliminate all the relevant beliefs is to have a private session with us.
If you are interested you can contact us at 415-884-0552 for more information.
Love, Morty
Dear Morty,
Was listening to your well-made & truly unique video on eliminating “I’m not capable,” and was wondering if these ideas can be applied to children.
My husband is the authoritarian type who is fond of “What is wrong with you?” and I often look at my daughter’s defeated face and tell her that he’s just mad and it doesn’t have to so with her abilities.
Do you think this is effective in preventing these beliefs from forming?
Hi Adina,
It certainly can’t hurt and could possibly help. Don’t deny her experience. Just show her that her father’s behavior could have several interpretations other than the one she probably is giving it.
Also, check out my wife Shelly’s new parenting course which is nothing short of brilliant. It shows how to keep children from forming negative beliefs.
http://thelefkoeway.com.
Love, Morty
Hi Morty
Well, I had to work on belief #5 again, I knew I would have to do this, this one has been difficult to shred up and out. I was so lost in the crowd as a child and being mediocre in everything I did became my way of life. This was caused from a sense of futility I felt because of family circumstances. This time around I felt the re assurance of Uncle Morty next door help me to re define my image of myself. I really struggled with this one, and couldn’t believe how deeply ingrained it was to get go of. Will come back to it again if need be, but feel much more positive the second time around. Thanks
Hi Dorothy,
I want to acknowledge your commitment to yourself, to doing whatever it takes to get rid of the beliefs that are holding you back.
Stay with it and you will love the changes that show up when the beliefs are all gone.
Love, Morty
Hi Morty,
Thank you for providing this program.
I’ve just started working my way through, with the first belief, “Mistakes and failure are bad.”
When you asked me to say the words out loud, a huge wave of sadness welled up from deep within. I don’t know exactly from where or when, it just happened.
Guess what came up for me. My later father, bless his soul, was an airline captain. He commanded his first airplane, a Grumman Goose seaplane, at age 21 or 22. Piloting was his passion and his interest, not parenting us four kids, of whom I’m the eldest.
He expected his commands, in the cockpit as well as at home, to be obeyed without question, without delay, and to the exact procedure required. That may have worked well in the cockpit, before the days when crew management training became the norm. But such an oppressive, authoritarian atmosphere hardly constituted a healthy, open, and experiential learning environment for children!
I’m not sure about Mom’s role. She fell under his ‘command’ as well and had little to say in the home.
Blessings,
Tom
Hi Tom,
Thanks for sharing your experience of doing the first belief with me. Everyone’s experience is different in eliminating the belief, but everyone experiences great freedom when the beliefs are gone.
Love, Morty
I followed your program, or videos, on importance, and it really did help me. I had a dichotomy of a family, with one there for me physically and the other emotionally, but never at the same time. In context of my situation, whenever I tried to express myself, I felt like it didn’t matter and would have no end.
It’s really about having someone say it back to you; thanks.
heya morty.
your voice is so familiar, are you a speaker for landmar k?
i beleive ive been to one of your seminars in melbourne australia.
please email me buddy
Hi Tom,
No, I’m not a speaker for Landmark. And I’ve never been to Australia, although I would like to some day.
Love, Morty
Hi Morty,
Is there any chance that the Lefkoe method be tailored to get rid of shy bladder syndrome?
Thanks,
Jon
Hi Jon,
To the extent that the problem is largely mental and not physical, then yes, we could help.
If it is probably a physical problem, we might not be able to.
Love, Morty
Hi Morty,
Can the Lefkoe method be tailored to get rid of shy bladder syndrome?
Thanks,
Jon
Oops. I forgot to ask you this so here is an addendum to my previous post.
I can identify much more strongly with the belief you talk about in your video: “What makes me worthwhile is overcoming obstacles”. Bingo along comes a life of obstacles. I think this is a big one for me. I think/act like this: “Life is a challenge, and I am going to rise to each challenge and surmount it”. the only problem is it takes sooooo much energy now for me to surmount all the challenges I create in my life. I would prefer to go from A to B directly without confrontation, disappointment, bad luck, fate, unexpected turns of events etc.
How do I free myself of this in 30 minutes? That would really alter my life. Imagine what it would be like to achieve what I want without there having to be a battle, struggle, bloodshed and war! Life would be such a pleasure!
Hope you see a way to free me to live a life that is rewarding without the challenges!
I live in hope,
Claire
Hi Claire,
You can’t free yourself of this in 30 minutes.
You can eliminate a single belief in 30 minutes or even less, but you need to eliminate a bunch of beliefs before a given problem disappears.
And many thousands of people have disappeared many different types of problems by eliminating all the beliefs that caused the problems.
See also my answer to your other post.
Love, Morty
My take away from Morty’s method is that I create the meaning to all the events… I walk around now catching myself before I assign ‘battle’, ‘struggle’ etc… and know, with certainty, that I have the abilities to overcome whats in front of me to the best of my current abilities… and within my control of course…
Challenges happen every day. Your day will be exactly the way you want it.
In my opinion, I think it can be done in 30 minutes…
Thanks Morty… seeing life a lot differently these days….
Rick
I tried to eliminate the belief “I’m not good enough”. I don’t know if this is the ideal belief for me to begin with, but it was more ‘real’ than the other two options you gave me, so I chose that one. After all, I know deep down, there are times – in later life – when I have felt not good enough – though I have difficulties feeling this or recreating that feeling as a child.
So I’ve been throughyour exercise, done the replay once and still feel no better. I cannot really believe my parents were disapproving for another reason. They did react like that because they did disapprove of me/my behaviour.
On an intellectual level I understand that we attribute meaning to events, and I have experienced this Aha moment for myself spontaneously when realising that events were not perhaps as I had initially interpreted them. So your line of logic makes sense.
But in this instance I can’t let go of the meaning I attach to it. Of rejection, anger….. in fact I seem more able now to feel the “I’m not good enough” than I could before I started the exercise.
Two very probable, rational explanations for my Dad’s glazed, bulging eyes or my Mum squeezing my knuckles til it really hurt could be:
A) Dad had post-traumatic stress disorder (a fact) and he didn’t like any unpleasantness – so eye rolling at me when I performed wrongly in his view
B) My mother was very stressed and afraid of losing her job, so it was important that my off-behaviour was kerbed immediately in case there were negative repercussions (we lived at their place of work, so naughty kids could be a risk to her employment).
Both are probably the real meaning I should attribute to their disapproval. [Not wanting to confront bad behaviour; fearing losing job if I misbehaved]. However it does not make me feel any better about myself.
It just doesn’t work. I continue to hold the belief and I am afraid this exercise has just reinforced it.
Hope you can help me!!
Hi Claire,
The issue is not did you feel I’m not good enough as a child. Do you feel it is true today? You state at the end of your post that you do hold the belief.
The question is not were your parents disapproving of you for another reason. They criticized you. They might well have disapproved of your behavior. That is a fact. I’m not good enough is your interpretation of that fact.
If I know your parents criticized you as a child, what do I know about you as a human being … for sure. What can I be absolutely positive about?
Can you get that I don’t know if you are good enough or not. In fact, I don’t know anything about you at all from knowing how two people treated you as a child.
So your parents behavior has no inherent meaning. There is no “real” meaning. The only meaning for your parents’ behavior is that which you made up in your mind.
There is nothing to let go of. All you need to do is get your parents’ behavior has no inherent meaning, it doesn’t necessarily mean I’m not good enough, and the belief will be gone.
Also, there is no way to reinforce a belief. You either believe something is true or you don’t. It is on or off. There is no in-between.
Hi Morty
I been anable to remember much about my relationship with my parents because I never live with my father and my mother were almost always over protecting me. Perhaps my beliefs have another root. How can you help me?
Regards
Jorge
Hello Morty,
I have successfully eliminated one belief for free and really saw a difference after watching the “Who am I” piece. I went ahead and bought the Natural confidance DVD set and received an email with an order confirmation but no where is it mentioned when the DVDs will be sent or any means of tracking my order. I tried looking for a phone number I could call but could not find anything. Is there a number I could call someone at regarding my order?
Thanks,
Bindu
Hi Morty,
For some reason I felt strangely ill at ease after watching #5. All my life I have been considered a nice person and people like me. It was like I was stripping away something I was afraid to look at. I almost felt anger. It that unusual?
Hi Morty!
I bought Natural Confidence resently, and i’m still watching it, but when I was watching video “i’m not capable” I had this big question in my mind: What about talents? What if that believe comes from reasonable situation before or after age of six such as being good at math or bad at studying different languages or bad at remembering other peoples names and so on from situations that had nothing to do with our parents but our skills with different things. Also some people say that whatever talent we have comes from passion to practise that skill but then other people talk about specific genes that is connected with talents with sports for example.
Hi Joonas,
The belief I’m not capable does not come from merely not being good at a given subject or task. That situation would just have you conclude, I’m not good at this specific thing right now.
I’m not capable is a judgment you have placed on yourself as a person, applicable to everything.
Moreover, we may have genes that predispose us to excellence at certain things, but after that comes hard work and our beliefs determine what we are interested in and how hard we are willing to work.
Love, Morty
I completed the full program over a week ago and I found this interesting observation and it may help others !
I did not feel any signifacant differance at the end of each segment or even after completing whole program… What I have noticed though is I have done some things over the past few days that previously I have either put off,not done or didnt think I could do ! Looking inside I realise there are no blocks or walls and instead a feeling of peace even freedom !!! Thank you very Cool!
Rick
Hi Rick,
Your experience is common. There is no specifically observable change, except that new possibilities open up that you aren’t even aware of .
Thanks for sharing your observations with us.
Love, Morty
Morty
great program ! I have gone through the natural confidence program and feel amazing results. I have a lingering question about the process. When I go back to my early interactions with my parents to eliminate a belief it IS almost as if I can see that belief. It is true that after I eliminate that belief I can no longer see that belief from my early childhood however images of the belief still linger from a time later in my life ( some are in my early teens and early adulthood) It seems your program stresses that when you find the earlier/earliest image of the belief the more effective it will be in eliminating that belief. My question is should eliminating a belief with images that occurred in my early childhood completely and automatically eliminate the images associated with the same belief that occurred in my teens and early adulthood? Does the fact that I still have some later life images associated with the eliminated belief indicate that I did not do the process correctly the first time? When eliminating a belief should I incorporate all images of the belief even if they spill over into early adulthood.
Thanks
Francis
Hi Francis,
No, you don’t need to incorporate all images from all periods of your life.
Just use the earliest ones, which is when you formed the belief. That is sufficient to eliminate the belief.
Love, Morty
I couldn´t ne free from my beliefs seein g this I saw 2 times and still gfeel the situation I AM NOT CAPABLE I AM REJECTED, I AM FEARFULL OF THE OPINION OF OTHERS, ….I AM DESPERATE. Please forgive me I am the worst for you, but in fact all my limiting beliefs are still here.Thank you any way
Dear Mrty6 and family, please I saw this 2 times and keep my beliefs, i still feel, and is a feeling ,not a cognitive sensation that shows me I AM NOT CApable, i am procrastinator, i am fearfull, i am rejected, FEELING OR NOT THE FACT IS THAT IS IT, i FEEL IT AND I CANNOT GO ON.Please i am desperate to be free from my limiting beliefs, I know I am your worst learning or expeinece, but in fact till now you don ´t help me to be free.Thanks any way.joao
any discount for student?
Hello Morty. I just went through your course to eliminate the belief that “mistakes and failure are bad.” However after the course, I still believe this statement to be true.Here are my reasons/questions:
1. What if you believe mistakes and failure are bad simply because when you make mistakes or fail, it causes people around you to give an undesirable result such as shouting and angry faces? (Even if shouting and angry faces are nothing but your interpretation they still to me are a bad thing because I don’t like them, if that makes sense lol)
2. I only believe mistakes and failure are bad because I don’t enjoy the reaction from others. If I make a mistake like unplugging someone’s life support (completely made up) and the family and public have a terrible reaction to it, I know that I will beat myself up for that mistake.
I feel like I don’t like mistakes and failure simply because I don’t like letting people down, especially if the situation could have been avoided. I might just have a problem with other people’s opinions? I don’t know. Please help =)
Hi Aelisha,
It sounds as if you have a lot of other beliefs that are affecting you.
However, if you follow all the steps of the process, you still will eliminate the belief, Mistakes and failure are bad.
Love, Morty
Dear Morty, i have seen this film m,any many times and nothing change i still be fearfull, feeling I am not good enough, mistakes and failures are bad, and others beleifs, please help me to get rid of this fearfull life.Thanks,Joao
hi, im using firefox, but when i go to the page to eliminate a belief, no video comes up. whats wrong?
Hi Morty,
Another one who found you through Steve Pavlina, just to let you know.
I’m currently doing the “I’m not good enough” free thing, and very interested in what you have to say, and will keep an open mind and follow it through.
Just wanted to let you know my reaction when you start talking about needing to remember a feeling and connection with events with parents in childhood. This worried me as I think my parents weren’t really like that, but there would be plenty of incidents from childhood not related to my parents which I could easily imagine being connected with limiting beliefs. I do think my parents have certainly managed to pass on their limiting beliefs about themselves and money to me though, without really being critical of me.
Anyway, I’ll carry on with it now 🙂
Going through the “I’m not good enough” program — carefully following all directions — made me feel worse than ever about myself, my competence, and my capabilities. Was this the effect you intended? Whether it was or wasn’t, I now need a way to reverse the effects of your program. For this, I will not turn to you or to any source you recommend — for the same reason that a physician who breaks the elbow of a patient with a sprained wrist should not be trusted with treating the fracture.
Thank you so much for the program. It seems to me it is quite powerful. I speak English but I still miss some things up. My native lenguage is Spanish. You happen to have a written copy of your method so I can understand everything you say while listening to it? No problem if it is in English.
Thank you again
Antonio
Hi! I found your free site through a link on Steve Pavlina’s blog. I had disappointing results with other self-improvement programs I bought over the Internet; they offered some insight but the results were slight or temporary. They included “free bonuses” from other writers which were of spotty quality and let me even more disappointed.
This one was different! It was refreshing to be able to try the free part of the program before I bought it; I knew what I would be getting. I went through the whole program as quick as I could; I was determined to truly follow through. I liked the interaction; the program took me on an enlightening journey through many childhood experiences (and some experiences later in life). I have seen some changes already and I’ll be trying to notice more in the near future.
I found the repetition helpful; as I went through the program I could listen to the same explanations again with a better perspective and catch more of the critical nuances that really made the point. For example, after this program I could see clearly how with the perspective of a child, the beliefs were perfectly reasonable conclusions in my world at the time, and it doesn’t mean that I was foolish or that my parents were bad people.
I took notes for myself to remember which beliefs I thought I had more than others, and I saved my notes on which prior events led to these beliefs. As I approached Belief 19 I found many events from later life popping into my head that had been affected by past beliefs. When I got through Belief 19 it all fell into place; it felt like dialing the last number of a combination lock. The 19 beliefs chosen and the particular sequence of the beliefs resonated for me; I probably needed to get rid of the earlier ones before I could approach the later ones.
My significant other of 10 years passed away just over a year ago and this threw everything topsy-turvy. Over the past year I found times when I was experiencing new feelings and states of mind but also at the same time observing myself experiencing them. This now reminds me of the “Who Am I Really?” experience of Self and perhaps because of my recent experiences I’m especially receptive to these new ideas.
Dear Morty –
There’s a video that you should add *right now*: “I’m cynical about changing my beliefs”. :-\ <— (That's a sad smile…)
Dear Morty
I simply love your kind, intelligent and luminous face 🙂
and I now know that I am important.
thank you so very much
Social anxiety is awful. I feel ashamed of almost everything that makes me unique, half the things I have done in the past, and most of my major goals. I can’t even fool myself into thinking I will socialize easily or naturally next time; I know I won’t know what to say. My head is overloaded with memories of times I felt particularly stupid. When I am accused of doing something wrong or disagreed with on an issue I care about, I cry uncontrollably.
I used to get any school assignment done on time no matter how pointless, so a teacher would write the letter A on a piece of paper. This summer, I thought the most important thing I could do with my time would be to use this program, but I procrastinated relentlessly.
After I tried eliminating “Mistakes and failure are bad”, I knew it worked because it was noticeably easier to write without nitpicking over the perfect words. However, none of the next 3 beliefs have worked. I’ve attempted to get rid of “Change is difficult and takes a long time” several times without success. This has been very discouraging and it’s hard to try again because I think it probably won’t work, and I can’t decide if I should keep trying the same beliefs or move on and come back alter.
I am very disappointed in myself. Soon I won’t be able to use a computer for several weeks due to an important event, and I still have almost all the old beliefs. I doubt there’s a point of posting this comment, but I’ve tried to post a couple and backed out, so what a relief to finally submit.
hello, in response to your comment above, I can say, that it does work for me. I choose the believe, I am not good enough.
-I now i know where it comes from, so I am going to show myself & others in the future, That i am good enough, because………
-And that I know that they are not good enough , because, there are things that they definately very dumb, stupid & ignorance about.
-So I wonder now, who is not good enough?
I didn’t think a short programme could be so powerful. But it is very powerful. Thank you so much for letting others share in this.
Dear Morty,
To be honest, I didn’t think it was possible to eliminate a negative belief in such a short time, but I thought it was worth a try. I ran through your video twice, and surprisingly it worked! And the feeling is still with me. Not only that, but also I became able to identify other situations, when my feelings are effected by a belief which is not necessary true. It opens a great opportunity for future self development.
Thank you very much for sharing your program with everybody.
Kind regards,
Olga
Hi Olga,
A lot of people are skeptical and it works anyway. Thanks for trying it and getting value from eliminating one belief.
And people who eliminate a lot of beliefs see a fundamental shift in the way they experience their lives.
Love, Morty
Hi Morty,
Thank you so much for creating this program. Since yesterday, I have been going through many of the beliefs modules and have seen a huge difference since the first one. I’ve had the problem with making cold calls my entire life and now I don’t feel the anxiety at all. Parts of me doesn’t even know why, I just don’t. So thanks!
The who am I really module is awesome. Puts so much in perspective. It also made me think and brought up a couple questions. Should we have beliefs at all or just not the negative ones? I mean, is it better to live consciously without even positive beliefs? I’ve used affirmations in the past and they can make you feel better but is it better have the belief that “I am a hard worker” or is it better to not have any belief about it and just work hard?
Again, thanks for your program. I take breaks in between modules but can’t wait to get to the next one and remove another belief!
Scott
Hi Scott,
Thanks for your interest in our work and for writing.
I wrote a blog post that explains why we don’t need to form “positive” beliefs. http://www.mortylefkoe.com/010510/
Love, Morty
Morty,
Thanks. That article answered and validated what I was feeling and let me know that I am on the right track. It seems I have almost, unconsciously, tried to label events and feelings for some reason, instead of just experiencing the situations as they come.
As if almost by habit, once I removed the negative belief, I started thinking that I should have “some” belief but it didn’t feel like I needed to but again, by habit… wanted to. The article and process makes perfect sense.
It seems somewhat ridiculous now, but whenever I would enter a situation (eg cold calling), I would try to visualize the process and experience. Always trying to determine the outcome before it occurred by linking them with previous feelings, beliefs and experiences. All negative ones. When it was time to perform, I immediately saw the negative belief, I’m not capable or worthy etc…, and would get the sweats, nervous and eventually bail which ultimately validated the negative belief. To counteract this, I would always try to create positive beliefs to overpower the negative ones. It never worked. All of that seems almost silly now. Also, as I am thinking, positive beliefs may lead to negative ones. Whenever I am in a very positive mindset, I tend to think I can make 1,000 calls a day. When I start calling and realize that’s its too unrealistic, I would do 5 and feel like a failure which would reinforce a negative belief. Instead, had I not had any belief, I would have just called and seen what would have happened. I would have been way more successful. That’s very liberating and I am looking forward to making my calls today. That’s a first!
Again, thanks! It’s been very helpful so far.
Scott
I got the natural confidence CD in June and have “eliminated” each belief several times. It seems to work for a while, and then fades partly away, and then I do it again. I realize your approach is essentially correct, but at my current rate it’s going to take me a couple of years spending 8 or so hours a week trying to convince myself that I no longer “see” beliefs in certain childhood events. I’m committed to working through the process but it’s one heck of a long slog, and so far not so easy. The bit about doing it in 20 minutes has only worked if I realized a belief was goofy in the first place. If the beliefs were a sensible conclusion of a 4-year old, then I can rationalize other interpretations, realize that I never “saw” the beliefs, that the events had no meaning, that the meaning was only one I assigned to explain the event, that I made it all up. But the new rationalizations haven’t eliminated the beliefs yet for me, they only seem to get covered up for a few days. In your blog you acknowledge that your system doesn’t work for everyone, but this acknowledgment doesn’t come across very well in the marketing, or in the DVD. Given the nature of the subject (you’re not selling tires, you’re providing help to sometimes desperate people) I don’t think this is fairly done. Telling someone with poor self image that they’re not part of the 90% of normal people isn’t right. That’s what I’ve been hearing all my life, it’s what I’m trying to get out from under. Instead, I wish you could earlier on in the DVD, or an accompanying email, identify the sorts of people or thought patterns of those for whom your method is more difficult, and then provide some guidance on how they could approach it.
Hi Sean,
I’m not clear why you are having a problem eliminating beliefs. Or if the beliefs are going away and then coming back. That happens to some people once in a while. Call me at 415-884-0552 and let’s see if we can figure it out.
By the way, I never said that if someone has a problem with our process “they’re not part of the 90% of normal people.” I said it works on 90% of the population and it doesn’t work for some people and I’m not sure why so I can’t tell you. If I knew why it didn’t work, I might be able to find a way to make it work. It doesn’t mean there is anything wrong with that 10%, only that my process doesn’t work for them.
Love, Morty
Morty,
I had and hour phone session with Shelley yesterday and since then I feel much more confident about the process. I think you deserve a Nobel prize for sharing your insight. I feel freedom like I never knew. Thank you!
Sean
Hi Vicka,
Yes we do have an affiliate program. You can sign up at http://recreateyourlife.com/partnersignup.
Thanks for your interest in our work.
Love, Morty
Morty,
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Actually, one other thing is that I have always put enormous pressure on myself to excel and be perfect at things and very harsh on myself when I didn’t/don’t live up to that. I definitely have the belief that my worthiness and happiness lie in being superhuman in every way. Naturally, in retrospect, this has led to constant performance anxiety in any situation where I may be seen as less than fit… I know this particular belief (and possibly a few accomplice beliefs) is at the core of my problems. I know that when I am relaxed and at ease I am very capable but these days I am rarely relaxed and at ease. I hope the public speaking DVDs address this kind of belief!
Thanks again,
Andrew
@: Hmm, perhaps that is the one I need to get. I am waiting for the public speaking DVDs to arrive, I paid for them Friday so I guess they have probably been shipped out by now. I will go through it thoroughly and see how it feels afterwards, to me it seems that if the fear of speaking to a room of people was gone then so would the remainder of my fears because it’s the exposure of myself to other people that produces the fear and anxiety rather than a feeling that I don’t have the ability to speak well.
I have always had a belief that i am inferior and not loveable just as I am, that I am inherently not worthy somehow, that there is inherently something wrong with me and that I should feel ashamed and not show myself to others or at least not show negative parts of myself to others. For instance it’s so hard to talk to people about negative feelings or failings or less-than-perfect things about me and my life and my family. I’ll tell my story…
A few years ago my dad went through a nervous breakdown which triggered in me a series of beliefs that I am inherently associated with all of these negative things like his depression and bad anxiety. Prior to this time I didn’t seem to get much anxiety or fear of other people but since then it has grown in me to the point where j have to figure out why I believe I have to be this way. Any time life presents a situation where I will have to show ‘myself’ or talk about my life or family generates bad anxiety.
In the first 6 years of my life both of my sisters were born who weren’t as robust as me and needed lots of care and also my mum got sick with chronic fatigue and was bedridden for 3 years while my dad took on every responsibility himself. It’s very obvious that I reached conclusions during this time but I am still working to pinpoint what they are. I also know in the proceeding years I had a bad relationship with my dad, I was critical of him and ashamed of him and didn’t want to be seen at school with him etc, even though I loved him of course. Plus I always had a jealousy of my sisters because they got so much attention, I called myself the black sheep.
Anyway I’m sorry to post such a long message, I’m not sure if this is the place for it. I’d love to hear your thoughts and insight into what beliefs I am likely to have formed and what program would be most appropriate. Thanks again for caring.
Love Andrew
Hi Andrew,
The public speaking DVDs don’t have as many beliefs as the Natural Confidence. The public speaking program is designed just to handle that problem, and some of the beliefs that cause shyness and social anxiety are on that program.
If you want to make sure you get rid of your shyness and social anxiety, try the Natural Confidence program. If all you want is to handle a fear of public speaking, then those DVDs will work just fine.
Love, Morty
I was just wondering if the public speaking DVDs also remove the kinds of beliefs that are responsible for shyness and anxiety in social situations? I know these are conditionings that have worsened over time as I have been reinforcing the belief that I get nervous around people, even though I have always had a lot of close friends. It seems to me that both would originate from the same core negative beliefs but I just wanted to hear tour thoughts on it.
Cheers,
Andrew
Hi Drew,
You’ve been removed from our list.
Our web sites have contact information. Sorry you were unable to find what you were looking for.
It sounds like you purchased our Natural Confidence program for $1 and agreed to be charged in three installments unless you let us know what you wanted to cancel, and then you never let us know.
Regards, Morty
Hi Andrew,
I’m happy you’ve found our work useful and that you will be trying our public speaking product.
No, you do not have to remember specific incidents in your earlier life. All you need is a sense of the way you were parented.
And no, I do not know why about 10% of the population do not get value from our work.
Let me know how it gos for you after you complete the program.
Regards, Morty
Hi Morty,
I am awaiting my copy of the public speaking DVD package at the moment and I am intrigued by how overwhelmingly people respond to your program. I am hoping the beliefs tackled by this course are the whole issue for me as I could just as easily have bought the natural confidence program.
As long as I can remember I have had low self esteem and need other people’s positive responses to feel good and worthy.
I am just wondering if I will be able to remember specifics about my childhood that could have led me to form certain beliefs because I don’t have all that many memories of what it felt like at that age. I do know a lot about what it was like though and there are clear circumstances that would have affected my self image but do I need to remember specific occasions and feelings too?
Only other question is whether or not you have identified any personal characteristics or attitudes that correlate with the 10% of people who this doesn’t work for?
Thanks for your wonderful work,
Andrew
You should really make it easier to contact someone in your org. Your website isn’t too accessible. I’m not writing about belief issues here but the fact that I once had signed up for a trial use , then wanted to end it, then you offered use of the site with delayed paymt. which I really don’t want & haven’t used. Please remove me from your list & don’t charge me for services I never used. I’m sure you folks are fine I just don’t have the need right now nor can I afford it. Thank you for your understanding.
D
Hi Poby,
Your comment is already published. Did you think we were going to take it down?
Which program are you referring to? The free beliefs are about 30 minutes.
Sorry if we misled you in some way.
Regards, Morty
Well, here´s a comment you won´t publish:
“A few minutes” doesn´t mean 1 hour. Why do you guys always have to be so freaking “Texan Car Salesman”? You can tell me it´ll take an hour, I am a grown up. Maybe you should value my confidence in you and not ruin it midways.
Morty, I eliminated almost all the beliefs in the natural confidence program, and I’m really happy with the results, I have much more confidence now.
So now that I know that the Lefkoe method works, I want to used it to solve other two problems: depression and my negative beliefs about relationships.
So I’m about to pay for an individual session, but for me it is a lot of money, so can you tell me more or less how many sessions will I have to do? And also if this individual sessions have guarantee?
The last question is that I speak english, but not perfect, so do I need to speak it very well? I understood all the videos of the natural confidence program by the way.
Sorry for all the questions, it’s just that it’s a lot of money, and I don’t want to risk it.
Thanks Morty.
Hi Dims,
Congratulations on being able to eliminate additional beliefs on your own. Most people are unable to do that.
Please stay in touch and let us know how you use the process in the future.
Regards, Morty
Hi Kyalo,
I’m happy my program worked so well for you. Which program did you get? The Natural Confidence program with 19 beliefs and 4 conditionings? That’s the one we guarantee to significantly increase your level of confidence.
Regards, Morty